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Flowers?

>>17111720
Yes, thats what I will definately do.
She loves flowers, and I will bring her some, definately.

>Shall I hang up all old photos, and "memorie"- objects of her?
wot

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>>17111678
It is hard for me to imagine crashing browser submitting empty form in the same time.

This is also reason why you usually have more tries until the deadline is over.

>What do I do?
If your instructor is not helping, you can try the subject guarantor (instructor's boss?). Then the next one is head of department. But most likely nobody will give a damn about you.

Out of curiosity, which browser it was?

I don't understand. Why does it concerns you if he has BITTER feelings toward her? Isn't that, you know, a good thing? Are you so emotionally unstable that just the idea of him having brain power allocated toward a person with a vagina makes you insecure, like he should think only of you and nothing else under any circumstances? I noticed you don't express any regret about snooping on his personal life. It is unfortunate behavior. You should not do that.

>I went though my boyfriend's messages.
He shouldn't be sending those kind of messages to his ex, but what you did is way worse.

>>17111663
When you truly loved somebody in the past, you can't get them ever from your head.

>I went though my boyfriend's messages.
Invaded personal space without authorization. GG

>Do I talk to him about it?
Yes sure and then you can talk about breakup because it will be next thing.

>>17111634
Sorry to hear that OP, but the only real way you could help is by support her and it sounds like you've just been doing that. She needs overcome her fear of the gym, its a place where people go to improve themselves, people wont ridicule you for doing that. if she still won't go I'd suggest go jogging in a park, but it wont have any real impact unless she herself starts eating better and working out. ask her about her motivations, maybe confide your own feelings gently, if all she does is pushes you away and refuse to atleast try suggestions maybe she can't or won't be changed.

Stay positive OP, keep trying I'd say give her an ultimatum but if you love her, you may not be prepared to do that.

>>17111634
You might want to have her see a mental health professional. I think at this point it's beyond anything that you can do.

I feel for you. It sucks to see someone you care about destroying themselves like this.

>wife gets THICK
>this is somehow a bad thing

persnoally I'd suggest to care about what your family thinks just about as much as you care about what any random person thinks.

But, if you think the situation is somehow salvageable, the one best thing you can do is one evening you sit them up at the table and talk all this shit through. This really needs to be not a casual "so i was thinking", but, "please come and sit, I have things to talk throough". It's insanely difficult to do, and I wouldn't expect just anyone to do something like this, tho. I know I probably wouldn't.

My bets are on the fact that your father is a dick, or is generally a bitter person and you should not give him all the power he has on your happines.
Even if he's not a bad person, he's probably disconnected and unable to express his feelings. That's a toxic thing, and you should just stay away.

One general tip that applies is try to look at your situation from outside, besides from the inside of your situation.

Source: I'm just a stranger on the internet.

Since your mother backed you up, perhaps this is something you could discuss with her? You could tell your mother what you just told us and ask her what she thinks of it. Does she thinks you're raising a fuss about nothing? Did she notice that you are not thanked properly for your good intentions? Does she also have the feeling that you're treated unfairly? Can she think of any reason why your father would act this way toward you? Does she agree that there is preferential treatment towards your sister? As the long term partner of your father she is the one who knows him the best; does she have any suggestion on how to approach the situation and talk this out with your dad?

>>17111593
An ageing man beginning to feel his powers wane looks at a younger man at the peak of his.

Do you think that a bit of resentment - not at the boy but at the unfairness of life - might ensue?

>>17111586
>in the past
Domestic abuse is still a thing dipshit

The reason is simple.
Women are incredibly manipulative and emotionally abusive. Not only that, but they are most likely physically abusive as well but they are too weak to do any damage. Almost all of my GFs and Friends GFs have gotten physical with their guy. They throw shit, push, spit, kick, and punch but whatever.

Men in general are a bit less emotionally abusive as they aren't really in tune with that as much as women are. T he thing here is that when a man hit's a women they do damage.

Men KNOW that hitting a women is bad because of the strength difference so they will hold back as much as possible. Getting a guy so fucking angry that he breaks these inhibitions not only do you have to factor in the average strength difference but the fucking level of anger achieved to break that inhibition goes into the hit. Even when a guy completely fucks up a girl's shit he's still holding back.

*There is never a reason why a man should hit a women* is absolute horseshit. There are plenty of fucking reasons to hit a women. Women fucking love testing men. Seeing just how far they can push their fucking bullshit on him Women will do things to a man that is absolutely fucking insane simply because they know a man won't throw that punch. The same shit done by a man would get his ass knocked the fuck out. The things women get away with is criminal.

