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>Have a fight with gf because she doesn't want to come with me for a meal with my friends
>She goes in a massive mood slamming doors and shit
>Goes in the bedroom and throws all her draws at the wall
>Go inside and tell her to shut the fuck up
>Hear her slam the front door
What do I do? I love her but I just can't take the falling out all the time.
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Why didn't she want to go?
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>>16851498
She did, she left.
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>>16851498
Oh, I'm a retard. It is because she has a shit load of work to do over the weekend. I totally understand that but she has know about the meal for a long time. I don't want to cancel her seat because it is a real dick move.
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How can I control extreme hatred towards one particular person? It is such hatred that is completely out of proportion relative to what the person did.
To elaborate, It is my boyfriend`s best friend`s girlfriend. The first time I ”met” her, it was in a meeting I arranged in a restaurant as a triple date with his 2 best friends and their girlfriends. She ignored my greeting and thought it would be funny to wrap her arm around my boyfriend and get close to him - this is my first impression of her in person. He is such a sweetheart who grew up in a bubble where all is well, no one gets lonely, everyone is wealthy, everyone has friends, etc`(his friends too), so he laughed along and even wrapped his hand around her. Since then I just loathe her and get filled with enormous anger just by hearing her name. This has been going on for almost a year!
It is not jealousy, because my boyfriend has many female friends and I don`t mind them at all.
I can`t stand being stressed and angry to the thought of the many times they already met since then, because his friends favor her more than me. How do I get over it?
Possible helpful details:1. We are slightly more than a year together and 2. My bf and her went on a date once, but it didn`t work out and his best friend got together with her.
Serious answers please, this has been bugging me for too long.
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Have you thought of talking to her to explain why you're upset with her?
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>>16851481
How about you do your boyfriend a favor and breakup with him because you're a bitter controlling jealous cunt who holds a grudge? After you're done with that, consider ritualistic suicide.
Thank you!
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>>16851509
I just can`t bring myself to do it, I know I`ll just get angry again. I was hoping there was a way to make some peace within myself..
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>absolutely no friends
>obese, just ate 4 cheeseburgers
>bad posture
>watch TV shows all day
>no money
>keep putting off work
>may be homeless soon
>literally can't give a fuck
Would you consider this as suicidal tendencies, only more passive, drawn-out?
I clearly don't care about myself, and I think it's a likely explanation.
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Please, anybody?
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>>16851472
No, but you sound depressed. Maybe talk to a therapist.
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>>16851587
B-but I've looked up all the symptoms of depressions and verified and it turns out I don't have actual depression. Seriously. I just don't know what to think anymore.
>Work for a website
>Ran a contest to win a thing
>Rules were that we'd pick from the top 5 entries
>1 clear winner, most votes
>Go to email winner, notice his email is from the other side of the world
>second place guy isn't too far away
It'll cost $300 to ship the thing to the far away winner, and like $30 to ship the thing to the closer guy. What do I do?
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Ask someone who wouldn't be liable for giving you bad legal advice or encouraging you to commit fraud. That's what any of us would be doing by answering. Hire an actual lawyer.
Christ you're a real idiot when it comes to the law.
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>>16851450
send it to the far away guy. cost of business. next time include 'open to mainland US only' in the small print
there's this girl in my class I've been trying to get closer to but she's too shy so I don't get a chance
I just asked my friend for her number in a casual way where I asked for her number and some other peoples numbers at the same time so it wasnt like I was just after her, she didnt reply for a few hours and now my phone buzzed I think its her but I dont want to look at it because I'm worried I'll sound desperate if I start texting back and I know if I look I'll be compelled to reply
I'm waiting until tomorrow to reply is this a mistake
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>>16851449
yes. you fucked up. go back in time and abort yourself to prevent this the greatest of shames to ever fall upon anyone in the history of earth
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>>16851463
I fucken knew it
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Jesus, OP, stop acting like a fuckboy and tell us what you texted her and what her response is. Ill tell you if you fucked up, whether to reply and how. And this "I should wait before I reply" thing is fucking retarded.
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What are your first thoughts on this girl? 2016-02-26 20:17:40 Post No.16851430
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What are your first thoughts on this girl?
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>27
>entrepreneur/ works at her university
>has a master
>doesn't like bars/nightclubs, prefers brunching/biking/walks in a park
>lives with a roommate in a nice neighborhood
>former high level softball player, likes tennis and biking
>always willing to try new things
>dresses simply, minimalistic
>not active at all on social media (literally made an instagram account a month ago)
>shy/introverted, has some anxiety issues
>has some trouble getting over her ex-boyfriend who was very successful
Are there any red flags? How to approach her? What is she looking for?
