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This thread sounds baitish as fuck but I'll bite.

>Aren't I entitled to be treated equally?
No
>What do I do, adv?
Date people in your league

You should kill yourself. Everybody would come to your funeral and see that some "pretty white girl's" funeral was taking place close by and they would ditch yours

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>>16857235
stop being fat

99% of self esteem issues are from being fat

>>16857238
Yep, this.

Treadmills and makeup

>>16857936
Respect her faith. She's a devout Catholic and if you care about her more than you can about getting your balls drained, you'll wait with her.

But let's be honest- you want a shag more than you're willing to wait for it. She's not right for you, find someone else. She'll realise you're an arse and find someone suitable for her, who CAN wait.

>>16857936
You pretty much answered it yourself. She's most likely not going to have sex before marriage, and even after that, it's a high risk that she'll barely want to have it. Since you don't subscribe to that 0.1% minority who agrees with her, I just don't see a happy future with her.

If she doesn't come around, then there really isn't much choice but to find someone who is more compatible with you. Sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship. If she's essentially denying you sex, that's just going to result in misery for you. Since it's a new relationship, maybe wait a while to see if she comes around.

My last gf was Catholic, but at least she was a reasonable one. She had no problem having sex and using contraception.

>>16857947
Underaged bitter virgin get out.

Honestly, stick with the loyal girl. I know sex seems really important now, but over time the qualities she has are much more valuable and you won't find them as easily when you are older.

yeah, they make pills for that

>i felt hope, happiness
I don't. Ever. That's how I define depression. I also have DID so it doesn't help me much in getting better. But in some sense it's good because I'm not really affected by my emotions as much. I don't care about myself simply, it's just a vessel that moves about and does things towards stimulating me intellectually.

I've found that the thought of doing productive things appear more frequently when I've worked out (I work out because family is concerned). Perhaps that might help you. Follow a plan and stick to it, measure yourself every week to stay motivated.

It's more productive to try and solve the problem when you have examined what the problem is in more detail. In my case my limitation is when I think of stuff. Yours might be getting off your fat ass and doing stuff. Maybe it's that you're very sensitive to opposition. Like if you decide to go for a jog you're filled with the dread of how rough it is to run. So you quit there.

Can be many reasons you stop.

>>16857699
>I don't. Ever. That's how I define depression.
Yeah that's what I do to, if you notice.

>>16857699
>worked out (I work out because family is concerned). Perhaps that might help you.
I barely ever brush my teeth, I'm too lazy to eat, you think it's likely I'll go to a gym or out for a jogging run? Really?

>>16856206
At most maybe smile, and maybe add alittle volume to your hair. Honestly o don't see what you're insecure about. You have a beautiful natural look ,very lovely eyes and nice cheek bones.

Thank you, I really needed that XD

Well if compliments helps solve that I can say you're really nice looking. Terrific face. You should not be having any self esteem issues, there's no visible flaws in anything.

>>16854860
That's a shitty subject to justify two separate clubs. Instead of leaving for it being male dominated, you should have recruited more women.

>>16854860
I'm not an grill so I don't know for certain, but I'd guess the majority of people want to be "gamers", rather than having to segregate themselves by gender. A lot of people are going to think that your group is more concerned with the fact that they're female than they are with actually playing games. Also, there's no way in hell I'd ever join a "men only" gaming club, a "heterosexuals only" gaming club, or a "whites only" gaming club because it'd make me look like an extremist whackjob, and a girls gaming club falls in to that same bracket.

>>16854947
We tried but me and my friends noticed that when we would tell people about the club, they would say"Oh isn't that a men's club" or "That club is for men" despite there being female members.

>>16851788
You're supposed to atleast say hello and tell her you like her. Anything less is strange.

Keep it under 2 minutes.

I'd say talk to her first! Yeesh you'd freak her out if you just jump in like an idiot. Gotta get that trust first anon.

I've tried asking girls out without smalltalk (like those actors in the videos where they do stupid shit and get girls numbers). Doesn't work for me. Just my thoughts.

>>16848798
just make sure she isnt promiscuous now. then get over it its in the past. you shouldnt be upset woth thungs that really arent important. just be sure and be honest and make sure she is honest.

>>16848798
>Am I expected to cope with dating a slut?
is she a slut? if not there is nothing to cope with. if yes that she is going to cheat on you so get as much ass as you can before she does and dump her

people change so find out if its just her past or she still slutty

at the very least she knows how to suck cock and is being honest about her past. win win

As long as she won't cheat, what's the problem?
She'll be more open to kinky stuff.

