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I've come to hate my old friends.
Over the last 2 years I've made a new set of friends, and it's through these interactions that I realised how much I really disliked them. What irritates me the most about them is that they think they're smarter and better than other people, which just isn't true. I speak with them off and on and each time I do I find them intolerable. I've bottled this feeling up for too long now and I've honestly started being peeved out by anybody now, basically anti-social (not asocial, that's different). I hate the way this is making me and I feel as if cutting them off and getting it out would be the best thing for me. However, cutting off people like that is pretty cuntish in itself, so I don't know what/how to do.
Do I cut them off immediately or do I ween off the friendship ? I don't consider them close friends anymore and it's extremely annoying having them around.
tl;dr I fucking hate my old friends, how do I get rid of them ?
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If it's possible I'd bring it up in a group conversation and basically be like "guys you're fucking assholes and making me feel like shit"
If nothing changes then they don't care so you shouldn't feel bad cutting ties with them. If you truly feel the way you described you'll be better for it.
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Holy shit I can actually be useful! Op, I went through this. I had a bunch of "intelligent" freinds who had to talk shit about other people or put them down to feel smart. I hated this. I always tried to change the subject or say they were kind of being dicks. I think making my feelings known made clear my distaste for them made it easier. What I did was sort of fade away. Slowly started canceling plans and hanging out with other people. It was just sort of a transition. I don't think they cared, why would you want to hang out with some one you don't get along with right?
So, I'm pretty good looking guy but I'm also pretty socially awkward/as spur. I get attention from girls at bars but other guys always find a way to embarrass me in front of them or one up me. How do I hold my own against other guys? I've always been a little bitch with no game.
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>>16936506
*assburger fuck
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I feel obliged to make a dead letters thread since I can't find it.
I will read them all.
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I am metaphorically kicking myself into the corner but it feels like a brighter future because i see everything backwards
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Dearest E,
How could you do this to me? Why, after I was willing to submit, to be yours, you became so cold? Why did you decide to stay, when you wanted to leave so much?
You broke me. You discovered the most intimate parts of my mind, I let you explore the darkest corners of my soul, just so you could leave...
I can't forgive you the chill you sent down my spine as you said you are going. I can't forget the paralysis.
How could you whisper in my ear that you loved me, when deep down you knew you will go? Did it feel good to choose her over me? Does she make you happy?
I told you we will not be friends. No. I thought that your tears in the Garden of Remembrance did mean something more powerful. I could believe that you could actually love me. Yet you are a coward.
I want to hate you.
I will.
I shall and I will.
I know you miss me. I miss you too. We still look at our photograph from two weeks ago as we fall asleep.
I want your ruthlessness.
I hate myself for loving you so much, you cold, heartless bastard...
Yours,
SK.
My college blocks gaming with a lazy filter searching for the tag, this is just enough to stop gaming services. Is there a way I can sign into ps4 using the vpn on my laptop ?
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Man I'm glad I went to college before they figured that one out.
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>>16936452
I can have all the video streaming , social media and porn I want, just no video games.
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>drank a lot last night
>met cool girl
>spent all night drinking and fucking her
>3 hours of sleep
>masturbating all day thinking about last night
>she wants to go to a concert tonight and meet up
im like so damn tired and spent. should i muster up any energy i might have a go? or just stay in and not give a fuck. i already said id go last but now im just meek
wat do
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>>16936390
Literally not a single damn person can tell you what you want, and you should also be proud about that fact.
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>>16936400
yeah youre right. like really i just wanna stay in and be chilling. but i been on this whole "you were a loser in highschool and if you dont party your ass off in your 20s your gunna lose those too" thing going on
for me its a whole dont waste whats left of your youth vs fuck man im just hungover
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/adv/ I fucked up recently and insulted a couple of people I deeply respect (its also worth noting that the incident wasn't necessarily my fault(also don't ask what happened for the relevant parties maybe reading this). That's beside the point though, because they've forgiven me as long as I fix some minor damages. The problem though is I can't let go of the guilty thoughts /adv/, I get in a cycle of getting bad (mostly guilty) thoughts stuck in my head and they never get out and this time its really bad.
How do I purge my mind of this painful guilt /adv/? How do I move on from this and start being able to enjoy myself again?
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Maybe you should feel guilty.
Man up and tell the details or stfu
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>>16936354
Drown your sorrows in a lake, while wearing cinder block shoes.
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So I've been talking with a girl for the past year or so, and we love each other very much. The kicker here is that she's already in a relationship with someone else. The dude she's with is someone I've known longer than her and we do stuff as a group with some others all the time.
It started out as some innocent thing where we would just click during conversations until eventually she started telling me some very personal stuff about herself and admitted some of her feelings towards me. I initially kind of denied her a bit, but then reciprocated after a bit when she said that she wasn't even sure about her feelings with her BF.
She's been talking to me more and more and her BF has been seeming a bit off lately, so it seems like he's suspecting something. I've told her how I've felt for the most part, but she said she doesn't want to just break up with him since he hasn't really done anything wrong to her.
Should I just break of with her or set up an ultimatum? I love her and I would do almost anything for her, but I don't know if I can trust her to not do the same thing to me as her BF.
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Had something like this at my last job. The girl and I bonded alot, but I started ignoring her when she asked to kiss me. I just didn't have a good feeling about it.
Within a short amount of time, she moved onto the next coworker who fell for her and moved in with him.
I don't regret my decision, since she ended up being a compulsive liar and a leech.
Move on and find a girl who won't go behind your back, instead of fixing the relationship or breaking up.
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She's using you as an emotion crutch.
Slowly stop talking to her and find a new person.
