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So my father caught me throwing up in the toilet while trying to take pills by downing them with a beer at the same time and he's asking me to tell him why I did so. Should I tell him the truth?
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>suicidal
>"guys should I tell my dad?'

Yes you nerd.
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Depends on what they were, your current relationship with your father, and what the reason was.
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>>17102769
Bait

If this were true, you wouldn't have time to post on here. He'd be demanding an answer right away.

Yes, you should tell him.

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I asked this over on /an/, but it's a slow board so..

Hey guys, just got a quick question. We are working on our motorhome engine, and it's been leaking a lot, and part of what's leaking is anitfreeze. We are hosing down the pavement when we're done, but it's runs into the grass next to the motorhome.

If we hose the grass down pretty good, will this delute the amount of antifreeze that the grass soaks up? Will the grass even soak up the anitifreeze? I'm asking because I caught our dog out there eating some of the grass after we had cleaned up. I'm having everyone keep a close eye on her, and I have an emergency vet I can call up, but I'm worried about her eating it again later when it might have soaked some of the water up.

Should I do something else about the grass over there? Kill it maybe or cut it down with the weed-eater?
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Leave a container under the engine so you can dispose of the antifreeze properly, you're poisoing everyone, not just your dog.

And fix your fucking engine already, what you're doing is a crime.
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>>17102708
Wait, a crime? Why? We aren't near any rivers or sources of water like ponds or lakes, were just dumping it on our land and watering it down.

And I just found out that my friend has been putting it in a container and dumping it off the side of the hill where the dog doesn't really go, but I'm going to water that down too.
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>>17102703
all anti freeze is toxic to dogs. the dog is atracted to it because of its bright colour.

back flush your motor and radiator with just water: to get rid of the rusty brown water the leak will be hose or leaking seal or a the worst hole in radiator or water pump. if there water in the oil you have blown a head gasket(s)

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How do I make myself have a wet dream, or a lucid dream? I used to have them all the fucking time and now I miss them.
Pic unrelated.
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I've heard not masturbating or having sex makes them more likely but I don't know if that's actually true.

I've had sexual dreams that would have caused me to ejaculate when I was younger but didn't. Maybe you just become less sensitive to it as you get older.
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stop fapping.
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>>17102720
Probably would be better to keep fapping but not come since edging massively stimulates production of ejaculate.

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I'm a genuinely nice person. I think.

Except for one individual, my mom.

She's suffered from mental problems all her life, she didn't teach me anything while "raising" me, and even handed me off to both of her brothers when I was less than 10 years old because she couldn't handle her depression.

Fast forward 15 years later and I treat her like shit. I give her advice when she needs it, which is all the time, but I just feel no emotional connection to her, and I find myself just being cruel to her, to the point where she'll start crying.

I don't know why I do it, I feel like shit afterwards, but I can't tell her that.

I'm not like this with any other person, and I really want to stop it.. because the poor woman has been through enough shit.
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why are you talking to her at all
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>I don't know why I do it, I feel like shit afterwards, but I can't tell her that.

Yes you can. Go say you're sorry and give her a hug. That would mean the entire fucking world to her. Have a normal conversation with her. Stop seeing her as a ball of mental illness who fucked up your childhood and see her as a human being. You're old enough to not be the little cunt who can get away with blaming her for everything anymore, grow up and act like it.

This doesn't mean you need to put up with her shit when she gets a bit loopy, but that also means she shouldn't have to put up with your shit when she's not.
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give her a hug but then transition into choking her until she stops moving.

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Hey /adv/isors.
How do I make great coffee?
People tell me it's just about the brand you buy, and that everything else is pretty much the same.
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nobody who has ever had OK coffee would say that, let alone anyone who has had great coffee.
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Get the mug.
Fill until you can no longer see the base of the mug.
I find that about 3 teaspoons (full ones) work the best.
Add the water, mix it with a spoon soon after, then take extra requests from others i.e milk, sugar etc.
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>>17102683
put milk in bottom of cup first add coffee. 1 heaped teaspoons max powder so that when hot water hits the bottom it doesnt burn the coffee as most baristas do...

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What could cause sudden incontinence in a 25 year old guy who is in generally good health?

No prior surgieries, no nerve damage, no back injuries - all around good (i.e., normal) health.