Pic semi-related, kinda looks like her
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Seems like a good girl but going to be hard for you to compete with her ex, even if he not in the picture. She might compare you to him
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>Are there any red flags?
Yeah the last two are shit.
>How to approach her?
Invite her to do something fun, at least as far as her definition of fun is concerned.
>What is she looking for?
How should I know? This varies from one person to the next.
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>>16851430
>>has some trouble getting over her ex-boyfriend who was very successful
Saving red flags for the end lol. Shes probably also slept around a lot.
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Looking for dog advice.
Can a 6-7 year old dog be trained, or is it too late?
Background:
I started living with my boyfriend and his dog a year ago, and his dog is the shittiest dog I've ever met, be be blunt. I've started doing research on dog behavior, and learned that this dog pretty much displays textbook dominant-aggressive behavior. She isn't properly trained or socialized.
She can't be walked, because she walks ahead and tugs on the leash. She barks at us constantly when not given attention. She lunges at/ humps people any time the opportunity is present . If she gets out of the house, she runs away as far and fast as she can. She doesn't even respond to her own name. If a new person enters the house, she goes batshit crazy and jumps on them. We can't eat food without being behind closed doors away from her. If you try reaching for her collar, she will show her teeth and try to bite you.
Living with this dog is making me miserable, and I don't know what to do. I'm trying to lay down the law and train her based on my research, but I don't know if I'm wasting my time or not. Getting rid of her isn't an option, as my boyfriend is completely against it. This thing is only alive to eat, shit and piss.
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bump?
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bump, please help me out
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doesnt matter the age of the dog. any dog can be trained.
start with a choker chain, if the dog does something wrong pull the chain untill the dog realises they are doing something wrong and will unlearn the dominant behavior.
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Getting jobs you have no skill in 2016-02-26 20:15:07 Post No.16851425
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Getting jobs you have no skill in
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Britbong who is looking for retail stuff but I've had no luck. I have no practical skill in something like admin or whatever but I feel so limited going for just one type of job at the moment
How can I get into a job I have no skill in? I want money that doesn't come from benefits. It depressed me.
How would I logically do it? There has to be a way.
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develop the skill. etiher intern, shadow, or get education. i know thats not the answer you want to hear, but thats literally how the world works.
your other options are to fake it. i do have office skills but never had an office job, so i put down some more or less fake job experience on my resume. now i manage a business.
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>>16851427
I understand. It's hard though. If for example wanted to expand my field into admin just to get a better job I would probably be expected to know specific skills I was never educated in.
Fucking system is set so you have to have a newborn crocodile's knowledge of a subject right off the bat to have a chance. It's sickening
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>>16851600
OR, you learn about being an admin. freaking take a class, a seminar, an online course, or intern at an office. its easy to pick this sort of thing up and get promoted.
talk to other admin's and aks what they did education wise, and try to follow that.
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I drunk PM'd a girl on YouTube and she hasn't replied. IIRC I just said hi and made some lame joke.
She has a handful of views so she definitely isn't going to overlook 1 pm. Only spoke because she seems cool really and we share interests.
What can I say that might salvage the situation?
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What is there to save, you dummy?
Just forget about it and move on. If they reply that's just a bonus
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>>16851417
how is the situation salvagable? the situation itself exists. chances are she doesnt look at em. messages are like this weird hidden part of youtube that i can never seem to find until recently when someone taught me how. had messages for two yeras backed there. comments are front nad center, messages are hidden.
that being said, its a girl on youtube. there isnt anything to savfe. she was never going to fall in love with a random viewer online
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>>16851417
I don't understand what the situation is supposed to be. Salvage like how do you get with her in spite of the message, or how do you get her to just ignore the message?
Either way... there's nothing to salvage. Nothing happened.
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How do I manage my depression? 2016-02-26 20:05:55 Post No.16851409
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I can't stand myself, how my life has gone so far and how it's going. I'm worried that if things keep going I will end up killing myself and hurting the few people who care about me, pretty much my direct family and one friend who's paranoid for my life so much that she only stays in contact to make sure I haven't put a bullet in my head yet. At the same time I don't see what the point of going on is if I'm never going see any fulfillment and be content with myself and my life. It becomes really hard for me to be genuinely happy anymore.
It feels like I'm completely stuck and can't resolve my depression adequately so I just suffer for the sake of everyone else. What do I need to do to get over this?
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have you been to see a psychiatrist?
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>>16851455
Not anytime recently, no.
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>>16851501
then go see one.
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Alright so I never really dated in high school or college so I'm completely fucking emotionally stunted when it comes to romance. I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now, I like her (and I think she feels the same), but we've never really shown physical affection for each other. When/how would be appropriate to do so? I have another date with her tomorrow and I'm nervous as shit and excited all at once
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bump
I know it's pitiful but I need help, I like this girl a lot
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>>16851398
I'm in your shoes and what I think is this.
