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Hate meeting the family 2016-01-01 00:55:16 Post No.16627375
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Is it normal to hate having to meet / integrate into your SO's family? Every time I have to do it it just feels tedious and wrong. lately she says I don't seem to enjoy spending time with her giant extended family whose names I can't ever remember, and it's kind of true. Like, I'll do it because she wants me to, but beyond that? Nah. She also can't comprehend why I prefer to keep my family, work, and romantic/social lives separate, and why I'm not overly fussed about spending time with her and my senpai. I just don't see a need to; never have with anyone I've dated. I'd rather spend as little time with my family around my SO as possible.
Is my situation sort of common, or am I just a weird outlier? Any advice with how to deal?
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>>16627375
What kind of sociopathic niggafag doesn't want to spend time with his family?
Also lol at the word filter changing *f*a*m* to Senpai desu
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>>16627381
Me ;)
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>>16627375
Depends on how long you've been with your SO. Is this a years-long relationship? If yes, then you should make an honest effort to get along and integrate. If not, who fucking cares.
Why does it say "Don't take this medication with other medications that contain acetaminophen; serious liver damage may occur" on packages?
I mean I get the part of not taking more than 4,000 mg of acetaminophen in 24 hours, but the not take other stuff containing acetaminophen alongside it? Is this just something to scare me or is there legit cause for concern.
Because I had 2 different types of medicine that contained acetaminophen within the past 48 hours but didn't exceed 4,000 mgs of it
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bamp
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how did you manage to stay alive this long being so stupid
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I just celebrated the new year with my family from 23.30 or 11.30 pm to 1.30. The girl I like called, wished me a happy new year and invited me to her friends party at 20 km away. I shouldve get a taxi and pay 25€ for a ride there and 25€ for a ride back. Now I really really like that girl and wouldve do it, but it turned out, that no taxis were aviable in the next 50 minutes. I thought it through and said to myself, that i could only be there for about 30 mins until everyone starts getting sleepy and stuff, so I thought no, I wont go. I now know, I messed up, I should've done it. How can I make this up or surprise her? I mean, flowers and that ordinary stuff just aint working. I thought maybe something related to this party kinda somehow maybe idk.. Please help me advisors.
Its strange, how The Cure's song Friday I'm in love fits perfectly here
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>>16627329
You should find some Syrian immigrants to gangbang her with
The Cure sucks
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>>16627329
Should've said this:
>Bitch why the fuck didn't you tell me earlier? You think I can just drop everything I'm doing just to go "see" you? You're my bitch, not the other way around.
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I'm going to go downtown alone tonight, I live in Vancouver. How can I make the best of it?
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2016-01-01 00:42:31
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Get raped
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Also bringing a mickey of Vodka with me.
Actually I'm not sure if I even want to bring it.
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>18
>no idea what i should do with my life
>want good earning job, but desk jobs bore me.
help
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What are you good at? What skills do you have? Are you planning to go to college?
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>>16629605
>What are you good at?
don't know. I like to think that i am pretty good at analyzing problems, ironically. Like the average person i guess i believe i'm pretty smart, but i have difficulties focusing on tasks that bore me.
>What skills do you have?
Good sense of economics, good at analyzing, and the past ~2 years i have figured out im good in stressfull/crisis situations.
>Are you planning to go to college?
One year in the army is up next. After that no idea. I guess i should.
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>>16629618
OP here.
I feel like i have a good potential of becoming whatever i want. I have also been told this all my life.
Really just sucks because i both hate underachieving and sitting at a desk.
not really sure which of them i hate the most.
I'm literally good at nothing but riding my bike without holding the handle bars, what do?
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Kylo Pegasus (ID: !!4nagLPzwxlE)
2016-01-01 00:39:52
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>>16627322
Ride it into traffic
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Ride cock with no handle bars
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>>16627322
Remove the seat and go down a bumpy road.
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I'm in Canada and my name is CBB(322) 7/28/76 666... A being created me back then and I've been dragged around living a fairly boring life until now when I realise I am supposed to apparently have a Goddess named Erin Zimmer but just as they whored, molested and mutilated my existence they whored her too. The Canadians seem to just abuse their authority and violate my life to express more and more cryptic language patterns.
