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Is "going to church" really a good way to meet women?
Or is that just a /pol/ meme?
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It actually is, but the women you meet there are obviously going to be super into religion and church, and say insane shit like "I want us to get closer as a couple by both getting closer to Jesus." And do NOT expect to have sex with them any time soon. If you can deal with that kind of shit, then yeah, hit them pews, son.
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I've personally found the rituals and dogma of the church rather one-sided and alienating, because one goes to a church to worship a god. Most of the people in the churches I've been to were more focused on God than socializing, though a lot of it goes on immediately after the services end. Recently, however, I have made an acquaintance during that period, so I would say it is somewhat possible to find companionship in that setting.
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Yeah, and it really depends a lot on the church. Small churches are usually not so great, but really large "mega churches" have social groups for young singles and stuff. They actively encourage the youth of their congregation to meet and marry one another.
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I'm 23 and I have zero libido. I haven't had an erection in a while. I'm not on any medicine. What's up with me?
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how long has this been going on
by age 23 you should know that men go through phases of low and high libido that last weeks to months
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Go to the doctor and get some bloodwork done. Usually the cause for unknown/sneaky low libido is a hormone imbalance.
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One of my best friends and I have constant problems. He never takes into consideration how I feel, and I've been completely upfront about this the farther into our friendship things have gotten. To be specific, one of our most frequent fights is over him disappearing without warning which spikes my anxiety like crazy. Our friendship is mostly long distance since I've moved for school, so without texting we have no means of communication, and that really impacts me on days he disappears for 8-12 hours without a single message explaining that he'll be busy for the day. I ask for the bare minimum, I don't care what he's doing or with who I would just appreciate knowing he's ok and that he'll talk to me when he can, and despite my bluntness about this and various other issues, I get nothing in response. The problem is solved for a day or two after the discussion and his old habits are back. I don't know what to do. Should I learn to live with some of these things and accept them as part of his personality or should I consider ending the friendship for the core reason he doesn't take me into consideration and despite efforts from me, our problems never seem to be solved?
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Bitch what the fuck is wrong with you? You have to be a girl because this is the kind of shit a bitch would do.
This nigger disappears for 8-12 hours and you have panic attacks? You bug him every goddamn day? Holy shit I would just block your number.
Leave him the fuck alone. No one needs to talk to anyone every second of the day. Not even every day of the week. Youre crowding his space and he's too much of a pussy to tell you that youre so goddamn annoying that he doesnt want to talk to you.
Why do you think he ignores you? Because youre an annoying bitch.
Here's some solid advice: just shut the fuck up. Dont text him. Dont call him. Dont do a goddamn thing. When he wants, or if he wants, he'll call you. You're not his spouse or parents. Even if you were, it's not a solid enough reason to bother someone every damn day.
Seriously, go find a hobby.
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I was communication ban and was waiting the ban out when in the middle of my ban my account was suspendid for no reason, I was playing game communications ban I cant voilate xboxs code of conduct unless I troll but I wasent I was just playing games the way there ment to be played and my rep was getting lower and lower I think its because xbox try to match you with other people with the same rep and I was getting lower for no reason and I'm now matched with avoid me guys...that report and send hate mail often because there salty I can't contact xbox support for questions and enforcement doesn't have a public number...so I submited a case inquiry and only had 500 character's to explanation myself so couldn't ask the question there but submit it anyway and they upheld there decision so at this point I don't know what to do I can't talk to any of them in any way...oh and I would post this to there enforcement forums they have but they won't let me post there...I don't know why, any xbox one users if you would please go to my profile and raise my rep so I can play the games and use gold membership I paid for!
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Recently I've started scratching my arms with my nails whenever someone in my family annoys me. I do it when they can't see me, like when they're talking to me from outside my room and my door's closed, or I've simply got my back to them (I try to pinch myself hard with my nails when I do this). I try to break skin when I do it. At one point my dad saw my arm and said, "whoa, happened to your arm? How'd you get cut up like that?" Since I've started about a week ago I've had light cuts over my arms and the back of my shoulders. Whenever I feel annoyed by how they act I just can't help but fucking rip up my arms. It's like if I didn't do it I'dve punched someone by now. Has anyone gone through something like this? Is this what cutting is? I never imagined I'd ever cut myself (and I've never used a tool to intentionally harm myself), plus I'd always imagined it'd feel bad and that it was sort of a fetishistic sort of deal. It feels good when I do it. But only when I feel annoyed. I have so many bottled up emotions that it feels good to let off steam by destroying my body. Please help, this is so new to me.
Also, I'm male and 18. When I started doing this my nails weren't trimmed and I got much more effect out of it, but since then I've trimmed them and it's harder to scratch myself.
