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Which girl would get the guy
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You posted this same shit yesterday. Nobody cares.
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>>16626623
They both would because they'd take turns fucking him while both of the beta males who are in love with these woman sit in the other room getting plastered to the sounds of the raunchy sex happening in the other room.

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>Go out for new years
>See girl in orange short shorts
>Talk about how it was the highlight of the night
>Girl I know in Russia I've been talking to (and I know likes me) gets really mad, says I post about some random girl and never about her

What the fuck do I even do about this? I said I'd go visit her in Russia eventually, but whenever she gets mad, she gets ultra manipulative and tries to make me feel guilty. Hell, I post once about some stranger and she reacts like this.

I haven't even met her in person and she acts like this when I talk about other women. I can only imagine how miserable she'd make me if I got married to her. Should I just tell her that I'm not going to follow through with it?
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To those of you who have ever attempted suicide - what was it like? Share your stories.
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>>16626491
OP why don't you it yourself and report back to us your findings?
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>>16626491
Dude, dont run away

Do cool shit

Crash a New years eve party
Browse /fit/ get fit
Run away go somewhere cool
learn japanese you weeb
do something stop moping
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>>16626491
Suicide is a really shitty thing. The intrusive thoughts and eventually it becomes a comforting thought. Which is absolutely sick.

Let me tell you something, OP.

Whatever you do, do NOT attempt it because if you do and you DONT die it is shitty and painful and will leave you feeling like you're an even bigger failure.

I tried so many times and almost succeeded twice. Totally fucked me up.

But, now I'm doing things like talk therapy and exercise to cope with it all. It works, OP. It gets better but takes time and determination.

I am finally going on dates because I feel like I'm worth something. Don't give in and don't give up.

Fight back and do things to make you realize how good life is.

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Why am I supposed to congratulate attention-whoring fucks at work for getting pregnant or getting someone pregnant? How is this an accomplishment in any shape or form?
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>>16626481
How about you stop being a faggot and just say congrats even if you don't mean it? Welcome to office culture, sperglord. Get used to it or to pick up an idiot stick like all those other fucks who can't figure out basic social interactions
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it's not
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Because women celebrate a permanent excuse to not work

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I'm very antisocial.

What do you do when you walk by someone on your way home? It's a very weird moment for me especially since they are neighbors or people from the same street but I just pass by and Starr straight ahead and I know they look at me .
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If they have a friendly expression on their face, say hello. Exchange a few words maybe.

If not just confidently stroll where you are going.

You're putting a lot of thought into a moment that lasts for about 5 seconds and is forgotten by the end of the day.

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I booked a hotel room tonight in NYC with my bro and hopefully we'll pull some poon back to the hotel but I just realized our room has a "max of two people"

Did we fuck up? Can we still have 4 people in the room even if it's only for 2 people?
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>>16626452
nigga that rule is basically meant to be broken
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I don't know nothing about hotel. But can't you just ask someone that works in the hotel?
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Fuck your friend, desu

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>I'm a 19 year old ex fatty that just got a gf 6 months ago
>This girl was in a relationship with one of my friends but I didn't give a fuck and just slept with her
>Shit hits the fan as he finds out
>I think no problem as i didn't like hiding stuff from anyone
>Gf is shitting her pants and doesn't want to let him go, still sees him and talks to him regularly and it pisses me off
>The dude fucks another chick and she gets mad and rumbles on that she's gonna destroy her life or whatever
>My mom doesn't like her and she's really emotionally needy and unstable and it stresses me out
>Can't sleep and can't concentrate but i can't leave her because i'd feel guilty about breaking her and the guy up and also she buys me shit, not shit that I want or need or asked for but at least she's not a gold digger
>Finally have enough yesterday, tell her I don't want to spend New Years with her
>She says that she cancelled all the plans she had so she could stay with me and gets really sad and weird
>I still say no, but I feel guilty about leaving her alone, and am thinking about inviting her to my friends house but I don't know if i should continue this

What do I do /adv/?
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>>16625766
Confusion always gets the best of us we all feel it deep i side our human minds.

As an alien out of space my advise to you is that you should avoid feeling so insecure about yourself and the world around you since your human you wont listen but do the things in life that benefit you and not others youre young the world has no walls you have an unlimited potentual use it while you can.
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>>16625804
Thank you for the advice mister alien man!

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I'm 22. I was messing around on Tinder and matched with an 18 year old who's actually 16. I'm not going to lie; I find her sexually attractive. I have no interest in dating her but I would like to fuck her brains out just for the experience. Doing so is completely legal in my country.

Is it still wrong?
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>>16625765
Do what you feel right if shes willing to comply then take the chances life give you but you have to remember the more you take the more is taken from your life.

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Any cute ideas to still feel connected to my bf on new years even? He's on vacation and i miss him so much...
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>>16626272
Send him nekkid pics begging for him to come home and dick you down
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>>16626285
Nah, i jump on his dick at every occasion anyways. I thought about not making it sexual for once
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I'm in the same boat as you. Probably going to skype with each other and exchange resolutions. I wish I had some more ideas of what we could do together though.