What gives?
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>>17102682

bowel or bladder? a number of things and context is key. i wet the bed three times one month for reasons i still dont know. im fine now. havent done it since.
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>>17102682

>Diet
>stress
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>questions to ask your doctor

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Sup my fellow 4chan-ers , i am a 19yr old guy, with a trimmed beard, 190cm and about 90 kilos, as you can see in picture i am taller and wider than anyone else( light blue tshirt/teal), i am attending faculty of philolgy and things, i never really had a relationship ( was going out with only one girl). I am an average guy when it comes to humor and things, i am alpha as fuck when it comes to commanding, since i am the leader of youth from one of ultra-nationalistic poltical parties in my country, i never really show emotions except laugh and having good time, i am above average drinker, since i have good genetics i cna kill myself with alcohol , and my attendances at parties are atleast once in 4-5 days (college life ftw) but i always failed to have girlfriend, even when a girls starts flirting with me, i have no idea how to act and what to say, and i know i look really defensful and somehow i cockblock myself, so would be great if you guys could give me some advices about girls and things, and please no be yourself things since i am sick of being a good guy and being depresive as fuck 90% of the time because i am so lonely,if you have any question please ask, i will be online for another hour
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Right wing twat, please kill yourself
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>>17102655
Better than being a weak leftist cuck.
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>>17102688

>i cant even talk to girls
>BUT UR THE KEK CUZ OF UR POLITICAL AFFILIATION

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So, I tried really hard to be normal, or at least good at being quirky and interesting, but I just fucking give up. I can't be either.

I honestly think I am right on the cusp of committing sudoku now. My depressive episodes, on the outside, don't seem to be getting worse, but on the inside they're becoming more intense as I get older. I've come to masturbate anally furiously; but I don't enjoy it, I don't even imagine someone else when I do it (I'm probably autistic), I just do it out of some instinct, like I need to punish myself. I barely get a boner from it.

I've fucked up basically everything in my life. I'm only 25, but whatever. Parents have been dysfunctional since before I was born, and there has been nothing but domestic problems since day one, with annual police involvement. Now they're old, and losing their mental capacities early, because neither of them took good care of themselves — feels like a huge chunk of my life will NEVER be reconciled now. Only had an internet girlfriend in high school (whoop-dee-fucking do), never kissed anyone. Way too fucking neurotic as a male to get one now, and I'm prudish as hell to boot. Escorts? Absolutely disgusting. Meanwhile I am incompetent at what I do as my career, because I don't really belong in it, because I spend all my time in escapist entertainment or reading books on intellectual subjects that aren't really geared for a poorfag loser like me (someone coming from serious Dough Re Mi might however). So, I don't know shit about survival in the 21st century, and I do know how to socially act but I am terrible at doing so. I'm also prone to laziness and intoxication thanks to my dumb Polack genes (not all Polish are this bad, btw).

I have lived my life so starry eyed and thinking that I will figure things out. But I don't think that I can. So now I am contemplating a move that will just be another effort from me towards letting down others.

Thanks for the ear/eyes. Now take care of yourself please.
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>>17102600
The masturbation issue sounds like what commonly happens in depression (lost the ability to feel pleasure from it, becomes mechanical and compulsive). Rest sounds like depression too, go see a psychiatrist.

>feels like a huge chunk of my life will NEVER be reconciled now
>never kissed anyone.
>I do know how to socially act but I am terrible at doing so
Join the club, many of us had shit parents, especially eastern europeans (they don't call you a "lost generation" for nothing). Mine moved to the states and i was born there, but they were fucking awful at raising children. A lot of us are like this. Our parents built broken kids and we have to take ourselves apart and put all the parts back together properly.

>Meanwhile I am incompetent at what I do as my career, because I don't really belong in it
Then change it.
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>on the cusp of committing sudoku now
>sudoku

Stopped reading here.
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>>17102783
I'm actually from the US as well. Similar scenario. Good to hear I'm not the only one, I guess, but sorry to hear you have to deal with shit too.

>Then change it.
I'm trying, albeit slowly, since I'm lazy and obviously retarded.

What could a psychiatrist do in this situation, aside from give me pills? Not sure I could even afford one.

Thank you for the words, man.

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>think of myself as middle class
>poverty is pretty much me

How to deal with this? How to change?
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>>17102591

>how to deal with this

stop asking this question. your life is literally exactly the same as it was an hour ago, a day ago, whatever. its the same. you just got a new label.

>how to change

most people would say finding a job that pays well enough, and of course getting the education necessary. stlil no guarantee in todays world.
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>>17102602
It's not just about the label. It's a very convincing explanation of why the poor often stay poor and the rich stay rich. It would be an improvement for my life to change mentalities to something that is much more beneficial for the long-term. I already have education and a job.
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>>17102638

if you are financially stable and happy then it doesnt matter what the label is. if you want to do better go for it.

