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ginga

>How do you know if your bipolar?
Have you had any of the symptoms of mania or hypomania?

is that the actual size of saturn relative to earth?

because holy fuck

I'm confused. Your mom wants you to move to South America, but she lives here? Does she want to move there and bring you with her or something?

>>17109997
Yes, basically trying to fk my life up so I have no choice but to move there

Op you need to leave and never come back, live under a tree or your friends house if you need to

>>17109911
>I have been lied to in many past relationships

Why is that, anon?

>>17109917
I'm pretty naive and have been unlucky in the last ones (3) that i've had.
The first one was a compulsive liar and the last two cheated.

>>17109911
Are they doing something in particular to make you think this?

>>17109898
Taking drugs before acid really isn't necessary,but getting heavily baked has a few light similarities to acid and could prepare you for some physical experiences you're not used to. Also the whole LSD-induced schizophrenia thing isn't proven at all, and it's not grounded in anything. Acid is great for the experience, but honestly not as much if you want to consistently use it, in my experience shrooms and weed are generally better when it comes to needing to record your ideas, but acid will still definitely help your creative process. For safety, get a testing kit since street acid tends to be sketchy and get a tripsitter so you don't do any crazy shit. Another useful tip is do it on a good day and have a calm and relaxing area to trip in to avoid a bad trip. Have fun on the other side, OP.

>>17110085
> Also the whole LSD-induced schizophrenia thing isn't proven at all,
lsd doesn't cause schizophrenia, but causes latent psychotic disorders to manifest. and OPs family has a history of schizophrenia, so there is this possibility.

also, a testing kit is worth nothing these days because the only test you get for LSD is an ehrlichs reagent, which just tells you if an ergoline is present, but not which of the 20 lsd derivaties that are available atm it is.

>>17110085
It's irresponsible as fuck to suggest that the link between schizophrenia and LSD is completely unfounded. Anything that can profoundly affect ones mental health, which we can all agree that tripping does, could potentially cause a latent mental illness to surface. Combine that with the fact that this is an adolescent with a family history of schizophrenia and it's plain old stupid to not consider it.

However, that's not to say that OP cannot/should not do LSD.

OP, consider the fact that tripping can be an extremely emotional experience which can change the state of your mental health for the long term. Consider the fact that you have a family history of a disease with a slight link to recreational hallucinogen use. Consider these things and decide for yourself if the consequences and the risks are something you want to live with.

In all likelihood, you will be fine. But there's a chance it could change you forever, better or worse. Don't let anyone lull you into a false sense of security or fear.

If I told you it was, would it change your decision to go?

>>17109882
does your life end at 30?
how much do you want to go?
did you fell for the ¨be young forever¨ propaganda?
do you think someone cannot learn after 20?
will it make you happier?

I think you need to speak with yourself OP
happiness is not about what others will think about you

happiness is something you learn to feel by yourself

>>17109882
>What is a mature student
No age is too late to go, the only concern is finances.

>jazz

Is this the 1920s or sum shit?

>>17109877
No

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>>17109896
whoosh

>>17109862
She gave you problems and you love her still, similar to my relationship atm.
It's really odd for me, normally i would think i wouldn't sourround myself with someone that has emotional anger issues towards myself everyday or pushes all the work to me and gives me her troubles but then again, if you are in love you don't really think rational enough.

While reading your post i felt like the problem is that she is lacking the respect for you, besides that she doesn't seem head over heels for you either. Even if you could get back together, i can assure you that is not what you want, you have to look at this situation from a different angle.
As much as you want her back you should also consider that you are at the point in life where you have a rather easy way of letting her go, 5 months are not pretty but man, pull yourself together and stop rubbing on the wounds. Imagine yourself two years from now, you are together with her, you never really get to know if she deeply cares about you, she will treat you like shit and having conversations about it is the only way to stop this but starts an argument every day.

Eventually you will treat her like shit too because she pushes too far every time. Sometimes it really is better for both to find a new hobby or get engaged with interests rather than a psychopath.

>>17109970
I fully agree and i am aware of how this would all turn out if we were to get back togheder, however the worst thing is that she was really sweet at times like one day she would say she loves me and the other being all defensive and disrespectful, acting like she knows i love her too much to do anything. She had an easy time moving on and she's all right with surrounding herself with other male friends to use them for attention. Yet im still in over my head and i feel lonely even in my friends' company and all it takes is to see a picture of her to realllllly depress me... Let alone see her irl..

