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Hey. I'm very confused right now and nothing seems to make sense to me. My girlfriend just got back from Erasmus and she stayed at my place for a few nights, and we didn't have sex, I just didn't feel turned on. We have done it before, but I just didn't feel like doing it this time. And we haven't seen each for three months, so it's very weird.
I was considering that maybe I don't like girls or something, but during the summer, I was approached by a guy and dated a bit with him, but it didn't feel right at all, it felt wrong and I was 100% sure I was heterosexual from then on.
What is going on? I don't even feel the urge to kiss my girlfriend, to hold her and even smile at her. I feel like a jerk. I don't understand why I'm like this.
Please help me.
>Pic not related.
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>>16621737
Maybe you should wait until you've finished puberty first?
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So a friend of mine sent me a sociopath test and i ended up getting a 32 / 56 (1 is not a sociopath 56 is and 24 is the first # before you are considered a sociopath). But I was wondering should i seek help or will it even do anything to see someone.
Note: a friend of mine scored a 28 but is been diagnosed with sociopathy.
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Also here is the link if you want: http://psymed.info/sociopath-test/score=32
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>>16621746
If it makes you feel any better, I'm a paranoid schizo
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>>16621731
Taking an online test to figure out if you have a mental illness is retarded.
If you're truly concerned speak with either your family doctor or speak psychiatric help for an evaluation, don't rely on the internet.
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I'm having bad nightmares every night. How to stop?
>used to have good sex-filled dreams, but about 1/5 dreams were always bad
>past 3 weeks, every single night has been a nightmare
>usually getting killed or horrifically injured
>so realistic that I wake up and feel my body for injuries
>extremely graphic and realistic gore, I can't emphasize enough how realistic it is
>often get killed or kill other people, very vivid
"One technique that's increasingly being used is "imagery rehearsal treatment" where individuals are encouraged to alter the endings of their nightmares while they're awake."
I already have been doing the above (it was always my natural reaction to do that), but it hasn't helped.
There are two possible causes: one is stress (college senior, no job lined up, job and money stress) which I could help by getting my shit together and securing a job, which I'm already working on. But that'll take a while and may never really be resolved, rat race etc.
Otherwise I have a habit of constant and highly involved daydreaming, usually involving fighting scenarios. (Sword and magic, you know the deal.) All day every day and before I go to bed for about an hour, after which I usually masturbate and fall asleep. This might be contributing, but it's also the only thing in life I enjoy. All stories have some form of drama or strife in them, and I read a lot of books and watch a lot of anime in addition to the daydreaming. Again, this is one of the few joys in my life. I don't know if reading and daydreaming could even cause nightmares in the first place.
What should I do? The bad dreams are causing me a lot of stress.
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Wow, that´s like the third dream thread i reply to that week, maybe i should become a dream-namefag.
>I don't know if reading and daydreaming could even cause nightmares in the first place.
They could but since you are enjoying them, it is highly unlikely that they cause nightmares.
The vivid fantasy you developed by doing this stuff is now working against you by making your nightmares extremely realistic.
>one is stress
That sounds pretty reasonable, try to chill out a bit and don´t pressure yourself to much.
Maybe a stress relieving hobby could help, if you have such a good fantasy maybe try writing a book or something.
If you want we could also try to analyse your dreams a bit deeper.
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>>16621729
Sorry for being a nuisance, anon.
What can I do about job stress? Either I manage to get a job, or I am going to be living in my car until I do. I've never had good luck getting jobs, and my profs are saying I should have been applying months ago. I'm applying to one job a day to build the habit.
That's really the only source of stress in my life, and it has nothing to do with physical fights and injuries.
>They could but since you are enjoying them, it is highly unlikely that they cause nightmares.
Well, that's good to know, then.
>vivid fantasy...is now working against you
Oh. Well, shit. I'm a writefag, though, already.
>stress relieving hobby
If I start going to the gym more often will that help, you're saying? I'm more active than ever now and this is when they're being trouble. Maybe a more structured yoga routine. I don't feel this will help, though.
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Is your room overheated? I consistently, like litterally without fail, have nightmares if I'm too hot while sleeping.
Also I've read that bad smells can induce nightmares as well, so if you're in a nasty stinky room you could try cleaning it up.
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Okay I have got one real group of friends, friends whom I consider my best friends.
