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>>17102382
Be rude to them until they stop coming around.

Or fight you. Whichever happens first.

Get over yourself. If you hate so many people, then most likely the problem is you.

>>17102382
You should avoid them at all costs. Don't try to mix friend groups with your partner. Let her have her friends, and you have your own. They should rarely mingle. If she wants to befriend some cunts, so be it. You do you, and let her do her. You need to have time together and time apart. Make sure that the time you're together is exclusively you your girlfriend. If it's a birthday or other celebration, just suck it up and deal with her friends. Otherwise they should never other you, because they won't be a part of your life.

How about post it here

>>17102363
Yes, we all wanna see boobs.

>>17102359
/adv/ since you're here already.

>>17102345
...if its not a shit place, they will train you. probably with sheets with info regarding ingredients, calorie content, instructions on how to make the drinks etc. High school drop outs do that shit man.

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Hey! I'm a barista! I'll help you out.

1. Traditional coffee shop or Starbucks?
2. Did you receive any training?
3. Is it only you behind the counter, or other baristas?

Lol your job is pouring coffee.

Expect to do that. A lot.

Depends, are you male?

>>17102331
>not asking him out
Then why the fuck bother?

Im a female


gonna confess to get it off my chest and see if he feels the same. going to dif schools so going out would be no use

I don't know what you're talking about. I've never heard of guys being told to go for rich girls.

>>17102284
like in this post for example: >>17101814
>she sucked my dick and swallowed was literally best shit ever, hand jobs also on point, rich parents etc
>rich parents

why does that matter when considering a girlfriend? this isn't the first time i've seen this mentioned.

>>17102281
I come from a rich family.

It makes me care less about how wealthy my partner is. I have and make enough money for the both of us, so he could be dirt poor and it wouldn't affect my opinion of him.

Also, I do do the hand outs thing. I always pay for my friend's meals and I pay for everything when I go out on a date. That being said, it is important that a boy OFFER to pay. It's like the thought that counts. The fact that he'd be willing to sacrifice when he doesn't have a lot to spare is an indication that he actually cares about me.

Gift wise I am a little picky- I don't like cheap jewelry and such so I would rather my partner make me a gift or put together a meaningful date as a gift, unless he has enough money saved up to buy me something that I actually would like to wear.

"Status" wise- I don't know. I don't think that I am better than anyone else, and I am very thankful that I get to play life on easy mode. It makes me very happy and I want to share that happiness with the people that matter to me.

I grew up around people who are extremely snooty/classist so I have actually grown to despise that way of thinking, and I actively avoid people who think that they're "better" just because they're wealthy.

That being said I don't think I've ever had a guy pursue me just because of my money. I've dated poor guys before but they weren't the gold digger type.

>>17102265
>I have a very bad habit of thinking that any girl that is nice/friendly towards me, (and as long as I'm attracted to her) that she's flirting and/or interested in me.
This is common among geeks, or really any men who aren't used to gettung attention from women. I used to have it too. Got me in a lot of trouble. You wouldn't want to get out the way I did.

But you've got to decide for yourself whether or not to ask her out, and -this is the tricky part- if you decide to keep the friendship, you've got to establish some distance so that your feelings can cool. Unrequited love is bad for the psyche. We can't help you on the initial question. That's a judgment you have to make alone.

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>>17102425
>This is common among geeks, or really any men who aren't used to gettung attention from women. I used to have it too. Got me in a lot of trouble.
Thankfully many of us compensate for it by assuming no woman could ever be interested in us

>>17102425

You're fucking dumb

>>17102801

You're fucking dumb too.

>>17102265

Are you telling me you don't flirt back? Ask her out numb nuts. Don't look for or wait for any signs. Just go at it.

>>17102250
Go to /his/ and buy books

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>>17102250
>don't censor things like Jews being kicked out of civilizations since the beginning of time.
>>>/pol/

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>>17102264
That's current events
They do talk history some times but it's not in depth

>>17102256
Thank you.

Let me guess, you masterbate alot?

Do you look at a lot of porn? If so, there's your answer.

>>17102230
Do you use condoms? If so, that's your problem. I couldn't ever get off with a condom.

>>17100691
>Every day I wake up, I look myself in the mirror


That's 90% of your problem right there dipshit. Everyone looks ugly first thing in the morning.

>>17100693
You don't actually think an appearance-obsessed person like me wouldn't know that, dipshit? Why the fuck are you on /adv/ in the first place.

