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How do I keep fucking a girl without getting feelings? I'm with a girl right now and she does freaky shit like cum on face and tits swallowing and shit which is cool but all I can think about is other dudes doing it. I want to just fuck for awhile and then say something along of the lines of "your too dirty and I just keep thinking about the freaky shit you did with other dudes"

I really do love her but ugh I just keep thinking of other dudes cumming in her face and she talks worse about sex than any girl I've ever met and she's only 17. Like fuck
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Lucky bastard.

Anyway she does that stuff for you and only you. If she's that young it's doubtful she was doing that with others previously. She wouldn't want to imagine you doing things with other women either.
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>>16849762
I dunno man she had 3 sexual partners before and she always talks about sucking my dick and shit I feel like she was the same for everyone else
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>>16849747
28 here and recently dropped another 18-year-old. So far, all of them have been total freaks doing just the things you describe. It's this new generation, man, sluts everywhere. I don't ever hang out with these girls outside of hooking up, that's how I stay unattached. Think I'm done with little girls, though. They all have ugly personalities and are usually still children mentally.

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What is the best path in life?
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>>16849592

no one would even know how to begin answering this other than 'the one that seems to make you the most happy' which of course will evolve over time.
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the path of Satan.
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>>16849592
smoke crack

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What is a better way to attempt to self-learn computer science? Is it better to start at the concepts by grasping discrete mathematics, algorithms, etc; or is it better to start learning computer science applications like a language?

I try to learn both at the same time, but it's just not cutting it for me. So I'm attempting to learn the concepts first by reading a book on discrete mathematics, but I don't know if I am tackling this in the most efficient manner.

Can anyone on /adv/ weigh in on this topic? I'd really appreciate the advice.
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Computer Science is not the same discipline as Software Engineering, though to master one you will need skills in the other.

You need to pick which one you actually want to master and focus on that to begin, if you're self-teaching. What is your real goal?
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>>16849557
Not op
But same situation
My goal is to understand computacional graphics
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>>16849557
My goal is to understand the fundamentals and concepts which are shared by computer languages so I can understand new languages and other cs applications quicker.

My main goal is to create B2B applications to simplify a supply chain. But the basic goal that I am trying to work towards is having a good enough grasp of a language and the concepts for me to start freelancing. So I can have something to put on my resume when trying to get a programming job.

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Im 21 at university. Little about me. introverted, recovering from social anxiety tremors, looks like the skeleton king reincarnate but ok im working on it. So ive had very little success (zero) with women in the past not even held hands level sad. This is my last year of college regretfully.
Now. Im in a lecture and really cute girl 9/10 walks in late and sits next to me. Ok. Comes the 1st break im a little bitch and we sit in silence. My friend comes talk to me for a bit and i catch her looking at me but whatever means nothing just humans. Feels bad being a bitch. She looks extremely bored.
Next break. Sit in silence for a minute feels too bad. Say fuck this i got no friends no pride no status to lose and ask her how shes finding the class. She lights up and we joke about how rip this class is. Im trying to keep eye contact but moments of social anxiety tremors fk me up so i break off early. She doesn't seem to care and we keep talking and its going pretty swell. I dont notice any obvious signs tho, she never breaks eye contact or blushes or anything while talking. Break ends.
End of class. Ask for her number to share notes and she gives.
What do i do. I got no fking normal friends to invite her out to. Should i forget about her? She will see how unmanly i am. Neediness is repulsive. I just want to improve i feel like a fking kid at 21.
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Practice makes perfect.

If you mess up with this girl, you'll do better with the next one. If you do nothing with this girl, you're back to square one.
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>>16849276
But what exactly do i do. I mentioned i got no one to invite her out for. Should i ask her out for a drink? Im introverted i only do medium talk. I have experienced how repulsed girls are by neediness they smell that shit anywhere. I feel like the fucking train man
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If you've got a bunch of whiny drivel to post that's only important to you, at least bother with making it reader-friendly

This will probably sound stupid, but I'm scared guys. I'm scared because I don't know what to do.