What kind of woman do you think would seek the services of a male escort? Do these women respect themselves?

>>16851890
Male:
Probably women who don't have much luck and are looking for a pretend relationship rather than just sex. Alternatively they just wanna have sex with hot guys. That seems to be the case based on that one vice (shit bias news source with little credibility, but they cover taboo) documentary I saw.

Girls, how important is to have white teeth for a guy? Would you overlook a slightly yellow shade, with a few blemishes? Or do you gossip about it and make fun of them?

>>16850022
He is either gay or thirsty as fuck. Also, why can't she just put a tampon in? I would help her out and shit, but that guy just goes overboard. He's a likewhore tryhard.

>>16850022
Idk maybe just be normal? Clean it up (since that's your duty per your agreement) and check in on her occasionally. You're both weird.

>>16850031
Thank you! It's nice to know I'm not the only one who thinks that way.

But do you think an escort will actually give you the "warmth" you need? They likely have a detached professional approach to it so they will tell you what you want to hear as long as they cash out. You will only get an imagined feeling of significance for a woman. And do you really want to kiss someone who's had their mouth on dozens of penises for money? I mean, sure, they brush their teeth but can they brush away the emptiness of their soul?

>>16851795
>I tried to fake it that I don't need women for validation but my biological impulses are becoming too strong.
You are not your biological impulses. At the absolute most, these impulses are nothing more than a program that has been hard-coded into your mind, be it by millions of years of evolution or God's by command to multiply.

Once you accept this, it becomes much easier to ignore them.

>>16851867
What's the difference between a slut that fucks after a few drinks and a slut that is getting paid? What I mean is when you kiss a girl you've recently met, how many dicks has she sucked before you met her? You don't know and it won't change your perception of her for the moment

A big thanks to all my friends for leaving me in my hour of need. I know I'm not perfect and I'm trying to kick the drug habits. But you guys leaving me and ignoring me isn't helping. In fact it set me back a great deal emotionally.

And to the girl I fell for,
Thanks for everything. You are one of the few people who has actually helped. I just wish life could make it possible for us to be together (assuming you still feel anything).

T -

Not a single day has gone by that I haven't thought of you.

I'm so, so sorry for saying such venomous, cruel things to you.

Sometimes I wonder if you post here.

I miss slow dancing in front of the kitchen sink with you.

Still have all the notes and letters you sent me. Still have the little black book.

Missing you has aged me. Seeing your name still makes my stomach sink.

I don't know what kind of person I am now. The thought of there even being a chance in hell that you posted here is making me shake as I type this.

It's been more than three years. I haven't stopped loving you. Never did.

I'm sorry for how I treated you, for the kind of person I was, and the things I did.

Plumeria wasn't the smartest gift idea in the world. It felt weird giving you what was essentially a branch with the promise of a flower.

I hope to meet someone like you again someday. Don't know if that'll ever happen, still not entirely sure if that's what I really want. They won't be you.

Hope you're still making art.

- J

>>16842107
Initials?

I don't want my life to be hard, I want it to be easy.

I guess I'm too spoiled or some shit.

I hate being afraid of everything.

I can't stop being afraid all the time.

How do I fix this shit?

Deep breathing techniques, meditation

Don't fall for the mass generalization meme. And most guys here are little college kiddies or mid-20s fuck ups. Chin up, OP.

>/adv/ has taught me
there's the flaw in your theory. this is just a small group of people. it's not an accurate representation of the way the big part of the male population thinks. sure, some do, but you can easily spot those bitter ones irl.
there are genuinely lovely guys that are able to not have the mindset you just mapped out.
i mean, i just have to think about my brother, my sisters husband, my dad, my bf. those are the best guys ever. they don't need to talk bad about women but they aren't insecure faggots that put girl on a pedestal either. there's a healthy middleground and a lot of guys are there.

Anon. As little as I want to convince you men are great (because I'm a man and I know they're definitively not all great) you're making the mistake that /adv/ is representative for men in general. And you're making the mistake of thinking that the male posters here represent every opinion posted. If I were to claim I only date virgins then I can't expect you to spread your legs before marriage pretty much because that'd not make any mathematical sense.

I have similar feelings of women but on entirely different basis.

>>16849497
Yeah, because I am sure you are just a fucking blast to be around.

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>>16849508

As you can see OP, the trick is to distract people from what's actually going on.

>>16849523

what's actually going on?