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>19 yo single father of 3yo twins (mother died giving virth to last one)
>Live in horrible rural small town, nobody around except the trashy redneck type and old people
>Live with my parents and all my time is consumed with working and childcare
>I'm incredibly lonely and would be much happier if I had a girlfriend and I feel my kids need a stable female figure other than their grandmother
>Ready to start looking for somebody but the two last points are a real obstacle
tl;dr I'm a single father and am ready to start dating, I want a mature long term relationship and she would have to be ok with the fact that I have my kids full time (I would not expect her to babysit or anything unless she actually wanted to but that would be after a long time of building trust of course)
How unrealistic is me ever finding somebody before my kids are grown?
>inb4 lol should have used a condom XD
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you should have used a condom dude
by the looks of it you can't even sustain yourself (live with parents)
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>>16627845
>19 years old
>3 twins
Are ya' sure you aint a red neck too son?
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>>16627892
likewise, retard. he said his twins are 3 years old, not that he had 3 twins.
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Nobody gives a shit about me 2016-01-01 03:33:18 Post No.16627792
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Nobody gives a shit about me
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I'm not usually one to act like a 16 year old girl and pull out the "wahh nobody cares about me" card, but this shits different.
A tornado ripped through my town last week. 13 people died, a lot of others were injured/had their homes destroyed...and not a single person called or even texted to see if I was alive or dead.
This is fucking with my head. When I die, nobody is going to mourn my death, i'll just be some guy that died. It also pisses me off at the people who I thought would care about me. Like goddamn man, really? you just, simply don't care if i fucking died? fuck you.
I have some family that cares about me, surprisingly. My grandmother almost got scammed by someone who said he was her grandson (me) and she needed to send $2500 to his account to bail me out of jail. Scared the shit out of her, she was ready to get the money, and was crying and nearly hysterical until i called her and told her that i wasn't in fucking jail. I honestly didn't know she cared that much about me..
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Im sure you will survive. SHIT.. You probably are the only one in your fucking town worrying about people checking up on you because blah blah...Go and help your fellow towns people...shit man dont be so vain..if anything its a fucking reality check on who is your friend...get over yourself.
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>>16627838
WHAT. You're going to guilt me because I'm upset that nobody cares whether I live or die? How would that make you feel?
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>>16627857
Fine because I don't give a fuck. People do care about you you crackhead..obviously your g-ma wouldn't be hysterical because you got locked up...You are also contributing to it by saying shit like "IDK WHY SHE CARED THAT MUCH"..shit man...get over it.
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>be me
>19
>quitting my a good full time job to go back to school
>me and ex recently mutually cut off all contact except text
>I spited her during our 2 year long relationship
>4 days out she's chilled with multiple dudes and smoked
>she's a solid 9/10 loyal but she's spoiled, manipulative
>other than that pretty like minded
>literally no friends except 2 bros at work that I'm leaving soon
>feeling the pain she's felt
>this is what I wanted
How do I carry on?
Should I wait until class starts again and play the cards I am dealt?
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Op here, I forgot to mention I have some sadistic, maybe borderline sociopathic thoughts and I feel the only reason I'm getting jealous is because I can't see her as anyone else's
Should I just grow the fuck up and work on my own life?
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Yes.
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>>16626451
I would. So many more girls out there.
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weird to pick out bfs clothes? 2016-01-01 03:25:00 Post No.16627761
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weird to pick out bfs clothes?
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Is it weird to put away your boyfriends clothes for him? What about setting his work clothes out for him in the morning? What about setting his normal clothes out if we are going out somewhere?
I do this for my bf, because I don't want him to go through the trouble of finding clothes, but im worried he thinks i treat him like a child sometimes.
Tldr;
> is it weird to pick out bfs clothes for him?
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Not occasionally, no. If you're trying to dictate his style into what you prefer its getting a bit controlling. Get him interested in doing it himself, take him shopping and tell him what you think would look great on him and give him lots of compliments when you like what he's wearing. Laying out clothes for him is too far IMO.
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>What about setting his work clothes out for him in the morning? What about setting his normal clothes out if we are going out somewhere?
