How long does it take to run a background check? It's been three days since I was conditionally hired.
I'm worried they may have found out that I lost my job for stealing floor models 13 months ago.
Background check just involves the law, not what past employers say about you. Should be fine if you weren't arrested.
my boss is fucking pissed at me. he's an overly senstitive japanese guy and I kind of fucked up by saying a few weeks ago I could work during my full-time school, so now, on his birthday (because it's getting too late) I had to tell him I can't work at all, and as usual he's pissed as fuck saying I thought we were friends and now I don't even want to go to work to face that bullshit, how do I fix this
why does my pee come out yellow? is there anything wrong with me?
HELP?!?!?!
youre just dehydrated nigga
>>18601668
this is yahoo answers level trolling
>>18601668
You glhave cancer AIDS malaria. RIP OP. RIP.
OP.
I'm at bit of a crossroads here. I lost my job last week, and as such, have been scrambling to find another. While I've been applying, I've been taking some time to think. Now obviously I need income to pay for my apartment, bills, cat, etc., but I also want to get started doing voice over work. I have a demo and all my equipment ready to go, so now the real challenge is finding clients and people who are willing to pay me. Regarding my bills btw, I don't pay for any excess things like Netflix (get it through my gf), any games, or stuff, just the basic rent, car, electric, etc.
So the crossroads is, do I find another job that was as soul sucking as my last? I wouldn't mind something part time, but I don't really know of anything that would cover my bills. However, if I can start generating money from VO, then that situation would be fine. On the other hand, I don't know if I should continue to look for another 9-5 because it might be more secure. I really want to just pursue VO from here on out and maybe even a part time gig, but I don't know if I can do another 9-5 type job. But, it's probably the most stable.
Thoughts?
>>18601660
full time voice acting is extremely hard without connections, and you can't get connections if you aren't working hard at networking. a voice acting job is more about your ability to find clients than your talent as an actor or even your voice. You should get a stable sales job instead and voice act on the side until you have a large clientele.
my girl said that no one has ever made her cum. we've made out and messed around before and she was moaning and stuff while grinding on me. was this just an act? she says she likes me more than the last serious relationship she has had. my question is, is it more likely that she will cum to someone that she has a good emotional connection to? how has your boyfriend made you cum/orgasm? all I'm worried about is making sure she has a good time.
When I think depressive thoughts I feel a freezing sensation in my chest.
It's this spike of pain that I feel, ando I'm not getting any direct results when I Google it.
Heartbreak/loneliness thoughts
>>18601543
Have you been to a therapist to talk about your depressive thoughts ?
>>18601552
Nah. I know what they are: thinking about me being alone
I just don't know what's going on, medically
Your body temperature distribution changes depending on your moods. Depression and sadness will produce what you perceive as coldness throughout the body
This hasn't bothered me at all for the past four years. Maybe I convinced myself that there's more after death. But I was thinking in the shower today. Your brain is what gives you consciousness, and when you die, it stops working. That's pretty much a guarantee in my mind that your stream of life ends once you die, which means that, for an infinite amount of time, the universe goes on without you anywhere in it.
How do you cope with this? Pic unrelated
>>18601540
I came to similar realization a few years ago. I coped with it by deciding - immediately - not to waste any more time. If I wanted to do or accomplish something, I took steps to make it happen. I stopped putting things off until some hazy date in the future. I started actively working to make the people around me happy and do good work that actively made a difference in the world, even if it was a small one. I don't need to be the best at anything, but I wanted to make sure that the life I look back on when I'm at the end of it is fun, filled with good people and things I can be proud of.
>>18601540
It's a matter of values really. While it's true that you as a person may vanish with time, your bloodline, actions or ideas might survive countless generations. In a way, that means there's a way to become immortal, however not in the form most would like it to be. So if you ever have a fit of nihilism, just remember that what you do in life might ripple and affect countless of other lives for ages to come.
I've been pretending to be jewish for almost two weeks now, for networking and relationships
On my linkedin profile, I've been implying that I took part in jewish youth camps when I was younger
On tinder I've been saying I'm jewish on my description, and believe it or not I've been getting more replies than usual
However, I don't know shit about the jewish religion, I'm a Catholic myself, I live somewhere in Europe where jews are basically non-existant, but I'm afraid my lie could cause me issues in the future.
Is this a good or a bad idea?
>>18601536
>mfw white people say "Jews aren't white" but they can easily pretend to be Jewish and get away with it
But yeah, you might end up getting caught and having your parents out like you what happened to Rachel Dolezal.
