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>>16617304

>i wasnt into it

then dont do it. why force something ur not into, even if just your head or your body, it clearly wasnt comfortable for you.

girls have no trouble wiating on thier virginity to make sure its good.

>>16617304
female here who gets this, if my we get interrupted while my boyfriend and i are boning/whatever i often have trouble trying to get aroused again (he tends to keep it up just fine)

I kind of know how you feel. I'm not objectively gross but I'm very insecure due to body dysmorphia.

I think it's definitely a bad idea to start talking yourself down like that when you meet someone. It will make you look really sad and it'll just be weird. I know it's hard but just fake it and try to act like there's nothing wrong with you once the clothes come off. Easier said than done, I know, but there's no good in being down on yourself.

Also pick who you open up to carefully to not come across an asshole who will hurt you.

Becoming a hermit is pointless.

Hey anon... I know how you feel so good. I feel like puking when i look into a mirror. I can life with my face, but my body is just disgusting. Not long ago i got a bf. I still can't believe it. And what's even stranger, he seems to not care at all. He even seems to think i'm beautiful. I have a hard time believing him, but i'm working on it. I just wanted to give you a heads up anon. It's possible to be loved even when you objectively are atrocious. Don't give up!

>>16617300
This is very inconvienient for you so you may believe that my advice is too optimistic- but here's my take:

Think of this as a blessing in disguise. Get to know someone, fall in love with them and have them fall in love with you before you make things intimate. Showing them your body will be a huge leap of trust for you. Many would react in a shallow way, so this will force you to really look for someone with good character who place some things above physical attraction. From this experience, you are also probably more understanding of "unconventional bodies" so you should try to appreciate the unique things about their body, too. We all grow old and turn in to wrinkly little rasins one day, and the relationships that last are the ones that are built on more than just attraction

Breeding

>>16617292
To have fun and fuck all the chicks around.

>>16617292
Humans are the only ones who try to assign meaning to everything, so it's really up to the individual to decide that for themselves.

>>16617266
Museums (the big 2), opera, theatre, ice skating (is the Eistraum open yet?), cinema, ..

How can you be bored in Vienna?

>>16617272
I'm in a small town outside of Vienna, so I'm going to Vienna to be a little more stimulated.

Been to a few of the museums and the opera. Might go to a standing show by myself or something just to kill time. Are those all the best bets for someone by themselves?

>>16617276

Star Wars exhibit at the MAK? Catacombs tour at St. Stephens? National library? Re-opened St. Virgil's chapel? Have a walk around the cemetery and have a look at all them famous dead people?

>>16617259
Transwomans Perspective here

First off its MtF no "O" its what is more common in the community and everything

otherwise here are the things, No person is entitled to need to like another person. People are entitled to preferences, just dont be a dick, which doesnt seem to be the case.

as for each one of your points,
>Voice can be worked on but it could also be that she fucked it up or is unwilling to work on it
>Surgery can turn out well but it takes minimum months of recovery time, As for when she is getting it depends on who she goes to and the process in the transtion, atleast 1 year full time woman, getting past waiting lists and 20k or so for the surgery itself
>Guy smell is weird, after a few months of whoremones smell would change, this might be a case of her not taking care of herself or her body not responding to the meds.
>Yeah they can tend to be clingy because they are even more insecure than most women for obvious reasons, they can also be distant because they will lose trust and be insecure. its kinda like teenage girls
>She is insecure about her face so she needs makeup, Also there is a heavy trend of transwomen feeling like they need to be the sterotype,


You should prob have stuck with ciswomen mostly because it seems like you have lots of problems with things that trans people can have which is a preference. There might be some people in the group that are fine but when you go trans you got to know these things CAN come with them, Maybe you are just not right for each other because of what you consider priorities, and that makes you not right for each other

>>16617259
>What should I do now /adv/?

Watch this video...you're welcome.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7nqcgUDoV_M

>>16617361
>just dont be a dick, which doesnt seem to be the case.

You're Pathetic.
He's got this trap harassing him and threatening to show up at his work and you're calling HIM a dick?

>>16617151
My dad had it done, I was young though so I don't remember much. He wasn't at the hospital for very long and he was back the same day. He said it was uncomfortable for a few weeks but didn't go into much more detail than that

>>16617151
Just stretch it out like everyone else, idiot.

Got one 2 or 3 years ago. I got partially sedated so i was awake the whole time. ( you will never forget the smell of your own skin being burnt ) I dont rememeber how long the whole proces took but after surgery i had little to no pain or discomfort. I heard it differs from pl to ppl though. I can tell you it sucks afterwards though. Having no skin anymore that is. I heard there are 2 different ways. One fullt circumcised and one half. I dont know what it depends on for getting one or the other.

As Sheldon Cooper would say, "Bitches be crazy".
Lose her soon--I had a girlfriend like that and had to end up sending her to the State pen.

Its something only women do

>>16617130
Hang out, do shit that you both like together, just generally shoot the shit. You can't force it, it'll just kinda happen if the person is, for lack of a better term, "compatible" with you.
>>16617215
This is literally the opposite of truth.

>>16617258
Op here. She told me i was her best friend but sometimes i feel like at times we don't get along or something and i feel like she thinks I'm a retard. What do i do

Stop being a twat and just carry on talkig with her you aspegers ridden pumpkin

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She's told you she's doing something this weekend, so she's answered your question. You made the critical error of asking if she had plans without following it up with a suggestion for her. Depending on how well you know her you could follow it up with something along the lines of 'if you have any spare time you should grab a coffee with me.'
It's imperative that you phrase it in such a way, not softly offering like 'would you like to do something?' where she has the option. Make it seem like you're doing her a favour, basically.

Ps. Kudos if she's Colombian, their females are the hottest of the hot imho family.

>>16617118
I guess I'll add a few details about myself.

I'm 32, I like to play music, cook, read and watch weird movies. I live alone with my cat. I'm into alternative spirituality and other /x/ stuff. I'm str8. I used to have a very active social life but that all went away over the last few years as I got too sick to leave home very often. I'm mostly better now but still a bit weak.

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Bump

bumpity

>>16617077
translate pls

Masturbating is not cheating, your girl is dumb. Second, don't worry about lasting longer. Just nut. Then use your hands or mouth to keep her up until your dick comes back. Then go at it again. Make sex a two round event for you guys. I mean, jesus, you're already lasting long enough.

>>16617052
I'll take things that never happened for 400, Alex

Fuck her lmao. Just make sure no one finds out haha.

>>16617053
Just because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean it hasn't happened to someone else.

I'm serious.

>>16617039
First of all, I take the C.G. Jung approach to dreams, if that says you anything.
I have no idea why you have that dreams or what they mean, because i´m not you. This dreams are a generated by your subconsciousness and only have a message to you.
So I can only ask questions and maybe help you to understand your dreams, I can´t offer any clear message.
Who exactly are the People you see killing themselves, close friends or just people you know?
Do you feel any connection between their act and yourself, like you are responsible somehow?
In what setting does the dream take place?

>>16617008
Ask for a change in meds. As for "do they work" it depends. for me they didn't, only made me crazy emotional.