Does anyone know where I can find erin zimmer and show her this information about the design of the language and the premeditated intent for the population to molest and violate us while making cryptic entertainment about it so even the little children can sing and dance to song about us being molested?
here's one picture from part of being crucified. A being shaped the trees branches and leaves to create an artistic shadow of 3 partial face but upside down it's Jesus with a crown of thorns.
So yeah, i'm being crucified in some weird way in Canada while they molest and whore the woman. I really need to find this woman and make her aware of the Canadians intent to use and violate her too
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I don't understand this reality. Many aspects of my body have changed and other aspects of reality. I've been seeing people, vanish, appear out of no where, their faces morph and change, people becoming other people instantly but no one reacting. As if living in a robotic mind controlled society where people maybe can't even see... This reality is so messed up. It constantly puts thoughts in my mind all day everyday. THe same ideas over and over while triggering different emotion. So I can think something a bunch of times with no reaction then suddenly it'll make me angry or sad or whatever. I feel like a god damned puppet with something manipulating all my sense.
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hello?
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>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pareidolia
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paranoid_personality_disorder
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I know parenting questions are weird for /adv/ but what should i do?
>have 7 y/o
>she wants to do an extracurricular activity
>i was thinking band, daughter accepts
>musical influences from both sides of the family, her dad plays piano, I never did but wish i did, my dad knows a variety of instruments
>my mom (daughter's grandma) is very nosy and freaks out that we do nothing right
>mom doesn't want her to play an instrument for fucked up reasons
>"its for ugly people"
>"for socially inept people"
>stupid shit like that
>we bought my daughter an instrument for christmas
>my mom is having a shit fit
>brings up "horror stories" of her friend's daughter being bullied hard for being a girl in band
My mom has influences on my daughter. Very manipulative influences. She'll tell my daughter things like "You don't want to do that do you?" enough to make my daughter confused, eager to please the adults around her, and she'll sway her decision on something.
It pisses me off to no end, but my husband and I are still going to continue getting my daughter lessons, and sign her up for band. We've told my mom on multiple occasions that we think this is the right fit for our child. She doesn't stop.
What else can I do? My daughter is very interested in the instrument, but she is also easily swayed. My mom is unavoidable since I work with her and she is our closest family living to us.
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>>16629499
>"mom is unavoidable"
This is the problem. Your mom believes there can be no consequences, so she does as she pleases.
You should tell your mom that the little girl enjoys the instrument, and that THAT is what is important. If your mother starts back with the "BUT IT'S FOR SOCIALLY ENEPT..." Tell her that there will be consequences if she interferes. This is YOUR child. Do NOT allow your mom to BULLY and MANIPULATE your little girl.
Tell your mother that she may have good intentions by trying to prevent the little girl from getting bullied, but by crushing her dreams and discouraging her, the grandmother would be the one being the bully. Tell her that family should ALWAYS be supportive, and that the little girl should decide whether or not she wants to pursue the instrument by her own accord.
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wow this sounds like an extremely toxic relationship, I'd say your priority should be finding a way to get out of it
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>>16629499
Explain to your mom how learning an instrument is beneficial for your child. This page explains the benefits of letting a child learn music: http://www.sheknows.com/parenting/articles/814331/10-reasons-why-your-child-should-play-a-musical-instrument-1
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So I found a used condom under my bed sheets and I'm not sure what do to.
It was either my parents or my sister and her bf. Should I confront them? Or hope this was a one time thing and save myself the awkwardness.
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At the very least, it's unhygienic to leave that shit lying around, so I'd be sure to bring it up to make sure I don't have to deal with that grossnasty thing ever again.
But then again, I don't consider it a moral imperative to not interfere with sexual relations like most people my age.
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your sister put it under your bed so your parents wouldn't think you were a virgin weirdy when they walked in your room
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leave a note on each person's bedroom about it
that way you won't put yourself in a awkward situation and whoever did it will be aware
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Should I break up with my GF of 3 years? 2016-01-01 00:33:17 Post No.16627316
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Should I break up with my GF of 3 years?