Smile and take the lead, don't be afraid.
Hold hands when you're walking. Touch her shouldets and arms. Try to kiss her goodnight. Aim for the cheek and see if she turns into you.
It's up to you to initiate contact, as terrifying as that is.
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Is dating a sorority girl a bad idea? We've gone on a few dates and signs are pointing that we could make it official.
However she's an exact copy of the stereotypical sorority girl. She gets super drunk at frat parties nearly every weekend and defends herself saying "I just like to have fun" she's said that she's into your typical frat boy with the popped collars and etc (which doesn't make sense because she's gone on a few good dates with me and I'm nothing like that) she's really popular in fraternities and she has a TON of frat boy friends which obviously looks terrible. She's also been roofied before and when I called her and asked if everything was OK, she said she was fine and that its "part of the Greek life experience to get drugged at least once" and she was a little irritated with me.
I hate the whole idea of Greek life and partying and whatnot. And from what I've been saying, it seems obvious that I should forget about her. But when she's not in that mood? She's actually really awesome. We like the same music, the same sports, we have a ton in common and she's really just a great girl. But she gets REALLY into Greek life, like she's living a movie or something.
/adv/ I really don't know what to do here. If I don't HAVE to let her go I wouldn't like to. She's amazingly beautiful, she's smart, she's funny. She truly is a good girl. But the other side of her is a side that no boyfriend should have to live with, yet she's expressed interest in dating.
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Yes. You've got every reason to believe that she has no business in a committed relationship. I'm sure she'd be great fun as a companion, a lover, etc. But a girlfriend? With expectations and responsibilities and promises? Hell. Fucking. No.
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Keep her as a fuck buddy. If you get emotionally invested cut all ties. If she asks for an actual relationship tell her you're not into that shit. If she insists tell her to fuck off.
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>>16851389
if you are in college than your relationship is temporary
>nuh uh i know a guy who has been dating the same girl for two years!!11!
good for you. this is temporary. the fact that you're already on advice talking about it shows that its temporary.
and thats fine. its college. date her if you want to date her. dump her once its no longer working out.
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do i owe taxes to my government? i live in canada, ontario...
as a side job, i do some marketing work that's done online. the money gets directly deposited to my bank without any tax deduction. (probably because my company relies on out-sourcing to other countries so much and a lot of the employees move around the country)
i used to do personal freelance work before too, doing commissions and such. should i include these in my tax filing?
as you can probably guess, i'm kind of new at this.
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forgot to mention the freelance stuff is all done online too. i get paid via paypal from that.
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>>16851364
You only owe taxes if they tax you
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My girlfriend and have been togheter for almost 4 years now, and I'm pretty sure I want to be with her for the rest of my life. I really love her. Unfortunately her parents don't like me that much. They are deeply religious, and so is my gf. They made me convert 3 years ago but I stopped believing in their religion because it was pretty stupid (mormonism) so they tried to force her to break up with me, but she continued seeing me without her parents knowledge. So finally 4 months ago she lied to them and told them I was going to church again and they accepted me. The thing is that I don't believe in their religion and I don't think I'll ever do, but she somehow thinks I do or will do.
What should I do? I already tried to convince her to leave her religion but she is really indoctrinated.
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Price?
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>>16851342
be honest to her. lie to everyone else. if you can honestly say
>im pretty sure i want to be iwth her for the rest of my life
than that is the price you have to pay. one morning a week.
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>>16851342
she will never leave her religion, you should just tell her that you dont believe but you'll do lip service to make it right with her parents. pretend to follow the religion. plenty of people have done this. two of my uncles did for their wives. if you care about her this is the price of admission for a healthy family.
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whats the best cold medication to just let me breathe for an hour?
>Friend and i go to get korean bbq once a month
>this time hes inviting a lady friend
>in the two years ive known him this is the first girl he thinks is important enough to introduce me to
>really excited for him and want to go
>Catch a cold
im poppin zicams like they are molly but its not doing the trick fast enough. nose isnt leaking, and i dont need tissues more than once an hour. suggestions on a medication? in your opinion whats the most effective medication in terms of just drying the fuck out of your sinuses? i really wanna go
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the more you try and rush your body to get rid of a cold, the more it's gonna fight back and you're gonna regret it. it's a viral infection so there's no get better fast solution. but, if you're really trying to just clear your sinuses, use some Nasacort/Flonase/Afrin and take a hot shower. don't use any of those for more than 3 days.
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Pot full o' boiling water and a towel. you should figure out how to use it