I recently visited my gf in her home country, she's asian and I'm a nig pretty much when I went there I was expecting stares but holy fuck were they more intense then I thought they'd be.
Pretty much everyone stared us down so fucking hard there was even this girl that straight up just looked disgusted that we were even holding hands.
Needless to say she was happy and didn't notice but I did so I'm not really looking forward to, nor do I want to go back.
Is there anyway I can tell her without disappointing her? I felt more uncomfortable/ashamed there than I have in my entire life.
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You can either leave your gf because of something she has no control over, or you can suck it up and keep the relationship
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I love her to death I don't want to leave her.
But if it was something like just sucking it up I would have, it was literally everyone we saw at the amusement park staring at us when we held hands, or when I had my hat off.
I just don't want to go to malaysia ever again, I don't want to leave her why would I, I just felt so dirty am I just being a pussy?
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>>16952878
you arn't being a pussy, but you need to understand that there isnt a single chance that you will change an entire culture, its also not limited to malaysia, zurich is a pretty openly racist city, for example
Feel it's affected me lots and makes it hard getting close to people. But I don't ever want to talk about it with anyone.
Is this normal? Is it okay?
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Go to a therapist.
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>>16951688
I feel like there are rape counselors to help you with your situation
if this is a bait thread I hope you get raped and murdered though
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>>16951688
Oh boohoo, should have just put it out instead of said no bitch.
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>femanon
>shy and boring
>not many friends
>problems with my parents
>kissless virgin
>only person i get along with is my older brother
>trust him with everything
>talk about everything
>share everything
>even tells me of his sex life
>ask him to help me finding a boyfriend
>doesn't want to help me
>'don't rush anything, you have time, the right guy will show up'
>thanks for the advice coming from a guy who is in a long relationship and has sex almost every time they see each other
>hear them having sex
>felt ashamed for hearing it the first times
>now get aroused every time
>'i should feel disgusted'
>masturbate to the noise anyway
>one day
>they leave after having sex
>get in his room
>musky smell
>get disgusted and wet at the same time
>nightdrawer is open
>mostly condoms
>see vibrator
>looks strange
>low quality
>'oh my good its a replica of his dick'
>heart beats like the heart of a hummingbird
>don't know what to do
>leave room
>feel weird
>a few weeks later
>brother is gone for the whole weekend
>parents meet with friends
>be alone
>get in his room
>steal the replica
>it not very long but unbelievably thick
>can't close my fingers around it
>grab it with both hands
>'i have my brothers erected dick in my hand'
>i feel like a dirty, sick slut
>dripping wet at the same time
>close my eyes
>have the vibrator in the one hand and masturbate with the other
>biggest orgasm i ever had
>feel remorse
>bring it back
>never been that ashamed in my whole life
that was last weekend it it wasn't the last time i used it. what the fuck is wrong with me?
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>>16953304
Why not just fuck him?
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>>16953322
How about its illegal, its sick and disgusting.
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>>16953304
>Female
>Kissless virgin
Pffffftt hahahahahahahaha yeah ok OP. Sure.
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Hey /adv/,
I have a gf who is mad at me because I want to focus on my career. She wants me to leave with her somewhere and find a job as something else like a waiter for two months so we can live together now that we are young, have a break from the daily routine and so I can prove she is my number one priority in my life. When I told her no because I want to focus on my career and not lose chances and she became furious. It got me thinking. Am i in the wrong because I have scheduled my life as such? I love her loads but maybe I'm not a good boyfriend because I believe its very important to develop my career now that im young so Im covered in my 30s. What do you think?
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>>16953259
No, fuck her. When you're 50 and acomplished your dreams you will thank yourself.
Tell her that she's not your top priority and doesn't deserve to be.
Accomplish what you want and the women will come. Better women than this one.
Nobody who accomplished their dreams did it by giving up because a chick was needy. She's poison.
Dump her cunt ass.
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>>16953303
Thanks for the reply. I always try to think my actions and my feelings throughtout. Thinking of just myself seems so selfish to me and when I love someone I want both of us to be happy but I know thinking of my future its the right think to do when it comes to this. I talk to her about it and whatever happens
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>>16953259
If you give up a career for some girl you'll resent her for the rest of your life.
When the right girl comes along she won't ask you to make a sacrifice like that.
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I'm so angry and stressed out right now, I hope someone will talk..
