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peoples ideas about that don't have a normal distribution. I'm sure you can find some other repressed simpleton.

Typically your best bet is religious folks who are waiting for marriage. Most people expect sex within at least the first few months and will otherwise bail.

>>17009283
There's no overarching answer. Some girls expect it right away, some want to wait until marriage, some never want sex ever, and a whole bunch in-between there.

The key is communicating this early on so you can find the right girl for you.
It is definitely possible to find a girl who also wants to wait until marriage/ for her life partner, and who isn't also religious. I am one of them.

>>17009263
Well, what do you like doing other than the Internet?
I play paintball, grow vegetables and herbs, draw, try to refine my cooking techniques...

>>17009273
watch TV

>>17009263
Ever since college i haven't had the time/money to do my other hobbies (hiking, photography, etc) that involve large investments. I learned photo and video editing though. It's alot of fun.

Just smoke it. You're probably going to get more stoned than you want to sometimes. If that happens it'll pass in a little bit and everything will be fine.

>>17009158
Smoke it, smoke some more of it, smoke a lot if it, find lsd, pcp, dmt, existential breakthrough, enjoy.

>>17009179
This.

What are you 12? Grab some hard liquor, sit down with him and find out what he's into. He don't have to drink. Besides some people want to be left alone, that's not a bad thing

Don't 'make a move', he obviously hates you. Accept that and go about your business.

>>17009002
yea I know wat you mean

but he just doesn't want to, he was playing a game that looked like WoW but when i asked him about it he said it was lord of league or something like that and said how its different from wow and nothing else, I mean it was pretty obvious what I was trying to do, to just l get to know what interest he has but no go, he also never asked me how my day was srsly

Also, anyone know what the % rate is of people who say theyre gonna an hero, and actually do or try?

>>17008875
Hi mate. I just got diagnosed with depression the other day (i.e. I talked to a doctor for 10 mins and she prescribed be Citalopram). She said I probably have imbalanced brain chemistry so drugs would be the way forward. The other cause could be a trauma like bereavement, child abuse, which would benefit more from therapy.

I guess you can have shit situations over a long period of time causing your natural balance of serotonin to lower because you're having a shit time most of the time. Then you can't work your way back.

In my experience, SSRIs are complete shit that do nothing but make things worse.

I tried 5 different SSRIs before I realized psychiatry was bullshit.

>>17008688
Sounds like a scam

>>17008688

Usually, yes. I really doubt your doctor's lying to you. If it's like 10 years expired, then you should request a new prescription. But if you're only like a year or two past the "sell by" date, there's literally no difference between your meds and brand-new meds. It's not like food, it's not going to colonize with bacteria and start rotting

>>17008688
probably. Most drugs just become weaker as the expire.

>>17008551
Realize that nobody truly cares when you fail to follow through with your own plans. And that You are just wasting your own time.

Make a decision and stick to it once or twice when confronted with the opportunity to do otherwise. Then relish the pride you feel for having stuck to your resolution.

It might not exceed the discomfort you feel for having passed up the chance to be lazy, but that's the heart of discipline: being satisfied by pride even when it's the lesser of two rewards. You'll eventually get into the habit of being happy with "enough" rather than "what feels best."

>>17008557
>>17008558
I do take decisions and I always end up letting them go.

If you've been together for 4 years, it's time to just sit down and have an honest conversation about it. Tell her that you love her, and you still want to be together, but you're not satisfied sexually and you're not sure how it's going to work in the long run. Just talk it through.

It's possible that some kind of open-relationship arrangement might be for you. Those things CAN work. But if you just bottle it up and act like things are fine, you're going to end up cheating, or resenting her unfairly, or something else. This will inevitably destroy the relationship unless you can COMMUNICATE and figure something out that works for both of you

>>17007890
Why not try to initiate it more? My friend she is asexual so in her relationships she would barely try for it but whenever the guy wanted it she would do it, maybe if you try to get her into it more it'll change

>>17007901
>>17007917
I have talked to him about this issue a lot over the years. I'm female and ashamed of wanting sex so regularly. He's told me it's off putting because now he sees me as someone who just focuses on sex. It's like the pink elephant in the room now. I feel ashamed and I'm sorry in advance that this issue is not from a male perspective.
He doesn't have a hard penis unless we heavily foreplay, I look better than ever and take care of myself. I'm very hygienic, i am supportive and honest with him but I just can't take it anymore. He told me he's always had a low libido so it's not really his fault either.

