Is having sex with only one person ever possible? Long story

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Giving this a one time bump.

>>16950828
I know a guy and gal who have been together since they were 14 and are now in their mid-30's. As far as I know neither cheats. That said, I know hundreds of people who have cheated on their spouses. Your odds of pulling it off are low, but that doesn't mean you can't achieve it if it's what you want.

>>16950941
It's a real nice thought for sure, but relationships are hard enough as it is even when you've had a life full of experiencing different things and different people, let alone being a guy who's only ever had sex with one girl.

I feel like it's kind of a potential ear-worm thing, where it burrows its way in and gets to people.

For sure though, I bet people have pulled it off but the amount of people who have must be mad low.

>>16950976
>>16950828
The most important indicator is that you're thinking about this now.

How are you going to feel in 10 years when the sex has gone stale, you two are arguing about finances, and that fit girl has been hitting on you at work? I'm not saying only one person can't be done... but I imagine that the people who can do it are committed to it and know that.

There's a reason people "sow their wild oats" and then settle down. One reason is so that they know what they are giving up. That can also work against you though because knowing what unattached sex is like might actually make you miss it. So it really just depends on you and your commitments.

Also, I know you think you two are going to ride off into the sunset, but what if you get into your 40s and suddenly she's bored and cheats? Are you going to be OK knowing that you gave up your chance to see what else is out there while she didn't have to give that up? She's already seen some of what's out there. She's ready to settle. Are you?

>>16951002
We're fantastic together but I know that no one is perfect, and no couple are even more so, we're not so special that we won't hit the same road bumps as everyone else. Thinking otherwise would be backwards as hell. I think I'm more realist in my thoughts towards it than she is, I feel like at this point she does expect to be with me forever.

As for the situations you gave, I personally see myself as the kind of person who wouldn't cheat no matter what the circumstances, but the more I discover about people and relationships in general, the more that viewpoint is slightly swayed because I do believe there's a certain set of circumstances for everyone that'll make them a lot more likely to do it. Obviously the pessimist in me says girls are more likely, but I could be way off base with that, but still.

I guess in those 10 year on situations you have to really be committed to making things work, sex is great now but nothing can be great forever.

It's just that even while this has been a great time, I'm wondering if any couple is "special" enough to make things work super long term.

And honestly, if it's her, then yeah I think I could do it.

>>16950828
>Is having sex with only one person ever possible?
Made it 20 years so far, and the first seven of that was waiting. Not only is it possible, it's not even difficult.

>>16951169
Thank you for restoring my faith in at least a fraction of humanity.

>>16950828
>I've seen stuff like this before where people get insecure or feel the need to have sex with more people, so I'm just wondering if it's a natural occurrence that'll sneak up on me later on in life?

It's inevitable you are going to have these thoughts when her libido starts to wane or when the pressures of being a husband and father build up and you need a holiday relationship (it gives you a holiday from coping with your day to day shit).

Why are you worrying about something that might not even happen? Even if it did, it's not like you're locked into a relationship for life.

You might as well worry "what if I don't enjoy spending time with her someday?" "What if she finds someone else?" "What if she isn't attracted to me anymore?" etc. It's not only pointless, it's damaging to your relationship when there's not even a problem.

Sex should be below the bucket list when it comes to long term commitments to someone.

Ask yourself when you're 70 and you can't get your dick up with all the viagra in the world if you'd still have something to talk to the woman next to you whose teeth have all fallen off and can barely walk cause she had hip surgery on her 60th birthday.

If you're with someone cause "LMAO DUDE THE SEX IS GREAT" then you will eventually get bored with them down the line.

Wizard here. Is having sex with one person even possible?

>>16952109
Yes.

It's called masturbation. You should try it.

>>16951169
Can second this - and add five years. I don't fool myself that the trigger that locks a woman to a man wasn't used up before I even met her though - if you believe in that stuff.

I just live with that though, women find plenty of fake problems to throw at you to distract you.

>>16951169
>>16952171
What do you two mean by waiting 7 and 12 years?

>>16952171
What trigger locks a woman to a man? Virginity?

>>16951169
Cuuucckķkkk

I've only ever slept with my current gf and we've been together quite a long time.

I don't think it bothers me any more than if I had slept with several people. That is to say, I still want to hound lots of pussy, but I don't think having slept with 2 or 3 other women would make that go away.

For me the impulsion to actually cheat has never been there though. I'm not very social and finding another woman would take quite a lot of effort of my part. I also have no desire to sleep with someone I don't like.

So just in practical terms it's very easy to stay faithful. I'm also perfectly satisfied sexually and emotionally between my gf and masturbation.

In terms of just feeling like "Oh boy! I really need to cum in a different vagina, I'm going craaazy here." That's just never happened to me. Sure, I see someone and I want to bang them. And there are one or two girls I've developed crushes on. But it's like seeing a car you'd like to drive. Who really gives a fuck?

Once I've had a wank I don't think about it again.