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Hi /adv/
I just wanted to let you guys know that you actually helped me yesterday. After years of fruitless lurking, some of your advice actually sank in.
>sit next to qt in small discussion section of mentoring program
>find out that we visit the middle school we tutor at during the same hours on fridays
>start talking on the bus there and back
>conversations feel pretty natural
>we have similar sense of humor
>feelsgoodman
>butterflies
>2 months of this leads us to yesterday
>have to go to fair for the program
>mentors got together with a bunch of kids from the school on our college campus
>bowling, pool, pizza
>thought it would be pretty boring because my only good friend in the program couldn't make it
>i see my crush there
>she actively seeks me out to chill for the duration of the fair
>super excited
>start acting way friendlier than usual
>she's laughing at my jokes
>acknowledges that she remembers things we've talked about before
>actually having a great time
>my little heart is going nuts
>"Wow, maybe she likes me too."
>walk home smiling for the entire duration
>thought about last night when I was in the shower this morning
>realize that she's probably just friendly with everybody
>realize that she probably doesn't have romantic feelings for me
>realize that that's completely fine
It would be great if this girl happened to like me back, but I don't think so. She just has a really cute, bubbly personality. I feel like I've grown up a little bit. Thanks for all the help /adv/.
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good on you, OP. Growth is what life is about
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>>17011688
Why do you think she doesnt like you back? Those signs looks like she likes you.
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>>17011688
just fucking slam dunk her already
Girlfriend of 3 years that I live with cheated on me yesterday. I kicked her out, but I feel sick. It hit me harder today when I woke up to a quiet house. Haven't eaten at all and I'm starting to get dizzy. When will this horrible feeling go away?
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>>17011654
Buy a shit load of weed and just start every day by smoking
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>>17011654
start lifting or just occupy your mind with something. the feel will go away eventually
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>>17011654
Go out in the world and occupy yourself with something. All girls are whores, don't let it get to you :)
Why do girls act like rejecting someone is so hard and difficult? Given how fickle the average girl is they sure as hell don't seem to mind saying no to guys, telling them they're not good enough to date them.
Is it just to try to be nice/polite? I mean seriously, you honestly expect us to believe it's difficult for you to shoot guys down?
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fuck me for even replying to this, but
Don't generalize. Girls who are kind and compassionate people will obviously find it difficult to reject people.
Those that are assholes, manipulative, sociopathic, etc, will find it very easy and may even get off on it.
People are different.
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>>17011693
How is it exactly hard to turn down someone? The guy takes all the risk and does all the work. The woman just tells him he's not up to stuff and demands the next guy in line step up.
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>>17011736
>How is it exactly hard to turn down someone? The guy takes all the risk and does all the work. The woman just tells him he's not up to stuff and demands the next guy in line step up.
Of course it's riskier for the guy (if he's not already a manslut who propositions everything that moves), but that's not what you're asking is it?
It's emotionally difficult for a nice girl to reject a nice guy because she may have a hard time saying "no" to things in general, and doesn't enjoy hurting people (an empathetic girl will understand that it hurts). Obviously this doesn't apply to other girls, who may even enjoy it.
And imho we can just end this sort of discussion once and for all by encouraging girls to make the first move, instead of keeping this antiquated gender difference that seems to do nothing but provide sources of angst, fear, and conflict.
I'm a rather ugly male. How do I deal with this so I stop becoming depressed ? People said get hobbies and work out. Well I took gold up as a hobby and I've been working out for two years. I work and go to school and I see girls at school and it makes me depressed as hell because I e never even been on a date in my life and there is a bunch of pretty girls around
I know this is stupid to be depressed about but I'm just asking because it kills my motivation when I'm at school it's like a massive kick in the teeth.
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Post a pic op
Usually these threads are started by people who think they're ugly but in reality aren't half bad looking
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>>17011595
take zinc for clear skin
start hygiene, try new hair styles, fashion.
Be in your optimal body weight range
Eat healthy
Learn to be confident, learn to be charming.
Then you'll get bitches unless you're seriously chucklyfucky.
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>>17011607
I'm at work and for the sake of argument let's say I'm average or below average looking. Average is not good either and could be worse than being below average. When I get a test score back and it's the same as the class average that doesn't make me feel good about myself.
