So guys I'm in a predicament.
I'm a University student, 2nd year in. Male, 21.
Last year, during my first year, I broke up with my gf of 2 years. Straight to the point, I was devastated.
In the last year I essentially whored myself out, by seeking fulfilment through sexual endeavours.
In the last year I ended up sleeping with 5 women, only 2 are worth mentioning.
1 is a 18 year old, red head, open minded, gorgeous and crazy about me...or my cock. I'd known her since she was 14, she was always pushing for sex...and I mean we had some fuckin glorious sex. The deal is every time I come bk from University(3months) we fuck like jack rabbits. Things have never been serious with her. However, we sort of crossed the barrier, she says 'i love you' I say it bk and I mean it....but boundaries have been crossed
The other, is 22, at this Uni, fair, flowing hair, gorgeous, met her on a night out, immediately clicked, after hours of dancing and drinking, I invite her to mine for a spliff, we end up have some of the most gratifying sex,I've ever had.
So yeah the next week and over the next month, we meet up more, and it's decided we like eachother. I ask her out she says, yes.
So the advice I seek is, when I go home to my own country and see this red head, Who WILL want my dick, how do I tell her that I have a gf and everything is cool?...
I can't just fuck her senseless then go bk to being in a relationship.....if I did, my gf would never know but I'd be a massive cunt.
The 22 yr Old last bf, cheated on her within a month, if I cheat, ima hypocrite....if I don't cheat....im missing out on physical love with a person I am in love with.
>>17010814
take your bs fanfiction back 2 reddit
>>17010824
What?
Get fucked you desperate wankstain.
FYI. Real situation here....
I figured I'd come here because /b/ is a zoo and I need actual dialogue and conversation from rational folk. So I've been in a 5 year relationship with the love of my life and best friend of 11 years. She is amazing and funny our chemistry is fantastic. We never fight and we communicate. That's the best part is neither of us is afraid to communicate what we want this has led to some amazing sexual encounters between us. Now here's where I need /adv/ my gf is super sexually liberal and open. When she saw my ex girlfriend texting me in a flirtatious manner she engaged me and her got us together to hang out t once and proceeded to ask me if I'd be interested in a threesome. Being that me ex was super cute and group sex is a link of mine I allowed this too happen. On 4 December deferent occasions I had a threesome with these two gals and twice where it was only my ex and I. And this turned her on immensely. She has idly made comments about liking group sex and wanting to do more of it referencing MMF this time around. I'm not closed off to it. I just wanna know if anyone has any experience experimenting with this stuff. I'm not too possessive or jealous but there's a lot of stigma that comes with letting another dude get down with your lady. Should I endulge her. Is it better or worse than the here say? Is Craigslist a viable option for seeking out potential partners??? These are some questions I could use insights on
OP here please forgive the shitty typos I'm typing this on my tiny phone and I don't have my glasses
>>17010732
>Should I endulge her.
She gave you FFM like it was nothing. You had to know where this was going. You can't really back out of this now without bad shit going down.
>Is it better or worse than the here say?
That really depends. With FFM, if the girls aren't too into each other, it's going to be entirely about your pleasure. But unless you're into guys, MMF is going to be entirely about her. You'll probably feel left out and this may bring about unwanted feelings you never knew you had. But that's where communication is key.
>Is Craigslist a viable option for seeking out potential partners?
Haven't used it for that sort of thing, myself, but I don't see why not. Just have to be careful because people like to lie on those things.
>>17010741
Good points. Hmmm yea she's always been on the perverted side I did see this coming a mile away. Still I'm not weirded out by it though feeling left out could be awkward. Like with ffm the girl who wasn't being fucked could make out with me or get fingered or eatenout by whomever isn't busy but I'm pretty starkly not gay. And of course protection is absolute must even with my ex I used protection since she'd been with others since. I do enjoy seeing her spoiled. She's got a very cute attitude about it. In leaning towards trying it only because she was so actively willing to please me in the opposite scenario.
I recently quit weed and porn. Now i'm overwhelmed with emotion and my dick is screaming. I realized I have no life, no friends, no relationships. How do you even make friends, let alone get a gf? I dont know what to do. All my life i've been the lonely, weird, socially retarded fuck.
>>17010642
Age? How many people live in your city/village? Looks? How social retarded/10 are you?
Hang out at the bar
>>17010642
It's easier to just go back on the weed and the porn. Once you realize how utterly fucked you are it's pretty much your only option.
Alright guys I need advice on how I can pay for college. I forgot to fill out my fafsa(because I never thought I would get accepted anywhere) and now I'm looking into ways to get student loans but they all require my fafsa. I think I'm screwed. What should I do, I really need to find a way to pay for college.
>>17010472
Sell your body to old men.