Matter is that I go through cycles where I become really paranoid, thinking that they hate me and do not want to hang out with you. It is triggered by them hanging out without me, looking through snapchat stories with the whole group having fun. Also happens during long periods without communication. We live on the countryside and my communication with them is limited to a facebook groupchat and snapchat. Not helping is the fact that I never ask whats going on, only jumping on the occasion when they say something about it in the chat. I did however ask them if they wanted to meet tonight, and im actually afraid looking to see if they've seen the message or whatever declining answer I might get.
It is really awfull and im going crazy and this keep happening during cycles where it feels like they shut you out and I go crazy only to forget it when they do include me. Hate that it keeps happening and i've begun wondering if its healthy. But then again it probably is my fault.
So its making me feel really deppressed and alone, though it might be my own fault.
+Its new years eve tomorrow so that only adds to it sitting alone at night watching fireworks from the distant city, knowing they're out there having fun.
Any advice no matter how trivial the solution might be?
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I used to be like that. Sometimes I still feel odd being left out, but then I wonder, does it really matter? If I said I wanna hang out, I know they'll say sure. And if they decline, it's not like they're conspiring against me, else they'd have done it a long time ago. When people can avoid you, why will they want to deliberately spend time with you. Pitying doesn't make sense, that's still wasting their time. So yeah, believe it or not, they do enjoy having you around.
But everyone has someone they talk to a little better than the other person in the group. They'll be into something on the side anyhow. Sometimes, you can push yourself in there. It's okay. You're a groupie. If it's private, they'll be evasive. And you give them space.
You don't need to be alone on new year's eve. :)
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Just found out I flunked my finals (university). I'm probably out of school.
Where do I go from here? How do I get a job more worthwhile than working in retail or shit like that?
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I hear sucking cock pays pretty well. Have you thought of becoming a passable transvestite?
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>>16621706
Believe it or not yes, but that was a bit unrelated to this
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Whats the best way to eat a girl out?
I fucking love doing it desu, and my gf enjoys it too, but I feel like I could be doing so much better. Any advice my fellow anons?
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up down up down left right left right ba ba select start
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circle right circle right left square triangle up
In all seriousness go for the clit more and use your tongue more for penetration.
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>>16621677
thanks senpai
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I'm 19 and I moved out of my parent's house an year ago for college. College is nearly a hour drive from my place. Ever since I moved out, I feel so fucking lonely/unmotivated because my house feels quiet and time runs fast. I live in a third world country, so people don't live much alone. The only 'friends' I have got are from college and they stay most of the time with their families. There are not much places where activities go on. No libraries, no sport clubs, no bars, nothing.
Everyday seems like a burden of chores because I have to cook, clean etc. I don't mind reading or listening to music alone but I can't do that everyday.
I can't get a roommate because I have found no one suitable. Here mostly 'guys' living together is of the same college and they move after 4 years. Girls, I have never heard unless they are 25+.
Holidays I go to my parents house and suddenly I feel relaxed and happy.
How do you live alone? How do you deal with the cooking or doing something everyday?
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>>16621642
Surely someone is facing the same.
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An hour is not that long, do you have a car?
You could use the money you safe by not living alone to buy gas. Nothing wrong with living at your family's place when thats normal in your country.
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I travelled an hour and half to go to college. I travel 2 hrs to get to work. :|
So I'm balding and this is embarrassing to be honest.
Feel like leaving my job, shaving my head, moving to another state and starting anew. The worst thing is people you know seeing you bald which just adds salt to the wound
Anyone else do this?
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Just shave it. You'll only get shit for it the first time people see you, but after a while they don't even remember what you looked like before. And if someone asks about it, you could just say that it's easier to maintain.
>Want gf
>try online dating
>Tinder for months, few matches at first, no replies
>0 matches in months
>POF
>message plenty of girls
>no responses
>do their swipe game
>26 matches so far
>message them, no replies
>OKC
>no replies
>Happn
>no matches
>Whisper
>not even a dating app
>cyber once, it was pretty hot
>gay teens hit on me
WTF man? How can I not get a single girl?
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Try IRL.
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>>16621537
manlet
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It took me a month to find my current girlfriend on Pof but I also had 5 other girls that liked me, post picture of yourself let's see the damage
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Hello Anons, I today tried playing with my new Steam Link Box - by Streaming by Computer to my TV. But I seem to have rather hard lags, low fps, and a pretty blurry and un-sharp Picture with a real low Resolution.
