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Hey /adv/, i need your help. Please answer this survey on anonymous forum usage, to help me with my thesis. You'll also get to see general results of other people's answers. Thanks!
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3 so far you are welcome op
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Answered, looking forward to see more responses.
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>>17106474
What's your major?
So I had matched with this chick on tinder like a week ago and we talked and stuff and eventually i asked her for her snapchat bc I don't have many girls on snapchat. I showed her my parakeet and shit but she was so terrible at responding after that. Like I wanted to have a conversation but she'd always answer like hours later. I knew she wasn't an avid snapchat user because she only had about 1,000 points when I barely use it and have 3,000. Anyways I was looking at people's scores again and found out I couldn't see hers anymore. I was confused and then read that this means we're not friends anymore. Then i checked Tinder and she unmatched me on there too. Like wtf. She seems into it, I try to shift phases into snapchat so it can be more personal and then she barely responds and unmatches me? No sorry this aint gonna work or nothing? like tf? I still have her snap so...... what do I do now?
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>>17106459
>>snapchat
Idiot.
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>>17106459
snapchat is really boring imo if i want to send a selfie ill just text someone it or put it on instagram. she probably thought ur cringey owning a parrot.
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She's the one who started the whole conversation of when she used to own a parakeet
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Meeting people online. 2016-05-04 02:27:01 Post No.17106442
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I'm a loser who wants to meet other losers willing to meet other losers. Any recommendations?
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>>17106442
A dating site?
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>>17106442
/mlp/
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>>17106442
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Thinking of asking a girl out... 2016-05-04 02:26:50 Post No.17106440
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Thinking of asking a girl out...
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2016-05-04 02:26:50
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Is it wrong or unhealthy to feel uneasy toward a relationship with someone if you fear others may make assumptions about you because of it?
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>>17106440
It only matters what YOU think about them.
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>>17106447
K thx
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>>17106440
not entirely. it is if you obsess over it to the point where you refuse to be wit hsomeone you really care about just because of a minor detail that others might give you shit for.
if you told us the full context we could help more.
the truth is that peer pressure isn't always bad. on a broad scale its essentially just 'culture'. if people are giving oyu shit for dating a druggie, than they're probably right. if they're giving you shit cuz the girl you like is ugly but you genuinely have the feelings for her (or at least know you could never do better) than there is that.
tell us the story
My girlfriend gets more upset when I DON'T seem upset, that she is upset. It's just become normal at this point, she's constantly sad or mad about something, crying about this or that, etc.
I could go out one night and she could be upset that we haven't talked in a while and she tells me she's been up all night crying, and I just can't make myself feel remorse, because it's become like the boy who cried wolf. If it happens once, sure it's unexpected and alarming. But if you've done it every night this week, I've just come to accept it as a reality.
What can I do to either make her stop/be upset, cry less, or make it more meaningful to myself?
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Tell her you'll start caring when she starts acting like an adult
Weepy ass hoe
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>>17106411
But she tells me the same thing, that when I act like an adult is when she'll stop getting so upset.
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>>17106402
Find someone who's not crazy.
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How do I find good music? I don't feel like searches through playlists for hours on end.
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Suck my dick and I'll give you some recs
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>>17106375
later, help me first.
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>>17106377
Well first at lease tell me what kind of music you enjoy?
I'm not sure if this is at all anxiety related, but do any of you anons ever stop for a moment amidst doing something/socializing and think to yourself like "what even is life? What the fuck is even going on right now?". Is it possible to just forget how to act/everything you know about or is this just anxiety/irrational fears taking over my bored brain?
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Bumping for posterity. Genuinely interested if anyone else has felt this way
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>>17106342
Yeah, I used to have panic attacks several times a day growing up. I got over them, but still find myself feeling a little disconnected from reality a lot if that's what you mean. Then again, I have some odd beliefs about life not believing that what we are doing is 100% "real". I am in the group that thinks it's all a simulation and I am just waiting until someone turns the game off.
I suspect other people are either a figment of my imagination or kind of like in online multiplayer, float in and out of my game from time to time even though the game follows a specific path to completion. I still take things seriously since I want to win any game I play so I am pretty successful in life so whatever works I guess.
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>>17106370
I dont believe anything like that, I mean more along the lines of kind of drifting away from what youre currently doing and feeling like its happening without you there
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I'm a student in uni that's totally financially dependent on my parents right now. I want to gain independence and move into a pet friendly apartment (I live for free in a house they own right now).
I get my degree in botany in a semester and I want to work full time in a farm or greenhouse once I graduate. How do I save up money for an apartment? How long would I have to work before I could have a pet dog? I have absolutely no idea about any of this and would appreciate any input at all.
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One bump!
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>>17106336
I'm in a sort of similar situation (I live in my parents house without them and had dogs and currently studying) and I'm planning to move out at the end of this year to a new city.
Do you have time to work much time to work or just a few shifts here and there?