>already have education and a job

the job doesnt pay enough apparently, and the education does not supply you with a job that pays well enough apparently. unless you are on track for promotion, go get another education. if you are on track for promotion or have potential to grow, then focus all your energy on that.

How can I kill myself easily?
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>>17102570

With a gun.
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>>17102570
Look into mirror and say Bloody Mary three times.
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>>17102570
Why

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Does anyone have any gay friends?

How do you tell them to fuck off? I've put up with their shit and I'm tired of it. I've had to keep my gay friends to a minimum because even though they say they don't force their gayness on you they do the stupid shit anyway when no one is looking and try to play it off as a joke.

I'm a virgin and I don't care to change that and because of this they always assume I'm a closet gay because I'm not pursuing or swimming in women. I'm tired of their hands "accidentally" brushing against my ass, the sexual comments and the compliments. The worst of this is when I call them out they begin pulling sjw shit. I just dont want a dick in my ass is that to damn much to ask for?

After genuinely asking them to stop what the fuck more can I do? I'm not very tame with the violence and I don't want to quit being friends with them there has to be another way.
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Seems like you don't get on with those types of people. The answer is to man up and tell them how annoying they often are, then keep friendship levels to a minimum.
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>>17102554
This.
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what.

I have a gay friend who I am rather close to and he's never started hitting on me or anything because he isn't an asshole. If someone doesn't respect your boundaries than just lose them as a friend, because they aren't a very good one to begin with.

ok, i have no money for my rent. Im already 7 months behind. The pressure is big but im trying to be as rational as i can. Currently im staying at another city but in one week i must go there for my studies( im a university student). I dont want to have problems with lawyers and stuff. So im gonna tell him (the boss of the apartment) that im gonna leave (the next week) and that i'll still be paying him the bills after June. This sucks for me. The exams starts at June. No money left at all. So what im gonna do? stay there for the next two months and keep fooling him or do as i said above? Please help
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>>17102530

fool him as long as you can, it happens a lot in life. just try and find a way to fix the istuation / get a next situation. you need to know what your next step is in terms of living with someone
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Why don't you get a fucking job?
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>>17102530
get a min wage job to keep ya bills paid or live in your car. your choice

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How come when fucking someone of the same gender to assert dominance or to rape is natural and common in the animal kingdom we as humans perceive it as absolutely horrible? I'm not arguing in the sense of that it should be seen as okay, I just don't understand how we completely reject it when we are only animals too. Meanwhile killing and hurting someone of your species is not seen as that bad. In fact we are the only animals that wage genocides against our own kind.
But sticking your dick into someone who doesn't consent feels so repulsing somehow?

I mean imagine two scenarios. In one your father gets raped by another stronger guy who wanted to assert his dominance. In the other your dad gets shot by some random criminal. How come the first scenario seems more traumatizing?
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>>17102461
You pulled that one completely out of your ass, sentences are much higher with murder than rape m8
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Because we as a species have developed ways of asserting dominance without rape inside the same gender.
As for rape vs murder, the first defiles your body and leaves you ashamed, the second destroys the body and leaves honor depending on the way you died, that's the difference.
We are animals yes, but we have developed many ways to solve issues in a different way, much like animals have different rituals we have them as well, sometimes differing between cultures.
I can't believe I responded to such a post, maybe because I'd have made it 6+ years ago as an angsty teenager
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>>17102461

what?

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This happens to me all the time, and now it's just pissing me off.

Is there a way to definitively know what your sexual orientation is? 4chan has messed me up so much in this area.
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>>17102436
Do you like the same sex exclusively? Gay.
Do you like the opposite sex exclusively? Straight.
Do you like both? Bi.
That's it, don't you dare put more labels, that's all you need.
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>>17102501

this.

>>17102436

>definitively

if you are unsure its likely becuase you have been focusing on porn and not chemistry. I'm gay but found that I can fap to lesbians rather enjoyably.

go have sex with a guy. then with a girl. see how your body reacted.
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>>17102501
What about intersex people who don't identify with a specific gender?

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I had my first threesome today with my gf and a friend of hers it was OK but afterwards I felt sort of numb and didn't enjoy it much. I enjoyed cuddling with them after but am I missing something? I thought threesomes were suppose to be mind blowing but I felt almost nothing
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Wtf am I supposed to say?
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>>17102429
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>>17102429
They're mind blowing only in porn/movies. Welcome to the real world

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