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How do you self-learn or teach yourself independly a new skill? Even more interested in learning a university course all by yourself in a faster amount of time.
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Lynda.com

Most schools use it anyway.
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>>16625764
Get a book on it and read it or just search the net about it. When you know the basics o it try to use or just practice the skill til you master it. That is pretty much it I guess you'd differed in what you do for each skill and shit you want to learn.
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>>16625764
Basically what the anon above me said
get books, resources, learn what you can and practice.

depends what you want to learn. In all cases you can theoretically teach yourself but its good to have a peer that knows what their doing. So see if you can get courses or acquainted with someone over email or private lessons etc. Something so that you have someone to critique you.

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hi /adv friends,

Im sitting here and I dont know what resolutions to give myself. Honest and good resolutions pls
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>>16626169
Become a better artist for me
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brush ur teeth everyday, once in the morning once at night
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What the hell do we know? It's your life and you know what needs improvement. My suggestion is to stick to things you want to do "more" instead of tyings you want to do "less". Iow learning more will be easier than smoking less. You get the idea?

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Girlfriend won't stop lying about silly things.
Started with making up her past, telling me shit that had happened that never really did happen. Then i found out one day, she told me the "whole truth" of course it still had it's holes, years later and i found out a lie she had been keeping. She swore for the last few months that was the last of it, Only recently i found out another stupid lie. What do i do? I really love her, but she just won't stop telling lies to me, i've gave her a million chances and pushed her so hard to be honest with me. but it feels nothing will ever work.
I wan't to stay with her, and i can't leave her. what do i do /adv/

The lies are mostly shit about the past crap like "I watched porn once, i went on cam once, i slept with a guy" these things turn out to be true or not true. It just sucks and i wish she'd be honest with me.
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>>16625751
Sounds like she's a pathological liar, which is definitely indicative of mental illness, especially since they seem to be about pointless minutiae. If it was me I'd tell her that I would stay with her only if she saw a therapist.
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>>16625751

People like that are self-sabotaging and self-destructive

Don't stick around

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I don't see why I shouldn't kill myself. I'm miserable all the time and my life is going no where.
People always seem to tell me things indicating that my life is worth too much, but to who? Certainly not me. If my friends and family are happy being around my miserable self then that's good for them but it doesn't help me at all.
Obviously the very act of posting this here indicates that part of me doesn't want to kill myself, but it won't be very long until that part of me is forced to reconcile its feelings with my life and when that happens I'll really kill myself.
Today is not that day obviously, that's a little later this week. Until then I was hoping someone could explain to me this concept of inherent human worth and try to convince me that my life is worth living.
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>>16625746
Save money and travel outside your comfort zone see the world for what it is and not what you want to be as is.

Sometimes youre the dog
Sometimes youre the tree

Learn to never control who you are and just be.
Control is an ego that slowly kill us within so cut it
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>>16625754
I can't save my money because I don't have any income. I can't get a job because no one wants to hire me, and my fear of people and rejection makes applying for jobs and job interviews extremely anxiety inducing.
I don't mean to be rude but I don't understand most of this post.
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>>16625746
So I've got news for you; everyone's life is going nowhere. You think anything will be left of the current 7 billion people in 200 years?

The only difference between you and all those "happy" people is that you have to put a little more conscious effort into finding enjoyment.

So just accept that you may not be a great person and just try to get some enjoyment by being a so-so person. We all have a limited time as living things so do what you want and stop comparing yourself to other people who aren't in your shoes.

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I met a guy a year and half ago. I'm 23, he's 25.
We went out together for 8 months. He had never been in a committed relationship and kept saying that he wasn't my boyfriend. We clearly had feelings for each other and we were happy together anyway.
10 months ago, he got really depressed for unrelated reasons. He cut contact and disappears.
After a month we started talking again. He moved pretty far away from me. I help him dealing with his depression. Over time, he got better. He started going out with other girls, I stopped thinking about him romantically.
3 weeks ago, we talked on the phone. He apologized for all he did, said that he loves me and misses me. He also told me that I'm the only girl that keeps him interested, the only person he truly cares about and nothing would make him happier than being my boyfriend.
Last night he told me he's going to move close to me for work.

Should I give him another chance?
I really do like him, but I hate drama and this thing is already incredibly complicated.
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>>16625745
Avoid confusions for they pray on your soul and you wont know the truth.

Better knowing then guessing.
He will keep on dating other girls as soon as you turn a blind eye
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>>16625745
Man, you just gave me the mother of all flashbacks, save the genders are reversed.

I did it. It didn't end well, but I'm glad I did it and didn't spend a lifetime wondering. I would say the same for you but make sure you have a way out.
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>>16625770
I am terrified of getting invested in him and getting hurt again.
At the same time I know that he's one of the few people I felt strongly for (I'm quite "cold hearted") and I never got closure, because our relationship was relatively fine when he disappeared. I kept wondering how things would have been if he was in a better mental state. I've been waiting for this moment for months, and now that I have a chance to get him back I feel paralysed.

I am sorry that it didn't work for you, anon.

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I found out that most of my friends find me to be a quiet and gentle guy, to the point of absolute boredom. I used to be the hyperactive kinda guy due to ADHD, but in the recent years I have become self aware, mostly because of inconfidence. Now I am afraid to actually act out, feel awkward around active people and just don't know how to break away from being a boring guy. How do I become a more interesting, lively person?
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Next time you're around them, show them the dick.

I'm not even kidding; be -that- guy.

>2016
>find a reason
>make it happen
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Be spontaneous, be random, they'll fucking love you!
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TACOSS!!1!1!!

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