That said, no you shouldn't hit a women(unless like attacked with a weapon or some shit or to defend.) Men that abuse women are pieces of shit. Women that abuse men either physically or mentally are just as fucking bad.

Women,stop being cunts and testing men. Know that your BF could literally kill you with his bare hands with ease and not even break a sweat.

Men, don't be worthless POS and physically abuse your woman. Even if they really really deserve it.

For you testy dumbfucks this isn't saying that every women that has been hit deserves it.

>>17111586
>Why did people do this in the past ?
They had the same motives now as they did then. Some did it because they lost control of themselves, others did it in an attempt to exercise control over their spouses (or others).

>Do you think it'll ever make a comeback aand become legal and socially acceptable ?
Doubtful. Among other things, even in places and times when it was legal, it was generally still frowned upon, especially when someone did it habitually. Any social tolerance was grudging at best.

People in the past lived an harder life. The more people have an hard life, the more they develop mental problems. Mental problems cause people to be unstable and that's when random fits of violence occur. Violence was overlooked as a whole, and that's why there was also overlooked violence in marriage. Everybody was a big ball of nerves waiting to explode. We are currently in the most peaceful period that humanity as ever seen. This is because we have unprecedented quality of life. Beating up your spouse is now a relic of the past that belongs to a minority of people with severe mental illnesses. It's not going to come back unless we nuke ourselves backward and regress in civilization progress.

>>17111561
Yeah, stop falling for the porn jew and the death grip jew. Women don't find an excessive masturbator attractive either.

probably

>>17111565
How would women even know

>>17111409
Probably just being weird, some people are just like that, they like to touch other people. I used to have a boss who always used to touch my back (both females) and I sort of just accepted that she was like that, no harm done.

>>17111423
I had a boss touch my ass but it was just him being old fashioned.

He took me out to fancy dinners but I had to stop going because he would get mad because I wouldn't go to a motel with him after. Lol he's such a nice guy. How could I accept a free mktel stay, he already bought me dinner!

What a nice friendly boss

>>17111426
You're obviously not serious and you're just trying to mock me, so I'll point out the fact that I was also friends with my boss and I didn't feel it was that weird.

If OP is uncomfortable, tell her or avoid contact with her.

Do it. She will just have to understand that you love someone and if she wants you as a friend she'll keep you as one. But if she likes you more than that and wants to be more to you, she'll either cut connection with you, or stay your friend and wait for the opportune moment to pounce back.

>>17111407
>with whom I would like to stay in contact
This isn't up to you. She's under no obligation to keep you as a friend just because you want her to be your friend.

>>17111414
I said " I'd like ", not "She is supposed to". Of course she will most likely just say no. But what if she officially stays as a friend, but secretly still likes me as a man and suffers from it when I don't return her feelings?

>>17111372
By getting a romantic partner who makes you unhappy

>>17111372
You don't.
That shit is preprogrammed.

>>17111372
One day a romantic partner may make you happy but that will come in it's own time, don't try and force something that's not there

Its also the generic thoughts like will I ever find a guy that will like me as much as he did, will I die alone just because so few/no one has ever taken interest in me before

I've just been through a very hard break up too (except it was almost 3 years).
Honestly the best thing I found is to talk to someone (in my case it was a post on here that made me feel better and talking to a person who was basically a stranger). Some people can be total assholes and the even though it is hard right now you will overcome it. I'm sure if you message one of your friends and ask if they can talk they'll be happy to listen. If not, /adv/ can be pretty helpful most of the time. Here to help OP.

>>17111354

Some one will take interest in you, I know how it feels to be worthless and uncared for, left craving affection etc, but there's always someone else.

niggernet

>>17111345
what is this?

College roommate was a dealer so I lucked out. Just ask your friends. I'm sure somebody in your friend circle does drugs.

I'd say he's probably kidding. It's hard to imagine someone that's not socially retarded seriously having that reaction.

>>17111254
Do you think I should say something or just leave it until he gives up?

>>17111256
Say something.

>>17111232
tell her if she does you'll be her first customer

>>17111235
I did actually use basically that (I said her customers would be pretty much me) and she said they would be like me but "stoopider" and that she'd have sex with that for $200.

Is it for the money? You could try to tell her she could become a sugar baby instead. There are older wealthy guys out there who will compensate a young girl for her company.

>>17111164
im autistic and i feel that if i had an autistic gf stuff would be easier maybe

>>17111183
oh and im not OP i just thought this

>>17111183
Just take comfort in the fact that your only ailment is thinking too masculine