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>>18598802
Breaking up over text is considered rude in some circles, but if you don't respect your gf or fear that a real time conversion could get ugly then it's fine.

>>18598802
>counting in a single text message
If you dont give a shit about her then break up over text. Just call her and tell her you want to break up.
Plan out what you want to say and write it down. Its just easier if you arent used to dealing with emotional people.

>>18598802
>she's the kind who starts crying and stops talking if given any bad news

Not someone worth being with in the first place if every little pebble in the road of life sends them careening out of control, and honestly, it won't matter how you deliver the news since apparently she's gonna flip her shit any way.

Text her. Be honest, but to the point. Gets the job done and avoids all the unnecessary levels of drama she's likely to bring to the situation.

>>18598801
Only if
1. You like Miami
2. She has job security there
3. She has upwards mobility there
4. You're not giving a lot up

Even then, idk.

Like Miami suburbs or Miami city? It really matters.

I love big thighs. Butts, I don't care about. Though I guess a big one is better to look at than a flat or inverted one

>>18598796
I don't. If I wanted a thicc SO I'd date a woman. I like my men lanky.

>>18599375
THIS

>>18598790
>Has the time to off myself really come?
No. Life doesn't end if you flunk out of university after one semester. If anything it's a good time to take a look at yourself and re evaluate your life goals.
>Is the anything that can save me in this situation?
Right now it seems like things are out of your control. Just relax for now, there is nothing you can do. The only thing you could try is write to the Dean or student health services about your situation, although that would be a long shot.

>>18598804
In addition, my problem gets bigger as I traveled to a foreign country to get education and wasted a shit ton of money without return. I really am fucked, but you're right, the only thing I can do is contact the administration and see what I can do.

Only if I actually have no chance of continuing my education will I consider ending it all. I spent too much time, money and health for this.

You're an autist and she knows it. Leave her alone.

Sage

>>18598760
Drinking always progresses the 'addiction.' You can counter this by refusing to engage in more than occasional and/or light drinking, and by gaining some sort of aversion (examples of aversion: nausea reaction, disliking being intoxicated, having friends who judge it poorly).

If you play powerless, then all I have to say is good luck. Take control of yourself and your life.

>>18598760
>two bottles of wine
>bottle of vodka

It sounds like you are dependent at this point. You might want to rehab for a week or so. If you resume using after rehab, then you might want an addictions counselor.

At this point your liver is suffering so much... You have a family dude, think about them. My friends mother died at 35 due to liver failure, she was in bed for 2-3 years... Darnk 0,5l of vodka daily... it seems you will soon see how alcohol will affect your health... You should at least drink lighter alcohol like bear, or stronger but drink less, anyway try to consume less

>>18598750
try contacting her again. if still nothing, just move on. she ghosted you. she wants to do it all over again with someone new, you do the same. it's the world we live in

>>18598810
Nah man it has been 3 months, don't bother.
Shit like this happens OP. Keep dating around and just be grateful you at least met her. You will find another girl that will make you happy.

>>18598676
How old are you ? 13 ? Get a job, find some cheap apartment and get your life together. If your parents are pathetic losers then simply move away.

>>18598685
>but an apartment
Yeah, off course because one salary can afford it.

My parents wouldn't allow it. I'm studying and I must keep studying.
I've zero motivations and I'm not even sure if I'm studying what I should

study in order to get diploma or whatever, you dont have to get perfect scores, its only needed for scholarships, in real life grades doesnt matter. Everything is about practical skills, so you better spend time to study enought to pass exams and for time that is left - try to see what you are good at and try to practice everyday

>>18598666
Hi satan. Also, you should try /wsr/. They usually deal with more technological requests.

>>18598652
I'm apart of the 14% for long-term goals, while I'm apart of the 3% for short-term goals.

Usually long-term goals are ambiguous and change a lot. For example "I want to become a doctor" I would say is a long-term goal because it would take more than 2 years to accomplish. What's your definition of a long-term goal?

The main thing I've been able to stick with is running. I set a weekly mileage goal and then I pencil in how much I need to run each day. If I run a little less one of the days during the week I just shift those miles down to the remaining days. I always have a race coming up so that helps too.

Being an economics student myself, I can only say that if you're terrible at maths (even though this per se doesn't mean anything, you could've had bad teachers or studied the wrong way) you should avoid economics. The amount of maths involved depends on the field (with finance and economics being the most math intensive, and business administration and such ones the least), but overall I wouldn't recommend if you don't like formulas or mathematical analysis. Keep in mind that economics among the social sciences is the one closest to be a natural science. If that fascinates you though go for it, if the passion is big enough you can overcome the problems though. About law the good thing is that it gives you many other possibilities than to be a lawyer, being it a magistrate, a regulator and so on, even though the lawyer is the most obvious and common choice. History seem to be the best choice for you, but you should consider also job opportunities.I can't think of much other than being a teacher or a researcher, but maybe you do.

Can't say much about your savings other than talking to a financial advisor. If you just keep the money there a bank account is useless. You can either buy investment grade government bonds (which usually yield a bit more than bank deposits) or go for investment funds with low risk profile. In any case you should ask a financial advisor for more detailed guidance as for specific instruments. Hope this helps

>>18598702
Thanks for the long reply. Yeah I completely gave up on anything economics-related, I'm too far behind when it comes to Math. I'll look into the other Law job possibilities, I thought basically all you could with it was become a lawyer, but apparently there's more to it, thanks for the heads-up. History seems like a good choice indeed, but the job opportunities problem is always present. Not sure if I have the profile of a teacher, and other than that there's not much you can do with a degree like it. And I guess that no matter the degree I choose, I can always keep reading books about History until I'm knowledgeable enough to write a book or something.

>>18598782
I'm not sure how it is in your country but most politicians at the state and federal level here in the US have law degrees.

>>18598640
You need to talk to your colleague about what happened and see how he feels about it. If its just you trying to share your side you're gonna get blown out of the water. Make some official emails asking the company about what they're doing and why they're investigating you so you have some paper trail.

>>18598655
My colleague has also made a statement confirming what had happened. He also agrees the guy was extremely aggressive and tried to attack me. The customer has called up today and lied about whay has happened telling managment I was swearing and throwing thingd around in his garden prior to me entering the property which I did not do

>>18598662
Well, you don't want to start antagonising your company before they've made their move, just email your PR department and ask them formally what they're intending to do. Also get your colleague to send you a statement. You could make a case for unfair dismissal if they try to fire you.

Might have to go into a boneless shelter they help you there I suggest you try looking for a home shelter and then a community shelter best of luck oh contact you local info ### might want to try going into a police station/medical office: social service for referrals if u don't have access to a library computer or cellphone

What's your name OP?