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Anonymous (ID: 8qDlpsWH) 12/29/15(Tue)21:19:26 No.1017171▶
Pretend you are Xipe Totec and demand that you be allowed to flay them and wear their skins as a coat for 20 days until they rot off

>>16618685
Two years ago, I was in the same situation.

After living for a year in a shared accommodation, I grew tired of all small crap that my flatmates ware up to - not washing dishes, wasting all hot water, leaving washed clothes in the washing machine, saturating broadband throughput with torrents etc.. They ware all good lads, but all those small things combined started to hit my nerves - that's why I left.

Now I'm in my own flat for more than a year and I bloody love it. Yeah, I don't save as much money as I would like to but fuck it - I have my peace and privacy.

>>16618652
Clearly, you haven't been beating his ass enough.

Anonymous (ID: 8qDlpsWH) 12/29/15(Tue)21:19:26 No.1017171▶
Pretend you are Xipe Totec and demand that you be allowed to flay him and wear his skin as a coat for 20 days until it rots off

Yes. You should see a doctor. There are a few different manageable conditions which could cause this.

>>16618622
If you're drinking the amount of water every adult should be drinking in a day, no, once an hour is not unusual.

>>16618622
Keep track of the color and quantity as well as the frequency while waiting to see a doctor. Taste it to see how sweet it is as well.

>>16618589
>Then she does not send any message.
You have to realize that people either do this to A) calm down, or B) to punish you. It's often the latter. It's like someone trying to withhold sex until they get what they want, only more personal.

Leave her alone until she contacts you. Busy your mind, hang out with friends, etc. Because in the end, you don't want to teach her that this behavior is acceptable.

Don't get mad. It's that simple.

I do this to my boyfriend all the time for the express purpose of >>16618607

Literally just want the satisfaction of seeing him give in to try to resolve things (I don't remember ever even being sincerely mad about anything).

However, I think if you value your relationship enough, it's probably more mature to forget about the beta crap and just give in. Fix the problem.

If he didn't give in, I'd probably end up leaving. I even have some form of respect for that he does.

Your gf might not be as petty as me, though. She might just be hurt and not know how else to deal with it. Communicating with her will be more successful in the long run than returning the passive aggression.

>>16618586
>I want things to be like before.
Not possible. Even if he's ok with being 'just friends' after this comes out, things will always be weird and awkward.

Just be straight with him and be ready to accept that he might not want to be around anymore. Let him know you'd like him to stay but it's okay if he wants to leave. But be clear that romance is not happening and try to avoid innuendo or flirtatious behavior towards him, because it will be taken the wrong way.

>>16618578
Well either break up with her or suffer paranoia for the rest of the relationship.

Call someone and ask

It could be as simple as them working on the system during holiday down-time.

>>16618507
Have you done pegging?

>>16618506
Depends a lot on where you want to work.
That said, there's always piss and shit(sewerage).

>>16618526


This.

Not much use for a marine biologist in Oklahoma.

However some geologist might get use.......

>>16618569
That reminds me, geology is actually pretty good and can lead you places you might not have expected. I knew a geologist that ended up working in pharmaceuticals, mineral analysis.

>>16618469
Never heard of Folgers coffee

Malboro are just high end cigs. Get the lights if you're going to start. Red are rough as fuck. You'll need them when you're hooked in 5 years time

>>16618469
More like the Coca-Cola and budwiser of cigarettes.

for me personally i like MCD nat shermans. it looks classy and they're smooth as hell. try it out op.

>>16618430

paychecks are generally cashed by depositing the check at your bank / bank-ATM. other businesses offer to wire it directly in to your account for you. i prefer a check.

as for getting a job, your first job is whatever job you can get. literally, whatever job you can get. you dont have the luxury of 'no interaction' or 'whatever will pay more'.

and as is, there are virtually no jobs that dont require some form of interaction, much less entry level. you will get over your fear of talking to people.

best advice as follows:
>ask everyone you know if they know anywhere hiring

almost all the jobs i have had except my current one I got because someone who either worked there or knew a guy got me in.

after that, fake as much as your resume as you can. ever did any community service? if not, do some. i did one night working at a charity dinner. i stretched that to 3 months on my resume claiming that i worked for a non existent business that catered for charity dinners and i was a server there. listed an uncle as the boss. they never call, its entry level after all.

>>16618424
/o/ here
Just fucking get the tires

All season tires are fine unless you're driving A LOT of unplowed roads. Just drive slow and you'll be fine.

>>16618411

talk to him about it. if he is, do what you like more. you cant do something for or against him.

if you want it gone cuz it will make you happy then cut it off. you can of course always save the money, cancel the surgery and just get the surgery if anything ever happens but i don t think its a great idea to change your life so much based on a guy.

there will be other guys after all, especially after you cut it off.

>>16618422
It won't cost any money. Fully covered under insurer. I'm pretty sure I'm with you on the, "just do it", thing though. Just trying to dissipate my unfounded worry.

>>16618433

>unfounded

no its likely this will shake things up. he might even break up with you. moral is just do it he doesnt love you for you anyway.

>>16618381

only ever had one situation like this. me and my bf were in an open relationship, and it was common that we would scope out hot guys together and check em out.

the problem was he took this to the nth degree. we'd be having a regular walk down the street, talking, and he'd cut me off mid sentence like 'IS THAT GUY HOT!!1?'

and id look to see hes trying to check out some guy four stories up on a balcony. at one point i very bluntly asked him to stop doing that cuz hes not focusing on us at all, hes doing this the entire time were out in public and we cant even have a conversation cuz literally every guy in the distance he has to check out.

we broke up a few weeks later cuz he couldnt deal with the open aspect of the relationship anymore (Despite him being the one to insist on it)

>>16618381
You cuck them.
Or do as a mature person and talk about it with them.
Your choice.