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>>17106799
I work now for peanuts, like I make $40 a week and my bank account has something around $1000 in it. This summer I will have a paid farm internship, kind of low paying but full time. During the semester I will not be making much money, but after I graduate I will want to work full time. Since the greenhouse business isn't super high paying, it will probably not be a ton of cash, though.
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Can any psychics on /ADV/ tell me when or weather not my ex will pursue and take me back?
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My heir tells me as long you move on with your life she will come back crawling.
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>>17106298
I don't need to be a psychic to answer this one: no.
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>>17106307
What if I'm female and they are male?
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How do I overcome psychological boner problems
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Pls
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Explain
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>>17106306
If I cum once I can't get hard for the rest of the day, basically
Porn doesn't get me hard
Thinking about sex doesn't get me hard
I can only get hard consistently by kissing my gf or fingering her, but again after I cum that first time it's a fucking challenge to get it up again, even a couple hours later
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are u that person that gives people advice for friends but doesnt have any
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yeah lol
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Nope.
Since we're on the subject, how do I gain friends?
Messaged someone on a hobby site and it's been a day or two and they haven't reponded. I already feel rejected.
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>>17106254
Why. They're probably busy and don't check messages often. Online friendships aren't really friendships unless you see the person irl. You can't bond with someone over text only, humans are social creatures.
Planning to go on a long journey far from the place where I couldn't find what I am looking for, in 20 years of my life.
I'll travel at first by train, then by foot, I'll probably run out of the little money I have in days or weeks.
I'll probably live and sleep in the streets, asking for charity and living with nothing but the essential.
I'm ready to pack up my bag.
What should I bring with me? I improvised a list, tell me what misses
Water & food
Clothes for the summer
Clothes for the winter
Blanket
Towel
Sponge
Toothbrush
Magnesium fire starter
Multi tool knife
Whistle
String hank
Band aids
Disinfectant
Climbing rope
carabiners
Maps
Id card nad passport
I am bringing no phone, so i can't be easily tracked
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>>17106161
Pepperspray
Pain medicine
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Okay your list is absurd. First of all where are you going, specifically? What are you looking for, specifically?
How long is your trip? Why can't you just save enough money to take a train/bus/ride all the way to the destination, why do you have to expect to beg for food and sleep in the street? That's so dangerous, people get killed and raped by nature and other homeless people all the time.
What are you doing?
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>it's a 'I have no idea what I'm doing with my life so I'm going to do something stupid' episode
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I'm scared I look like a real douche bag.
I wear skinny jeans, t shirt, flannel, nike or adidas skate shoes, snapback or fivepanel hat, I usually listen to music while I walk around campus so I have headphones in and I text a lot of people.
As I was leaving the house today I got the impression I looked like a douche though.
How do I know if I look like a douche and does it really matter? I don't want people thinking i'm a shit head before even knowing me.
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>>17106157
If your snapback is flat rim stop wearing it.
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>>17106157
>posting a thumbnail
Also yes, you dress like a douche. 2/10 not even close to effay
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Sounds like a basic normal fit desu. You prolly don't look like a douche. Post pic with blurred face ? The only way we can really decide.
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I am at a impasse /adv/. I am 25 and male and I have never had sex. I do masturbate a lot but I feel no different after finishing. I don't feel any less horny.
I feel like I am ready pounce on almost any female who would let me. That sounds desperate as fuck and I don't feel very good about that. I want to have sex really badly but I don't want to do it in a situation where I am coked out on desperate horniness.
Makes me feel like an animal. I just wish I could have normal sex in a normal relationship. I am starting to think that won't happen though.
I feel like I may have to resort to prostitutes which I really don't want. Feels dishonorable. What can I do? Masturbation doesn't make me feel any less horny and leaves me wanting. Why don't women have strange problems with sexual release like this? You don't see women just about ready to pounce on any dude.
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>>17106131
>Why don't women have strange problems with sexual release like this
Oh they do.
They just are better at hiding it than us men.
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Are you ugly? Do you have a bad personality? Have you ever had a girlfriend?
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You need to learn to be more alpha. Google "how to be an alpha male". Girls fuck alphas. The essence is just be cocky and funny and confident. It takes practice but it works. You will fail before you succeed but once you get it, sex will be on tap.
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This chick at work treats me in a weird way, whenever there is no one else there she comes and talks...a lot. I never try and talk with her. I just get down to business. I like er, but I don't like being a tool used to alleviate her boredom. I wouldn't mind it if she talked to me regularly, but being cast aside when someone else is around is annoying. What do? How can I tell her to fuck off with out saying it?
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>>17106122
Maybe she wants your dick on the low
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>>17106160
I don't think she does ...she has a long term bf. She asked for number but we rarely text. I think it's just simply that she wants attention when no one else is around.
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>>17106236
yep ur right, u should embarass her. but then again if shes having problems in a relationship and needs a friend i wouldnt.