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Two days ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years because I'm moving overseas for work. We're each other's closest friends, and would message each other about what's going on in our life each day. Since the breakup we haven't spoken, but it's hard for both of us. She sent me a message an hour ago, basically saying "this silence really sucks". What should I be doing here? Should I ignore it, or just reply to this one text saying that it's better we don't talk for a while, or start talking like we used to, maybe a little less frequently?
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Is she worth it iyo
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>>17012746
geez man that tough. I would still keep in contact because you never know what happens tomorrow. but there is no answer that will make you will feel good about.
I am a romantic. go to her anon! go!
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I don't understand this. Why wouldn't you keep in contact? Or even break up? How long are you going for?
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How do you even get a GF.
What needs to happen, how doyou talk to girls to make it happen, what to look for etc.
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No easy way get out everyday and talk with randoms you meet. Make friends and socialize more.
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>>17012705
Oh I have friends. Lots of friends actually. If it was this simple I wouldn't be asking strengers on the internet for advice.
Thing is, for them it always seemed to happen completely naturaly. Like they met a girl and month later they were already together.
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>>17012736
I feel this.
I believe it has something to do with charisma. They have the social skills, they move with their partner's vibe, and they eventually hit it off.
Get to really know the person you're after, and make sure you meet with her on the same page.
Never had a gf but I've observed this from others. I'm a shy motherfucker and that's always going to hold someone back from getting a gf.
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I've been fapping 4 times in the last 6 hours. I've never fapped so much and I'm deeply concerned about my health. I'm sure as hell you aren't supposed to fap so much and it's got to have a negative effect on my health.
How do I stop fapping entirely? On normal days, when I fap every 2 days or so, it takes 2 hours per fap session easy. Just browsing pr0n and shit. I find that to be an utter waste of time.
I want to stop fapping.
Any tips and tricks to do it?
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>>17012696
>How to stop fapping
Get a life.
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>>17012696
Grow up.
Study more.
Find job.
Find soul mate.
Make a family.
Get a hobby going.
Get in shape by sport.
>negative effect on my health
Nope.
You don't stop because you don't want to. You stop it when you don't have whole free day to do it.
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>>17012696
That's it? Four times in six hours? Am I supposed to be impressed?
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Could you rate my D ;b
need for some reasons, can elaborate if anyone cares.
http://imgur.com/u9Hv70O
here's a pic, hope i dont break any rules. pic is indeed NSFW. :3 help me fellow /adv/
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>>17012695
If you have any discomfort with the head of your dick see a doctor.
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>>17012695
>MFW
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Take it to /soc/ or /b/
We simply don't care.
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I want a girl to fucking dominate me.
Any good online communities I can get into?
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fetlife
chastitymansion
Still dominating woman are rare.
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>>17012667
Do you have experience with these websites?
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No, there isn't.
Definitely not fetlife, community is terrible there.
Been doing kinky shit for almost 10 years here.
How do you stop seeing sex as a bad thing people do to you and start seeing it as a good thing you do together?
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Become gay.
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>>17012650
I am gay.
Would becoming straight help? Do women demand sex from you?
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Find someone you can explain your reservations to and who respects what you want or don't want to do.
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This is a very ridiculous position.
I'm in the UK, 2 years deep into a law degree that I hate. It wouldn't be so bad except I haven't done any work experience, and there's now nothing left. I don't know what to do with my life.
If I could do anything I want I would probably drop out and do a Drama degree, but idk how much I want to be in uni for 5+years while all my friends move on. I'm also unsure if i'm talented or just enthusiastic about the subject. Also student loans can fuck my life right up.
It's really my fault, but idk what to do. I know there are loads of ppl in worse positions than me, but aged 20 I just have no idea what to do with my life apart from drink beer, smoke cigarettes and listen to the Carpenters. I just feel sick to my stomach when I think about graduation, and it's my own stupid fault for being a lazy fucker.
yeah man.
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I feel you m8, I feel you...
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vote no to the eu
also quit uni and go into a trade, builder, electrician, carpenter, whatever. youll make more money and not drown in debt
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>>17012601
I have no skills in these departments.
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Should I see a doctor for bloody shit, and a clenched-leaky sphincter? I know it could be colon cancer but I'd rather wait and see if it goes away.
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>>17012530
More likely to be IBD or celiac than cancer, given your likely age
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>>17012570
Goddamnit. I hope I don't have Celiac, fuck gluten-free fags.
