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So you're finally feeling the loneliness taking its toll, probably aggravated by the issue with your mother. What have you squabbled about with those friends that made you separate? If it isn't anything too big it shouldn't be a bother to reunite.

>>16852193
There wasn't mush of a fight really.. I was just slowly cut out of the group. I still don't understand why.

The girl I had an argument with took something I had said on facebook the wrong way, she was pretty nasty and I snapped, blocked her and we never spoke again.

It's been 4 years, these people were like family once but they all moved on, got lives. I'm still the same person, living the same life I did back then

>>16852212
To be honest, if I were in your situation I'd move on from them. Lost friends imply some old habits and you don't really GROW in life. I'd find some group activities in your area and meet some new people. I did it as well and it's harmless, becomes pretty easy once you get beyond the initial shyness. It can be very uplifting.

Yep. "Listen man, how you do you isn't my business, but I'm looking for a few things from our relationship which aren't there right now: X, Y, Z. Can we work something out to make those happen?" Assuming he's open to the changes (and your input on how to make them), you then give him a little time to put it into action. 1-2 weeks will probably do. That's when you step back and reassess.

>>16852171
Sure. If he doesn't respond, just leave the relationship if you feel he's not a positive presence.

>>16852171
Tell him. Say you're sick of no progress and you think you should leave him.

He'll either wake up and sort himself out or he'll demonstrate how little he cares.

If you really want to make it work, you can try and initiate lifestyle changes. Sitting around all day doing nothing is deceptively harmful for your mental and physical strength.

Don't expect success if you try.

>>16852118
Nah just looks a little gross. There's no redness or swelling.

Maintain hygiene and it should fix itself if you leave it alone.

Ingrown nail yes its going to get infected..
You need to get it cut back surgically most likely. . Reason being is they often just grow back ingrown again

Source: i had the same thing ... luckily im ausfag so the surgery was free :p

Yep. Look at the purple swelling around the edge of the discharge. The discharge is nasty too.

Clear away the puss. Pour some sea salt into a tub of hot water and let it soak for a few hours.

>writing a short poem to a girl
just don't

>>16852113
Have you been
1. In a relationship with her for an extended period of time?
or
2. Dated her a few times but have great chemistry?

>>16852113
You're a huge dweeb is the implication.

Communicate through the medium of conversation.

>>16852092
Don't beg for him back
You initiate the break up and see how he takes it

You're presuming. Maybe he want story solve stuff. Maybe he wants to break up. Maybe he's just scaring you for giggles. Trying to cling on to him is probably not going to work.

I'm presuming you want to keep him. If he's set on breaking up I don't know.

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Here's what you do, lol. Open an okcupid account today. Put up some cute and/or sexy pics, and a decent profile. Might take about 20 minutes max.

When he breaks up with tomorrow, unlock your phone and show him how many messages, views, and likes you've got. If you're not a fucking gross black hambeast, you'll have a LOT of activity and it might spark some jealousy to keep you two together. Showing him how easy it'd be to forget about him might make him chase you.

No idea. It seems you either have that magical friend making ability, or you don't.

Really, now. What is it that you actually want?

watch fight club
look for support groups listed in your area
choose wisely
go to a few meetings
after the meeting, approach the girl
tell her it really touched you, when she talked about her loss. for years you had kept it all inside, not knowing that there were others out there like you. you though you were the only one who had literally skinned a cat, and the shame that you feel.
make out with her for a few minutes
and then she'll either do you right there, or invite her back to her place

>>16852054
What's your approach?

>>16852054
They're attractive. You aren't. Deal with it like the rest of us uggos.

>>16852062
from cold approaches, to groups in classes

they all tell me either they have a boyfriend, or what just happened just now, they say they're interested in someone else.

>>16852050
Why wireless? You'll have better sound quality with wired.

Senheisseer is top tier

Get wired. You will not get a decent pair of wireless for cheap

>>16852045
What kind of weird circumstances?

If they're looking and you can't stop them then you're fucked.

>>16852055
I had to buy something kind of expensive from ebay for school which they knew about and it prompted the bank to call my home number where my parents still live. Basically the balance was less than they were expecting and they're insistent on looking through my account history.

Any suggestions on convincing them not to look through it? I mean they can't force me to show them but it would look really suspicious if I refused, and probably worse than the reality of things.

>>16852045
Why do your parents have access to your bank account? And what if they find out, how would they react?

Okcupid.

>>16852001
In your imagination, the only place you'll ever get a gf OP

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>>16852001
Invest in one of these.

>>16851995
Just ask yourself a few basic questions:

1) Am I fuck-ugly?
2) Do I smell?
3) Do I go out and try to socialize with people?
4) Do I ever smile?
5) When I talk to people, do I only talk about things that I'm interested in, or do I make an effort to listen to other people and engage them?

If you answered "Yes" to either of the first two questions or "No" to the other four questions, then that's why you're an outcast.

>>16852011
So don't shower or do laundry for like a month and I should be swimming in pussy? That's easier than I thought it would be.

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>>16851965

>What is this?

Go to a doctor, we are not doctors.

>What causes it?

Go to a doctor, we are not doctors.

>I feel like a fucking monster

Why? She's the one who broke up with you.

Block her on everything and move on.

>>16851961
Anon if she doesn't break that herself and you just block her she won't be dealing with issues. If she keeps yelling at you for months and then you cut her off you can later send her an anonymous letter mocking how she was pretty Insane back then. You're not gonna be able to convince her she has problems as things are now.

That's all if you care for her wellbeing. But clearly you enjoy this shit so keep goin.

>>16851962
You're being manipulated famslice.

If it was as bad as you say, remember that and keep refusing. Change numbers if you have to. If she keeps up call the cops.

>>16851945
What state?

>>16851953
Virginia.

What do you want in a cell phone plan? (Minutes/Text/Data)

>>16851919
Just because someone fantasizes about something doesn't mean they want it to happen, does this fantasy bother you?

Take her roughly.

>>16851919
Get all your friends around to rape her in front of you