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Hello /adv/, this school year is almost over and i'll be finished school for good, next year i'm looking to kickstart a career in video editing within the TV/film industry. My question is how would i go about getting a career in this field living in Sydney Australia. Would my best option be to goto uni and achieve a bachelor degree? Please help me out
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I don't live there so idk much specifically about the industry there.
If the city has an active industry in that, i'd suggest trying to contact people who work within the tv/film industry.
Try to get in contact with recent graduates from the uni too, make sure the uni is a good one. Even with the professors; are there working proffessionals teaching at that uni?

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Haven't really been on this site in about a year, and I'm slowly but surely remembering what it's like to be a normal human.

I can make small talk with girls and not be that anxious, but when it comes to taking the final steps in romantic encounters (making a move) im still just fucking hopeless.

The other day a girl invited me into her room and I just stood in the doorway and said
>"nah fuck that, your room's messy as."

I don't know how or why those words came out of my mouth, but I just got stuck in my own head and blurted it out.

So, normies of /adv/, how do I stop myself from being fatally anxious whenever sex is actually on the cards?
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bump to save my soul.

I'm reasonably on top of my life in almost every other area but just still a weird cunt with girls.
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>>18597801
kys
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>>18597871
fuck you man

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I've come to the conclusion that I am the kind of person that needs a distraction free, quiet place in order to study for long periods of time. My dilemma is that I'm living with roommates in a house so I'm limited to my one room for all my belongings. This is an issue for me because my room is full of distracting things.

You would think this would be something super straight foreword but I'm trying to see what else I can do other than go to the library or get rid of most my possessions.

Any ideas?
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>>18597799
library
study halls
back corner of quiet coffeeshop

self-discipline

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Basically all my life iv bin cearing of what people think about and not being my self all thow i know people dont give a single shit about me how can i stop caring plz help really want to change but idk why i cant
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>>18597794
go to the gym and get /fit/
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>>18598523
Not OP but does this really work? I've been really philosophizing the virtues of fitness for a little bit now. Started a month or so ago. Any experience?
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>>18598529
born a beta always a beta, no amount of lift can change that

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How do I get my shit on track?

I've been depressed ever since I was twelve. I went to get some help when I was about 15 and I was way too stubborn to even listen to what I was being told and my psychiatrist just gave up on me. I tried to act happy but shit just got too much.
I was in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend constantly cheated on me and abused me but I was way too scared to leave him thinking that no one will want me. When I finally left him, I met a guy who just became my best friend instantly. After some months we finally confessed that we had a crush on each other and we've been in a relationship for about two years now and despite the fact that he is head over heels for me, I still feel like I'm just garbage that won't be loved by anyone. I'm so scared that he'll eventually give up on me because of my mental problems and believe me when I say that he's the only reason I live now.

Tl;dr I don't feel like I'm good enough, I've been depressed for quite a long time, I'm not motivated to get my life in order because all I do is play wow all day and I really need someone to tell me what the fuck I should do because I want to be happy.
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I dont have any libido or sexual interest when Im awake (sex and masturbation is shit). But when Im dreaming I feel full pleasure. Wtf is this and how do I get my sexually back when Im awake?
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>>18597773
Sleepwalk.
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>>18597773
R u me. That was for the longest time and still mostly is.

I don't know what's you're situation? Maybe change your life around. Get rid of people that shouldn't be in it.

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Over the past 4 years I have been very depressed. It's not quite unbearable and I'm not suicidal, just pretty down all the time and sad.

I have a group of friends in my home town that keep me sane and being with them allows me to have small bursts of happiness sometimes. But I'm getting scared about the upcoming semester of college.

I am going into my second year and I have literally no friends there, I don't know why I just find it difficult to make them there. When I go back I'm scared my loniless will overcome me and I'll get even worse. I just want some tips for making friends/being more sociable in the college environment. I have a few new roommates this semester, so I'm hoping maybe I can start there.
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>>18597721
College is whatever you make it Anon, just start talking to people and join a few clubs.
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>>18597721
Apart from knowing each other since childhood, what do you and your old friends have in common? Interests, tastes, type of humor, etc.

Look for people with the same elements in college - there's a good chance they'll be friend material.

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there is this girl I'm trying to move to so I asked a friend of mine to try and get her opinion on me. so like basically name drop me in a conversation with her. He returned back to me and told me she said. "aw _____ Is bae". but she doubled that statement with "but I like black-black boys (Caribbean,west African) not brown-black (me).

how do I proceed.

are my attempts futile at this point.

I'm Somali if it helps

pic related. it's me
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>>18597686
Adam Sandler detected.
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>>18597686
Ask her out. What do you have to lose if you do?
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Well, my somali anonymous friend, go fucking ask her, what are you going to lose anyway?

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>Being an Art Fag

Plan and simple as that. I was born into drawing and writing like it was natural. I have spent all my life enjoying this "hobby". Yet, after suffering years of depression I have gone off the deep end. I started having boughts of paranoia and stress. Unable to even sleep at night. I am seeing a therapist of course and a psychologist. But for once in my life I hate drawing. I hate writing. I can't do it anymore without becoming frustrated . Something I enjoyed for so long feels like I have to force it like a horse to an IV.