I was just at the bar with a few of my friends. We were there for a while drinking, and of course girls and sex becomes a topic of conversation. People are going around our table full of drinks just talking and joking. I'm just kind of sitting there laughing along, but not contributing anything. After a while they turned and looked at me and one of my friends say "man.. You really need to get laid, how long has it been for you?" So I said 5 years. They seemed kind of stunned and went on about "how can you go for SO LONG?? You need to use what you have man! Use it!" And they mentioned how I should be able to pick up a decent girl because I dress nice and am not a bad looking guy. One of my friends then kind of wandered off from the group while the rest talked to me. About 30min later he came back with a cute brunette girl with him. And he tried to introduce me to her and get a conversation going. I told her I didn't want to talk and she went away. He got so pissed and said that "you don't know what you are missing!!! YOU ARE 25, you'll regret this time if you don't get it while you can!! Come on dude!! Man up!" I got pissed and left.
To make matters even worse, I went outside and was texting a close female friend of mine. She asked what I was up to, and I said drinking at the bar with friends, and guess what her response was... She said "oh! I hope you have a lot of fun! Make sure to go find yourself a little hottie ;).... But make sure to be safe!! :P"
Aaaaaahhh I feel so fucking stresssssssed right now. I feel as if im like a bad person because I don't have sex. It's like everyone expects me to do it, and I'm wrong because I don't. Is it really that weird that I haven't had sex in 5 years??? It's been by choice. Why? I don't know. I just don't do it. I'm not asexual, and I'm not religious, or "waiting for the one" bullshit. I just don't.
Am I really this fucking bad??
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Why don't you want to have sex?
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>>16951275
Do whatever you feel like doing OP.
You dont exist to please other people.
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>>16951286
I just don't want to. I guess this kind of goes back 2-3 years ago. But that female friend I mentioned, when we first met. I ended up developing feelings for her. and well, she didn't feel exactly the same way. and because I care about her and she was a good friend. I respected her feelings. She would regularly go out and go on dates. And I guess it turned me into a very bitter person. My feelings for her are mostly gone. Now I just see her as a friend. But I guess it left me scarred. Nothing about sex is appealing to me anyone. She's a beautiful and wonderful person, but even if SHE wanted to have sex with me right now I wouldn't do it.
I'm just done. I have no energy for it. I don't want anyone to touch me, and I don't want my pants to come off. It's been 5 years. And it's been relatively easy to go without sex. You forget after so long.
What does the average 20 Year old do with his/her day?
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fuck your mom
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>>16953211
20, not 12
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>>16953240
ehh?
Ok /adv/ here's the deal
I am 28 and live at home.. my mum is mentally ill and I am the only person she has to look after her. She is also dying slowly from a fatal heart defect.
My days normally involve making sure she doesn't hurt herself, make sure she takes her meds etc and cooking.
The only times I leave the house are to pay bills and buy the things we need to live, money is tight but this is the life I chose, I am however concerned with the amount of weight I've put on. I'm 5'10 and weigh about 14.5st
I need some help with a low impact workout I can do without buying anything extra. I don't eat too badly but could do with cutting out snacks through out the day.. willpower isn't an issue but being bored out of my mind is.
Fact is I hate what i've become and I feel like everyone is staring at me when i leave the house.. I haven't been able to buy new clothes in 6 years and I can see everyday how much of a worthless fatass i've become.
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>>16953177
http://scoobysworkshop.com/
Check out lord scooby's home workouts, also read up on nutrition there.
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Working out is not how you lose weight. It takes an incredible amount of effort and time to even burn off a handful of calories. That's not realistic.
Do you know what takes around 1700 kcal per day though? Simply being alive. Your body will gladly deplete that much energy every day just to keep the lights on. Your simple challenge is to eat less than your body needs for that goal. Obviously it won't want to surrender to the Grim Reaper, so what it will do instead is turn to your fat reserves to make up the difference.
You do eat badly. That's the only way to get fat. You eat more than you burn, and that's bad maths. Feel free to take up walking or swimming or whatever your heart desires to stave off boredom, but the only reasonable approach you have to losing this weight is to change how you eat. Measure things meticulously. Log everything, down to the butter in which you cook your eggs. When you do eat, make intelligent choices (lots of fiber and protein, moderate amounts of fat) so that you stay full for longer and quit snacking. Your body will do the rest of the work automatically.
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>>16953200
Ty dood, checking it out now
>>16953203
>You do eat badly
You're probably right. fact is I barely eat anything during the day most days
> Feel free to take up walking or swimming or whatever your heart desires to stave off boredom
Not possible right now. Mum is batshit crazy.. I cannot leave her alone during the day.
Anybody else here ever struggled with laziness? And I don't mean like the typical "I don't feel like doing shit today" kind, but like real, life impacting laziness. How did you overcome? I've always struggled with it and it feels like I'm letting life pass me by while I lay in bed. Like, my mind really wants to get out there and do things but my body won't comply. I have a degree but I'm not even doing shit with it.
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>>16951037
Do you mean laziness like: I'm just going to sleep all day because nothing seems worthwhile?
Or laziness like "I don't have the physical energy to get out of bed today, even if I wanted to".