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I don't give 2 fucks about women. I care 0 about them and don't see what's so grand in having a relationship with one.
However, I have my own biological needs like any human and jerking off only works for a couple of weeks. I also hate to have to fill up some cunt's ego in order to have access to her only asset, so I found a safe haven in prostitution. The problem is: it's getting expensive.
This year alone I've fucked 5 hos but I have said goodbye to about $400 and money has become a issue since my father died 3 weeks ago and he did most of the money. I now have to help the household with the expenses as well as take care of the bureaucracy as my mother doesn't know shit about anything.
Should I try to get a gf Is it time to eat that frog and move on?
I need to fuck something at least every 2 or 3 weeks or I'll just get aggressive and angry at everything.
I know I'm a shitty prson but I need some thoughts here. I always imagined my life going very different than this. I didn't want to settle down before my 30s and it's also hard to just get laid as I'm in a new country where I don't know anyone and work most Saturday evenings, so I don't do clubbing. It's depressing when I think that back home I could get pussy on a weekly basis without much effort because people love me and I'm very well known and popular; however, I'd not be able to save money because my country is shitty.
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High libido, but you couldn't care less about women?
Seems like you're better fit to bat for the same team.
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Kek I hope you suffer
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>>17011542
Your not a shitty person it's fine, I'm a virgin and I don't feel negatively towards women but I feel largely indifferent towards them. But then again I feel that way towards most people in general anyways.>>17011554
Fuck off
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Long story, but how can I trigger myself to throw up when I go to work later? Are there some (non-lethal) household items I can ingest right before I clock in for work that will trigger me to throw up a few minutes / hours later? Perhaps a certain combination of common food / liquid / alcohol that is guaranteed to make me sick?
It's important that whatever the method is makes me sick a few minutes or hours after I perform it. The aim here is for me to puke when I start working. So I need to perform the action, go into work and hope at some point I'm sick.
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Ipicac, down a bottle before you walk in
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>>17011557
A whole fucking bottle
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McDonalds + a finger down the throat.
Not that I think it's a good idea but it's safer than ingesting that'll cause you to puke.
My friends are giving me shit because I haven't gotten laid in a long time. I'm admittedly on the second longest drought of my life, but frankly, I hadn't been even thinking about it much. They're worried I've given up.
I mean, when I think about it, I'll look up at a girl I think is attractive and immediately decide it's not worth the effort. That I don't want her calling me, wanting to hang out, or having to worry that my house is clean, just for a little action in the sack, when I could just happily jerk off and go back to watching hockey.
I am almost 30 though, I have my looks and my finances and I was typically good with girls when I was trying. Do I need to get myself out there and drop the porn?
I've only been interested in 2 girls since I dumped my girlfriend 2 years ago, and neither one was dateable anyways.
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>>17011494
Also, pic related, I wish I was still at the age where I could pick up drunk college chicks at house parties and never expect to hear from them again.
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>isn't worth the effort just for a little action in the sack
Don't enter any relationships. You don't seem to register the possible worth of a female companion beyond sex. If you pull the r9k card and go "let there isn't any", don't burden a woman with yourself. I doubt you are any prize. Just choke your chicken and move on with your life.
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>>17011508
>implying bareback sex isn't the most valuable thing about a woman
Any ideas how I could make girls slap me?
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>>17011481
Ask her to slap you.
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>>17011481
Fake mosquito glued on your face, did you try it?
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>>17011621
>ZOMG you have a huge mosquito
>GET IT GET IT GET IT
no way this wouldn't work
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My gf is ignoring my texts. And no, she didn't "forget"
It's been 2 days since I last texted her and she still hasn't responded. How long should I wait to confront her so I don't come off as needy
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>>17011443
Go to see her dude, what if she's in a car accident ?
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>>17011472
This. The last time I was stubborn with my ex, she got raped while she was trying to call me because she was stranded. Don't have ego
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>>17011489
Jesus dude that fucking went dark quick
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I'm going to be 23 soon and I'm still a virgin. Something doesn't add up. Why do I have to work so fucking hard to get a girl? I can ask them out fine irl and I can get numbers on Tinder/okcupid fairly easily.
