I'm stuck on 4Chan. Must finish my Research HW. Trying not to get distracted, but all the anons on /adv/ are hilarious. How. Do. I. Stop.
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>>Shameless bump
it is new years eve or day where you live just relax :)
imagine life working as a prostitute...
I'm a 20 year old woman wanting to make a little extra money. Just wanna know how easy it is to do so on a site like that? Or is it easier just to sell my pics privately or something? idk
>>16630291
I buy private photos. Post a dressed time stamped photo. We'll work something out
>>16630291
If you're talking about being a cam girl, I'm pretty sure you can do private shows. There's also footfags to cater to that wouldn't obligate you to expose yourself too much.
>>16630303
Also, I think some sites list you in the 'new' section in the first few months when you sign up, so you get more traffic that way.
Was waiting for a thread with my specific circumstance:
I'm not entirely in a bad position in life, but I'm unsure of where I should be.
I'm almost 31 working a retail job I've had for over 10 years. I've since met a girl and moved in an apartment for over 4 years now.
I'm honestly content with coming home from work and just sitting on the computer and playing video games.
But being almost 31, I question if I shouldn't be doing that anymore.
I have plenty that I want to do: games to play, books to read, TV shows to watch. I certainly can't get bored.
Basically I'm living like I am still 16, being cozy and not having any real concerns. Is this wrong though?
Yeah, nothing bad is happening, but should I be kicking life into high gear by going to school, getting some fancy career so that when something bad does happen, ill have something to fall back on?
I need perspective.
People don't change is my perspective. Most people don't change much at all past 16, they just get given the respect to sound as egotistical as they wanted to when they were know-it-all teens, if you see. That is why most successful people have sex, get their first jobs, hobbies, etc when teens.
if it will keep you happy and you wont feel like you missed out later, do what you do.
Unless your chick is low tier in terms of sexual value she will resent and leave you probably though. Its risky in that regard.
I also feel this. I like exactly where I am and most of my goals for self growth won't really change my day to day life much. Good job, stable finances, easily obtainable sex, entertainment, and such
How do I into asking the guy I fucked how it was? I really want a detailed critique, but I feel like he'll either lie or just be not detailed. Am I that wierd for wanting to know what I could improve on? It was my first time with a guy. I'm more of a ladies gal
>>16627776
if you have to ask...
you probably just arent going to get much of a response
>>16627776
just ask for honest critique. you should be able to tell if hes bullshitting (which i think most guys would unfortunately). personally, i enjoy critiquing and receiving critique in turn.
Recently accuired bf.
Now pls everybody post the cutest stuff somebody has ever done for them or vice versa for future reference. Also, things your SO did/said that made you want to hug them forever.
just give him a blowjob
>>16630220
Oh come on. That's so 2008
>>16630223
Right, we don't do that no more.
@ this point i'm not sure if this belongs in /fit/ or /adv/ but hell
so, i'm trying to figure out if i should keep losing weight or start trying to put on muscle. i'm currently 111.2, aiming to get down to around 95-100, and at 4'11. i've always liked the ~lithe look, but, i guess i also just defaulted to it since i'm pretty short and it seems like it would make the most sense.
i've lost weight without going to a gym (i run), but to gain muscle i'd need to spend some money on a gym or equipment, and so, in that case, i would be also in the market for some sort of work out buddy to help me out(not for motivation, i can motivate myself fine). but it just seems like a lot of commitment for results i may not want and i'm still not very comfortable with my body yet.
advice from anons?
>>16630185
Personal trainer here, what is your muscle goal? just to be stronger? to gain muscle in certain areas? bikini season?
>>16630185
Eat pizza. Drink beer. Sit on your fat ass. That's all you need to know.
you're a fucking midget, you should go lift so that you don't get stuck under the couch or some shit. I don't know why you think you need a friend to get muscles, but whatever. If I were 110lbs @ 4"11 I'd start trying to get a little muscle but not do anything crazy like eating more than I already do.
Hello /adv/, I need some tips and stuff from you!
Today I had a little party with my friends for the new year's eve, but other than the usual (male) friends there were also some girls that were relatives of some dudes there or something like that.
Well, there was one of them that looked pretty interessed on me, and it wasn't just a fantasy of a "beta virgin boy" but she talked about how my hair were nice, and spent minutes touching them, touching my ears, even my friends noticed it and joked about it a bit, I wasn't awkard with her even I am not great on those kind of things, probabily also because I'm unexperinced, well, the bad thing is that I couldn't stay more time with her and flirt a bit more because I had my little cousin with me so we had go earlier and also it's fucking awkard to flirt infront of your cousin.
The thing is: how do I approach her again? How can we get some private time maybe? She is probabily a slut and stuff, but hey, I just wanna get laid.
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Sorry for being poor at English but I'm Spanish.
>>16627745
Tio, habeis conseguido su numero del mobil? O la habeis agregado en el facebook?
I've been dating this girl for 9 months and we go to college next year seperate ones. Like 3 hours away. So we gonna try to stay together but i have a dilemma.so like she sent me a letter where it said she wants me to father her children and marry her. I really do love her but her sexual past irks me see I really did not focus on sex or relationships before but she has had multiple of both. Now she wants to transfer to my college sophmore year for me. ME getting sexually even for the sake of my own sanity is shallow but idk if I could be with her all my life when shes been around and ive only taken one step pls if you answer take all morality out of your answer
You have a (pretty common, I guess) obsession with sexual past.
