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>>17111147
bump this time with spirit

>>17111147
nigga 20 is when your sexual life should bloom. and your in college as well? the long-term solution, and also the only logical one, is to learn how to pick up girls (and friends as well).

Be my gf

>>17111146
no ty

>>17111150
Pls

>>17111123
Bump
I'm in the same situation. Each time i make any effort to make my life better it lasts at best around 10 days and then i fall back into depression.

Sometimes it feels like something in my mind literally grabs me and drags me back into depression, and i'm like "please no i don't want to go back there". If it makes any sense. I guess it sounds ridicolous.

>>17111123
You keep yourself busy. You alott yourself time to be depressed and then tell yourself "NO!" after that time is up.
Like, sometimes, I'd choose a day once every 2 or 3 weeks where I'd just let myself slouch back and feel sad, and then gear back up and get ready to move on.

Make a schedule. Live by that schedule. Live for working. Live for keeping yourself busy. Live for bettering yourself constantly.

>>17111169
Seems risky... but probably worth giving it a go.
I guess as long as you're conscious of it you have better control over it.
cheers anon.

>>17111117
You're not overthinking. You know you are taking a risk and want reassurance

A Thursday morning flight at LAX shouldn't be too busy and you'll probably make it right after the first group boards, but if TSA is backed up or there's bad traffic you only have about a 30 min buffer

My advice? Be safe and take a cab

>>17111117
here in yuropoor you should always be 2 hours early or something for your flight

its not like a bus where you can 'just take the next one'

>>17111117
just go early

> tfw I missed the flight from san diego to portland and had to drive 19 hours there with ~$600 less in my bank account

Ps sort for yhe spelling.kstakrs styping this ona samntouchscreen and I dont hav rhr patience to rroccreft them right noe.

I just texted my supposed fuck man and he said he was out with friends. He has no friends. I know this. This dude is shady. I think I'm going to block him again.

>>17111111
You bitch

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>>17111044
>bump

>>17111044
Drugs

Talking about SJW causes

BDSM dungeons

The usual Portland stuff

>>17111180
> BDSM dungeons
tell me more

>>17111030
i dont know, this is the reason my gf dumped me

Ok I was in a situation like this a few years back
>no friends
>start talking to girl I went to high school with where she was kind of the social queen and I was the weird loser
>super self conscious that I didn't know how to socialize when she did
>best friends now
So with that said, I let her initiate conversation and hanging out in the beginning but I was always very receptive to the offers. If I felt like I wanted to chat, I tried to make sure the chat topic was pertinent to her and not just me blubbering for interaction. So make sure your interaction counts at the beginning, if that makes sense. You will start getting vibes from them on how often they like to hang out and chat and you can feed off that. Soon you'll be comfortable enough to initiate whenever you want. In the mean time, keep reminding yourself that they don't know your circumstances like you do, so evaluate your approaches from a perspective other than your own. And be honest! Telling them you like hanging out with them is nice.

>>17111057
Should I hide the fact that I have essentially no other friends? Would it make most people back off if they realized how much of a loser I am?

0 replies :(

no boyfriends for faerie

*raised paw* uhh you're a transsexual

>>17111095
Raised paw?

Honestly I don't even need a real bf. Just a FWB I trust not to give me HIV or herpes would be enough

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>>17111016
sounds like paying for an online dating service might be up your ally. idk, get back in touch to your youth man. get back into the things you we're into when you were into when you were younger, and bring back that youthful charm. or maybe just go for younger girls who are into "older guys". you clearly crave romantic chemistry, and that alone shows you're not hopeless. sometimes just lowering your standards a little bit can go a long way too, in the looks department anyway, don't settle in anyway for anyone you don't have chemistry with right off the bat. good luck anon, you'll find someone.

>>17111049

I tried that once, and it didn't work... But I like your optimism. The problem is, my mindset is a lot younger than you'd think for my accomplishments. I want a partner in crime, not a housewife.

I can cook for myself, but I don't. I eat out. Commitment freaks me out, despite kind of wanting it. I can't imagine my family ever being more important than my friends. My ideal weekend is road tripping to the beach and slamming four lokos until we pass out, then starting all over.

I don't even really understand what it's like to have a girl as a romantic companion, even though I've been in relationships... I feel like girls can smell it on me these days. I have plenty of female friends, guy friends, I'm not someone with a hateful bone in my body, but I do feel kinda broken, like I just don't know how to do this anymore.

It used to just be "go to a party, find cute girl, drop corny pickup line, give her 3-5 drinks," and bam, you had a new girl you could call and hang out with. Now I have no clue how to meet anyone.

>tfw no Crimson Witch gf

Of course you could. It's on camera right? The employee is a witness? Get him fired, I don't want that pervy ass motherfucker handing out happy meals and shit

What would I say? To who? Manager?

>>17111014
Just go to the manager and be like I need so and sos last name so my girl can charge him with harassment, and that should probably do it.

You didn't kill your child. You voided a potential life

>>17111012
just be an asshole you fuck. that fat bitch is only holding you back being a full-fledged motherfucker on the loose

You feel like a scumbag for the abortion but now want to cheat? wew

Anyway, imagine had you allowed the life to culminate and the birth happen. With the two of you as parents in the shitty relationship you're in that would have been a toxic environment for a child's upbringing. You made the right choice.

You deserve to be happy. Move on. You're only punishing yourself at this stage.

no you aren't, and shes almost certainly already in a relationship with someone way better at being a cuck than you

if that doesnt dissuade you, then you could try posting something funny/interesting on her twitter and see if she responds

>>17111036
What if I could charm her by playing on her vanity?

>>17111109
if you're in love with a porn star you're probably nowhere near socially experienced enough to successfully pull that off with anyone, let alone someone like a porn star who deals with that sort of approach every single day.

you're basically asking how to win at poker against james bond.

You'll become a model in my heart senpai

>>17110991
d'aawww

>>17110991
t-thank you anon (´//• ω •//`)

>>17110979
you shouldnt drug yourself

even doctors/psychiatrists dont drug themselves because you need a professional to decide that for you. Even if you are a professional yourself.

Sounds like he doesn't believe in any of it. Why is he so against medication?

>>17110988
my dad believes that meditation is the key to fucking everything

>>17110966
she was probably being nice

>>17111286
You are damn right anon

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>>17110966
Why bother so much OP? The world is full of this bullcrap, you shouldn't give a fuck.