Or "I really should get out of bed, just give me ten minutes" and then it's the next day.
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>>16951037
This sounds like it could potentially be a physical, chemical, or mental disorder you have seriously underestimated...
Go to a doctor. Even a biochemistry test could potentially find out why you're "lazy".
If the will is there and the action isn't, something's up.
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>>16951037
I'm the same way op
I think most of us all
Do you have a self defeating mentality or fears?
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Kill me.
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You are 24k in student debt?
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>>16952783
yep, and only half done with school
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Don't worry, Anon. When the student loan situation gets too out of hand, they will just forgive the debts anyway
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Is having sex with only one person ever possible?
Long story short, girlfriends a more normal person, has had one relationship before me but I assume she's at least had sex with about 5-6 people before me. In a nutshell she's expecting us to be together long, long, long term, and while no one has said forever, I think that's the implication.
We are fantastic together and have a ton of history which makes us feel like we were meant to be, but I got to thinking, and I wanna know have you guys ever known anyone to only ever have sex with one person?
I've seen stuff like this before where people get insecure or feel the need to have sex with more people, so I'm just wondering if it's a natural occurrence that'll sneak up on me later on in life?
It's a nice thought in a way, but kind of daunting. I know couples can get fatigued, and relationships can get in to low places but it's scary to think that further down the line I might have some sort of mid-life crisis esque situation where I suddenly realize I missed out on sex with other girls or something.
Any thoughts?
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Giving this a one time bump.
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>>16950828
I know a guy and gal who have been together since they were 14 and are now in their mid-30's. As far as I know neither cheats. That said, I know hundreds of people who have cheated on their spouses. Your odds of pulling it off are low, but that doesn't mean you can't achieve it if it's what you want.
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>>16950941
It's a real nice thought for sure, but relationships are hard enough as it is even when you've had a life full of experiencing different things and different people, let alone being a guy who's only ever had sex with one girl.
I feel like it's kind of a potential ear-worm thing, where it burrows its way in and gets to people.
For sure though, I bet people have pulled it off but the amount of people who have must be mad low.
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i need to lose weight. i tried /fit/ and /b/, but i would really like to find a fellow femanon to do regular check in's and support each other. anybody here down to do that?
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hypocaloric diet
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Eat fewer calories than you burn
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>>16952338
Why, oh why does everybody think i need adv on how to lose weight? i know just fine. i just want a female buddy
Ok /adv/ teach me about seduction
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>>16950459
>Ok /adv/ teach me about seduction
Be funny, be confident but not an asshole.
Don't be afraid to make fun of yourself. Don't be afraid to get hurt.
Thats it.
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>>16950467
Too vague
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>>16950459
Depends on who or what you are seducing
My plan is to corner them and whip my dick out
Always works
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Homework help thread? Which technology was not implemented during the civil war?
Trench warfare
Machine guns
Landmines
Ironclad ships
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>>16950292
I caught the time traveler
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Didn't help
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>>16950292
Trench warfare, if I recall correctly. The other technologies were all quite new -perhaps literally DURING the Civil War- but trench warfare didn't get big until World War I.
Hey guys. Is there any job that pays really well that doesn't need a college degree. I'm pretty darn poor and can't afford to go to college. I'm female btw. Thank you for your time
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>>16950239
Stripping and or whoring. Cam whoring.
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>>16950242
Pretty much.
Cam whoring would be ideal since strip clubs are a little sleazy.
Are you pretty? I hope so.
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If you don't want to be whore for the rest of your life, study for some IT certifications.
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Alright I have an issue
This guy at my school, I'll just call him "tard", so anyway he is probably the most annoying mother fucker to ever be born. Basically, one day he decided to start being a huge tard to me for no reason, and it has only gotten worse since. He constantly calls me a brony and insults me all the time. Now everyone knows in school Im on the wrestling team and I kicked ass in the season, and no one messes with me except this kid for some reason. Now you might be asking I don't drop this kid to the ground, and that's because my school is super liberal, and if I even touched him I would get expelled.
Any suggestions on how to get this lil tard to fuck off? (I've tried lots of things)
Things to note;
>He's Asian
>He's really ugly
>He wears glasses
>He goes "yeah uh" a lot
>He is really ironic
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You ignore him, dumbass.
If all he's doing is being an annoying pest, if you stop showing that he's affecting you, he'll stop.
Literally ignore his existence. Looks past him. Do not acknowledge his presence. Do not reply. He will become angry and insulted that you don't even treat him like a human being, and everyone will think it's funny that you're doing it to him.
Seriously.
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It's really not that easy, he won't stop. I've been ignoring for about 2 months, he won't fucking stop.
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>constantly calls me a brony
If you actually watch my little faggots you deserve it kid