>I do this for my bf, because I don't want him to go through the trouble of finding clothes,
who the fuck actually thinks this lol...
would you wipe his ass too so he wouldn't have to go through the trouble of making sure he's wiped clean?
i'd only do this shit if he asked for help.
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>>16627761
this used to be a bit more commonplace. nto so much anymore, but it doesn't make it 'weird'.
and lets be honest, even if its 'weird', does it matter? think about it. why would you not do something just because its weird? is it bad? why would it be bad? if its too bad then dont.
but as is just sounds like you like to take care of him. maybe he likes to be taken care of. ask him. if he likes it, why stop?
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How the fuck do you hold a pencil properly and write in a readable way? I fucking hate writing like a fucking autist.
I have aspergers, so maybe that contributes to it, but like, I'll hold my pencil in the way I always have, and if I write for more than 2 minutes, my hand just cramps up horribly and I need to stop. It's really annoying when I'm trying to study.
Shit - I almost am tempted to STOP taking notes when studying because it takes so fucking long for me to write. But I NEED to take them, so I can remember.
What the fuck do I do?
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Try different utensils, a wooden pencil hurts my hands as well. Perhaps a softer gripped one may work more efficiently, or simply try taking key notes and not sentences as a whole. Focus on the 'trigger' words that'll help you.
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>>16627758
I'm left handed and when I write, everything smudges across the paper. I'v learned to write upside down.
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would you mind sharing your handwriting with us anon?
Also, consider using pens when writing notes. Experiment with many and maybe you'll find the right one. I find that any lead pencil smudge way too much and it ruins everything.
I wrote, produced and directed this short film: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8cAXAI5SN3M&feature=youtu.be
The editing didn't come out that well, but I'm sort of happy with it. Should I continue making films or am I a lost cause?
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>>16627649
That was a piece of crap.
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>>16627665
Ha. What did you think?
>>16627721
What didn't you like about it?
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How to gain a bit more weight? 2015-12-31 18:18:44 Post No.16626391
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How to gain a bit more weight?
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Well, the thing here is that I'm a male, almost 18 y/o and I weigh 40'5 kg. No matter how hard I try, I eat a lot, and it seems like I gain weight, but the next day it's like I didn't eat anything. I've been like this since I was a little kid, and the doctors said that it was a normal thing because my entire family (especially my mom's family) is a family of slight build people. I want to know what can I do (besides having good eating habits) to get a bit more weight (5 or 6 kg more would be perfect as it would be the "healthy", ideal weight). I also thought on going to the gym, but I'm questioning it because I'm scared that I may lose more weight. Help, please!
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Same here, I'm 19, I'm not going to the gym but I do exercise, I'm gaining muscle pretty fast, I eat a lot too.
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Count calories. Add 500 extra kcal per day and you'll put on half a kilo every week. Whatever it seems like "the next day," that could add up to over 25 kg over a year. The key is not to lie to yourself and guess at how much you ate.
I'm sure your family is full of slim people but that's probably not some genetic anomaly. It's because family taught each other these eating habits. You have to go back to mathematics if you want to sort this out.
You also don't need to change how much you eat if you go to the gym. You can stick to this +500 kcal plan and hit the weights a few days a week too. Just don't do running or swimming for 4 hours a day.
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Being at that weight is not healthy. At all. Considering height you should be around 60+ kg. You probably don't eat enough. Count your calories, aim for more than 2500, and you might consider some kind of weight gainer. Excersize will increase your hunget, thus allowing you to eat more. I'm serious, eat untill you are nearly puking, you will get used to it and your stomach will stretch.
Also, consider a checkup at the doctor, are you sure it's not an underlying disease?
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Hey /adv/. First time posting here.
Thought about posting this on /r9k/ but I figured it would be filled with the usual "HURRR ALL WOMEN ARE EVIL" response one would expect from that board. Hoping you guys are more level headed.
Anyway there's this girl I've been "seeing". Problem is she has a boyfriend she doesn't want to break up with. We've had sex a few times and this has been going on for a good month now. She told me she was going to break up with him when we first met but when she went to see him (he lives out of town) she said she didn't want to hurt his feelings.