Backstory
>one or two friends from 1st-7th grade
>small school and girls were cliquish
>i was actively made fun of by them
>no one wanted to be near me
>that's how it was

>moved schools in 8th grade
>still no real friends
>no one knew me
>try to mingle and I can fake it enough
>get into nerdier stuff
>few girls there are cool with me
>none of them interested in dating me
>move an hour away in 10th grade
>smaller school again
>I'm the outsider again

Needless to say, I never had much luck in High school, but even in the years that followed, it was constant rejection and eventually I just gave up. I'm 26 now, never had a GF or even been close to a relationship, and I'm currently in a particularly low point, socially, on top of that.

Here's the problem.

There's a local gas station/sandwich shop chain on my way home from work. I would stop in and chat with whomever was working because I learned to at least fake being social, grab some food, and leave. Well, there's a girl working there, and despite everything in my head telling me I'm wrong, I think she might actually be interested in me. My coworker stopped in there last night and apparently, she asked about me.

I am at a loss. In fact, I'm petrified because I feel like I have to do something. I've been avoiding the place on and off for awhile now, but I stopped in twice last week. Now, this happened.
Any normal person would just go in and ask her out, but like most people here, I'm pretty far from normal.
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Sad bump then I'll let it die.
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>>16849157

first and foremost, please post a pic. i can help further tailor your approach with that. its not about ugly or attractive. its about your look. certain people can only get laid by being a douche. some people can only get laid being the sweet innocent qt boy.

it depends on how you look and i need to see that.
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>>16849157
>>16849359

NOW, with that in mind, you have to ask her out. i know, shocking right? turns out you have to ask girls out if you want to go on a date with them. i tried finding another way, but they were all illegal, so here we are.

>but anon, how do i ask a girl out?

well we can tailor an approach based on your loks but generally its like this

>hey anonnete hows it going?
>how was your weekend?
>mine was good, i did XX (lie, as long as its something you do once in awhile its okay)
>ask her what she did if she hasnt volunteered it
>if its something you can pick up on as mutual interest then say its nice seeing her again, flash her your smile and head home

rinse and repeat until you stumble on somethign that either you can do with her, or she responds to something you did. for instance you might be like

>played lasertag with my friends on friday. was so stupid, but kidna fun
>lol anon thats so cute, it does sound fun
>you should come with us sometime. maybe i could take you out to dinner first?

ta da.

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What would you do if you saw someone get out of a car and as they adjusted their jacket you saw a pistol holstered behind their back? What if you saw the outline under a shirt at a store or restaurant?
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well I carry so if he didn't see that I saw I would ignore it, if he noticed I noticed I'd strike up a conversation about what he carries.
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>>16849086
>at a store
gtfo the store because shit's gonna go down

But if this was just someone on the street, I wouldn't be that worried. I live in a terrible part of LA though, and my family is from bumfuck nowhere northern California, so...
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Ignore it. Unless they look like someone up to no good then I'll just casually make sure to not be around. Yes that's profiling and stereotyping.

We just passed open carry this year in Texas and I finally saw someone open carrying the other day while I was picking up a pizza. Didn't really bother me. It's funny people made a fuss about it when like a dozen other states have had it for awhile now. If shit went down he'd be getting shot in the back of the head first anyway.

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my gf and i have been together for nearly two years and she is willing to dump me if i lose my job.

how red is the flag? can it be dealt with?

i wont lose my job due to incompetence. i was a substitute for an injured guy but right when that happened the company (a small but stable security company) lost a decent chunk of employees so i am probably a long term replacement.

i make just less than her a month 930-950 vs 1000-1200 and my job is hourly and hers is commission
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>>16849000
nice trips haha..

more info:
she said "im afraid ifyou lose your job you wont ever get another one"

this is because it took me six or seven months to get a job so i dont think its that unreasonable but in my defence i was dealing with depression and really was struggling to get out of the loop of it
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Was she serious? How did she phrase that?
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First of all, holy shit I make more than you two combined what the actual fuck (unless you meant weekly?! Each paycheck?)