>>17109862
You need to realise this girl is terrible

>>17109848
Listen anon, I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, anon, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage in the end. I did it. Your parents probably did it. Break the cycle, anon. Rise above. Focus on the fun.

>>17109878
You're probably right. I just want to feel something more than sexual gratification, you know? Even if only temporary.

>>17109884
Look for a religious girl if you're that wanting. But not american, or Swedish. Or muslim. Try Christian Indian. Or Russian, I guess, if you are into that sort of thing. Yeah, just focus on those that still have the illusion that unconditional non-biologically determined love exists due to a vague higher power sky daddy concept, anon. Solid bet.

Though you might feel shitty, you know, you are basically a parasite sucking up all the love she gives you for cynical selfish reasons that undermine her very image of life and morality. Every waking moment you will be on your toes to not give yourself away, but at the same time enjoying every moment. Kind a like a junkie, when you think about it.

Well, I guess that is the price to pay, anon. Nice talking to you! Goodluck!

Because you're a dick

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Why do you use money as your basis for your self esteem? Any childhood problems?

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>>17109784
Or perhaps did you just buy too much into hollywood and wall street?

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>>17109771
You usually don't keep a lot of close friends of the type you like to fuck, so I think it's okay. I don't have a lot of girl-friends, either. I mean I have some, but we aren't tight like my bros.

It's probably the same with you

Your friends with mostly women? That sounds exhausting

>>17109769
it hasnt hit you yet. my dad was the same when his mum died, he suddenly broke down one day.

>>17109769
It'll take awhilr for it to sink in. You're in denial, most likely

>>17109769

Grief is sometimes very delayed.

When my best friend died I only cried the day before the funeral, three weeks after I found out he died. I was talking to another friend about the stupid nickname I had for him and just broke the fuck down. Even at the funeral when everyone else was crying I was fine.

You'll deal with this in your own way and on your own terms.

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>>17109764
>OP is butthurt
>literally

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>>17109785

Don't mock my affliction

>>17109832
This

Don't be directly insulting. You want to work her into it over time. Use subtle, implicit comments. Slowly erode her self-esteem and she'll eventually want to get implants for you.

Man I understand that desire but if its that bad for you, you should find someone else. Don't cripple this girl's self esteem and make her poor money into operations just for a pair of tits.

My girl is very flat chested and has said to me several times that she has thought about it, but you should always try to reassure her of herself. Even if you don't discourage the idea, it should be her choice and not something you manipulate her into.

All that is not worth a pair of tits that, lets be honest, is probably not gonna be around you more than a year or 2.

>>17109783
im not trying to break her self esteem, but if she's thinking about it i don't want to discourage her either by saying that i like her the way she is. If I compare myself in a similar sitch I asked her if my chest is too harry for her, she said it doesn't bother her. to be honest though I wish she said that it doesn't bother her but she would like it more if it wasn't harry. So I am just wondering if she's thinking the same thing here, wishing i just came out and said I would prefer her with bigger tits. Of course I know i shouldn't word it that way, thats the part I'm looking for advice on.

>>17109721
what? why? you don't. that's stupid.

>>17109728
If everything was great and it came out of the blue? She said she was happy, felt secure and calm and loved with me, and that her confidence grew and she as a person too with me, so why end it yao

Its not impossible. The main thing is to work on your self, first.

Ask why did you break up in the first place? It is a fixable problem? If so, fix yourself. Then in a few months if you are confident that you can do better, hit them up and tell them about the progress you have made. Be honest with yourself, and don't message them until you know for sure that you can do better. You need to convince yourself that you're a new person if you want any chance of convincing them.

Sorry about the bad grammar, my stupid phone is uncooperative. If you need more details just let me know

Girls are weird dude. Just because they changed their mind about a date, doesn't mean they're not interested.

Play it cool. Act like it's no big deal. Continue flirting with her casually, making her laugh, and connecting. Think of yourself as fire, and her as water. You have to get her boiling hot before she will reveal her true feelings. Then she'll put out your fire by sucking your dick.

Good luck m8

How the fuck is that a rejection? That's just her saying she's not going to go out to eat with you. It wasn't a date.