So he's back in town tonight and I have a feeling if we run into one another things could get ugly.
What would you do? Should I just cut all ties with her? I feel a really strong connection with her and she feels the same about me.
pic unrelated. michael gira just because.
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>>16626376
I she felt that strongly she'd break up.
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>>16626376
>Posts that douchebag from The Swans
Fuck off you /mu/ faggot and take your shitty music with you.
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>>16626421
>getting triggered by Gira
pls
I found out about Schizoid personality disorder recently.
I have literally every single clinical feature listed in the chart on wikipedia.
What do?
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>>16627613
>self-diagnosed schizo
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>I found another cool word for introvert and shut in
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talk to a psychiatrist
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Alone for the New Year, what can I do?
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Build a castle of sadness
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>>16626375
Already done :(
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Go to any friend you have. One of them is bound to invite you inside. If you have no friends, make friends outside. Step outside of your comfort zone and start the new year good.
Happy new year, Anon.
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whats wrong with me?
nearly every time I go somewhere I'm refused service. If I go to a bar or a club the bouncers quickly find me and ask me to leave. This is without even speaking to anyone I don't know, or drinking too much. Sometimes I don't even get to order a drink yet and I'm asked to leave.
If I'm ever served somewhere the people who serve me will look down not making eye contact looking depressed and pissed off, or the person serving me will laugh and look at someone else working there who laughs as well. Whenever I get laughed at like that I get very angry and ask them point blank agressivley why they are laughing at me, of course they don't know how to respond and I get very angry and make a scene. Normally I ask for money back and abuse them so I don't get what I came for.
Normally though if I'm at a cafe or restaurant I get ignored, if I order food or coffee I get ignored and they never bring it out. Otherwise they ask me to leave. If I'm in a retail shop and get assisted by a staff member when their back is turned to me I can see them look at another customer who'll smile or laugh.
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If I'm in a public place with lots of people around like a supermarket I will see people looking at each other and making a face or smirking (usually a man looking at a woman he doesn't know, especially older men) and I know its because of me. Otherwise everyone will stare at me and give me angry looks. Women cross the street when they see me coming and if they're close enough to make eye contact look very angry or horrified. Sometimes they run away
I've had jobs where I have to serve customers and they will stare at me and be unresponsive. All the ones who aren't laugh in my face or look at me like I'm an alien.
I don't like going out because it makes me angry and sad. I don't know why society rejects me so completely and thoroughly and hates me on sight. I'm hygienic, not ugly, don't smell or dress like a hobo, not fat and not part of a race or other group thats discriminated against, or from a foreign country.
I honestly don't know what to do because anyone who I talk to about it like family will tell me I'm imagining things, only some close friends have noticed it happen when they are with me and they are honest enough to admit that its real. But since most people hate me before they even talk to me I have very few friends. I've talked to a psychologist and counselors about it but they tell me I am imagining things and people don't judge you like that before they at least talk to you. And that it must be something I am doing first to ilicit bad responses, otherwise how could anyone have a problem with me.
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>>16627604
Are you black?
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Have you ever been evaluated by a mental health professional?
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It's New Year's Eve and I'm so lonely and bored. New Year's Eve is a great time to realize how fucked your life is.
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This
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Should this be /adv/'s comfy NYE general?
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>>16627601
idk im actually very uncomfortable and flat out miserable.
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Which bitch is hotter??
And why??
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Ask /soc/
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/thread
So I was thinking about going without a house for a while. Gym membership for showers, laundromat instead of washer and dryer, sleeping at friends' houses or motels as need be. I don't really have that much stuff. Like, if I get rid of my current bed I can fit everything I own in my car and still have room for a passenger.
My question is how feasible is this? What am I missing, not thinking about? I work near Wentzville, MO and play in and around Saint Charles.
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its my car
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seems like a bad time...
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You have to weigh up the social disadvantages of living in your car (including how potential employers will view you) against the BS of living with someone who will have the power over you.
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Is it good idea to eat shrooms while being high as fuck? In a sense that the shrooms wont be wasted or waaaay more potent than supposed to.
I know that smoking weed WHILE tripping on shrooms is ok, but what about the other way around
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>>16626358
Bump