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Told to look for 'weird girls' 2015-12-31 21:06:48 Post No.16626799
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So, I've been told that I'm much more compatible with 'weird' girls than normies, and upon looking back, it is true. I had two romantic partners in the past and both were very unusual introverted awkward would-be shutins. Both were bi, one was a complete flaming weeb and the other was a dedicated fan of other niche items, both had some strange sex/kink stuff, etc.
The kind of weird I'm compatible with is by no means the Tumblr weird, but the Women-On-/r9k/ weird. (Yes, there are women on /r9k/, and a surprising amount.)
And I'm sad to admit it, but Women-on-/d/ weird is what I'm looking for too.
I'm interested in finding another partner- I would find it a stretch to call it 'looking'. If I were to look, I have no real idea of where to look. The anime club I was in for a while had a lot of tumblr-weird people, and then girls with rainbow hair (who were making out with each other), but none that I saw desirability in.
Any ideas or comments are appreciated as to where to look for these. I work at a dickfest place and barely go to school anymore, but my school is not only overrun with the worst kind of normies, but is a 110% dickfest in my subject area as well.
>inb4 you're fat ugly neet
18/M, employed and in school, introvert with social skills and overactive sense of humor, saying I'm not able to find a partner as I am is just objectively untrue.
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nah i get. the best i can recommend is trying to create area code meet up threads on thoseb oards and see what happens (Assuming they dont have them already, i know places like /v/ and /x/ do once in awhile).
other than that, try going to meet up dot com and looking for really niche things that interest you that other introverted type girls might be at as well. keep in mind this is a fine tuned hunt so it can take a long time to find a girl like this, let alone a girl. but if you are out interacting with people who enjoy the niche things you do, it shouldnt be much trouble.
you can also go to the local game and nerd type shops and ask about events, but those tend to bring out more normie type 'lul im such a geek :DDD' type girls, whereas going to a meet up specifically for buffy fans will bring you to the 'im so hardcore i just want ots it around and talk about buffy all day' type girls.
as an example
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Try soc. worked for me. I'm into similar women and found my current gf on soc. however you have to be alpha/have value because manyen will be after them.
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>>16626835
The weeb one was off /adv/, so yes, I understand. But that seems thirsty, does it not? A lot of those 'men' will fuck anything that moves.
>>16626819
I think that would get me b& faster than posting CP. If I posted a meetup thread on /d/, /c/ or /r9k/ (The last of which I don't go to), I'd be told to take that shit to /soc/.
And even therein, the meetup threads for my state (when they show up and 404 with 10 replies) have never given anything.
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So I was messaging this girl for a while, and eventually I asked if she was single, which she was. Straight after I asked her if she wanted to see a movie, to which she happily responded yes.
We had a good time and went our ways, then I realised I forgot to ask for her number, so I decided to message her and ask for it. No response after like 10 hours, so I ask her about something unrelated, which she responds to. After that I ask for her number again, and she says something like "Sure, but we're just friends right?". At this point I'm pretty pissed off, I say something like "That wasn't what I intended", so she tries to justify her actions because "it's complicated as some guy she hasn't spoken to for a while started messaging her again".
I'm more pissed off that she lead me on for so long, only to drop me the second this guy came along. Why do women have to be like this? :(
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>>>/r9k/. But really though, if you don't want anything to do with her that isn't a romantic relationship, tell her that and be on your way. Then get over it. I've done that before.
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This doesn't sound that bad. We don't know for sure if she liked you at the movies anyway. It's hard to be honest, that's why she didn't give you an answer the first time you asked for her number. Even then she told you fairly early on. There's stories like this that involve multiple trips to the movies, dinners, which is closer to bring led on then yours. Your level of annoyance is disproportionate to what happened and is why girls have a hard time being honest.
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>>16626019
>Why do women have to be like this? :(
This isn't a woman thing.
If the woman of your dreams suddenly came back into your life, the girl you would be currently talking to would be a lot less interesting
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Does anyone have any experience with balanitis simplex?
I've recently contracted a few small sores on my benis, probably caused by using a too strong soap.
Is a steroid cream necessary to assist in getting rid of it? If so, how long?
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You should not be using soap on your benis.
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Earlier today I took a dump and found blood in my shit along with some mucus. This isn't something new for me as I've hemorrhoids for years. I never bothered to go get checked because I find the idea of someone looking at or messing with my asshole less than thrilling, plus it didn't hurt or anything.
But today I lost enough blood to feel uncomfortable, though I can't tell if it was because of the amount of blood or the sight of it in the toilet. Anyway, I want to get checked in case there's something more sinister going on. I've been googling for over an hour now about causes and treatment of various possible issues but I can't find what kind of doctor I should see. All articles and entries mention "your doctor" as if there's some general ass-and-digestive-track doctor. The symptoms point to a variety of possible problems, almost each relevant to a different doctor specialty.
At least the blood is bright red which means the problem (if it's something other than hemorrhoids) isn't very high up the ass.
I'll keep searching but what kind of doctor do you guys think I should go to?