Most importantly, I've never done unless I was frustrated at the time. I've never done something like lock myself in my room and hurt myself while I was alone. Nothing emo like that. I don't like getting hurt and scratching myself otherwise genuinely hurts but when I feel frustrated it feels like I'm finally getting some release by scratching myself to the point where I break the skin. It's sort of frustrating when I can't. I guess I'm not trying hard enough in those situations but like I said, my nails.
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OP here. Is this perhaps just like how an immature child holds their breath to the point of passing out when they're frustrated? I don't do it for any sort of communication purpose. I hope my family never finds out. I make up lies when they ask about the small cuts on my arms.
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Hey op research self harm and healthy coping skills. Perhaps it's time to get a therapist. I have tons of unhealthy coping skills like this. They don't help. They only make things worse.
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Just tell the truth to your parents if it is ever to come up again. If they don't understand the emotions you are struggling with they aren't going to be able to help you. You need to let them in.
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How do I make my dream come true?
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I'm a lifelong NEET living with my parents with no chance of ever getting a girlfriend or having a kid. My life is pathetic. I really want to have kids though. I know this is not possible or a good idea, so... I recycle a lot and pickup is once a week, so over the course of a week, I take a plastic grocery bag and fap into it as many times as I can and toss it into the recycling before it gets picked up. When they melt the plastic down with all the other plastic, a little bit of me survives and gets mixed into every shopping bag created. I'm everywhere. In every grocery store around. People carry their milk home in me.
How can I make this process more effective or reach more people? I want to be everywhere.
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I've liked this girl for over a year now and I don't know if I should ask her out or not. 2017-08-06 10:44:39 Post No.18596594
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I've liked this girl for over a year now and I don't know if I should ask her out or not.
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>be me 14 in high school
>try to lay low first few days
>it works
>don't make any friends till about the third week of school
>make friends with a 10/10 qt and her 8/10 friend
>become really close with 10/10 and remain good friends with her
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>me and 10/10 are15 now and are taking summer school together
>she walks home with me every single day after school
>talks to me flirtatiously, sits close to me, lays on me, and hugs me a lot
>learn more and more about eachother during the walks home
>10/10 already knows I've had feelings for her for a while
>one day 10/10 says to me: uh hey anon, do you think i could date this guy I like from my church
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>respond with: yea i guess...
>10/10 sees that I'm a little disappointed and says he could never replace me anyway and that im one of the only guys she's ever able to be comfortable around without being made fun of
>hugs me
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I still have feelings for this girl but I don't know if I should ask her out and have it ruin the friendship we have or potentially take the risk of losing the only friend I still have and becoming a loner. Plz help /adv/
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basically communicate with her, chat with her more regularily, hang out more, do adventurous stuff, hug her more, find out, if you are what she is looking for in a man, and if yes, if she might see you in that light. Don't come onto her too strong, always leave her room for saying no while still keeping her face and the friendship.
This is not a risk everything thing, but rather a walking over thin ice thing to make the ends connect. Also you are not evil and not risking your friendship you are just honest with her, liek any good friend would be, and if she is mad at you rethink if she is really worth it.
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>>18596805
so kinda let loose a bit more, ok I can do that
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how to pick up club sluts? gonna need a step-by-step guide here bros, or at least some basic principles for success
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>be me
>fucked my life up doing drugs really young
>have now been sober for almost 2 years
>used to very sociable and generally happy
>now have no social life because everyone my age is still getting fucked up and I cut all my old friends off
>I do the bare minimum, school, work, have dinner with family and stay in my room
>i just listen to music all day
what is the answer? I'm not suicidal, and I wouldn't even say I'm depressed, but it's like I had a taste of freedom and now everything is just melancholy and unstimulating. I would make friends with sober people because I go to AA but everyone there is much older and I don't see myself hanging out with old dudes. I can't go back to getting high because I inherently have addictive tendencies and will always fuck my life up. Nothing compares to those crazy years of getting high :(
How fix?
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meetups or maybe travel
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You have to find a hobby or two that gets your adrenaline up like paramotors, biking, marital arts, collecting dead hookers, whatever it is you have to go at it whole heartedly with dedication.
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You learned the most important lesson of life, OP. You are who you hang out with.
You surrounded yourself with losers and you became a loser.
You need to make yourself into a success because successful, happy functional members of society will not want you in your circle if you are not.
The first and easiest way to get them to talk to you is your appearance. Keep your hair trimmed and combed. Shave your face. DAILY. Or if you want a beard, keep it trimmed. Iron your shirt. They don't always notice when you iron your shirt, but they always notice when you dont. Even if it's just for school.
Then act like you give a damn. Work hard. Actually study, apply yourself at work. Even if you work a shitty retail job and they ask you to build a popcorn display, you build the most beautiful God damn popcorn display anyone has ever seen.
