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We all had to write cards for a random person for a Valentine's Day thing in my class this year and my oneitis happened to get my name by chance so she wrote me this note. Now keep in mind that she got a bf a couple weeks before this but she's basically told me before that she used to have a crush on me and I know she knows that I like her. This is what the note said.
Anon!!!
You're so great! Your laugh is so funny and contagious. I love it when you smile haha. I hope one day you see how awesome you are! Love you Anon! Always talk to me if you need to! :)
-Anonette
I should also mention I told her I was going to kill myself at some point this year so we were talking about that the weeks before so that's why she mentioned that last part. Not sure if this letter has any actual significance or not as I'm legit autismo.
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>>18599945
autismo
An aside, if you want advice for a increased chances of a functional relationship in the future (with some other girl), then work on yourself first.
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>>18599945
Unfortunately no, this doesn't seem to have any real meaning other than friendship. It seems to be genuine friendship, but it ends there.
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>>18600065
this, and you would do best to keep it that way, she sounds like a good friend
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any advice on getting a job? all the online applications seem to never work, seems like it was much easier years ago..
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Places hire easily during transitional points. Look for places with high turnover rates (if you can handle a little more stress than the average person, even better)
Some other jackass is gonna need to reveal how to check for transitional points and turnover rates, because I still need to figure that out
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Where do you want to work?
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>>18599941
I can't help you without seeing shit like your resume. I've had a paid mini-vacation pretty much every other weekend this whole summer. Texas, Florida, Kentucky, Massachusetts, Colorado, California, and Montana so far.
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I found out I had genital herpes, it only appeared once on my cock for the one year period I have had it.
I am terrified of dating and never had a real girlfriend except for one, who dumped me for another guy.
My family is very wealthy, and I am scared if I infect a girl, she will sue me.
What should I do?
I really want a mail order bride from china, but I am scared about the disease and their culture.
Should I go for filipina or a colombian girl (I heard 50% of colombian women have herpes, and filipinas are super poor).
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>>18599912
Kek, pathetic
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>>18599912
almost 80% of the population in the world has one or the other. quit losing it.
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How do you guys deal with being a NEET? For those who have left this lifestyle behind, how did you do it?
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If you're a self aware neet theb you're halfway there. Quit putting yourself down and overthinking things. Just do it.
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Good sites for finding people to talk to? 2017-08-08 01:45:46 Post No.18599785
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Good sites for finding people to talk to?
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I'm a guy, I'm 17, and I'm looking for sites where I can find girls to talk to. Omegle is a sausage fest, and I don't really know of any other options. Anyone have any suggestions?
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interpals maybe
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>>18599785
If you're bilingual (or trying to be) try the HelloTalk app
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I have this crushing sensation that there's something I should be doing right now, but for the life of me have no idea what it could possibly be.
Anyone know what im talking about or am i just losing my mind?
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>>18599777
not letting your life pass by
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>>18599777
I can absolutely guarantee that it is NOT sitting on 4chan.
Does that narrow it down enough?
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How to give maximum pleasure?
Tips on cunnilingus, foreplay, sex
Does jelqing help? Size matter?
Communication before/during/after
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Personal advice and links are welcomed
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Music recs? Too
Glass animals - gooey
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My best advice would be get good at reading girls vibes. Sometimes girl will want you to fuck them hard like theyre cheapo sluts, and sometimes they'll want you to make love to them, look them in the eyes, talk to them and stroke their hair while you give them gentle loving pumps.
Do too much of the first one and she'll complain that you're just using her as an object. Do too much of the second one and she'll complain that you never fuck her good and that she needs to be dominated.
Also, don't expect women to be in the mood all the time. You have to find ways to turn them on, which is easy enough in the beginning, but the longer you stay with a girl the more complex it usually gets, but not always.
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Hi A/V fanatics and cinephiles,
I've recently found out I'm medium far-sighted and since I love watching films I wanted a new place to watch movies that doesn't strain my eye too much. I have an 4 y/o gaming pc witb 2 gb of vram and I can put a 4k monitor and a gaming seat to watch movies on my desk or I have another room with a big white wall in front of a bed and could buy a 1080p projector even though I never installed a projector and don't know if I can find a technician to do it.What do you think could be the best setup?