I'll try to keep things short, but I have depression and have for the last month have noticed myself becoming more and more paranoid of others, particularly peers or those in positions of power. For example, one of the things I'm paranoid over:
I haven't been able to go to class because I feel like because of my past interactions with my profs, they don't want me in their class, and like classmates hate me and don't think I deserve to be there.
Lately it has been even difficult to ride the bus on my own, and I start panic if someone sits down beside me. If someone looks at me I know they're thinking bad things about me and they're out to hurt me, and if they laugh it's because of me. I almost had a melt down the other day when one guy my age kept on asking me questions about where I was getting off, what classes I was in, and that he knew me from somewhere.
I feel like everyone hates me and that things would be better if I wasn't around. I talked to my doctor the first time about it (because I needed a note for my classes) and she wants me to go on an anti-depressant, talk to a physiatrist and school councillors, but I feel like they'll just get mad because I'm not worth their time.
I tried looking online to what I can do to help myself, but there's not much for answers. What can I do to deal with my paranoia and depression?
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Talk to the psychiatrist. You won't be a "waste of their time", but even if you're afraid they'll think you are, you lose nothing from it.
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>>16936262
There truly isn't much you can do by yourself. Seeing a therapist is really your best option. Don't think you're "not worth their time", they are paid to help, it's their job.
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Hello &adv.
I always feel like I must do two things at the same time or I should do nothing. This also means I also have a very short attention span but I'm able to focus sometimes (ex. when programming I'm able to do it for a long period of time without discriting).
I know this is an issue, should I get help for it or just accept it as part of my life?
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>>16936206
No idea how to help with that but it sounds intrusive, you should try to find help on other sites or google because that could interfere with your work.
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what you lack and need to solve it is planning. the more autistic the better. once you have that you're golden.
remember. SMART.
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So I'll be going to the prom with this girl, and I just want to know what I should expect. We're not dating at the moment, but I know she likes me. I've never been to a school dance before, what's it like? I'm mostly just concerned with what activities there will be to do there, I'm not a good dancer by any means and I want her to have a good time.
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underage b&
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18 fgt
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At what point should we stop looking into others and decide things for ourselves?
Anxieties about doing the wrong choices spring up, but the crave of affirmation on an action from someone else is becoming intrusive
When can I say I'm qualified to answer things? All my life I've been taught that I know nothing, and I know I know nothing. When the fuck will I begin to know something?
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If you are being taught that you know nothing and are actually believing that, then yes you do know nothing. The point of when you start confiding in yourself and telling yourself that you do know more than you might think thats when you will start to allow yourself to know more and learn more. if being qualified to answer things is really so important to you then let yourself flourish in knowledge, read books and gather information and just allow yourself to hold that information in order to be able to spread knowledge
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What >>16935755 said - eventually you will just know. When you know, you KNOW. Trust me.
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I don't want to visit grandma
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Hello /adv/, this may sound like something a 12 year old would say, but it's actually a serious problem.
My grandma is 95 years old and she's getting a bit senile, which makes it VERY boring to visit her and talk to her. For the past year, the three or so times I visited I had to explain what I was studying and how it was going, every single time. She talks for hours and hours on end with a slow voice and to be fair I really don't like visiting her. My dad tells me I have to visit her before she dies, and I know he's right but I don't really know what I'd get out of this. It just feels like a waste of time.
I feel myself becoming more and more selfish by the day, I'm already starting to fear her funeral where my dad probably expects to give a fucking speech.
Any advice for someone in my situation? How to make talking to my grandma bearable?
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>>16935670
Just engage her in conversation on her terms. No matter what senile shit comes out of her mouth take it seriously, ask critical questions, and see how far down the rabbit hole you can go in an hour or two.
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>>16935699
So I should view it as mining?
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Before a date, do you jerk off and release so you don't get too horny or is that bad advice?
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>>16935553
Bad advice. Your horniness is what leads you to take risks that lead to sex. Without it, you're a very nice beta that no woman wants to fuck.
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It releases endorpants that will make u seem like a more chilled /layedback dude, increasse ur stamina by abit. And i have no idea why that would turn you on more, if anything it will make u less horny.
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Hi /adv/ I've recently begun suffering from dermatitis patches on my body and forehead. I've visited a doctor and was given some 1% hydrocortisone as a remedy. I tried it and my patches cleared within a week. However, a few days after I stopped using the steroid cream the patches on my forehead have returned. I've tried using moisturisers but to no avail and I don't wish to continue using topical steroids for long period on what may simply be a simple bacterial infection. Would a combination of a topical antibiotic like pic related and moisturiser be my best course of action?
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>>16935520
Sounds very much like atopic dermatitis.
Have you been more stressed lately, sleeping less or changed your diet?
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>>16935520
You'd be just as well off using an anti-bacterial soap to wash your face and changing your pillow case regularly, and wearing a night cap that you wash frequently. Also, if you're wearing any hats that go over your forehead, look at the materials they're made of and try something else, or line them with a hypoallergenic liner that you can wash.
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In a anonymous clipboard I read two comments: 1th wanted to support anonymous activists. 2nd said he wan´t, if he get fair gamed. I say: They can´t technical fair gaming ALL ANONYMOUS. Already a few people can rent a whole house. If you are in a group it gives safety. But not if your allways just with one or two of your friends. There are a lot of opportunities. Manage your live, than manage the fight. For 25.000 bugs you can get a account by one of the big swiss banks. I say make your own bank, if you thrust some who has a account, good. But anybody MUST have a account. In our system there still people with it. Instead it don´t works. think about it. thats all folks
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>>16935501
learn to americano amigo!
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I don't know of any big swiss bank which will store 25 insects for you, my third world friend.