Help I have a 11 pm curfew at 19
I've been in a terrible situation for about a year now.
>I'm 19 I work at a grocery store part time
>still live with parents trying to save for a car
>my parents are super controlling specifically my dad
>never lets me stay over at people's houses or stay out past 11
> this sucks ass because all of my friends get to stay out when they want and they're always like "hey anon wanna hang at my house tonight"?
>but i never fucking can
>this is giving me lots of anxiety because I feel like I'm missing out on everything.
> girl I like always asks me to hang out and night but i never can
> feel like eventually she'll lose interest in me
> I don't know what to fucking do
these people are psychopaths
> i make minimum wage so I could never afford to get a place of my own
>can only work 5 days because mom has to pick up my siblings from soccer and shit
>this disqualifies me from jobas that want open avaliablity
> won't help me get a car or learn to drive
> basically want me to be miserable
> always complaining that i'm entitled and that i should go to college
> nearest college is an hour away
> did i mention i don't have car
this whole situation is fucking me up and i thought once i turned 18 things would be different
>yes i don't pay rent, but it's not like i can afford to
my dad makes 70,000 a year and is greedy as fuck and won't help me with anything
> feel like killing myself everyday
Pls help/
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move out then, rent is like 300-700 per month
you can afford that if you work hard
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I was in the exact same boat. Unfortunately unless you have a friend you can stay with you're kinda screwed until you're able to save up enough money to leave. Sorry anon.
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>>17107103
the grocery store i work at doesn't give many hours because i only can work 5 days i get 14-27 max
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How do you get over anxiety?
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Been trying to find the answer. I've been using phenibut for social occasions (parties, job interviews, hanging out with people) and it really helps, it's only a temporary fix though.
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get an adderall/xanax prescription
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>>17107085
is there a permanent solution though? or am i just fucked?
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What do you do when you can't break addictions?
What are some good ways to top addictions.
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>>17107062
Find something else to focus on. Martial arts is good, especially because you have a good supportive group of people and you learn to focus and train hard doing something you like, and can't do if you're using.
Find other people who are also breaking addictions. You're not alone, and neither are they. Then have a mentor or someone you look up to who can be an emotional cornerstone and a helpful guide through your journey.
Be spiritual. I'm a christian, but you might follow another route. The point is that you are looking at yourself as more than just a body, but as a spirit or a soul as well. And there is more to life and the universe then just you and your addiction. It will also help you find meaning and a reason to stop.
Be with family and friends to remind yourself of why you are fighting. Hopefully they are supportive, and if not, haters gonna hate and you keep fighting.
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>>17107062
Find a new one
preferably a healthy one
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Do psychiatrists actually help? 2016-05-04 05:37:08 Post No.17107014
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Do psychiatrists actually help?
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Should I see a psychiatrist? I don't have insurance, so I'll probably be paying out the ass if I go, and I don't have a steady income right now, that's the main thing that's stopping me from going. I don't particularly like the way my life is going right now, and I feel as if I need a second opinion, or some sort of guidance just to help me get started on the right path again.
About once a week I get panic attacks, mainly because I think about dying, and the thought of not being alive and conscious some day in the future scares me. I just seize up no matter what I'm doing and I can feel my heart sink with adrenaline, and I feel like I'm going to pass out. I also have almost no short-term memory; I can forget things in 30 seconds or less, and I'm finding it harder and harder to recall what I did the day before as days pass. I don't feel depressed or lonely, but I haven't exactly felt like myself over the past few months, as if something is off and I just don't know what. I find it increasingly difficult to talk to people as time goes on, even my closest friends and family members. I'm losing interest in all of my hobbies, and I don't feel like doing anything in general most of the time.
Would I just be wasting a psychiatrists time, or are those good enough reasons to try to go see one? Is it normal for someone at age 21 to have this many problems materialize out of nowhere?
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bomp
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I think you should go, age doesnt need to be a measure for therapy. Just seek help.
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>>17107014
depends on the person
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hey guise,
I've been using the dating app bumble, and I recently got a message from this smoking hot babe.
She sends me this message " What makes you different than the other 100 guys on this app?"
Normally I wouldn't think of replying, but she really looks good, and I want to peruse this.
What do you think would be a good answer for this?
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Haha Goddamn thats a good one cant wait for answers
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>>17107009
I have a YUGE dick
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"I have some fucking standards."
And then you block the bitch.
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Hey Anon,
I dont know where to begin. I've never been so low before. My life is falling apart and I've been suicidal for 3 weeks. Ive been to the hospital twice, and nothing seems to be helping. I need help and i dont know what to do. I lost interest in everything, i failed my final semester of college, i got my heart broken, and i have PTSD/Bi-polar/anxiety. Everyone i talk to thinks I'm a baby but i can deal with life. How do I fix this? Im open to anything because i dont have a choice.
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>>17107003
Are you in therapy?
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>>17107013
yeah i am.