Nigger the FAFSA is the first thing I do on January 1st every year. It's just a part of going to university in this country.
>>17010472
You'll get paid retroactively if you fill it out.
>go to bar.
>see girl there.
>she keeps grilling me on how she know me.
>we go through a bunch of people over 5 minutes. Get to my friend.
>The moment I tell her my friend's name she says "oh shit nevermind bye".
>A year ago.
>she went on date with my friend.
>He tells me they fucked and yes, she seemed pretty slutty.
>She has a kid, she's been with at least 10 guys since high school, self proclaimed bisexual.
>When at bar, we got along fine.
>Outside bar and it closed, 2 a.m.
>my friend and her are making out.
>walk off so they have privacy.
>They call me back and ask me whats so interesting. (yeah, like I want to sit there and watch you guys make out?)
>some big girl is fucking a guy in a car next to my friends truck that they're making out on.
>they notice and say something about it.
>I say "so is there a line for that"?
>she gets weirded out by it, even though she was talking about her sex life in bar.
>We all go back home.
>Friend tells me about how good of a lay she was.
>now, one year later, she treats me like I've got the plague and runs off.
>Never talked to her beside that one night.
I don't get it. What would she think to react like I just ate a kitten in front of her?
Anyone?
>>17010451
Were you drunk when making the OP??
>>17010524
No?
>Gf hates coworkers
>I tell her I don't talk to them so she can shut up about them
>Afterwork
>My car battery dies
>My phone dies
>Coworker offers to help
>We try to jump it but fail
>He lets me charge my phone in his car
>Call gf
>She gets mad that I'm with my coworker and hangs up
>I tell me coworker he can go and call me brother who jumps my car
>She is pissed
>>17010345
she is crazy dump that bitch
>>17010345
And she hates your coworkers why?
She sounds like a fun girl
Ladies, have you ever been with a guy who was shorter than you? How was it?
>>17010289
lol manlets, when will they learn?
>>17010289
Fine. But then he wasn't obsessed with his height, so it never mattered.
My ex gf was 4 inches taller than me. It was never an issue because neither of us made it an issue.
Help
>Met gear that is wheelchair bound at work
>She had some accident as a kid, paralyzed
>Been working with her for a few months now
>We hang out, outside of work
>She is cute as all fuck
>Like white porcelain skin, black hair, blue eyes
>Hnggg every time I look at her
>Started to fall for a bit after hanging out so much
Should I ask her out? How does dating usually go with someone bound to a wheelchair? Do paralyzed people even date?
She is definitely really fond of me, but I don't know man.We're skyping right now, and I could ask her out, but I won't if it is a bad idea.
Any advice?
>Do paralyzed people even date?
No. Why else do you see so few of them? Cause they rarely reproduce.
of course disabled people date, what the fuck kind of question is that?
ask her out idiot
And when I say paralyzed I mean from the waist down. Not anywhere else.
>>17010149
I don't know, I've never seen paralyzed people on a date.
I'm still a virgin male and everything but casual sex just seems so boring and pointless. I feel inadequate in not participating in it/wanting it though. Is this feeling justified?
Stop thinking about it so much. Not everyone is having sex, let alone all the time. Chill. Have compassion for yourself.
I'm about to do some tumblr level shit but whatever.
Have you ever considered that you're asexual?
Literally means someone who is not interested in a sexual relationship (different then a romantic relationship).
so, by the fact that there is a community of people that are sexually like you, I'd say you shouldn't feel inadequate.
-another asexual
>>17010138
>everything but casual sex just seems so boring and pointless. I feel inadequate in not participating in it/wanting it though.
Do you mean everything ABOUT casual sex seems boring and pointless? I'd say that's a more common view than you'd think.
When I was younger and single, casual sex was not my bag--I had a couple of awkward promiscuous years and finally discovered that, at least for me, new conquests are only theoretically exciting, and sex is dramatically better in relationships.
Not for mushy reasons, (love makes better sex, etc.), although I've heard from many people who feel that way, but for purely practical reasons. Practice makes perfect, basically--when you've slept with someone more than a few times you know better how to please them and vice versa, and hopefully you're comfortable enough with them to communicate.
But if you're saying that you don't experience any sexual desire, even sex in a relationship may not be your bag--barring physiological, psychological, or neuro issues (low testosterone, drug interactions, depression, some ASDs, etc.), perhaps you really are asexual, as >>17010183 suggests. The internet tells me it's a real thing.
hey /adv/,
What does this mean? I am a girl trying to hang out with a guy that I miss and care about. Why is he putting me on standby?
What do I do?
I don't know how to respond to this ambivalent text.
>>17010121
He said you'd figure it out, he's not saying no he just doesn't want to commit to any specific plans.
