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Need help, /adv/
So a while back my gf of 8 months left me because she was going through a stressful time and rather than talking about it, she ended it with me. I was completely devastated for the first week, but decided there's no point in being sad and I should move on
Fast forward to now, I've started talking to this other girl who's super outgoing and fun to be with, and I'm kind of committed now, but then comes along my ex telling me that it was a mistake breaking up with me and she realized it didn't fix her problems and she wants me back
Recently I can't stop thinking about my ex, but I've gotten in too deep with this new girl, what do??
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does she know you are seeing someone?
important
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>>18599466
Yes she does. She texted me the day after someone told her I was seeing the other girl
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>>18599617
Don't you fucking go back to her. She's just afraid of losing you to that new girl. Perfectly human, but definitely no base to build a relationship from. Take it as a compliment and move on. Focus with every bit of your mind on what's ahead of you.
Help I'm nauseous and have stomach cramps and I am afraid of throwing up
Hellllpppppp I'm in so much pain and I live alone
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drink a bunch of water and tell us what is causing this if you know.
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Accept that you're gonna throw up and get a bucket ready. Or bend over the toilet.
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Lie down in your side, grab something like a pillow or something and squeeze it with all your strengh, watch some funny videos to distract yourself, if you have one of those water heating pads heat one up and put it next to your belly. I'm not sure how bad your cramps are, but when I had them that's what I used to do. Hope you get better soon anon
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volunteering worth my time
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So I'm doing this volunteering stuff to a. do something with my life b. figure out what I want to do after college. I'm mostly interested in paleontology, but I could do a lot of different things with that. I already got accepted to volunteer at a small dinosaur museum, which means I'll have a few months experience with museum volunteering before pic related (where I'm also a member) even gets back to me about scheduling an interview.
Should I call it off or is volunteering at multiple places for the same thing not retarded? Because I'd also be interested in volunteering at the zoo.
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I broke up with my (now ex) gf a bit more than 2 weeks ago. It lasted 2 months. We broke up through text. Basically, things have been going to shit with her distancing herself and me distancing myself. She doesn't love me anymore and doesn't know why (I did a lot of bad shit so I think I know why, but still, it's tough to pin point everything). I told her that I still have feelings for her. When our relationship was starting to go to shit, she started showing less and less affection towards me, yet she would text me non stop. She would initiate conversations and keep them going. It looks like she actually enjoyed talking to me. This makes me incredibly confused.
Basically, I want her back. We haven't talked to each other since we broke up. I've been waiting for her to contact me but it seems like that won't happen. Should I wait some more (till the 30 day mark) or should I contact her earlier?
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you weren't together long enough for it to matter. you don't have to wait some arbitrary amount of time to speak to anyone. did you know her prior to dating? if not, i doubt she loved you in the first place. it may be in your best interest to take this opportunity out and find something better. a relationship where you don't see fit to do "a lot of bad shit".
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>>18599364
> did you know her prior to dating?
We were acquaintances and we hanged out with some of our friends from time to time.
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>two months
kinda jelly
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Does /adv/ know where to properly promote ones music/youtubechannel?
I post it in various forums with positive results (meaning subscribers and likes) but I feel like the reach isn't big enough. Do you know any other ways to get it heard for example internet radios?
>inb4 I know that I will still need to improve quality and just keep on pumping out new content.
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I've always wanted to be a singer (as a hobby) but i feel i don't have a singing voice, I tried those voice exercise videos but my throat just starts hurting or my voice gives out while trying to sing is it possible to learn singing ?
>inb4 record yourself
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Keep going man
If you enjoy singing then it's all good, you're having fun
If you want to be a good singer then you're going to have to sing in front of people and get their opinions, so better get comfy with being a bit extroverted
In terms of your throat hurting I'm guessing you just went too hard too fast, do small bits and pieces often when you're practising, not massive sessions
Good luck man, and again start getting comfy with performing/criticism/advice, try be real chill about it, better for everyone
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>>18599333
Checked and also this.
Try to really listen objectively to your voice and work on the parts that seem lacking. Do this for long enough without getting unmotivated and you're good to go. Singing lessons help you do this for you
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what's the minimum amount of hours you think you could get away with in a salaried position if you were still accomplishing all your essential tasks?
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40? 35?
I essentially get in at 9 and leave at five, with an hour lunch break at noon.
It really depends on the pulse of your company. Some expect late nights, even if they're not that productive.
