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Would it help to realize that everyone feels exactly the same way? Everyone else is getting rudely bumped or shoved, everyone's head and ears hurt and everyone is just as awkward around new people as you are. They're also just as self-conscious about dancing with strangers.

All of that having been said, some people just inexplicably enjoy the experience. Some don't. If you give yourself the most honest opportunity to try it out when you get curious and it fails to deliver, there's no problem with shrugging and walking away. The way to do that best is to be cool about the decision and still motivated to find satisfying ways to spend your time.

>>16630485
alcohol

Bump, same here.

>>16627971
i think the word youre looking for is 'harassment'

You know the answer as well as I do.

You probably even know the reason why human bully, or if you dont you should be able to extrapolate it by now.

He is doing society a favour, you will either leave society or step the fuck up.

Its up to you.

>>16627971
what's he doing exactly? how does shit like this even happen at your age? right now you just sound like a huge pussy.

>>16630482
That's an ornamental vase that was made out of mirroresque plastic which was then shattered, then a layer of acrylic glaze was placed over it to seal in the cracks so it retains its form.

You could find one at any home design/decor store. It's not impressive nor expensive. She probably paid about 25 bucks for it.

It's ugly as fuck. She probably got it as a cringy present once and would be happy to know you smashed it. Just tell her, say sorry and show up with an actually nice looking replacement next time

>>16630482
It's an oil burner. You can get them for about a tenner.

>>16627969
>Anyone dislike how they approach porn?
Get different porn.

>>16627991
I dont think that is the answer.

I will certainly delete it all next time I dont feel so alone. There is no section worth keeping, but I'm just building up to actually believing that.

I want to masturbate and get it over with, hopefully not spend an hour a day or more masturbating and looking at porn.

>>16630440
Beat his ass first.

>>16630453
You don't understand he'd kill me, unless I have a advantage like a bat or gun. I deserve the beating. I'm 18 and he's 27

A man takes a beating when he has it coming

Do you like Grimes OP? I listened to nothing but artangels while studying for winter finals/doing projects.
> Inb4 pleb

>>16627947
If you're a guy then yes it's weird. The main reason you like them is because you think they're cute.

protip: most of the actually good female singers aren't objectively attractive because they aren't trying to sell an image to weirdos like you.

Move on.

Happy New Year.

My life is a fucking joke, how could I think that actually saying how you feel would solve anything?! Tthis isn't fucking wonderland, I'd have to lie about everything to be with such a women, be everyone but myself. One time in my life I open up and shit goes to hell immediately

>>16627953
yes, the world is full of rejection. its why people fear failure and rejection a shitton.

happy new year

drink and forget about tomorrow

You know that thing that makes you really uncomfortable. Learn to be comfortable around it. Can't jump right into it, then take baby steps, work your way up. It takes time to build up confidence, but it can be done.

>>16627945

act like you are having a good time. if you are not, you might as well go home. pretending to have a good time when you are intent on not having one does no one any good.

>what to talk about

generally, whatever is being discussed. by your own account you are in the corner, so go up to a friend (dont pretend you stumble into random parties where you know literally no one) and just listen to whats being said. if its of interest, contribute. if you are not knowledgable, ask more question.

for instance
>yeah bruh, the new halo game is sick
>'oh i never played halo. is it any good? what really makes it different than cowadoody?

She knows you are there dude.

You are the guy who exists in her life to prop up her ego.

If what you want is a relationship you need to tell her thats she either gets that or nothing.

Real talk.

>>16627950
Thanks for being real. You probably just saved me from falling into the friendzone. How should I go about "telling" her? In-person sounds ideal to me, so should I take her out and tell her or what? Do it after a date so her opinion of me is good?

>>16627974
Whatever you think it's best. Not that anon, but I think you shouldn't beat around the bush with it, there's never a perfect moment. Just good moments and you'll still have to take the leap. Think strongly about what it is you want and when you talk to her be honest about it, but the way you say things can have a good impact on how it turns out, so be sure to bring your A game. Might sound a bit contradicting to be honest and try to impress her at the same time... but hey just try to say the things you want to say in the most charismatic and convincing way you can come up with.

go up and say "hi, i've been seeing you around. what's your name"?

>>16627941
Well, we know each other exist, so we know each other's names at least. Besides that, I know she does play stuff, some instrument, some physics club, and is in my philosophy club. That's about it.

make animation stuff
sell it to people

>>16627933
More details?

>>16627908
animation student here

i feel like animation is one of those things you'd actually need some formal training on. of course, you can train yourself to be good at it if you're dedicated enough, but a school will give you all the resources, tech, training, and theory you need; especially if you go to a good school. good opportunity to meet other animators and network with others.

if you think you have proficient enough skills, you can try to apply to some local animation studios. you'll need a solid portfolio though.

i don't think the degree is necessary, but you should be able to work the programs and be able to draw on model at the very least.

>>16627902
It's the big normal spoon for eating

If you'd rather serve your food with it instead of eating with it then it's too big. If you can shove it up your nose, or more helpful, you'd rather use it to serve sugar, salt or caviar with it or stir your tea or coffee with it, it's too small.

tl;dr it's a tablespoon, but I'm sure similar sized spoons would work just right, the medication that would use a measurement like that probable has a pretty flexible dosage range.

>>16627902
It's the spoon you would use for soup or cereal eating, not for stirring drinks.

>>16627881
lol

Take off your glasses and stop scrunching up your face. Also don't dress in the fashion of hipster-lite.

You just aged some. It's not ugly.

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>>16630407
Keep it up and in another 5 years you'll look like this.

Lose the fucking retarded glasses. You look like shit with them. EVERYONE would look like shit with them, for that matter. Start dressing like an adult, wear contacts and you'll be average Asian male tier.

Have you told her you are going to call her? Have you called her last year? Do you usually call or text her more?

She's taking out her frustrations for not being there to spend it with you in person. That's not reasonable, but it's pretty common for people to translate their frustrations into personal fault. You'll live a very lonely life if you can't learn patience with this sort of stuff.

Apologize once, take her on a nice date to make up for it, take her home afterwards, and fuck her good. Problem resolved. women 101 t-b-h