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Hi, me and my girlfriend are celebrating christmas little late this year and I need your opinion on a gift I got her.

Its stuffed version of me (pic kind of related).
She is 21 and so am I. I also got her other stuff but this is like the MAIN gift. Is it OK or u think I should get her something to go with it as well.

In the pas I bought her watch, some jewelry and handbags so this year I wanted to give her something less serious, but I am having my doubts.

Oh yeah and the reason I bought her this is that last few months she was studying abroad so I wanted to get her little version of me so next time she goes away for longer time I will be there with her.

What do you think?
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>>16621372
Cute and thoughtful. I'd like one to cuddle while I'm away without my SO
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>>16621372
I think it's original, but pretty damn gay. Hope she likes it.
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Cute af OP, I'd love it if my bf got me something like that. I'm sure she'll love it

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How do I track people down?
I remember seeing a sticky full of resources for this but can't remember where I saw it.
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Why are you trying to track somebody down anon?
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>>16621360
Now now
That's not the important thing here
Now ,we kinda need the list
We like stalking a little bit
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>>16621368
There are literally hundreds of resources dedicated to doxing a single keystroke in google would give you. Shoo shoo.

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Hey guys. I need some urgent help (though it might already be too late).

I live in Australia, and I'm about to finish my bachelor uni course that I've been doing for 3 years.

I want to apply for a masters of secondary education to start in 2016, but I'm worried that I'm already out of time for applying.

Is there anything I can do? Any ideas for places that might still be open? I won't technically finish my course until a few months from now, but I hear you can start doing a masters before finishing your bachelor or whatever.

Anyone have any idea what might still be open?

I live in Melbourne, Australia.

I'm good with online course or whatever. I hear some courses start half way through the year but I've yet to find one.
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You can't be enrolled in a Bachelors and a Masters at the same time. If you finish midway through next year, depending on how you're doing your masters, you might be able to start right away or you might have to wait until the following year

Why don't you just ask someone at your school anyway?
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>>16621285
>Why don't you just ask someone at your school anyway?
This, it's possible that schools are uniform in their policy on this, but I really wouldn't count on it. Ask your advisor or one of your professors.

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I locked my boyfriend out of the house. He won't be home for another hour or so.

Should I ask for $20 to let him back in, or should I get him to take me out for supper?

The $20 is more or less guaranteed because he can pass that through the door without me unlocking it. However, he might agree to supper just to be let I'm then not go.

Alternative bargaining ideas welcome. There's a 4/10 chance he reads this thread, but the plan is already in action.
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You're insane, he sucks for being with you, that's illegal if he pays rent/mortgage, fuck you, etc.
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>>16621267
0.1/10 made me reply

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What are tips when you're talking to a really depressed friend? Like I try talking to my friends and I try talking to them about their issues and things they can do to help them, but it never seems to be enough. Anything to add on to this, or if I shouldn't do that at all, tell me how I should do it?
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>>16621230
Depressed people can be really suspicious of others, seemingly at random. Did you ever announce your intention straight up, ie, "I want to see if I can help you out with your situation."?
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>>16621243
I do if it's a new friend or someone that I haven't had a conversation like that before with. But if it's the same friend I've had a couple times I don't. Should I?
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As a severely depressed person, here are some tips:
> don't imply you know what your friend is going through unless you've dealt with a severe depression yourself
> Let him know that he can always talk to you if he feels like letting his worries out
> If he does, let him do the talking. Don't interfere, don't judge, don't rush him
> Don't try to give advice unless he specifically asks for it or seems open to it.
> "You'll get over it" or "it gets better" are big no's. He won't believe you
> Don't think you're bothering him because you're always the one initiating the conversation. If he really didn't want to talk, he'd ignore you.
> Accept that being there for him is pretty much the only thing you can do. You won't be able to get him out of that depression. That requires professional help.

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Is it possible to learn to be less "safe"? I'm always sensible, always careful, always plan ahead, never spontaneous, never take crazy risks. I bore even myself. But is that something I can even change?

When I hear that Taylor Swift song 22 I think, "I will never ever look like bad news," and it makes me really sad.
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>>16621196

>How to fuck up my life just to look cool?

FTFY
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I think you can work on becoming a more lively and spontaneous person in everyday conversations without becoming less safe or less careful.
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>>16621196
To an extent, yes, you can change it. Just don't do known high-risk shit like playing in traffic or huffing bleach and you'll be fine.

Do something you wouldn't normally do, and where the outcome is unknown, rather than stuff you know for a fact is just a dumb, bad decision. The first is exciting; the second will just leave you hating yourself in the morning.

If you don't know where to start, just pick something. If you're anal retentive like me and really can't pick something, make a mental 1-10 "dangerousness" scale with 1 being where you are and 10 being, idk, stealing an armoured car or something. Then do something that you'd consider to be a 2. Then maybe next week try a 3 or a 4.

There's a lot to be said for playing things safe most of the time - for one thing, it sure helps cushion the fall if you do take a risk and it goes bad on you. But there's a lot to be said for just saying "fuck it" and going for it.

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A couple of days ago my brother hit me in the side of my head with his elbow, leaving a little bruise. After this I didn't have a headache, nausea, numbness, or sleep problems. I only felt dizzy and a bit lightheaded. My cognitive functions seem up to par as well. I smoked weed yesterday and I felt fine. Am I making myself dizzy and lightheaded, do I actually have a concussion, or am I just being a little bitch?
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>>16621187
>A couple of days ago
>reposts word for word the exact same thread that was posted last week
probably the reason nobody's replying is that everybody replied the last time you posted this thread. did you at least go to a damn doctor?
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I don't think you have a solid reason to worry for now. You're doing the right thing by paying attention to your cognitive functions, keep an eye out in case anything gets worse.
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If you had a concussion you wouldn't be on 4chins shitposting.