Second... Huuuuuge red flag. Like... Are you not gonna get another job if you lose yours? Either way... Dude she's overreacting. On the other hand, she kinda went into the relationship with the expectation you'd have a job. Still, it's a really shitty reason to break up, you know?

I'd talk with her and figure it out. Communication is huge.

If you don't live together... She's scoped out some new dick and is waiting to break up and is using that as an excuse

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Did you guys chase money before chasing women ?

Have you gotten better results with women for chasing money first ?
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I don't chase money or women. I get by doing my own thing.
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>>16848915

I was lucky enough to find a high quality woman in college, and I guess was lucky enough to have the maturity to recognize a high quality woman. We got married the day after commencement.

Where most fagboats fail is that they chase the painted whores that remind them of women in movies and porn, women that have no aspirations in life and just spend all their time trying to look pretty and finding someone to take care of them.

If you marry some woman who never went to college and doesn't have her own money then you deserve whatever happens to you within the next couple years.
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>>16848928
But what if you find a girl who's educated and stable but also good looking? Or are you implying that the girl you wify'ed up is unattractive to you?

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I'm in my junior year of college. Currently a computer science major and hate it! I decided my major late so as a computer science major i have about 2-3 years left. I'm considering dropping my major, finishing my liberal arts (5 classes left for me), getting my associates degree, graduating next year and moving on out of college. What do you guys think? Is it a good idea?
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>>16848854
Hating on what you're studying doesn't do you any good, you'll start getting annoyed about the classes and ending up with a bad grade, set aside hating your job later on. My 2 cent would be to proceed with the latter choice.
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Don't let time discourage you - liberal arts degrees are one of the most common degrees they hand out just to make sure you leave college with a degree. It's barely better than nothing.

Computer science is for the most part where the jobs and future is heading. So even if it takes longer you're going to be going into a steady, reliable, better paying job.

Realizing liberal arts or whatever is a bad choice is a mature decision, even if it takes you longer.

In my introduction to programming class there is a girl with a bachelor in psychology - taking community college courses because it's another worthless degree

Stay in school and finish a STEM degree
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>>16849960
I'd recommend IT or business.

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Might have fucked this up badly by being impatient / beta fuck.

Been chatting with a cute 8/10 girl (10/10 for me especially her personality is the best out of any girl I had chatted/interacted with before) since New Years party so it's been 2 months, she's from my school ( senior year ) we've been to some parties here and there, spent some time, had fun etc..

Once I joked about friendzone and shit and she literally told me that I am not in one, because if I was she would be interacting with me differently and she knows I like her + told me she likes me too.

Recently things kind of got out of hand and being a complete fucking dumbass I said I want more than just chatting/rarely hanging out, basically said I want to have feelings with her and she told me " I always thought we were just kids who like to chill together" but after I replied also said " Hey I didn't say I never thought about What If? but I really like interacting with you and I think feelings would just get in the way, it's not worth it, dont you agree?" After I obviously said I fucking don't she said if we were in a relationship " I would piss you off within a day" but didn't give any good reasoning..

So what the fuck is going on? Not in Friendzone? You like me? But we are just kids chillin together and feelings are not worth it ? What the fuck do I do now, I know I fucked up big time by saying that but I had enough of "wasting my time" feeling like I am not getting any closer with her so I just said it.. should I not chat with her anymore? I don't want to be just friends and then see some Chad fucking her 2 months later.

Is the best option to just not initiate any conversations myself and let her do it? I mean if she's into me she will right? If I fucked up by saying that how do I make it all good again?
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>>16848669
>8/10
Bullshit.
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>>16848689

will post proof if I lose hope completely, can't fuck this up now and then see her in a restaurant with Chad. If she wasn't good looking I wouldn't be asking for advice here.
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>>16848707
Sure you would. Plenty of people post average to ugly chicks and claim they're 8s or 9s. 4chan is notorious for overrating women.

in a long distance relationship, ended up snap chatting some rando I have no connection to at all, really not even to do anything or interested in anything, i just wanted to feel good about my body since SO has been busy and sex is difficult. Stopped immediately and deleted all my shit out of disgust. I would say I treat my SO well but I feel so so guilty, have had trouble eating and trouble sleeping.