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>>16626790
Your normal GP that you see for regular stuff will check you or will give you a referral
They will probably just give you some cream and tell you to eat more fibre though
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I hope this is your post, J. Because no one deserves to bleed out the ass more than you, bitch.
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I did it /adv/... I stood my ground yesterday against her using my kindness as weakness. How do I keep myself from budging?
I keep telling myself I made the right decision but I'm constantly plagued with thoughts on how rude it was for me to not let her use me once again and how I should change my mind.
There is a constant battle in my head and I feel like if she speaks to me at the wrong moment today I might change my mind.
>tl;dr: girl constantly uses my good/giving nature to obtain money from me with nothing in return. It's like I'm a sugar daddy but completely platonic.
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Just don't talk to her m9.
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>>16626001
1. Ask her when she's gonna repay you.
2. Watch her flip out.
Congratulations, you don't feel any kindness towards her anymore.
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What are you going to watch tonight, anons?
I'll be with my girl alone and we don't know what to watch to spend the night up! Some saga or filmography would be the best!
Help!
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Kylo Pegasus (ID: !!4nagLPzwxlE)
2015-12-31 15:12:04
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>I'll be with my girl alone
>with
>alone
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>>16625988
>tripfag
>trip
>faggot
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>>16625988
Well clearly OP's girl is >pic related
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How do you do it? How do you block out that voice in your head that says "You're shit" whenever you make a mistake while you're trying to get better at something?
I'm trying to learn the violin. I had a teacher for a few months, but we didn't really get along - she was a bit of a bitch and didn't appreciate how busy I was with work/uni and that practicing in my house was difficult. Eventually gave up, but I've always wanted to pick it up and try again.
The problem is, no matter how hard I try I can't stop myself from feeling like shit whenever I make a mistake. I'll play a note wrong, out of tune, or it'll sound horrible or I'll play over my bridge or any other number of problems. And I get it, I know I'm learning so I should be patient with myself. And I chose a difficult instrument to learn, one that takes a lot of practice to get good at. I know I should just soldier through it and keep trying.
It's just fucking impossible. Every wrong note is "You're shit, give up" and not "Keep trying". I can tell myself I'm a learner. I can tell myself the violin is hard. But I always end up saying to myself that I'm shit, that I'll never learn it etc. So how the hell am I supposed to do it? How am I supposed to be able 26 years (more or less) of constant low self-esteem and self-berating every time I fuck something up? I just want to be able to say to myself "You know what? You're good at this." Sure, I can play the drums reasonably well. But it's not the same thing. I want to be able to do the grades, get good and be able to show people that I'm actually worth more than the worthless piece of shit I think I am. Is that so fucking difficult?
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>>16626773
there isnt much we can say other than suck it up. this is one of the parts of advice that boil down to your inner workings and having to man up and work through it.
to be honest i feel like you a LOT of the time. i do have high moments where im mesmerized by what I manage to make. but nine out of ten days im hating myself and thinking im never gonna make something worth watching and that im wasting my time.
but then the next day i do it again even if it sucks. learning is the only way to get better. no one was born perfect.
so the best advice i can offer is
>get over it
thats a given
>positive re enforcement.
before you sit down to practice, write down on a piece of paper 'I'm getting good'. look at that paper everytime you mess up, cuz as soon as you mess up, you know how to fix that mistake. smile when you get that note right that time. acknowledge when you DIDNT make a mistake you made before.
>practice one song
practicing one song is a great way to build confidence. you are mastering a single song, getting every note right. once oyu get that one song right, you can play it perfectly, its amazing.
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Give yourself a break. If you don't make mistakes, you are not human.
Sending you a big hug.
And probably the worst video I could think of.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCpZ6aX7aRE
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>>16626784
>i do have high moments where im mesmerized by what I manage to make
Lucky.
>>positive re enforcement.
I don't feel like that kind of shit works for me though. I mean I've never really tried but it just seems like cheesey bullshit. But I guess there's no harm in trying. It's just so frustrating when you fuck up over and over and over again and feel like there's no sign of improvement. I'm just feeling so fucking shit right now. Like worse than usual. So I'm probably just ranting. But thanks anyway anon. It just sucks.
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what should i do this evening? 2015-12-31 14:41:31 Post No.16625884
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what should i do this evening?
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Nerdish last night of the year
> Lord of the rings
> S.O.M.A.
Never seen/played them
what would you choose?
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>>16625884
>never saw LOTR
Underage b&
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>>16625885
>tripfag talking shit
Haven't seen LOTR aswell and I'm well off it. Go be a mainstream nigger somewhere else, tripfag.
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>>16625905
Who are you quoting?
Someone please help me. It's an emergency. I'm a complete ignorant with food. I put a bread in the microwave. Soon after, smoke came out. I opened the microwave and a bunch of smoke came out. I opened the windows. It smells horrible. I'm scared of suffocation and starting a fire. What should I do? The microwave keeps making ticking sounds. Please help me fast.
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>>16626738
you turned it off yeah? just keep everything open and wait
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Eat it quick. It won't burn the house down if it's in your stomach.
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>>16626738
Oh shit I think I might die better post on 4chan.