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23 year old male here, started shitting blood a year or so ago and now have constant stomach pains, fatigue, cannot sleep and my tongue is very swolen. I went to the hospital and got nothing, my doc has got me some tests in a months time & she said it may be over a year before I know what's actually wrong. Go doc now anon - what do you have to loose by going? i regret not going straight away.
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Hey /adv/
I need advice on what I should do about my boyfriend.
I was recently raped and sodomized by a coke bottle that had to be removed at the hospital. I was heading home from the bus stop when I was raped. I do not wear revealing clothing. After the rape I got a hold of the police who took me to the hospital. I was reprimanded for walking home alone. 9 stitches. Contracted Gonorrhea and syphillis. Police did a rape kit 4 hours after I arrived at police station. Made to feel like I was at fault for being raped. Was told that I would not be provided a morning after pill because they consider it an abortificant. So had to buy that the next day.
First person I called was my boyfriend of 8 years. We had discussed marriage, kids, etc. He got mad at me for walking alone from the bus stop. He grilled me with 20 questions and never once said anything to comfort me. Made me feel like I was at fault. I asked him if he would say something, anything to comfort me. He said he needed to get off the phone because he had to go to class.
Later that day I received a single text saying he was sorry.
Have heard nothing since and it has been over a week. He will not answer my calls or texts or emails. He is completely ignoring me. I called from the hospital phone yesterday and he finally answered but when he realized it was me he said he had to go because he had to study for a quiz.
Haven't heard from him since.
I am more devastated by his actions than I am at the rape. His ignoring me is causing me more pain than being sodomized by a coke bottle did. He has seriously hurt me. He was my best friend. He was the one person I thought I could trust. I can't tell my family about what happened but I thought I could trust him.
I don't know what to do. Have been treating my wounds and taking antibiotics alone. Was told that I should have someone care for me for the days after getting the stitches....but he won't even text me back now.
What should I do.
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>>17012528
bait/ten
>obviously, you should try to reconnect with the Coke bottle, he seems to be the only one in this pasta who appreciates you
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>>17012535
Is that how you talk to your mother or other female relatives? How would you like it if someone talked to your female relatives the way you just spoke to me.
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>>17012552
Depends, are they making up stories about being buggered by a Coke bottle and posting them to 4chan?
Are they a bored horny dude pretending to be a girl?
next time you can try harder by not posting "dick butt" coke bottles, that's probably not what a traumatized girl would choose as her image, bro.
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How to repair my hairline, limit the damage or be less insecure about it? I'm only 22 and my hairline raced from I to III in a year. It's only going to get worse, I know it. It is really bothering me, especially since I sport long hair. I really don't want to be forced to shave it off and go bald. Almost no one I know of my age has it this bad. I know 30 somethings with an amazing hairline. WTF? This is depressing me so hard... any tips and advice would be appreciated.
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>>17012454
Same here. Shave your head.
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Shave head or accept your status as Nu-Male
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>>17012454
>tfw III
sucks because I can look in the mirror and fool myself into thinking everything is normal
Do you ever stop and realize a conversation you're having with someone is pointless and boring, yet keep carrying on the same way?
For some reason, any text conversation I have with this girl ends up with mundane nonsense like
>I can't tell chips from crisps from fries
>sometimes I dream about cheese
>walked the dog today
>visiting my grandfather
Both of us do this and the examples aren't literal quotes at all, but you get the point. I keep telling myself "why am I going into this" and then I do it again.
Is it normal to talk like this or feel like this? I've been comfy around her for months and we're planning to go out soon, but becoming conscious of what we talk about has made me feel so insecure. Like she'd feel the same and get bored and leave anytime now.
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>>17012452
In relationships you go through phases. In the first phase, you're learning about someone and you have all these radical super close really interesting and deep conversations where you're finding out about this person and their life and aspirations and sharing intimate details all the time and telling your best jokes and it's great and interesting and mind expanding.
After you get all of that out of the way, things get a little bit more samey, but you're still learning about that person. Maybe not in that first, really interesting way, but in a way where you learn a lot more about how they act and what their normal life is like and how they're changing over time, and that phase pretty much continues from after the first phase ends to when you die. It's a lot slower and involves a lot more small talk than the first phase. Anyway, if you're not comfortable with it, just know it's something even the most interesting couples go through and it's not really an issue.
