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Pathological liars are notoriously stubborn about their lies and will often refuse to admit them, even when confronted by undeniable evidence. These people more often than not have no interest in change, as they derive emotional gratification from it.
If nothing else, take comfort in knowing that pathological liars don't lie to you specifically, but literally for any reason at any time, to anyone. The subject can range from the subtle to the most absurd, yet within the realm of plausibility, and always either position themselves as either a hero or a victim worthy of attention.

If you cannot live with this sort of person, you should leave them. You have to respect yourself first and foremost.

>>16852827
I guess I kind of gathered that already. It just seems so...sad. I mean they're so cool without the lies. Would I have to like stand by them and grin and bear it? That seems like the only option.

>>16852844
>It just seems so...sad. I mean they're so cool without the lies.

What makes you think you've seen them without lies? In fact, what makes you think that you know anything about who this person 'really' is?
People who act like this don't stop because someone is cute, or because they like you.

>>16852809
Who do you support in the US elections? Who would you support if he would be a canidate?

You can talk about that time you've made a thread on 4chins featuring a pic of a stick figure with a red hat. That's pretty interesting, right?

>>16852830
lol, until he gets to the part where the thread was about his conversations about work and school

Stick it in her pooper and mouth exclusively
or
Wear a condom, take it with you when you leave so you can dispose of it yourself

>>16852784
Birth control pills
intrauterine Device
Subdermal Implant
Pull-out Method (High chance of fuck-up)

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>>16852750
Go to the party, take your playstation. Load some minecraft and Be the best nigga.

Break things for him or throw them away so he doesn't have a target. Of course, you may become his target which is not ideal. But if you love him, you'll let him let out some steam or let him in you.

Dunno how receptive he is to wanting to be helped but mindfulness helped me with emotions I didn't want.

It got some science and stuff so it's not completely mysticism, even if the meditation crowd is a bit crazy.

Leave him before he beats the shit out of you for leaving your shoes slightly in the way or something else trivial.

>"But he's never going to hit me! He loves me!"

Nah, it doesn't work like that. He'll beat the shit out of you and it'll be scary, traumatising, and unpleasant. He'll tell you that he loves you and that it'll never happen again.

Guess what? Train goes boom.

Just leave him.

You would've been perfect for the lead role in Speed.

>>16852722
Face it. Destroying your social life over something this stupid makes no sense. You might see it as just some weird anxiety feeling, but if you start turning down friends invitations then they might get the idea that you're drifting apart.

If facing it doesn't work, see a psychologist.

>>16852722

Did you have some sort of traffic accident?

you git many muscles and wear hat indoors

>get a nice hair cut
>take care of your skin
>smell nice
>dress nice
>lose weight
>get fit
>get plastic surgery

If you're short like me it sucks but it's not the end of the world, there's nothing you can do to fix that. Work on your personality and be confident.

Looks aren't as important on a guy as they are a girl, despite /r9k/ opinions. An ugly guy can get a ton of sex if he's rich or talks smooth. An ugly girl is literally almost suicide tier.

>>16852726
k

No way to natural fix it an your doctor will only give you pills, best thing would be to go to a men's clinic that treats these problems but your gonna pay out the ass to get your dick back. So it's that or viagra for the rest of your life

>>16852618

It's all mental because you're nervous during sex. You're so focused on staying hard that you're not doing anything to arouse yourself mentally, and losing focus on the physical things she does, so your dick wilts.

How about instead of trying to go "HNNNG, BONER. STAY UP." For like ten minutes and then giving up, how about you have fun having sex? Foreplay, teasing her, getting her worked up, trying new positions, all sorts of things.

>It's all in your head, bro.

>>16852662
This.

Be naughty op. Tie her up and get RUFF.

>>16852612

Try again next semester. Community college courses are cheaper anyway.

>>16852615
>next semester
doesn't work like that
can't go to CC already have two year degree

>>16852612
>the university
Go to a different one or apply to more.

My blindness has subsided from only 3 months of nofap. What else do you want to know?

>>16852683
Wow, what a miracle.

>>16852611
You can jerk off. Just no jerkin it to porn.

You have to spongebob mode it.

>>16852610

If you've waited 19 years, you can wait six months. And I don't think you've spent every waking moment of your life from the day you were born to want to turn into a girl.

So more like "waited a year. Maybe two."

no such thing as a cheap or free therapist that's gonna be able to get your hormones. like everything else in life, transitioning is going to be just as much of a fucking headache nightmare. just wait the 6 months. anything else will be a scam. life sucks for all of us, OP.

Nice ass. Saved before I read your post.

I'll be removing it now, sorry.

You had your chance not to get herpes and you blew it. The only thing that follows is superAIDS, which may or may not progress into megaAIDS. I'm not a doctor.

Which Herpes?
1 or 2?

In either case, who gives a shit.
Anyone who fucks anyone already has it

First outbreak is usually the worst, and they become more mild over time. Could still be different for you, but in general the second outbreak won't be as severe.

>>16852577
OP here, I'm pretty worried about this, so I'm going to bump this thread.

>>16852577
dude go to a doctor. even cheap doctor would be able to help you out. spare yourself the pain/discomfort.

personally, no idea what it could be. i had a similar feeling once but it only started for a few days then it turned out it was just strep throat.

Go see your free doctor, if you live in civilsed country

>>16852566
Literally meetup.com.

I know it sounds like I picked the one with the name that would make you sound dumbest for not having thought of it, but actually I've used this site to find groups of people with similar interests and have only good things to say about it.

>>16852588
sounds like a good place to start thanks

>>16852564
>>16852564

It's not that we're shit at expressing emotions - it's that there is a very subjective gap of information, context, and personal ideas that influence the words that are said, and what the words that are heard actually mean.

"I like you" can be a simple phrase that means I like you as a friend. Or that I like you more than anyone else. Or that I like you, but I don't love you.

Three words that take on three (or more) meanings.

It's not even that people are good at feeling emotions and bad at expressing them - it's that it takes time to really understand each other, and trust, and everyone's afraid of spending their 'valuable time' on something that they might consider a waste.

>>16852592
I think there's something deeply wrong with me. When girls show a tad of interest in me on top of the usual friendly flirting; sort of a deep love feeling, I feel more confident. With this confidence, I like to ride it out and therefore usually don't show interest back to the girl and eventually she loses interest.. It's happened so many times, but knowing that someone has feelings for me gives me this confidence that let's me pursue other things like sports in a 'boosted' mindset..

But then I know it's not going to last forever as she will lose interest and assume I'm not interested.

>>16852617

Sounds normal. The only part of that whole thing that could be considered "wrong" is not returning the girl's affections, but that's also subjective because you may or may not want to date them. I don't know these gals, you do.

As for the confidence boost, that's normal. Having someone like you will give anyone confidence, especially if it's someone you consider to be attractive.

Maybe you should say something back to the girls instead of doing nothing?