You said you're still in school, ask to join a study group. That's a great way to surround yourself with people who give a damn. If there isn't one, make one. Make a flyer or fb group or whatever is the easiest way to get the word out and maybe people will come to you.
Good luck OP. You can come back from this, it's not too late.
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I make every single I meet umcomfortable ? 2017-08-06 10:04:21 Post No.18596461
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I make every single I meet umcomfortable ?
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Why the fuck? When I get to meet people I will always make them uneasy/umcomfortable they seem tense af and nervous, why do I make people uncomfortable ? How can I make people comfortable with me so they can talk to me and stuff cause atm this never happened since I make umcomfortable.
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Please help me cause all my relationship with people are ruined because of it. Nobody is at ease with me they're all umcomfortable around me.
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Please provide some example of what you said, your expressions, their expressions, when did you realized you made them feel uncomfortable, what you were saying overall (topic of the talk), what do you think you look in a scale from 1 to 10, the more details you give, the best advise will be provided.
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Um I don't know maybe I'm nervous myself so I make them nervous. But I try my hardest to seem normal.
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I seldom take marijuana. Only when I have a headache and some times for recreational.
I need such a tiny amount that is ridiculous, with the equivalent of one small hit of a joint I'm good to go. This makes no point in rolling a joint or having a bong.
What vape type or brand would you recommend or not recommend? Something that is not bulky, portable, that will work with dry bud, not the ones that go with oils or other shit.
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>>18596442
If you have the money get a firefly 2. it heats up only when when you push the button and are taking a hit so you will waste less and it's really good I'm general.
image somewhat related.
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>>18596442
pax 2 or 3 should do you just fine
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>>18596442
I have had the mflb and currently have a lotus
if you don't care about stealth i would get the lotus just so you don't have to fuck with batteries constantly
if you care about stealth get the mflb
if you're rich and don't care about batteries or stealth get a firefly
if you're rich and don't care about batteries but care about stealth get a pax or an mflb
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Does anyone ACTUALLY use a schedule or some other way to organize their life?
They always seemed like memes to me that self-help gurus push but nobody actually uses for a significant period of time. I've tried to have a schedule in several different forms and I always end up dropping it after a few weeks. Then I hear of people who schedule literally everything, including hobbies and shit, and I think that's just fucking crazy.
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>I always end up dropping it after a few weeks
I use google calendar and it works because I stick to it. If you don't obey the rules, why make them?
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I had my most productive days when I would stick to the schedules I made the night before. Sticking to it will take discipline like anything else. Make sure you leave room for breaks and that it's realistic
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How do you accept your sexuality?
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I have a really hard time accepting my sexuality - though not in the usual sense. Some part of my brain is convinced I am gay yet I have never been able to get hard over men, the most I have is a slight sexual attraction towards them, but that is mostly just a visual appreciation.
I've only ever been with girls, and though I am not the biggest fan of the way vagina looks, it still turns me on and girls in general I find far more attractive.
I keep looking at gay porn expecting to enjoy it, or even just imagining sex with with guys, but I either can't get hard, or if I am already hard (by random or via straight porn) and try to masturbate my boner dies.
Is there anything I can do? Or is this just going to be a thing that dies down with time?
(Also, I know this is dumb and I should just "accept it" but I really don't know how to).
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It sounds like you're not actually gay.
It might be time to start thinking about the sorts of media that you consume now and were raised on as a child, and the sorts of values that you were instilled with. I don't normally say this, but Jewish brainwashing seems like a strong possibility here.
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>>18596381
Even though you're right a bunch of pearl clutching fags will tell you to go back to /pol/
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>>18596381
I did spend a lot of time listening to Sufjan Stevens which is like 100% gay, so it may be something to do with that...
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How do I bang upstairs neighbour? 2017-08-06 09:21:30 Post No.18596344
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How do I bang upstairs neighbour?
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What is up my dudes
>21
>living in Mexico apartment complex with mom
>Have solid 8/10 40-something year old neighbor. She has a great body and she looks good for her age.
>I dont think she's married.
How do I proceed tp go about this. I've said hi to her a couple of times and chatted a bit. But pushing anything to sex has never been my strongest suit. What do?
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try to ask her on like, a date? i dunno, but you can try
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The thing with dates is that the girl always thinks I want more with her, when really I just wanna hit it.
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Knock on her door one day so you can ask her to borrow some sugar. Whether she has some or not, make some small talk and light flirtation, i.e. compliment what she's wearing (NOT her body). Usually something like "those pants fit you pretty well" works fine.
If you get a good response and she flirts back, ask her to join you at your place for a drink (which is chickspeak for "wanna fuck?")
It's that easy.
>>18596405
Then you need to make your intentions clear from the jump.