Data:
AMD Phenom(tm) II X4 955 3.2GHz
8GB DDR Ram
NVIDIA Geforce GTX 560 Ti
Valve Steam Link Box
If anyone's got experience with it, I'd be happy about an advice.
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>>16621488
If you're running it over wireless, that's gonna be normal. I have only been able to do in-home streaming successfully with a wired connection, and even then some input lag is noticeable. You're not gonna be playing competitive FPS with it no matter what.
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>>16621494
OP here,
all cable.. the Input lag is jsut way too strong. I can't imagine Valve brings out a product for 50€ and it can't stream fleuntly and lagless. I jsut lags too hard to believe it's supposed to be like that.
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>>16621504
Op I use Cable. You should too
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19
People bores me.
But I don't wanna die alone.
What do?
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>>16621459
be yourself
t. Pegasus
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>>16621459
Develop an interest in them.
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>>16621611
How?
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hey /adv/ I'm 18 and I have OK grades, can you suggest colleges I should look into because right now my head is spinning with possibilities, I would prefer one in a english-speaking country so I can work on my accent. also im a poorfag.
please help
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>>16621442
If your country is in the European Union you can go to Scotland that is free, though you need to pay living costs and that shit.
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How do you properly measure your dick?
Do you actually measure directly from your pelvic bone? Because that seems like cheating and it's not like that last bit could reach into a pussy
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Eyeball it
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I'd do pelvic bone measurement for your "official" measurement. It's like discussing height. We are usually wearing shoes so we all look an inch taller than we really are.
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Too poor to afford a doctor
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Hi, y'all. Three days ago I found some meowmix irresistables in back and tried some. I didn't shit it out until a few minutes ago, and there's a lot of blood. Has this happened to anyone else before?
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Now this is shitposting
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>>16621400
Fresh blood? Could be you were constipated and tore yourself a little. If it continues yeah you'll have to pay up for a Doctor.
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Does anyone have any experience with mucuna pruriens? I am considering ingesting it.
Reluctant until I do more research on l-dopa though. I don't understand why it would be neurotoxic, given that it's also produced endogenously? Obviously dopamine, and degradation of dopamine like compounds generates oxidative stress and free radicals inherently. Feeling shitty and braindead (again, and again) and therefore considering suicide, can't reason anything out properly for myself. Sorry for the hacked together sentences, it probably reads like stupid garbage, certainly the way it felt.
Need advice on mucuna pruriens. In lots of pain. Help, etc.
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Please help, someone here must have tried some of this.
It's too bad I'm so scared of getting stuck with negative change by default. I feel trapped and like it might well be it for me, and yet I still can't bring myself to do something that might fuck me over. And it never changes.
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L-Dopa can cause your brain to produce higher amounts of MAO enzyme to breakdown the extra dopamine.
Alternatives:
Drink coffee - Get a french press and some coffee grounds for a caffeine boost. Cheaper and healthier than energy drinks.
Try modafinil/armodafinil - doesn't make you feel wired like the harder stimulants, just takes you to a state of wakefulness. Good for late night cramming.
Take a multivitamin everyday - You need vitamins as catalysts in the process of producing neurotransmitters.
Get some sunlight - Needs to be direct sunlight. Glass windows filter out the UV your body needs to produce vitamin D.
Force yourself into "normal" sleeping patterns. Unless you grew up living in a part of the earth that is constantly bright, your brain responds best to the earth's natural light cycle of day time = bright, night time = dark.
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>>16621655
I might consume a light MAOI.
As far as vitamins, sleep, and sunlight goes, dietarily I'm more or less as good as it can get, for me. Otherwise I feel reluctant to bother making any meaningful lifestyle changes. My problems are myriad, many of which are more mechanical. I sleep poorly half the time anyway, why bother maintaining regularity when you, it, and everything is fucked either way.
I drink tea and yerba mate occasionally. Or cocoa beans. Polyphenols etc.
I appreciate the more broad advice though, it's definitely solid. I've given similar advice myself, but I never feel like anyone will actually listen or do anything with it. I'll think about what you've said.
Maybe I ought to be thinking about why I'm so afraid of trying any new drug. I don't think there would ever be a point where I would feel at all confident in my degree of certainty. Nor would I ever take a leap of faith. Does this confine me to only acting out different derivatives of the familiar? Is it even possible to do anything "new"? I'd think not.
I don't know. When you're half dead already it seems you cling even harder to avoiding risk.