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Correction, I think some other ppl had a buzz going, but it was more casule than the mood I was in.
>(smashed a tall boy of redds apple ale)

It was friends going away party, and he is not a very rowdy person. I should have picked up on that,

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Bump

Don't try to give people protips or bring up some factoids that nobody asked for. Has nothing to do with reading a crowd and more with not being a "know it all asshole". Just go with the convo and give your opinions if they fit.

Most people get tired of hearing others ramble on about 'facts'. Might work in a one on one but with a group of friends you're trying to socialize not do a class lecture or personal debate

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Can't you get a refund?
I mean, you rushed in; you said that you both were very passionate but still you rushed in. I mean, she was just going abroad for 2 months. I'd say your situation is bizarre but if you don't wanna go get a refund or just keep trying to reach her and to GET IN AN ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP if you're wilding so hard for each other. You still got a month til september, try to see what happens and if it just doesn't work like it just go to have fun at London, you can even see her once or twice and hook up with her if that case would be enough for you.

See if you can get a refund.

If not just enjoy london for what it is and get a job with all the pakis.

As for the lady, if you really want her, you should try to book a flight to berlin where she currently is.

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>>18603571

Ahh, warms me heart to see trans-tasman cultural exchange

t. NZ'er

To the point, I say just go mate. If you've got the money and the time, make a backup plan of going backpacking around europe. It's all close together - you can train everywhere. I imagine you aussies are on good visa terms with our euro chums. If you meet up with the girl, then great! If not, just go have a great time partying it up in hostels. You don't even need to plan much - Just have a google of the sites you'd like to see; make a rough priority list, and just go. If things go the backpacking route, well then you can just take the opportunity to get the old OE off the bucket list.

Look up the tale of the tiger and the strawberry.

Or get religious

>>18603568

Dealing with this too. I've had 2 somewhat friends die on me this year.

I've tried a lot of things to numb the anxiety...alcohol...sleep aid...marijuana...I've actually stopped trying weed b/c that was feeding into my anxiety so I don't recommend that. I find psychedelics sort of help and during my down phase, I did quite a bit of mushrooms...I wish medical science explores this on how psychedelics can relieve depression and anxiety. I'd be microdosing on shrooms, everyday, before bed.

Right now I'm just learning how to live. I've got a kick ass job I get to go to...friends and family who care that I'm alive...I'm Catholic but I'm not serious about it...It's just learning to be grateful day by day and that you alone get to experience this...I dwell on the fact that even if I'm gone tmrw...there will be people who miss me...

It's also this idea that we weren't always alive from this perspective...there was a time before where this identity existed until we are born. It's simply going back to a time before that.

I'm a sap so I tend to take life quotes to heart. Doctor Strange is probably one of my fave movies. I hope this quote gets you like it got me.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ChwIFGxJTgc

Stop being a faggot. You will die eventually.

Just worry about it in the moment, then relax and just keep living.

You'll die whenever, until then, don't live like a bitch.

hey how ya been?

>>18603516
Bump. Same problem

>>18603494
You are either asking to commit welfare fraud, or disability fraud (if she was mentally disabled, you would already know the person you need to talk to).

I'm not interested in helping you take my taxes when you don't actually qualify.

>>18603494
Here's a really bizarre, off-the-wall thought - why not ask Sand Diego County Social Services?

Halfway into a relationship with a 50 y/o and you want to cuck the government into paying for her shit just so you can keep fucking her wrinkled pussy for free, you failed provider?
Disgusting

>>18603469
I don't think you want the truth from me desu....

You ask him/her in person. Also, you need to be 18 to post on this site.

>>18603458
If you don't know what to go to college for, you shouldn't go to college. If you can't wake up at 6AM, you're going to have problems upon graduating or dropping out. If you're looking to play music, look for clubs if you decide to go to college.

But the most important thing I can stress is this: College isn't high school. You aren't obligated to go, and even if you aren't paying a cent, you are sacrificing years of your youth to go. You owe it to yourself not to waste those years. College is a means to an end: get qualified to get a job you want, and to network. If you aren't treating it like a 24/7 job, you're making a mistake.

>>18603396
Mom's typically like handwritten, heartfelt notes accompanied by pretty, but useless, things, like a hand-blown glass trinket that you custom ordered specifically for her.

>>18603396
already sounds like a good outing, probably just be around and hug her and all that shit you do with your mom, dont try to talk sbout the issues on a day like that, let her have a happy day.
of she wants to though, takk about it
hope it goes great op
maybe take her shopping?

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>>18603402
Thank you for your suggestions. It's worth noting that she has a twisted sense of humor and she's very sarcastic. I know exactly what kind of gifts she would like, but I was thinking of something that wouldn't cost money since we're trying to save right now.
>>18603405
Yeah, it's going to be a nice sunny day. It's just a day doesn't pass when she's not thinking of it.

We don't live in an area where shops are accessible or own a vehicle. We also don't have much money to get by, so options are just limited right now.

>>18603359
You are not responsible for their happiness. If they come to you, saying they are miserable, the best piece of advice you can give them is: "You can't keep doing the same things every day and expect things to change."

>>18603342
Depends on what you want to do. If you're wanting to get into a tech related job, then the bay area. That said, it's the most expensive place to live in the US, so if you want to be literally anything else, it's a horrible choice.

>>18603342
Ann Arbor

>>18603381
fuck off, were full

>>18603300
Drive to Vegas.

>>18603314

I'm looking for something I can do in a couple of hours bro

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>>18603300
Go on backpage, check the area of California you're in, and look through the W for M listings. Always check to see if they include reviews and links to other sites that give reviews too, to make sure they're not cops or shady ass bitches.

Good luck and be safe, anon.

Dont wait for anything, just text her,don't wait for later...

>>18603305
You fucked me now i don't know what to say

me too top kek

>>18603267
Get a vehicle. Do shit beyond vidya and work.

>>18603283
I workout and skateboard too if that helps

how can i gain fat on my cheeks? i look like a junkie that has not slept in 5 days

>>18603202
Make up, more specifically rouge.

>>18603208

I wish I looked like a junkie.