Just for clarification, she is not a slut? She's just had more sex than you?
Some would say shes a slut and she told me about how she let guys just get with her its about 8 besides me
>>16630307
Yeah, scoring a few times isn't going to really make you experienced. I think it would boost your esteem and make you better at dealing with people...but it's not going to make you a player, in case you're afraid that's what she is -- a player?
Is it possible to turn an introvert to an extrovert?
Me being 20 beta af short dude i fucking hate having social anxiety and putting in so much effort to converse with strangers..id like to live my life like its a fucking buffet where i can taste everything, like people (esp women) but i fucking suck at small talk.
Im american stationed in europe and i love to travel but i fucking hate how i cant bring myself to meet the people of countries i visit. Im so god damn fucking quiet cause i never have something to say i dont get how people can talk about insignificant shit to strangers with such ease.
I hate being an anti social fuck.. how can i change??
>>16627725
It's too hard to ask how was your day? How do you work? Your coworkers must think you're a fucking weirdo. I used to be like you but how hard can it be for you to say how is it going? Just talk no one gives a fuck about you.
>>16627725
Op, don't worry about making small talk. Nobody likes it.
Here's the key to being a good conversationalist: be a good listener. People love to talk about themselves. Ask people about things you're interested in as well.
There are two acronyms to remember when asking people questions. Always use FORD (Family Occupation Recreation Dreams) and avoid RAPE (Religion Abortion Politics Economics)
Most importantly, give yourself time. You won't change overnight, it might take a while. Be patient and keep trying.
This is coming from a 21 y/o introverted grill.
Also you're qt and I would probably sweat bullets trying to talk to you.
from my experience, the hate you have about yourself being quiet usually makes things worse
treating yourself with compassion is something that can be helpful to you
gf fucked around in my phone and discovered I still use Tinder and didn't hear from here since this morning (20.20 now)
I did write her that I never cybersexed or asked out on a date anyone, I just wanted to mess around and have a talk.
I really love her and I want her to be the one, but I fucked up there. How do I come back? Are girls really bothered by something like that or she's just trying to make me feel guilty?
halp
You fucked up. I'd be gone. But then again, I wouldn't date a guy who even had a tinder in the first place. That was a mistake on her part.
>>16629980
>tinder
gross
>>16630006
This.
OP, I wouldn't date you either. If I was your gf, I would break up with you. Now accept the consequences
So I've got this friend who I've shared a class with for about 4 or 5 months, and we're pretty close. We've hung out quite a few times, but it seems Im always the one asking to hang out or texting her or that sort of thing. Im not romantically interested, but it still makes me feel a bit... unwanted I guess? Like she isnt really interested in me as a friend. She seems like she enjoys hanging out with me when we do, its just that I cant remember the last time she asked me to hang out. She has a bf, which may have something to do with it, but Im really not sure. She just doesnt seem to take the initiative to hang out outside of school.
>>16627678
Bump
>>16627678
girls with boyfriends are not friendship material.
I've lost a female friend to this before. It sucks. We still talk but very rarely.
Just move on. It's basically the same thing as her living in another city.
>>16627889
Aw
Really?
>dating best girl ever for a year
>she breaks up w me, calls an indefinite break about a month ago
>wants to focus on being an individual
>I can't not be with her
>demands that I treat her like a friend in public but we still have sex sometimes
>has no plan to become an individual and has made no progress whatsoever in the past month
>frequently tells me she loves me
How do I get her to take me back?
>>16629951
>>wants to focus on being an individual
Dumbest shit I've ever heard.
>>16629959
I know it doesn't mean anything and it's don't understand it and it makes me question why she dumped me
>>16629959
this.
Sounds to me like excuse to rationalize cheating or attempt to date someone else lol - "we weren't really dating, so it wasn't cheating."
1. Ask her to explain in detail what is her reasoning behind putting your relationship on a break. To make you understand.
2. Ask her how long is this going to take.
3. Ask her if she plans to date other people during that time. If so, put up a clear margin - either she is dating you or she is not. Don't let her fuck around with you anon.
Is it bad that I started talking (texting romantically) a girl I met at the mall a couple of days after I broke up with a girl I dated for a year?
>>16627651>>16627651
No, do whatever you want.
>>16627651
No.
It's fine.
You rock anon, keep doing what your doing.
10/10 for having confidence in a new girl after a relationship.
how do i get girls who aren't roasties?
Be more appealing.
>>16627647
surgery
>>16627647
Roasties? What is Roasties precious?
My boss is a jerk, shouts the whole day, im a graphic designer and community manager with 8 accounts on my charge and a i have from 8 to 11 am to finish a design with "creative text" for each account, then the rest of the day i have to design logos and shit, in less than 3 days. everything for $400 bucks each month. What should i do with the jerk? im tired and one day i'll throw my shit at him just for anything. (Sorry for bad english)
>>16627606
Quit? It sounds like shit job anyway
>>16627606
It is anon. But i need the money or me and my wife go homeless. And is very hard to find a new one, im from México and i don't have a school degree, just experience in the field.
Is that the average salary or pay in your field? because if it is, maybe you shouldn't be in there when you don't like the work load that comes with it.