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>>16782006

The photos you put up and the short description is key.
Are you asking about the actual chat though?

play it cool nigga, don't be too keen. Compliment their looks too, but only if you mean it nigga

>>16782030
Both, honestly.
I've only taken one good picture of me ever. I have a problem where I look great in the mirror but as soon as I take a picture of myself, I look like fucking dogshit.

>>16782031
That's the problem, I don't know how. I say "Hey" and even then sometimes I'll never get a message back.

>>16781968

Sounds like she's spent most of the last two decades just trying to keep things together, and now that she doesn't have to put in so much effort to do so she's feeling a void.

Give it some time.

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>>16781968

Kind off the same situation for me.

Except never moved or anything, dad left us when I was born and mom stayed alone for us.

While I do feel guilty, I've come slowly with the realization that It's not my responsability to carry this fault because it really isnt. Althought I influenced these decisions, they werent made by me.

And same thing applies to you. Its not up to you to carry this. You cannot lift the sadness of others. Its pointless really and will do nothing to change her situation.

One thing to keep in mind tho.

Look at her and see a possible of reflection of you. Come to terms with the potential solitude, the endless depression, the regret of not doing what you could have done and the horrors of getting old and not wanting to die.

Look at it from first hand and learn.

Ok now. You are NOT responsible for any of her decisions. I'm a single mom myself and i can tot understand your mom. But dang, blaming you is really off the grid. I mean, it wasn't your decision to be born. That was hers. It wasn't your problem that she had a disfunctional relationship with your dad. It was hers. She then decided to play the victim "oh poor me, that asshole dad left me and now i have to give myself up and only life for my child, bwaaaa". This is bullcrap. My son is 5. Sure, ONE of my goals is to be there for him and spend quality time with him. Guess what, quantity isn't the most importat thing. I work. Not 100%, but enough to lead a simple life. I'm going to go back to school next year. And it's absolutely possible. Even with a kid. And YOU def aren't to blame for her lacking relationships. Hell, you can have a phone call with yiur bff when the kid is asleep. You can still date! I really don't see the problem. Single moms that like to play victim are often just issue ridden idiots (no offense to your mom...). DON'T let this get to you. Yes, she's lonely. Yes, she's miserable. Yes, she feels as if she wasted her life. So what? A lot of people do/are. My dad is suicidal too. This isn't my fucking job. I'm there for him, but he had enough time to sort out his life. To bad he wasn't able to. Nothing i can do there.

>>16781867
Yes, because attaching a skin grafted monstrosity to your genitals and wearing male clothes is going to solve your life's problems

If they truly wished to be a man, then I suppose it would be fine.
If it was just because they looked like a boy but still felt like a girl, they should just use makeup/plastic surgery/ idk love themselves

No because any type of penis you get will suck, you'll suddenly have to deal with the extreme anger fueled by testosterone (guys grew up with it and got used to it).
Also people still don't really accept transgender. But if you want men to beat you up then rape you to show you that you're really a woman, go ahead.

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>>16781844
Being alone brings you closer to God

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>>16781844
Well, its normal to try and appear to have relevant tastes infront of people you're trying to impress, but its really all about being outgoing, and portaying yourself in a very professional and non faggy way.

Its not too hard you're probably just shy and insecure.

I'm the same way OP, but i very recently noticed that i started being more myself after hanging around people for a while.
Some of them stop talking to me after a while but some stay and those are my real friends.

I think it will all work out over time, especially if you act 2 different ways with 2 different people and hang out with both of them.

Shameless bump
:^(

>>16781843
With a 7.62

Why are white people obsessed with fucking dogs

Show up unannounced and hold her.
Just hold her and have her cry.

Sex therapy maybe.
Otherwise either leave him, or accept this as how things will always be with him.

>>16781846
Leaving him isn't an option we just moved across country together... we can't afford see therapy and he would not agree to it

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We have started foreplay and rubbed each other's genetitals only to just stop and cuddle and sleep...

Leave her for her sake, if you only want to cling on for looks then save her the heartbreak down the line.

so her aesthetics aren't up to your standards so you want to drop her? what about how well you get along with her? Also I've run into an issue where a girl i was dating nuked her aesthetics and sex appeal because of the safety of the relationship, so i brought it up and we started working out together.

>>16781702
>what about how well you get along with her
That made me think a bit..but I mean I'm still a virgin, I want to lost my v card to someone who's also a virgin.
Is it even worth it to keep my virginity until marriage or is the shit just overhyped?

Bump, this is the only time i asked for help during browsing through the board for months now. Also what do i get out of this if i tell my doctor everything? Pills? Therapy? Is it even worth it?

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>>16781678
Suicide attempt? Anti depressants and maybe a stay at a psych ward. If you're not quite ready for all that, consider calling the suicide hotline and see what they think.

There's no way I can talk you into or out of anything but if you made an actual suicide attempt you need help. Best of luck.

I don't understand. Where did you mess up?

We can't fucking falk anymore. Every time I talk to her she'll be like "oh hes just thirsty" or some shit like that. I know I had a chance but I fucking blew it.

>>16781677
So you're expecting to go on forever being just friends and never getting anywhere because you could mess it up? Jesus Christ dude, life goes on

Hahahahaaahahahhahhaaa....ha... No...

Not unless you buy a robotic dildo that's integrated with the game I guess.

>>16781602
Yes. You're a slut. This is what #GamerGate is against.

>>16781596
I have trouble cumming with most women because I'm incredibly insecure, suicidally depressed and believe I'm a woman inside. Some guys suffering from anxiety experience similar problems.

How long have you been with him?

>>16781596
What is sex like between the two of you, if you don't mind me asking?
>simple answer is that you should hit the gym. It might just be that he isn't attracted to you...

>>16781604
Hm, ok. He is a bit insecure and can also be awkward sometimes. Just mildly, but still. But how does this affect his ability to cum? What are the thoughts going trough YOUR head when you can't cum?

It's only been 3 months.

>>16781413
If you're somewhat attractive just go to a bar or club and wait until someone approaches you/make the fist move and talk to someone you find attractive.

If you just want a random fuck just install tinder and pick the chosen one.

Don't forget to make the guys wear a condom.

Get a boyfriend and make him a happy man.

>>16781413
Where do you live?

>>16781364
At least the girls I've known and called themselves feminists are just way more insecure about life in general.

You can expect a lot of conspiracy tumblr shit and dumb pledges to fight patriarchy with armpit hair dye. Also, a couple of the feminist friends I have used to (or still do) cut themselves due to selfesteem issues.

Maybe I've been meeting the wrong feminists, I don't think you can make a general judgement about shit like this.

I've dated a few who did and a few who explicitly didn't and there really was no difference. I mean, yeah, a lot of feminists can be pretty fucking obnoxious, but almost every woman -- like literally almost every single one -- has at some point been subjected to some kind or other of shitty treatment because of their sex. At least once. All most of them really need to self-identify as feminists is to think to themselves, "Wow, that was shitty, I'd really like for that not to happen again."

There's things that suck about being a man, too, don't get me wrong. But that doesn't mean that there aren't things that really suck about being a woman -- despite the huge progress we've made.

>>16781440
Didn't realize I accidentally went to tumblr instead of 4chan

Post pic and we'll answer that for you.

post a pic

>>16781290
>why are so many lesbians ugly
Because being gay is a choice and all women usually realize the mistake they made at some point. Just stop thinking you need to be different and admit you like dicks.

kill him

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