I think a lot of the reason why it happened was that it creeped on me slowly and have had deep rooted self esteem issues. Kinda trying to take this as a learning experience and to work on my self. But i feel so shitty that it's really affecting my self. I feel like a piece of total shit. I really don't want to break the trust in an otherwise amazing, loving relationship. I really love my SO with all my heart and this is fucking killing me .
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>>16848607
Same thing happened to me last week anon. Just do what i did and leave that all behind. Treat her/him like royalty ans everything will be fine
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>>16848607

just tell him you dumb attention whore.
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>>16848613
>>16848617
How do you leave it behind? I've treated them like royalty desu and I'm not saying this to rationalize myself.

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At 25+, what are some things I can no longer do/experience?
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sex with 16 year olds.
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The play place at McDonalds.
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Go into a Chuck E. Cheese's without any kids.

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I'm not an audiophile, but I love high quality audio devices, setups, and sounds.
I got some money for the first time to buy something decent, but I cannot decide what to get, here is the dilemma
>Audioengine A5+
vs
>JBL LSR305
which one should I get?

also should I get a d/a for it as well? are there trusted budget dac units for this budget?
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I got the audioengine speakers for my sound engineer husband. They're very effective for when he is working due to their flat response, the sound is very accurate, but for things other than working with sound, it is a little lackluster. You need to use an equalizer to give movies and games the same punch they normally have.

The quality of the speakers themselves is nice, no need for a subwoofer, but they're also really big and have trouble fitting on a standard-sized disk with a decently-sized monitor.
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>>16848234
>>16848257
I have the A5, they're great speakers, not too analytical. If you want a more analytical signature, then you want monitors. The A5 is good for consumer use, but people say they're overpriced. Are you using these for recording or listening to music, watching movies, and gaming?
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>>16848919
I'd use them only for music, gaming and movies.

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Like what programs do I use and what not
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>>16847085
I have a Bachelor of Science in this field. Start volunteering or interning, even if there's no pay right now. Networking is the key in this field and will help you in the long run. I'm not a huge Mac person, but you will need a Macbook Pro because a really good film editing program to use, which is also used in the industry today is Final Cut Pro. Are you still on college or about to start college?
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High school
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>>16847155
I would suggest you go to Towson Unversity. That's where I graduated from. It's in Baltimore. It's a has a strong media department and a lot the professors work on film sets or have had jobs in the industry. But that's just one suggestion if you're thinking of staying local. Look up schools in LA or New York. You might be interested in that as well. Networking, like I already mentioned is the key to getting a job in film editing. It's about connections. Also, do freelancing on the side. You will get experience from this and you can build a portfolio in the process. I live on my own and have a decent job and also do freelance film editing on the side. I'm hoping to find a job in film editing very soon. I already have a few interviews set up. Don't feel like finding a job in this field is hopeless. It's not, film editing and film are just competitive jobs, and you really have to work on your stuff. You have to make sure you know what you're doing, and do a good job too. Don't half-ass. Also other good programs to use if you like PC based software would be Adobe Premiere. You can also used After Effects, and Sony Vegas Pro. All good programs. Am I helping you at all?

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Shaven, trimmed or full jungle?
Trimmed. Shaven is for fags, pornstars and faggy pornstars. Full jungle is for gorillas and 80s pornstars. When the shaver hits the hairs just right, the balls sing.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

>Brandon and frogposters
Fuck off

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How long can a girl go without showering before it gets nasty down there?
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>>16872570
If she remains still most of the day, a day.

If she moves around a lot, it can be earlier. (Please shower after exercise)

Shower twice a day (Morning, evening) and you're fine.
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>>16872570
bruh, shit gets musky and sweaty down there in a day.

take a fucking shower.

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