Lol grab salt and throw it in there if you are worried about fire
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So right now I'm living in the same house as my sister and her boyfriend, along with their baby.
I'm going to be 20 soon and I'd like to buy my first car so I can get a different job and potentially go to community college. I have about $4,500 saved up and I'm trying to spend it as wisely as I can.
The problem is, there's no other car at our house. My sis and her bf have been borrowing this other car from a friend for the past year or so, but the friend is now going to take the car away from us(plus the insurance and registration tags have already expired, so they shouldn't be driving it anyway, but they are..)
That would mean that if I bought a car, they would be fucking swarming me every day and asking me to borrow the car. I don't want that. I want my car to be my car. I would be paying $250 a month in insurance alone, plus gas and repairs.
My sister has at least one DUI on her record, and her boyfriend is a complete stoner type who I don't fully trust. They have a baby and they're going to need transportation to their jobs, but I don't want to be the one to depend upon for that.
So now I'm feeling stuck. I feel like I can't get a car because I can already see all the issues it's going to cause between everyone. I can't move out, as I don't make enough money to be able to do that. Am I being selfish here? What do I do..
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Wait, so they have jobs, but they can't buy their own fucking car?
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>>16626708
Unless you're paying them rent, they will use the car as they like for let you stay with them for 'free'.
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When you get the car establish clear boundaries that if you need it for school or your own shit, that comes first. I think if you explain it as you're trying to better yourself and be more of an adult they'll have to respect that.
And maybe if they see you handling your shit, they'll get their shit together.
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I met a girl randomly, we hit it off talking for 3 hours about random stuff and then we had to part ways. She asked me to add her on snapchat, so I did, and before we split, she told me to add her on facebook. I tried adding her on facebook and I can't add her or even message her. Is it even worth the trouble to try and contact her to add her on facebook? She goes to school 3 hours away and lives 45 minutes from me when she's home from school, so this isn't something that would work out long term I'm thinking.
inb4 hurr durr facebook
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*try and contact her through snapchat saying I can't add her
and I don't think she blocked me because she never pulled out her phone in front of me and I tried adding her in front of her and it wasn't working already
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2015-12-31 14:41:29
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>>16625873
I don't think you think much
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>>16625883
oh i know i think to much.
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Spending NYE with ex-gf 2015-12-31 14:14:30 Post No.16625829
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So, it goes like this:
>my friends always gather for drinks on NYE, we go to a beach, get brutally wasted, usually flirt with some chicks
>we've done that since 2010
>Suddenly nobody is going
>I have no plans, and my two brothers are going out, I don't want to stay at home
>Been talking to my ex-gf, highschool sweetheart, at the time she was a 6/10 (no ass, no tits, just pretty), she grew up to be a 7.5-8/10.
>we broke up because of shit (2009), started talking to each other 2 years later
>talking with her through whatsapp, she tells me ''hurr hurr, I don't have plans for NYE, all my friends left me''
>thisismyshot.png
>''why don't we go together?''
>she says ''yes!''
So, we're basically going to get wasted, alone. Thing is, my foreplay game is bad. any advice on getting me laid? It's definitely gonna happen, but I want to make the right moves.
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Op just try to remember why is she your ex-gf.
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>ex-gf
She fucked a thousand other guys when you were together, then she fucked two thousand more after you broke up.
AND NOW YOU WANT TO SPEND TIME WITH HER?
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>>16625915
chill dude, I just wanna smash
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How can I handle being alone on New Years Eve? Long story short one of my friends pulled a really low move and fucked me over for our NYE plans, and now I have nothing to do but stay home tonight. All I can think about is how everyone I know is out partying and having fun while I'm stuck at home doing nothing because some ass hole decided to fuck me over.
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>>16626675
Do you play games cause that's what I'm gonna do maybe we could do something bud
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I'm gonna go out by myself. It's still fun to be in that atmosphere. Up to you bro. Otherwise just treat it like another night. Don't have to do shit.
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>>16626675
Don't stress it bro, you have no idea how many people stay at home alone on NYE, that's why twitter and different sites are flooded with respective tweets
I broke up with my gf only a few weeks before Christmas and NYE, so this NYE is especially difficult for me
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ty for looking and commenting (((:
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>>16625815
preferably go to /g/. It will work out better anon.
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>>16625825
ty anon
Dear /adv/,
I fucking despise this site. I hate how everyone here thinks they can get away with anything they want and thinks their the hottest shit on the planet for being a asshole, who thinks he's cool for being edgy and ignorant.
I feel pain every time I go to this website, and there's no other options, as I go on the media boards to talk about media, but I feel like those boards are tainted by the cruelty of 4chan.
I want this site to die. How do I destroy it?
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are you 12??
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>>16625813
Buy it and then close it or just locate the servers and destroy them. But it won't really matter as the people will keep doing the same shut just in another site, thus I suggest you to chill and just appreciate the 'good' or not that bad part of the site anon.
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>>16625813
Reasonable, empathetic, kind people could only agree with this.
I am an extremely sensitive person, especially regarding sexual humiliation, which is the hallmark of 4chan.
Why do I continue to torture mysefl?
This place is addictive.