Hey guys, quick question. So I'm currently in community college, my second time around because my first time I didn't care about school and flunked basically. I know what schools are my top 2 landing spots, but I'm confused on how to apply because I won't meet their minimum transfer requirements until after the spring semester ends, in May.

So what would I do? Considering that I'm applying for financial aid in February and want to apply ASAP for early decision. If I apply would they see my application and understand that I'm in the midst of satisfying their requirements or would I have to wait until after the semester ends?
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>>16621177
Everyone applies in midyear, and admission is always conditional on your completing your current education successfully. So go ahead and apply.
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>>16621674
That makes sense. I guess all I gotta do is make the grades
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Since this thread is here, I might as well ask:

is it hard to transfer to an out-of-state school without your full Associate's degree? State school.

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I fell with this girl online, It just came to me that I might be stalking her and I didn't even know it until now. But I also spent 23 hours not even focused on her. Never felt the need to like some ever until I met her. How in the hell did this happen, and how do I stop this? I don't want her to be out of my life.
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Not enough details.

>It just came to me that I might be stalking her
What makes you think that you're "stalking" her?

>How in the hell did this happen?
I don't know, tell us the story

>how do I stop this?
You can't "stop" love. Especially because you don't want her out of your life.

Hey guys!
Do any of you used booking.com? If so how does it work? I put there credit card number and everything and now should I wait for bank transfercto happen or will it take money from card when I come to reserved hotel? Thanks!
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>>16621014
>>>/trv/
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Depends on the option you chose. You can choose the "pay later" option and pay at the reserved hotel, or, in some cases, get a cheaper price and pay immediately. Check on your reservation.
Usually, you pay at the hotel.

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I don't know how relevant this is to this board exactly but I just wanted to see what people's opinions were. I am a 20 year old male and I have only one special talent, a very useless one. I can count the letters in a "normal sized" word, say 3-12 letters, almost instantly. Do I have any sort of disorder (autism or anything like that)? I am generally introverted and like to keep to myself, but I can fake interest in social situations and talking to others. I also have a general lack of empathy for others.
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>>16620970
I don't think so.
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>>16620970

Motherfucker, the reason why you don't have other fucking talents is because you never developed them.

Stop spending your fucking life worrying about finding your inner self or worrying if something is wrong with you and start building skills and character that make you 'right'.
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>>16620970
So can most people.

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I'm a man. 90% of my friends are female, but I'm worried that its fucked me up because not only do I not realize when a woman is hitting on me now I don't know if I will be able to distinguish a date from just hanging out. What are some tips for how to treat women I am attracted to vs women I want to be friends with. My solution so far has been to be friendly with every girl I meet. So long as shes not a negative asshole.
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> "Is this a date?"
She will either say yes or no
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>My solution so far has been to be friendly with every girl I meet
Acting friendly will give you friends. Try acting flirty. Yes it takes confidence and yes rejection hurts.
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>>16621261

For those of us who aren't used to acting flirty, how do we flirt effectively?

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anon what do you do when you still love a girl from years a go and have been in a steady relationship for 4 years but said earlier girl still keeps coming around every so often and you remember how much you love her, but when you bring it up she says it will never work out BUT keeps fucking you, figuratively and metaphorically, anyway?
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Stop contact and break up with the current gf? Lol cmon
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>>16620981
Current gf is the only thing thats kept me steady through the past couple of years though. I feel like I owe it to her to not break anything she wants while at the same time I guess I'm just a scum bag leeching whatever I can to get through.
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Yeah, pretty much. You've already been cheating on her and using her asa means of support everytime you get rejected by the other chick. seriously break up with the current gf because obviously she isn't the one for you, otherwise you wouldn't do this shit

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I'm stuck, and I'm not totally sure what to do.

Right now, I'm at a point where I just want to disappear, and seclude myself from the majority of people. I want some time to work on myself, but the problem is, I also desire companionship- with the opposite sex, that is/ a girlfriend.

Im an attractive guy, but kind of socially awkward, and all my relationships in the past never worked out. My most recent one, I decided to dissolve because not only would her family never accept us because I'm white (they are chaldean), but they would never accept my being an atheist, and she also wanted to wait until marriage for sex, which I cant do. I would have ended up cheating on her.

I just want to go away for a while. But I also just want someone to confide in.
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>>16620958
use the force luke and force yourself upon a girl
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>>16620969
Kekd pretty hard
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>>16620958
You need to look within and ask yourself if you are in any position to really be a companion to another in your current state of mind. The issues that you don't work out amongst yourself will carry over into the relationship... sometimes for the bad and sometimes for the good. Mend yourself and be content, at least, with who you are and what you want and or desire and then you should be ready to embrace another and give them everything you have to offer without certain "baggage". I hope that makes sense.

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I am a girl who is currently living abroad for one semester? Should I ask out a local if I don't feel like losing my virginity to him (I get the sense that it will leave the impression that I am skanky)? I understand that post high school dating often involves sex though? Does dating a guy that I can't have a long-term relationship with seem skanky?
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>>16620938
Nah it shouldn't look that way IMO you should be fine.
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Just because you ask him out doesn't mean you have to have sex with him.
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>>16620959
Most college students have sex though

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