Every time I introduce a new show to my husband, he insists on watching every single episode back to back until it's done. It's funny at first, but gets annoying when I want to watch something else or do something with him.

Introduce new stuff to your gf OP. You complain now, but being with someone who likes everything you like would get boring fast.

>Enough bitching /adv/, point is: what are some shit-tier opinions your S.O. has had and how do you deal with them?

I grew the fuck up. Something you obviously haven't done yet.

>>17007716
You're well endowed in your knowledge of the fine arts of filmography, don't expect everyone will be aswell. Nonchalantly explain to her why you like (insertmovie) so much, give her the summary of why it's so awesome and it's just great. She'll either understand or pretend to understand because you explained how it's great yet she doesnt want to seem "too" stupid to understand the deeper meaning and will agree anyway ( But she'll think more deeply next time).

Win win brah

wf. if this isn't bait, get therapy NOW

>>17006875
It is obviously bait. No mother on earth would think/talk/write like that.
Btw why can't I sage?

>>17006879
What exactly is the point of browsing /adv/ if you're just going to call everything bait? Aside from bad advice, you're the reason this board isn't great.

>>17005582

Tell her to plead the fifth, assuming she willingly had sex and has an honest soul.

If she wants to get him in trouble, then fuck her.

>>17005582
Is 15 legally in your state?

>>17005590
Fuck the teacher for not realizing that having sex with someone with such a low maturity level was a bad idea, double for the fact she was his student.

OP, just make sure she tells the truth, and dress her up like an Amish school girl, the teacher has no chance.

learn about intimacy before you indulge in sexuality

Don't watch porn at all cost.
Quit band class.
Be a better friend.
Appreciate the people around you because they won't be there forever.

"Kill yourself with Aunt Susan's revolver before she leaves this weekend. It's all downhill from here, kid."

>>17002837
>20
>m
>5

>>17002837
>>17002842
It should never be a deal breaker you sexists. It's not your business what a woman does in her free time. God stay in the dark ages more pathetic 4chan users.

>>17002860
Sorry I have standards, whore.

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“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life." (John 3:16)

There is always hope in Christ Jesus. He is God and He died on the cross for your sins and mine. This is how much He loves you. Believe upon His name and you shall be saved. Strive through the narrow gate. Having love with Satan is short-lasting. The Love of God (Jehovah, Jesus Christ, Holy Spirit) is everlasting to everlasting. There is no Greater Love than this. Repent of your sins and turn to Jesus

Get in the Spirit and follow Jesus. It is said in His Word, "All Scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for instruction in righteousness, that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work." (1 Timothy 3:16-17). That's why it is important to read the Bible cover-to-cover and depend on the Holy Spirit for guidance

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%2023

I've been praying to god for a gf for about 3 months now, with no results.

what's the fucking point

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>>17002122
Jesus said, "...seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be given to you." (Matthew 6:33b)

Seek what His Will is in your life. God is always right. I can guarantee you that from my own experience. There are certain thing He denies, just as a loving father denies his children from being spoiled. There is a reason and certain things must happen before certain things can occur: "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven" (Ecclesiastes 3:1)

Remember in the Bible where it says, "...the kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field, which a man found and hid. And with joy over it he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field." (Matthew 13:44b). What does it profit a man if he forfeits his soul yet gains the entire world? Ask Solomon what it was like to have everything that his heart desired

Get on your knees and cry out to Jesus. Repent for He is coming soon. Be thankful for all that you have and content in all things. Read the Bible cover-to-cover. Release forgiveness to those that have hurt you in the past and pray for them

watch some standup comedy.

>>16988264
Pay attention to what other people say and ask them how they are doing .

If they don't ask a question about you within 20 minutes , though, drop them and never talk to them again. They aren't worth bothering and are just self centered .

>>16988264
>literally makes money by existing

The patriarchy is so oppressive that women get a free pass if they're hot