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Close friend since high school says he had feelings for me around the time we started hanging out. Way before he got into a relationshio with his current gf. Over the years I grew closer to him and his family whom I still love and care for. Unfortunately, I started to develop feelings towards him a few months after he got into his relationship.
Although, during the times wed end up alone, wed cuddle and have sex. Its something I regret cause in the end, I ended up being mentally and emotionally fucked over. But apparently he only did it with me because he still had feelings for me, but not as strong as what he feels for his girl. He still tries to grab me but won't hesitate to back off If I say so and apoligizes for it. Its been hard getting over this guy especially since he was been my only friend and how close I was to his family. Has anyone gone through a similar experience?

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i dont wanna do anything....

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I met up with a girl I was friends with many years ago before I moved away on my trip back to hometown, but she brought her friend along and basically only talked to her. I wasted about two hours doing this, and now I feel shitty

How do I stop feeling shitty about this?

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Hello /adv/. I'm trying to leave the NEET life and I scored a telephone interview with a pretty major international engineering company for a trainee position. I've been practicing my interview skills and all that and I have a question.
The job listing said that occasional travel will be required as part of the job. Now I'm sure this probably just means driving between different facilities within a few hundred miles of my main one, but I'm completely open to broader travel requirements with this being an international company and all.

-Actual question
How should I nonchalantly mention that I'm a 24 year old with no gf, no wife, no kids, no family commitments, and I don't get homesick. Basically I'm rootless and totally willing to be sent to India or some shit. Is it normal to say in an interview that you don't have any wife or kids? I guess with my age they'd probably expect it, but I just want it to be known that I'm completely open to extended travel.

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I ordered mouse traps on Amazon after realizing there's one living in my kitchen. The traps won't show up for a few days, but last night I saw a mouse trying to escape from under my sink so I put a houseplant against the doors to keep them pressed tightly inward. My plan is to crack open one of the doors and slam a shoebox down on the mouse when it comes out. Or, I was thinking of rigging the shoebox up as a crude trap to fall on the mouse if it bumps into it. That's assuming it gets away from me at first. Is there any easier way to catch this mouse when it comes darting out of the cabinet?

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I recently moved away from my hometown and will probably never go back. The past few days I've been afflicted with a crushing loneliness. I miss my old friends and the woods I grew up in. Now I live in a condo on the side of a highway. Nothing is familiar to me and life feels unnatural and alien. I don't really know where I'm going with this or what specifically to ask, but I needed to get this out somewhere. Advice?

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Recently I've been having trouble studying for the SAT subject tests. I should be familiar with most of the subjects but I'm not, and I have two of those exams coming up in two months and I don't want to fail at all. I really feel worthless and just stupid because I can't even study well for such an easy exam (an exam that tackles 8th grade and 9th grade tier shit) and seeing how all of my friends aced these exams and got a high score makes me feel awful. I searched everywhere for studying tips but I never found anything useful. I cant get tutors either, I'm too broke for that...
Maybe it's because I have such low self esteem but idk, I really want to succeed and get a high grade. I really want to go to college. Anything helps

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I'm fucking sick and tired of shitty fucking doctors palming me off with viagra. I'm 19 years old and shouldn't have a limp dick. I've changed my diet, started exercising, drinking water, taken on new hobbies and nothing works. It's been like this for 5 fucking years and I'm at the point of giving up now. Why live a life when you can't make love to a women. It's pointless

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The fall semester is starting on August 28th and I can't find housing that I can afford. I'm limited to ~$650 for rent which I'm finding rooms on craigslist that meet that, but every single one is already taken by the time I get a response. Renting my own apartment isn't feasible because they're $1100 for a 1/1 and I need to make 3 times that a month to be accepted, which I can't do while in school full time. The campus is 3 hours away from my current home so I can't really commute daily.

What kind of options do I have for temporary housing if I can't manage to find one before the 28th? It's in Orlando near the metrowest area.

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>be me
>in highschool band
>see two attractive girls in band
>want to get to know them and befriend them
>don't fucking know how

How do I meet people when I'm a loner and I do not have any reason to start talking to them nor anything to talk about

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I need some /adv/

There is a girl who I have known for years who use to date a friend of mine. They have been broken up for a few years now and I have since moved one state away. Me and this girl just recently started talking again via facebook and snapchat.