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She's staying with her family for Xmas (abroad) and back this weekend. I'd planned to propose to her when she gets back on Sunday, but now I'm thinking about it I'm not sure it's the best idea for the future.
We had the best 6 months of my life at the start. Amazing sex/jokes/cuddles/everything. We moved in together and have been living together ever since. We even bought a house this summer.
We've spent most of this time arguing. We have sex about once a month (it's still good when it happens) and I do all the housework. She doesn't want kids (I do) and she does want a dog (I don't).
Am I just getting cold feet? What do?
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>We even bought a house this summer.
You're already married to her financially.
>We have sex about once a month (it's still good when it happens) and I do all the housework. She doesn't want kids (I do) and she does want a dog (I don't).
Housework thing depends on your arrangement. If she works full-time and you work part-time or go to college, then you should do the housework. If both of you work equally much outside the house, then you should also work equally much inside.
How important are having kids to you? Try to see if you can con her into wanting a baby, dunno. Drag her to places with lots of cute babies or something. If that doesn't work, ditch her.
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Sounds like you're her bitch
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>>16627339
I am her bitch.
I work 8-5 (she 9:30-5:30) and always manage to have dinner ready for her by the time I get home. I do this ostensibly because I love her and want to make her happy, she doesn't make me do it. I thought that she loved me just as much, but she's barely spoken to me on this two-week holiday, which has been a bit of an eye-opener.
I also shelled out 75% of the money for the house. She will take the 25% I'm sure if we split, but sunk costs etc. Can't let that affect my decision.
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There's this grill I've been talking to, and I'm starting to think I'm developing feelings for her and she's definitely into me. I'm just not sure it would be good for either of us for a few reasons, especially where we are in our lives.
Wat do.
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Kylo Pegasus (ID: !!4nagLPzwxlE)
2016-01-01 00:41:29
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>>16627312
Prep her bull
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>>16627312
Wow bro, real specific. How's about you elaborate on some of those reasons. We aren't omniscient.
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>>16627312
make a list of the pros. make a list of the cons. decide whats best based on that list.
Hey /adv/, do you have pets? I've never had one but adopted a six months old cat about two days ago after dweling on the subject for about a year. Should have been great but so far it has given me nothing but anxiety. I'm not feeling attached and have no idea what to do with her.
Everyone knows I have a cat already but how bad would it sound if I gave up and brought her back to the shelter or something?
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if you have anxiety for an animal that basically takes care of itself then you got some problems you need to deal with
i suggest you to stay with it a few more days
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>he fell for the cat meme
enjoy your shit "pet" that attacks you whenever you try to show affection
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> Met a qt at college
> No experience on dating
> Asked female friend for advice
> She tells me to ask her out and confess a week after via chat
> Ask the qt out and she agreed
> Great date
> A week passes and I confess
> She stops texting
What now?
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>>16629291
How did you confess?
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You find a different qt to confess to, you dumb faggit.
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>>16629302
Something like "Hey, I like you, I want to know you better, what do you say? "
I don't remember exactly, but I didn't said anything like "I love you"
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Debilitating fear of roaches 2016-01-01 00:26:39 Post No.16627301
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Debilitating fear of roaches
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2016-01-01 00:26:39
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Well gang, its NYE and instead of showering and getting prepped for a pubcrawl, im waiting for my gf to get home to remove a roach from our shower. Not only do i hate these fuckers, but i hate having to kill them. As in, i can't bring myself to smash it and be done with it, because i feel like its morally wrong.
Please tell me theres a way to overcome this, /adv/. No other insect, reptile or creature on earth scares me, but roaches make me shudder.
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>mfw im the same way with spiders
HE'S JUST LIVING HIS LIFE
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So this is going to sound like a dumb question but here it is. Can precum get a girl pregnant? I had sex last night but wasn't all that into it. I had the intention of pulling out but never got that far. From what I've heard semen can linger in precum from fap sessions. Last fap was two days ago. This has got me worried now and i'm getting pretty paranoid....
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Kylo Pegasus (ID: !!4nagLPzwxlE)
2015-12-31 23:57:07
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>>16627222
You're both pregnant now
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>>16627224
Cheers bro
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Yes it can, but fucking GOOGLE IT NEXT TIME YOU FAG