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A little bit of exploration and a lotta bit of confidence. The good thing is that as you gain even the slightest experience, you begin to realize that there are few genuinely cataclysmic things out there. Failure isn't all that scary after all.

>>16851762
Thanks. Where can I find opportunities to put myself out there and try new things?
I don't have a job and I'm not in school

>>16851808
Maybe getting a job doing something you've not done before, and taking a class on a subject you've never studied before.

Go to a doctor and get antibiotics for your bladder infection.

If you let it linger, you'll start getting very bad chills and be unable to move. Then the delirium sets in and it's all downhill from there. This shit gets very bad very fast.

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>>16851740
BLADDER INFECTION!

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>>16851756

>Go to a doctor and get antibiotics for your bladder infection.

Although the internet provides us with a great wealth of people who have had no medical training trying to diagnose other people over a message board, we are still cursed with having actual doctors and medical professionals who exist for the sole purpose of finding out what the fuck is wrong with you and fixing it.

Go to a doctor. Getting medical advice from a bunch of neckbeards over the internet is the opposite of what you should be doing.

So it's pretty much you overpower her you fuck her, she overpowers you you fuck her. At least thats what it looks like to me

>>16851706
Unless she decides to cuck him.

>>16851697
>5 4
>200lbs
>Not fat
Pffffftt hahahahahahahaha

I need help with this too bro

Go on a vacation if you can afford it.

get back together?

>>16851673
Why do you think you're depressed?
What are your outward manifestations that make your parents upset?

>>16851709
Lost all motivation to do things
Constantly feeling sluggish and tired
Forgetting to eat and going whole days without eating

All things that piss them off

And my parents don't really get how it works. I told them our healthcare meant that I couldn't see my therapist anymore and they laughed and said "well just get a girlfriend, she can be your therapist ;D" and advised me to go on a dating site

Better for everyone else? Maybe
Better for you? Probably not.

If I were you I'd just make a major change in my life.
I mean a huge fucking change. Like, sell everything I have, make a small farm in the middle of nowhere and live there, while cutting all ties with everybody I know.
I don't know what, exactly, you should do, but it's obvious a massive change needs to happen, it's up to you to figure out what that change may be. And if you do something like that and you're still this depressed and pathetic, then you can kill yourself with the knowledge that you at least tried.

You mean the cervix?

>>16851665
>I didnt say anything cause i dont wanna freak her out or look stupid
you're too young to be having sex

>>16851672
I have no idea, is it hard?

>>16851679
Im 20.

>>16851651
You take your perceived attractiveness, add 3 to 4 points (with a ceiling of 10 points obviously) to it, and that is the average level of guy to go with.

Sorry to tell you but it all boils down to looks for you. If you're good looking ( you don't need to be amazing, something like an 8-10) any guy is fair game, it will boil down to preferences. If you're only decent (let's say 6-8) you can probably still get most guys but there will be some (not many, but some) that will turn you down on the spot.
If you're ugly... well, I don't know, you'll have to settle for a not so great guy. It's hard to come up with specifics without knowing anything about you.

Of course there are other factors involved, personalities must tick and all that, but looks is the first "filter".

>>16851651

post a picture

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you need to have a heart to heart with her about your fetishes and hers does she know how uncomfertable it makes you? does she know you have to see a therapist about your past?

yes by all means tell your therapist and how you feel about it, thats why they are paid to listen.

where does it lead? whips, chains and dungeons (oh, my) and safe words etc she may like 50 shades of grey but its not for everyone

>>16851674
OP here.

I don't mind the fetishes themselves. I wonder what drove her to like, to need this.

>>16851688
everybody likes something different, not everybody likes just sticking their penis into vagina. some like sticking it into anus some like blowjobs and some like both. its her "thing" maybe somebody else tried it with her and she got to like it? thats usually how most fetishes start

>>16851609
I'd say she's probably about a 6 in reality and OP is just so infatuated with her that that he thinks she's a 10. It's OK.

>>16851609
>though I can say she's close to this level of FUCKSOHOT

I thought you said she was 10/10

>>16851597
You could always turn to God. He's there when you need him

>>16851810
Not OP, but how do I talk to him?

You are experiencing a crisis of faith, OP. But are you certain that separation from your faith is the path you want to take? Lots of people have had crises of faith, and while some of them did indeed choose to leave, many did not. Mother Theresa is a famous example from living memory: she recounts her crisis in great detail in her papers and letters. Going further back, some of the apostles speak of their own crises in the Bible. Some people even interpret the Agony in the Garden at Gethsemane as Jesus himself having a crisis of faith shortly before his arrest: a brief one, yes, but if the Bible is to be believed about it, then it was real enough to warrant sending down an angel to prop him up for just a bit longer. And if the Son of God can have a crisis of faith, then surely it must be all right for us to experience them as well.

I speak from a Christian perspective, because that is what I know best, but most faiths have similar stories of faith lost and found again. It would be foolish for them not to: doubt is a fundamental part of the human condition, and any faith that does not address it to at least some people's satisfaction dies out quickly.

If you really think that separation is the path you need to take, then there is little we can do to stop you. But I wanted to remind you that leaving is not your only option.

up once

Show them this post. I'm not even joking, just tell them you have something to talk about, get them here and show them this exact post you made.

>>16851572
I've said it a million times I even told my dad last night I would fuck him up if they don't get a divorce

>>16851560
You think that a divorce will stop them from being in each others' presence? From what you're saying, they're pretty stupid, right? They keep each other in a vicious circle of codependency otherwise one of them would've stepped out. Give me more details, why are they fighting?

>>16851555
>4chan is a simple image-based bulletin board where anyone can post comments and share images. There are boards dedicated to a variety of topics, from Japanese animation and culture to videogames, music, and photography. Users do not need to register an account before participating in the community. Feel free to click on a board below that interests you and jump right in!

>>16851555
just say you post on internet message boards

>>16851555
Man the trolling is getting worse.

You probably would have started developing such problems by now if your overbite were really that severe. I have one too and it's firmly in the "large" category, but I've not had a single issue with it outside of the bothersome appearance when I pull back my lips.

>>16851539
I'm still pretty young though (20) so I don't know how much of an issue it would be. I do want it to fix my appearance, but I don't really want to go down that route for all that money unless I'm going to get health benefits as well.

Don't wanna get pushed off.

>>16851490

first and foremost, post a pic. without a pic we cant tailor a response. its not even ugly vs. hot, so much as what type of look you have as that effects your hunt. not all men are created equal.

that being said, if you are ugly we an also suggest make over.

but at the end of the day it is going to come down to what you are willing to settle for. every guy thinks they can just get a hottie cuz they have a nice personality. its funny cuz they get mad at ugly women for thinking the same way. but you all want a hottie and think you deserve one just cuz some other ugly bastard was lucky enough to score one.

>>16851512
Well I'd see about posting a pic, first because I'd need to shave (was out getting drunk with my friends yesterday so I look a bit rugged) and second, I know that a ouple of my friends browse 4han and if they saw that I would never get the end of it.

Also, I'm not really aiming for the hotter girls. I fully realize there is no fucking way they would even look at me, If anything I'd try for the average looking girls.

look under the heading escort
way better than dating, and loads cheaper than marriage