She said she wanted to see me for my bday and sent me a bunch of risky photos. She also talked about how she thinks we have a bunch in common and could potentially be good for each-other and also that she finds me attractive.

So after talking for a few weeks I asked her if she wanted to fly down for my bday, she said "hell yes" and said she'd never been on a plane before but she'd totally be down..

I waited a couple days and asked her again if she was positive she wanted to fly out and see me, she said "yes absolutely", so she scheduled off and I bought the plane tickets.

The next day she said that her days off got declined, but she said it was no big deal because she could just talk to management. (The flight is a month away)

It seems she has stopped texting me as much and when I asked about getting the days off she said she would have to talk to her general manager, who she hadn't seen yet. (I saw a snapchat that said "When your manager buys you lunch") That same day.. maybe it wasn't the general manager??

Anyway, I have a feeling she won't end up coming, is this a rational thing to believe? I bought flight cancellation insurance because I was skeptical from the beginning.

Is there anything I can say to her to get her to just straight out tell me? I was thinking about waiting a week before the flight and if she hasn't 100% confirmed she's going I was going to cancel it.

Thanks in advance

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I'm studying abroad and there was a girl who was calling me pretty much every other day one month ago and she seemed pretty interested. I was looking forward to seeing her in my home country but then suddenly she started acting weird and when we met she was pretty cold.

My question is not regarding how to get her back, I don't think that is meaningful. But what could've happened? Why do girls lose interest so suddenly and apparently for no reason? Can someone enlighten me?

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Hello /adv/.

I am a 22 yr old male living in the US midwest trying to determine what my next job should be. I will be dedicating the next couple of nights to creating resumes, looking over potential work oppurtunities and inventing/polishing any needed personas for possible interviews.

I am not looking for a career, as I am in the process of creating my own sources of income - outside of working jobs - but understand that in the meantime I need to be earning resources to support both my fiance and myself. We live on our own and I refuse to live off any sort of gov't assistance.

Currentlt I work helpdesk making $13/hr, and my aim is to make a direct move to $16-18/hr or more. I have an A+ certification that will easily get me in the door within a better and more technical IT workplace, but am afraid of the amount of effort outside of work that will be required to catch up educationally and maintain that knowledge. I want to utilize all time not at work and exercising to my continued studies of Philosopy, History and Neuroscience, just to name a few subjects of interest. I have experience in sales, and although the pay should hit my goal with just a little effort on my part and a few extra hours a week, I am afraid my perspective of the world would hold me back immensely if I let it take over my work persona. This is especially true in sales where I can never be my true self, lest I am interested in coming home empty handed everyday.

So yeah, I'm on my phone and will update this more in a few hours. Would love some opinions and suggestions for someone trying to move into a higher paying position whom is not looking for a long term career or having to spend large amounts of time studying for said job outside of work hours. Also more than open to physical labour but factory work is a last resort (ford, ups, amazon, etc.).

Thanks all!

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18 and confused on what I should do for the rest of my life. How do you do it?

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I was molested by my female cousin at the age of 6, she taught me how to fap and since then I started masturbating pretty often. Since I didn't have much privacy at home, I was doing it to be done with it as fast as possible.

A year ago, I got a gf and eventually we started doing sexual stuff, started off with handjobs and I've noticed I cum way too quick for her to have fun with my dick. Kinda made me insecure since she got disappointed each time. I broke up with her before we fucked so I was just left with knowledge that I have PE.

I saw people writing that PE isn't a problem as long as I can make the girl cum before penetration and even tho that seems reasonable, I like eating a girl out and having PE kinda takes the fun out for the girl if she's into handjobs/blowjobs so that's why I want to fix it.

Now I've been offered having a fwb by this chick I don't really find attractive altho she's willing to go on a pill and stuff, whatever I want kinda and she's really into blowjobs. My question is, do I lose my virginity to her for sake of having a chance to cure PE by having sex with her often enough or do I just move on and wait for a relationship to figure my shit out? Any advice helps, thanks in advance :)