I know art is shit. I possibly won't get anything out of it in the future. Maybe this is the best so i wont be the bitch in art collage or starving. But hell, what is wrong with me? Why can't I just do what I love anymore?

Art is related. It is a horrible sketch, yet it is the most recent thing I can pull off.
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Depression causes lack of interest in hobbies

I haven't drawn in years

Get medicated while it's still mild
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>>18597624
This.

You're not well. You're not sleeping, you're undergoing stress and negativity. It's good that you are seeing someone to help. But you're not well yet. Keep seeing your doctors/therapists. Get the help you need to become functional again. When you're better, you'll find interest in your hobbies again. But for now, your brain is exhausted by the weight of your illness and lack of sleep. Anyone would go crazy under those conditions.
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I'm an artist myself, and I hate shitty artists who get into school because they have money.

But lots of people like you end up dropping out when the workload is too much in the later semesters, unless you go to a private institution that pushes for creativity over skills.

Also if you hate art and literature so much, then it wasn't meant for your career path. If you want to make money out of art, get into design or a creative position.

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i thought only vip could unlock the songs & sing
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>>18597603
Try asking in >>>/mu/.

They might have a direct answer.

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Can I get rid of my mustache with a 0.5mm trimmer? Will I have to use a razor after?
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Some advise right now would be really appreciated.
UK anon here and basically I left sixth form after the first year due to stress and depression from various things. I've went back to doing A levels last year and now I have one more year to go but I don't think I can make it anons ;w; Can I do apprenticeships instead or will no one hire me for being a failiure if I drop out now again? I'm 19 now and soon turning 20. It hurts.
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>>18597591
Uk fag here .I feel your pain bro, A-levels are a killer. But it depends on what job you wanna get. If its academic then sixtg for is the way.
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>>18597591
Matus, You polish cuck is that you ?
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Britfag here too my dude, Honestly I can spell fudge with my gcse's but somehow I managed to get into a level 3 college course for games development without meeting the requirements of 3 c's because they had low numbers. Anyway I got half the grades for that and dropped out cause my friend killed herself.

The point I was going to make is that I've literally had all manner of jobs and anytime they actually ask for grades I lie and say I have straight A's. Unless you are planning on going into a job that requires something specific or uni then why bother? It's a piece of paper that says you have good memory after all..

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>ambitious about traveling in the future
>not like vacation trips, but actually walking about and/or cycling etc in foreign places
>of course, don't want my dreams to swallow the present or my current academics in uni
>but at the same time scared of career pursuit locking me in deadend state

A majority of which I consider fault of my own paranoia, but at the same time I just have this fear of ending up stuck to my career and all that. Anyone else in the same boat?
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Hi I'm you in 3-5 years. I got a degree for doing software stuff, but as soon as I started working in the industry I realized I fucking despise it and I've lost any passion I used to have for programming.

I'm a few months into my second job and I'm constantly looking for an excuse to quit. I'm not even that bad at it but it leaves me feeling so drained at the end of the day.

I've been thinking of quitting to go teach English. You should finish your degree because you'll pretty much never be allowed to work in another country (even teaching English) if you don't have one. Doesn't even matter what it's in, you just need a 4 year degree (at least for the most desirable countries (ie Japan)).

I'm still considering taking that leap. It would make my life a lot more interesting, for sure.
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>>18597959
Hi, I'm you in two years (I guess)
I got a degree in art, which was a mistake to get in the first place, I've left Europe because there was no point trying to get a job there anyway. I now teach French and English in Vietnam. I don't know if my life is more interesting however, I live frugally, and once you've bragged enough on social medias about living leaving your comfort zone and living abroad, it gets repetitive. I don't know if I intend on leaving or going back to France yet, since I've got good friends here now, but my life is definitely not as different as it was back in Europe.
My point is, except if you want to live as a vagabond, routine will be inevitable. You're not going to get more sex in Asia either
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>>18597959
>>18598220
That's what I feared. Still, I'll keep going and make sure that I'm just not being over zealous, dial back expectations and understand that routine is going to happen. Thanks /adv/

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I kinda look like a hippy and need advice for looking professional with long hair and very little formal clothing.
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>>18597561
if it's that long, wearing it in a ponytail is probably the best idea
if you're actually a hippy, take a shower and comb it for a few hours
as for clothing it kinda depends on the job you're applying for
often good clothing (looks neat and picked well, nothing ripped or stained) does the job, but if you wear a suit at your job, wearing one for the interview is your best pick
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Ponytail for your hair. As for clothes, go to a thrift store and pick out a nice button up shirt and slacks/dress pants and polish your shoes.
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>>18597583
yeah this. Thrift shops can be a treasure trove of good stuff. You only need to look good for the interview, for work depends on what the job is.

be clean shaven or have a trimmed beard and be attentive to personal hygiene on the day. good luck.

Last week I went clubbing with this girl I like and some other friends and we ended up kissing, hugging, holding hands and talking a lot however no sex. I'm interested in having a relationship with her but whenever I message her she takes ages to reply. She blames it on the fact that she dislikes Facebook (I message her on messenger) so she never goes on it but I feel like she doesn't like me. Is there anyway to find out without straightforwardly asking her? I feel it's too soon to ask her now...

I've missed out a lot so feel free to ask questions if you want.
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Ask for her number, autismo. Then ask her on another date. If she says yes to both there's a good chance she likes you

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