>>17100742
Why are you asking for helpful advice when you are utterly unreasonable anyway?

>I am not a man whore. I rejected sex offers from 3 stranger girls.
>What is wrong with me?
We call this phenomen: Having standards or not being slut.

>>17101027
I get what you mean and I understand how my original post might be interpreted. but this has happened even with girls I've been acquainted to and clicked with on a personal level, ie what could be called perfect circumstances

Hey I'm kind of going through a similar thing, my sex drive has almost completely gone away over the last year or so and I don't know why. Did you have a stronger sex drive when you were younger? Are you stressed out about work or anything, or busy a lot lately? Maybe you need to have an emotional connection to someone to want to have sex with them, so if you didn't know those girls well it didn't interest you. Or maybe you're just not that interested in sex! It happens I suppose, there are people who are asexual. Maybe talk to a doctor if you're really concerned but I don't think I'd be too worried if I were you.

I've stayed at his place by myself for way longer than 4 hours before. He said I couldn't come with him to tech support because he talked about how huge of an asshole this guy was, throws things when he gets angry and curses people out. I don't know, it sounded really made up.

I should add that the entire time he was telling me about how he didn't know how he got the bruise, he kept looking to the left. I know that that isn't always an indication of lying, but shit's just adding up.

I asked him about it again later, he said that he was supposed to be over there from 2-4 hours, that the guy was supposed to text him between 9am and 11am. Still nothing.

The thing that's the most concerning though, is that we were fooling around last night, I said something unrelated, and in response he said "not while you're here". I'm like, "What?" and he told me that he was going to maybe make plans with his brother, but not while I was here. Which is really fuckin' suspicious, because making plans with his brother has obviously never been an issue while I've been over.

Something is really fishy about all this. He has to be up to something.

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>>17100634
Jesus, you know when he's peeing or shitting?

I'd cheat on you too, only because you'd probably stab a guy who tried to break up with you.

>>17100634
>>17100659

You sound crazy and none of this adds up to him sounding suspicious at all.

You've already gone through his phone and found nothing. Either get over it or do the guy a favor and dump him.

fuck man im in the same boat

>>17100618
Tell me your situation bro

>>17100617

Don't make a big thing of avoiding her. If you cross paths, just give a polite "hi" and be on your way. If you act awkward, you CREATE awkwardness.

Tell yourself that THIS girl is not interested in you, you have a 0% chance (it might not be true, but it's helpful to think this way). Act as if she's wearing a wedding ring. Don't take it personally, don't try to analyze WHY she rejected you. Don't assume that there's something wrong with you, or with the way you behaved. Just accept that there's an incompatibility, and move on.

Start talking to other girls. If you find one you really like who likes you back, you're gonna forget all about this. If your mind stays hung up on the one girl in the room who DEFINITELY doesn't want you, you'll never be able to move on.

Buuuuuuump

The university or college at which you studied has a career center full of people paid to help graduates and soon-to-be graduates figure this sort of thing out.

They'll also know about local options if you're still living in the area.

I'm guessing you were one of the idiots who never used networking to build an advantage, right?

Building a network of people to help influence the world around you is what having a career involves. You've got to 'know a guy'. Without a network of any kind, you come off as a crapshoot, and no sensible person wants to take the risk.

Soap and water

>>17100582
WRONG
It's water and soap, not soap and water.

Take a piss you tard.

It's gonna burn though either way.

What do you mean by "negative and abrasive?"

Just go by the policy of "live and let live." If they're not trying to stand in your way or tear you down, let them be. If they're being "negative" in a way that directly jeopardizes your goals or ambitions, then confront them appropriately.

>>17100579
Inconsiderate. I keep feeling like the effort it would take them to go slightly out of their way to NOT upset me would be much more economical to take than upsetting me and then dealing with me being upset every single time, but for some reason such efforts as not stressing me out with things I can't control at times when I don't have the energy to deal with them is simply too much for them.

Sometimes I have to half-ass two things instead of just leaving them undone, and I feel like it is unreasonable for people to complain about me doing so if they themselves are unwilling to help me do it right.

I might choose to cook nasty food instead of letting all the ingredients (which I bought with my own money that I worked for in an actual legit adult job) go to waste. I feel it's unreasonable for people who would not eat the foods anyway to get upset at me for being upset at them for insulting my nasty-ass cooking that they wouldn't touch anyway.

How do I live and let live with people who don't let ME live?