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How often should you message a girl while she's on a holiday overseas?
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Depends on how often you all talked when she is not overseas. Personally let her comtact you first. She is having a break and with the internationql data charge she might not want to reply.
Tldr: Zero.
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>>18599816
Thanks anon
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Moving out of my parents. 2017-08-08 01:18:05 Post No.18599716
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Moving out of my parents.
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i want to move ou of my parents in 7ish months (around upcoming febuary)
I have no previous renters history and the place i want to move into is pretty nice. Affording the place isn't the issue, being accepted is what im worried about
I have no outstanding debts, and i currently have a little to no credit score. And i can't ask my parents to co-sign cause their credit is shit.
I was thinking i could build some credit by just paying the bills i have now (paying the 160 dollar cable/internet bill is my rent) with a credit card and paying it off at the end of the month. Ive heard this is a good way but im not sure
I also hope to work ALOT and ideally get like 10-14k saved up, hoping maybe paying off 3-4 months of rent + deposit is enough to forgive my no renters history
tl;dr Will building my credit up and paying 3 months of rent + deposit allow me to move into a nice place with no renters history?
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bump
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How much is rent per month?
How much money do you make at your job?
Apartments care about steady employment more than credit score in my experience
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>How much rent
its gonna be around 1k with uitlities. Cable no included
>Money per month
Currently i can make 2K no problem, however i will soon be getting a second job with the hopes that will eventually become fulltime
First job is 40 hr of 12 hr plus 10 of Overtime at 18
Second job is between 14-25 hr of 18 per hour
So the next 7 months i should be making around 3K ideally if i get to work as much as i want. Potentially more in December
i'll have been at my job for a year in October.
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Can't keep interest in one thing for long 2017-08-08 01:10:32 Post No.18599698
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So, /adv/, I have a problem that is incredibly discouraging. Take this past month for example: I took an interest in programming, and a week or so later I think "Hmmm, if I want to program perhaps I should learn a difterent OS first" So I decide to learn Linux, then I start learning Linux, get it installed(Mint, if you're curious), and then I decide, maybe I should learn more about how computers work before doing OS studies, so I start reading A+ material. Then I lose interest in that a few days later and start taking interest in something completely different: Science(focus on astronomy), and philosophy.
I am so phase driven like this constantly, I take interest in something and lose interest quickly after and I'm afraid to try and commit to anything then I can't justify jumping into something as deep as, say, programming since that is a very long term endeavor.
I'm lost :( How do I get fulfillment out of life when I can't stick with anything?
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you could maybe start with just taking up some hobbies instead of focusing on one thing completely. i have the same issue as you do and i myself am still trying to figure out how to deal with it. maybe if you don't focus completely on something, you won't lose intrest as quickly?
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I'm a software developer, and it's even hard for me to get motivated enough to write code in the evenings after doing it all day. For me, I'm need-focused, so if I don't have an actual problem to solve, I don't have motivation to do it. Maybe try to find a problem you can solve with software. Write an app to scrape 4chan and notify you when someone replies to you or when someone creates a thread you may be interested in.
Your problem is that you're being too academic about it. You're trying to learn the whole fundamentals behind it all before you write a line of code. Don't do this. Learn a language first, and only learn it through solving a problem. Be 100% pragmatic about it. Choose a scripting style language like python or ruby for ease.
Once you have the basics, then study the theory behind it. You can't learn set theory, which arithmetic is based on, before you learn arithmetic.
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>>18599698
You might be ADD, something worth looking into.
Other than that, it seems like you're having trouble keeping a beginner's mind. I have the same problem. I find interest in something, get really into it, and not too long after I move on. Sometimes I move back to the old things, but not sticking with something is an issue. Inspiration is easy but the follow through is what's difficult in my situation.