Also, I never carry on long conversations over text with girls I date, just because it's boring as fuck. Only if something really interesting happens, I'll text someone (like if one of us has a good job interview or meets a famous person or something).
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>>17012559
That makes sense, I guess. It's not that I hate learning more about here at a 'samey' pace, but I feel I don't have much to offer myself. I mean, why would anyone care what I had for dinner?
Definitely gonna cut down a little on the texting though. It's all fine in person, but maybe it helps text conversations.
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>>17012452
Not every conversation you have has to be super deep and meaningful, sometimes it's just nice to talk for the sake of talking.
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Could you accept someone else's decision to die?
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>>17012443
If they're dead doesn't really make a difference
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>>17012443
>>17012446
4chan in a nutshell
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Their life, their choice. I'd try to help if it seemed like the problem could be addressed, but its up to them. I wouldn't stop them.
Hey /adv
I think the girl I'm dating is gay.
We met on okcupid.com about 4 weeks ago. We have been on 6 dates. We go out and do the normal kind of thing you know, dinner, movie, ect.
The on the 5th date she held my hand, odd, but ok....hugged me awefully frendly like. After we ate dinner she kissed me on the cheek, freaked me out but I decided to ignore it, maybe she had too much wine that night. Fucking gay as shit though.
Then on the 6th date (last night) after we saw a movie and on the way to our vehicles to go home and she whispered in my ear "when we get back to your place I want you to fuck me and pull my hair." Asked if I had condoms.
That was the last straw, she was completely sober, and I told her that what she said was gay as shit and only FAGGOTS like the cock.
It freaked me out bigtime.
She acted all upset and told me if I didnt kiss, hug, or make love to her that it would be over.
Not giving into her gay faggot sexual fantasies.
Completely blew my mind, I should have seen this coming a mile away. She always talked like a queer, was real nice, dressed real nice, and talked about shopping all the time. All the kind of stuff gays like to do. I should have known....was painfully obvious.
What should I do?
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Explain to me your definition of gay.
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>>17012439
You did the right thing, m8. Anyone into dick is a fucking fag, the last thing you want is a degenerate queer bitch like that raising your kids, she'd probably teach them all to be cock-loving fairies just like she is.
Stay strong!
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>>17012482
Gay = likes the dick
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Was in a relationship with this girl for about 3 years, recently broke up. Probably for good. Can I ask her in two months if she wants to watch the new Warcraft movie? We've been talking about it since we started dating and I would really like to go with her just as friends. Is that possible?
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nudes?
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Depends on whether you're staying in contact. If you're not and you call out of the blue just for that, it's gonna look odd. If you are, then maybe, but it'll be kind of awkward.
Best thing I could think of is to just cut your loses and cut contact. Try and go with someone else.
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not enough infos
how did it end, peacefull? who has ended it?
is it realistic for both of you that is could be a frienship?
To the people who are or have ever been unemployed: Did you ever have to deal with friends and family who assume you're a favor dispenser because you're home most of the time? I wanna know if it's just me experiencing this or what.
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>>17012433
oh god I can relate to this. no it's not just you. this is common as fuck. my mom got this when she retired, I got it when I was unemployed and again now that I'm disabled. my brother started his "could you do this for me" shit back up, and I'm having to re-learn how to politely say no.
the flipside of it is people who don't have jobs calling up people who do have jobs and asking them to do shit. somehow they figure that because they have a shit ton of free time, everybody does. my brother used to do this too.
I just politely but firmly make it clear that I do in fact have plans. if you're looking for a job, tell them you have made job hunting your full-time pursuit, and that you don't have the time or gas money to run them all over town. (however, if it were me I would consider doing an occasional favour IF they pay for gas AND they let you know in advance - none of this last minute shit. but that is your call)
if you're not looking for work, then just say you have other plans. if you're out of work due to disability, tell them your condition is flaring up or whatever and you need to rest.
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If you're staying at someone else's place rent free, then it's the least you could do, you lazy fuck.
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>>17012433
Yeah, I've been unemployed for the past year, and my family looks down on it and make passive aggressive remarks whenever I go home to visit them. They figure I've got nothing going on, so I'm automatically available to do whatever.
It's not like I've been a lifelong NEET or haven't been looking for any jobs. I have a degree so at least I guess I have that going for me...
I'm married and my husband pays all the bills right now. But I think it's only fair to help out with shit, though. I cook and keep the apartment clean, run errands, etc.