If he's enjoying hanging out with you then he'll keep hanging out with you, if not then he'll bail early.
He's an alpha, or trying to give off the impression that he's one. His time is valuable as he is a busy guy.
WHAT DO I SAY?
I am so confused with his reaction. He is completely unsure about me, and ambivalent on even hanging out with me.
What the fuck is his problem?
I feel like slapping him upside the head to make a real decision.
Hello /adv/,
I have been homeschooled my entire life and will be graduating in about one month from now. After that, I need to start pulling my shit together and start researching on what I want to do with my life. What is some general advice you can offer to someone who lived a somewhat sheltered life whose about to step foot in the real world?
my advice is to join the military, that'll pop that bubble real quick by forcing you out of your comfort zone and make you become a part of a unit with all types of people you never would have encountered otherwise
Failures are the only way you'll learn. Don't sweat it. Always act like you have no money because trust me, it disappears quick.
>>17010055
>>17010061
Thank you, anons. Quick question: general opinions on college?
>mom wants me to get a good education
>wants me to register to a prestigious school in Chicago
>the tuition is $48,000 per year
>I have to get Fafsa and other shit
>means I have to stick my dick in debt and fuck the shit out of debt and try and work my ass off to harvest off my hard work
>Her friend's son went there and got a degree in 3 years and got hired with a bomb ass job right away
>I suck at school but I feel like I Need to give this a go and take school serious.
>find that a degree in electrical engineering can get me great cash
>is only 3 and a half years
>I feel like I can do this
>mom and older brother are cheering me on for it.
I'm scared.
Should I go for it?
you're talking about Northwestern, right? You say you "suck at school" are you sure you can even get in? And if you "suck at school" what makes you think you'll be able to pursue a difficult degree you aren't even interested in other than cash you think you'll get from it because STEMmeme.
You'd honestly be much better served by doing your gen ed requirements at your local community college or a state school then transfer to NW if you're so dead set on getting a degree from there. The quality of the courses will realistically not be that different.
>>17009978
>mom wants me to get a good education
Is mom paying for it? If no, then you may as well bite the first bullet of adulthoood and tell her to fuck off.
>>17009978
Why private school?
If you don't dig school then you might work your way up with community college first, transfer later.
Help me continue this convo with cute girl adv
>>17009972
Don't double reply, you just met, post another pic when/if she replies.
>>17009980
>>17009980
Well anon, totally didnt expect that response. Wat do, number then date amirite?
This might be a strange one around here, and I know I'll catch shit for it, but I'll try anyway.
I work a job that involves traveling. Right now, I'm working in a city that is a bit far from where I live. I like working there because the work is good, but the commute sucks, and I won't be working there long enough to justify moving.
It just so happens that I know a girl who lives in this city, albeit not well; I've only run into her a few times and had short conversations. I don't see long-term potential between us, so I haven't bothered asking her out, but it might be beneficial for me if I could stay over her place now and again to cut down on my commute. I don't really want sex, but I understand it would be somewhat expected of me in order to sleep over, so I'm okay with that.
My question is how to arrange a relationship with her to serve this end. Thanks in advance to those who provide advice.
>>17009943
I guess friends with benefits?
>>17009949
I've never done this sort of thing before. How do I arrange something like that?
Couchserfing.com...or something like that. There is a literal website for this exact thing OP.
Hi guys, I just turned 18 and thought id commemorate this shitty event by asking /adv/ for help. This isnt a story bot ill greentext anyway.
>be me slighty socially-akward teenager
>not too bad looking, maybe 6.5 or 7
>lots of friends but have 3 very close friends. One is a nigger, the other a nazi descendant and one a friend ive had since i was 5
>Even though we so close will never tell them how i feel
> I wouldnt say that im suicidal but Ive thought about just ending it
> I meen ive only ever kissed one girl to this day(not that thats important) and have very little motivation to keep going
>I used to be a straight A student but now im barely passing
>no motivation to do well, succeed or make my parents proud again
>dont have a clue as to how im going to get into Uni
>dont know what to to with my life at this point, thinking about ending it
Please help...
have you tried anti depressants?
>>17009919
IKTF dude. My Elephant (abbreviated as Me) is turning 18 (rather not get b&) in 4 days and I experienced this starting a month ago.
Me:
>turns 18 on the eleventh of april
>no high school diploma
>1 semester of college, then dropped out to work
>Drug addict, 2 years sober
>Extremely fucked up teeth
>No motivation
>essentially numb
>No car or job
>Psychological diagnoses: Major Depressive, Generalized anxiety, Adult ADD, Conduct disorder with expected Diagnosis of ASPD at age 18
Do you want me to tell you a bunch of bullshit that will keep you content and being a pussy or do you want some actual fucking man to man advice?
>>17009928
Yeah, and they don't do anything...