There's a great book that compiles a bunch of talks by a Zen Buddhist monk who helped popularize the school in America. It's called Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind. Regardless of your opinions of Buddhism, there are some solid concepts in the book and with it I've been getting better with keeping alive the wonder that I can so easily feel and steering clear of the trappings of self-destructive intellectualism.
For that matter, there's real science behind meditation as well. And that is perhaps one of the best ways of maintaining focus within.
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So I've been on a vacation with my old highschool mates and they brought thier elementary school classmates. 2 girl. One of them is smoking hot.
>Bluetooth hair
>Perfect pear shaped body
>Big brown eyes
>Pic is not her ofc. but looks almost like her.
So started to hit on her, I though she likes me, she said I'm symphatic after we talked some - maybe she didn't meant in a romantic way - but than I became a bit too zippy, and ofc she didn't liked that, I became annoying, but I couldn't help it. So when we got home I apologized on Facebook for being annoying and clingy, she said it's okay and If I would annoy her, she would not reply. So we started to talk, this was 3 days ago, we also talked 2 days ago, and she started the conversation that time. About the cost of the vacation.
My friend made an excel table who own money to someone. So she asked when could she pay her dept, but I didn't spend money on making the trip, so I though she just pretends that she owns me and It was just a reason to talk with me.
Yesterday I started the conversation but she only replied after her work, so she was probably tired and didn't wanted to speak with me so she stoped replying after 3 message. I was okay with that I didn't wanted to bother her. Today I didn't write for her, because I don't want her to think I have no life and I'm on social media 0/24 + I don't want to look clingy.
>SORRY IF IT WAS TLTR
Anyway what do you guys think what sould be my next step? Should I chat with her, or should I just ask her out? But what if it's too soon or she doesn't like me in a romantic way, and how should I approach?
HALP PL0X
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Btw I'm turned 20 a month ago, and I didn't really had any long term relationship in 19 years.
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Does this girl like me? 2017-08-08 01:00:49 Post No.18599679
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I'm asking because I met this girl while at the bus stop today, and we seemed to hit it off pretty well. I read somewhere when a girl crosses her leg, and the leg is pointing towards you, it means something. Also, I called her and asked if she wanted to meet up to go see an art show in town tomorrow, and she jumped at the chance. I even got her number before I went home. She was even laughing a little when I was talking to her to ask if she wanted to come to the art show. Does she like me, or is this normal girl behavior?
Pic related, as I feel like there are always layers to a girls behavior.
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>met this girl at the bus stop
>i got her number
>she jumped at the chance to hang with me
>d-does she like me?
Yes. She likes you asshole, I mean, anon.
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>>18599679
>Does she like me, or is this normal girl behavior?
No, laughing and flirting with guys at bus stops, giving them their numbers and agreeing to go on dates with them is "normal girl behavior".
>I feel like there are always layers to a girls behavior.
There is literally nothing layered about this behavior. I think the issue is you're about as perceptive as a stump.
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>>18599679
>I'm asking because I met this girl while at the bus stop today, and we seemed to hit it off pretty well
Explain your process
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How do I ask an old friend on a date?
>2 years ago, was friends with a jewess
>very sweet and funny, not a dumbass like 99% of women
>find a new major, stop talking to her out of inconvenience
>fast forward to today, she sends me a friend request on FB
>does a lot of really good art that I didn't know about
>am reminded that we have similar tastes in music and movies
>apparently she's now reading Nietzsche and other psychologists and philosophers, purely because she enjoys it
>i find her really qt now, for some reason
>tfw haven't talked to her in a year and don't know how to ask her out
>even if I tried, I know that I would fail and it would be extremely awkward
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talk to her more and see if she shows any interest if you just pop out of thin air after a year she will almost defo say no, talk to her see if you click one on one, ask to hang out as friends after getting close and go from there
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21 y/o male here and how do I get with slightly older women? Like a girl who is 23 or 25 in that range. Do I have to be extra mature or do I date these kind of women the same way I'm dating someone of my own age? I have a car, my own apartment and a job besides going to uni. If that's relevant.
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>>18599668
Same way you get with anyone else who isn't a gold digger.
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Be the best option out of all the posibilities she has. Then she'll want you over other men.