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However long it took you to do those essential tasks. Don't count on ever being promoted and know that you'll be the first in line for redundancy though.
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Out of interest, does this bill mean that if you waiting in the queue for a family sponsored green card, when this gets passed, your application suddenly becomes invalid?
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Hey guys, I've been addicted to masturbation for a while. I know that sounds stupid but I'm in a good relationship with regular sex, but I still can't seem to stop. The sex is good, it fulfills everything I need but I keep finding myself back at it. I'm not sure how to stop. Pic unrelated
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most people fap even when in a relationship, nothing weird unless 3 times a day
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>>18599238
Not OP, but I masturbate around 5 times a day, should I be worried?
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If you smoked even 5 cigarettes a day you may be addicted.
Just because most men do it does not mean it is normal or not an addiction. It is an addiction and your lack of control is evident if that.
Its not like cigarettes where you can just not buy them, you have easy access to pot virtually all the time if you have a smartphone. There is no easy way to stop but try limiting it to once a day, and then every other day and see how well you do at that.
You may not see the detrimental effects porn and masterbation have caused, but it does take its toll, even if that is just your time. I tend to get depressed and enter a downward spiral when I masterbate regularly.
Tldr: It'll do you good to quit, maybe try nofap but it is really hard once you've gone this far
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How do I improve my emotional intelligence?
I spent most of my childhood and teenage years alone, so I've got no idea how to read social queues etc..
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You will improve quickly and naturally as you put yourself in social situations. The point is not to avoid them.
Humans are social creatures; we're designed to pick up on these social signals quite naturally.
The book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is a classic suggestion for those hoping to improve their people skills. It's free online and you can probably read it in a few days if you devote a few hours per day. It helped me when I was younger.
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>>18599197
>social queues
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How do I get a MILF?
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Go to yoga almost every day. Don't hit on them during, before, or after the class. Don't try to impress them at all. Just become familiar. By the time you're limber enough to give them the fucking they really want, it will be really easy. Just keep going for as long as that takes.
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What companies hire white people? I have a hs diploma, working on a degree.
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>>18599181
Ayo wite boi, yu eent gettin no job. We wuz kangz n shiieet and weez takin' ovah nuggaw. Knowwhamsayun?
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>>18599184
ROFL
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What To Do for My Wife's Birthday?
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Are any of you from Los Angeles? My wife's birthday is next weekend, and I need some ideas for something unique to take her to.
She loves magic shows and mexican food. We've already been to the Magic Castle and Black Rabbit Rose, so need something new and unique.
Doesn't have to be magic, just something fun. Also good high-end Mexican restaurants.
Thanks friends
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>>18599180
was about to suggest magic castle until I Saw that.
i dont think there are too many magic shows in town.
something to consider: you don't have to come up with something unique. something tried and true as long as its fun is better than something unique which can fall flat on its face.
I do the same thing for my birthday every year, cuz every year its great fucking fun. if it begins to mellow out ill try something new, but no reason not to keep up with something you know works. you could be dating this girl for another 50 years. imagine trying to make 50 unique birthdays. maddening.
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I used to have an uncle when I was little. Let me rephrase that, he was 'the' uncle. He broke up with my aunt, and lost contact with him shortly after. Years latter I find him on facebook and regain contact. This mourning he offered me a job with him. The problem is, I an a social flop and no longer under the guise as a kid. I dont know how to interact with guys his age or even engage in 'boy talk' I want him to like me. And the high likelihood if me sperging out is problematic. The only thing that ic an think of is to cover my ass. Strait up yell him im autistic and can be awkward or oblivious to standard social stuff. He knew I was diffrent when I was young, and struggled with school and friends, but I do not know how he will react when I tell him that to this day, I still have lots of problems. Its a better plan than having no excuse and making a fool out of myself without any discernible reason. Likely, he will be fine, but it is terrifying to tell your childhood hero your weaknesses and admitting that I am not normal. I start work tomorrow, and my anxiety is through the roof. Do you guys think it a good idea? Is there an alternative one you can think of? There isn't enough time to think about this on my own so I need the help
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I am 22 years old and I have obsesive compulsive disorder. I feel the live not worth it, I am single for 7 years and I don't get anything exiting. I don't know what to do, I don't smoke nor drink.
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>>18599101
smoking and drinking isn't exciting. people who drinks and smoke to have fun are doing so because their lives are so boring that they need to find ways of making 'getting some snacks' to 'le epic crazy adventure' that they and other stoners can laugh at for a few days but everyone else just thinks their stupid.