>>18601536
Well, if you're circumcised, they can't easily call you out on it. But lying on your linkedin is probably a bigger issue. Tinder girls aren't going to care in a week, employers won't be happy if they find out you lied.
>>18601703
I'm not circumcised. Also on my linkedin I'm just implying it
Hello /adv/
I found a mouse in my room on Friday and then two in the kitchen yesterday. I hired a professional who came over to close any apparent mouse holes with some sort of poisonous paste.
I'm scared shitless of them and I'm about to leave for a 10 day holiday. I'm scared of the possibility that I might come back to an apartment full of them. I already bought mouse traps from a shop and poisonous little grainy things that I put everywhere.
What else can I do ? What's most effective against mice ? It doesn't help that I live in Paris and this city is infested with them...
Glue traps are most effective from my experience.
I live in a government funded social housing program, sober living, I just got outta rehab for drinking, im 23 Years old. The social worker they gave me, is insanely hot, blue eye's, black hair, about 5"9, decent body, but she's a Christian Feminist who is married. I can't tell if she want's me to give her the holy ghost or not. She wears revealing clothing, bends down infront of me all the time, grabs onto me sometimes, she sits on a chair in my living room and spreads her legs, but she always just leaves my coin purse blue like her eyes. It's having a detriment on my overall mental health, because I can't really tell what she want's from me, what should I do? Is it a trap? Also she comes here everyday, 5 days a week, weekends off, its a nightmare!
>>18601510
No she doesn't
Free hint: If a person is paid to be there she isn't into you
>>18601510
Better not mate. Even if she were into you (low chances) it just sounds like a bad idea (she's married already)
>>18601510
She probably just likes the attention she gets from being revealing. It's nice to be oggled for a short period of time as long as the guys not being a pig about it.
Of course not every girl feels that way, but there's a chance she might. Look but don't touch OP. She probably doesn't want you to play hide the sausage with her and just likes knowing you could possibly be staring. Or maybe she just dresses like that for herself. Who knows.
How do I make peace with the fact that I can't be loved?
Everything else in my life is perfect but just this one thing ruins everything.
everyone on this planet is capable of being loved
>>18601509
Well, there's no takers for me.
I'm not going to move to another country in hopes of dating prospects.
How do I get rid of a sore throat? Do cough drops really work?
>>18601448
Drink green tea with honey, drink orange juice for vitamin c to keep you from getting worse while your body is trying to fight it off, and if it's really bad, a glass of Woodford Reserve on the rocks will make it feel better.
And yes, throat losenges work great.
Forgot to add, gurgling listerine hurts like hell at first, but it is antiseptic so it will kill the bacteria that are irritating your throat.
How do you get rid of the want for a relationship?
I have plenty of friends and hobbies, I neither want nor need sex, and I can't get pets.
Alcoholism worked for a while but it's starting to ruin my life.
Anyone? Please? There has to be something I can do.
Some medication? Some antidepressants make you lose your appetite or sex drive or something, there has to be something like that.
How do I make peace with the fact that I can't be loved?
>>18601428
>Guys, i am hungry, but i dont want to eat!
>sick again
>middle of night here
>tried sleeping
>woke up, thought at least 5 hours has passed, might as well get up drink meds early
>only 15 minutes passed since i closed eyes
>keep lying down to sleep, keep waking up 15-30 minutes later
>give up, decide to go online
>live alone
>need someone to keep me company
someone please?
took neozep forte (pheno something for runny nose and paracetamol) 2 tablets each at time 12noon, 6pm, 11pm. took 2 tablets because i take st john's wort and was told it decreases effectivity of paracetamol so you need to increase dosage.
decided to not take st john's wort while sick starting later this morning when i'm supposed to take my next dose. i've forgotten to take it on some days with no bad effects.
decided to switch to 2 tablets of generic ibuprofen every six hours instead of neozep forte starting at my next meds sched at 6am. i've been taking ibuprofen for years for fever but yesterday decided on neozep because i used to take it whenever i also have runny nose.
any thoughts and, of course, advice, /adv/?
How can you be excited to live when you have no hope for love?
My heart genuinely can't deal with another heartbreak - it could lead me to suicide.
So I've completely given up on love, ad I don't trudt it, and now my excitement to continue to live is entirely gone.
The idea of living alone, sleeping alone forever after is terrifying
Not having someone love you is too.
Any other forerveralones know what I'm talking about?
OP here
I should mention that after my last breakup, I can't trust being in amother relationship again.
This has basically ended my excitement for the future. I feel like temporarily quitting work and living with patents to figure out my depression