But the flaking is out of this world. Yesterday I had 2 numbers. One from real life and one from Tinder. Former decided that we should just be friends and latter decided that she wasn't looking for anything(why be on Tinder then?). These two events happened on the same day which made me incredibly frustrated. I flipped out on the first girl. Gonna be fun seeing her at work next week.
Anyways, the more this keeps up, the more frustrated I become. And the more frustrated I become, the more I want to lash out on somebody. I don't think there's a better literal definition of sexual frustration.
What do I do? Masturbation has lost its effect a very long time ago and I already have enough hobbies to "channel my energy" into, which seems to be a total myth to me.
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a girl can tell when you are desperate, and it's not attractive.
the more you say, look at me i don't have a girlfriend, the less likely you will be to find one
try getting a girlfriend first, so that girls will find you more attractive. Then girls won't see you as trying to get in their panties, and they will talk to you. once they talk to you they say he's not so bad, why does his girlfriend get him all to herself. girls want what they can't have, not what they can get anywhere.
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>>17011473
Thanks, man. Now how do I get a girlfriend without having a girlfriend in the first place to not look desperate?
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>>17011428
I know that feel. Your just like me except 4 years older. Fuck this bullshit.>>17011473
Fuck off. Oh hurdur if a guy doesn't want sex I want it if he does then I don't fucking women and their shitty minds
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Could I possibly learn to be a decent singer? I can't sing but I wish I could.
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>>17011385
No, singers are born not made
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you can train your voice to reach higher notes which is cool, but you'll never change your actual voice
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>>17011385
yes you can
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So my school teacher is not getting her same job next year they want to let her go
Because a student in my lectures said she's a bit slack.
She's great and really cares about the students.
So I was wondering if you have any ideas on how I can help her out?
I have one idea, to get a petition to nominate her for a staff award, not that she might win but just the significance of a signed paper by the class says something.
Pls halp
thank
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Tell the tryhard to check himself before he reks himself. Cause shotgun bullets be bad for his health.
I don't get these people, why do they even care?
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>>17011384
Even better, a petition against her being fired.
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>>17011482
Then the school would know that she'd told the class
it'd make the petition less powerful, don't you think?
How do I live in an expensive city without an education or rich parents
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>>17011380
Shitty neighbourhoods.
Depending on where you live look for the place where blacks or muslims are most concentrayed. Go live there.
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>>17011397
Yeah basically thus
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>>17011397
I keep hearing that even living with the blacks is expensive as fuck and they all have subsidized and public housing
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Is there any point to life if sex is absent? 2016-04-08 14:57:40 Post No.17011377
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Is there any point to life if sex is absent?
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I feel like there's not.
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I'm leading a 0 sex life and yeah so far I'm pretty happy.
Sex is a just a primal desire, like a hunger. Don't ya think you could achieve more in a day if food wasn't any of your worries ?
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>>17011377
If there's no point to life but sex, you should probably see a shrink.
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>>17011377
Holy shit you are stupid.
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Help, I'm a 24 year old failure 2016-04-08 14:35:27 Post No.17011311
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Help, I'm a 24 year old failure
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/adv/
How the fuck do people choose what they want to go to school for?
It feels like one day I'm interested in one thing and the next it's something completely different.
I'm twenty fucking four and am still trying to decide.
I've gone to school twice already, and ended up not completing my programs.
First was general business. Second was addictions counselling.
Now I'm considering:
1) advertising & marketing communications
2) computer securties
3) electrician
4) computer engineering technology
5) programming/coding
what the fuck
why are my interests all over the fucking place
what if I pick one and it turns out I hate it and/or am horrible at it?
What the fuck
someone please help me
Canadafag FWIW & Uni isn't really an option
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military
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>>17011311
If you pick one and you don't want to do it as a career, you move onto the next one. I still haven't finalized my decision on a career but I've eliminated several of my interests by taking classes for them and finding out that while they're fine as a hobby, they'd absolutely blow as a career.
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>>17011327
can't, I'm a type 1 diabetic
>>17011416
I feel like that's so much money though.