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>>17107003
I'm about to fail 3 out of my 5 classes, my body is half destroyed from all the deployments I've been on and I also have PTSD and anxiety. I've also sat there with a bottle of whiskey in one hand and a loaded 1911 in the other deciding which one to put in my mouth. Life's fucking hard, and there's no safety when you fuck up. But there is always another route to take, and there is always another reason to keep fighting.
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My son just got suspended for been high on the am at High school. No did a lot of crap on school (felonies) but never got stoned on school. I could kick him out since he already know the consequence of screwing with school and my time. But rignt know I plan to work the crap out of him, on the gym, the yard and with the school work that we will pick up daily, am I wasting my time. He is 19 and legally I do not owe him crap. Yet I want him to succeed in life, but he seems to do not appreciate that, any perspective from stoners or parents?
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The pic is just for attracting viewers purpose, I do not who the handicap lady is.
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>considering kicking out your own son
No wonder why he smokes weed. You are a shit father.
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>>17106975
how can a 19 year old be in high school?
how can you fuck up so badly that you have a felony in high school?
this reads like bait
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>5 years ago
>be friends with a girl
>have e great time
>the she friendzones me
>I tell her I don't want to talk to her again then and delete her from all social media
>she tried to make contact with me yestarday
Why do women do this? What is she trying to do?
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it's been 5 years and you're still butthurt about this lmao grow up
she probably thought "oh i haven't spoken to anon in a long time i wonder what he's up to" and you're gonna be a pissy fag about it goddamn no wonder you got friendzoned
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Just ignore her. Just another woman playing stupid woman games.
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>>17106997
butthurt? All the contrary, I like her and I don't want to annoy her or annoy me with stupid situations again.
>>17107000
this is more like a real advice
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/adv/ I need help. I really want to try out my bi-curiosities. Ive tried a couple times but chickened out. How do i stop being a pussy?
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Bumpo
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If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. Decide who you want to be. Do you want to be gay? If so, find someone you're comfortable with and try it out. If you don't want to be that kind of person, forget about it and try to move on.
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Not to spook you or anything but you probably shouldn't in case you regret it for the rest of your life
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How to overcome driving anxiety?
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Anybody else get anxiety from driving?
Driving new places gets me really stressed and anxious. I'm not really sure why-I've made a few silly mistakes but never have had a reason to be hesitant toward driving.
While driving, I feel pressured by other drivers (I know I shouldn't, but I still feel it), as if I'm constantly going to miss my turn and get lost, try to merge with a car in a blindspot, or accidentally dent another car while parking.
The only way I avoid feeling anxious is by playing my favorite music and focusing on the lyrics.
I dont know if this is an anxiety I just need to overcome through practice or if it's worth getting help for. All I know is that I've only been driving the 5 minutes to school everyday and then avoid it as much as possible. I order all my groceries online or wait until friends can take me with them.
Any tips?
It would be really nice to just drive without feeling worked up about it or like I have to mentally prepare myself.
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I still have some driving anxiety but it has gone done a fuckton compared to when I started driving. So just keep driving till you get over it or die in a horrific car accident.
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>>17106969
Heh 6969.
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practice
drive around ur hood until ur comfortable
then drive around the area outside ur hood until ur comfortable
etc
if other drivers make you feel pressured, realize they cant do jack shit if ur following the rules
if someone is tailgating you, pull over to let them pass
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My mother is enticing me to start seeing a therapist (for no real reason), but I refuse as it is an insult to my pride.
Am I being unreasonable?
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>>17106952
yes
there's nothing wrong with talking about your feelings, it's what self actualizing adults do
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>>17106952
>> refuse to see therapist w/degree
>> seek help on 4chan
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How is it an insult to your pride? Sounds like you're acting childish, which is nothing to be proud of.
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Weird questions but hopefully some insight can help me out.
What does it mean to be friends with someone?
What is a friend?
Why do you have the friends you have?
Pic unrelated.
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Friends are someone to experience life with.
I suppose different people get different things from maintaining friendships, but for me, its mainly good to know that someone has your back when shit turns south. Really, its mostly about looking out for each other and learning from your combined life experiences.
You give what you get.
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>>17106947
I consider my pets to be friends! not like they had a choice in being owned... but regardless, the fact that they are easy to be around, loyal (at face value, it's probably just the food), act happy to see me makes them seem pretty friendlike
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>>17107026
...you also tend to get what you give.
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I've had this friend who I've known for a while but didn't get close until these past 2 years. Eventually he said he had feelings for me but I didn't quite reciprocate, and told him I didn't see him that way. Then he had left for military training so we didn't talk for 10 months.
After he got back we started talking again and got close. We would hang out every week, sometimes 4-5 days straight and hanging out with him was just good innocent fun- we're on the same wavelength and I enjoy his friendship greatly but he was only going to be here for 3 months, then he would have to go back to training for about 4 months.
A few days before he had left I playfully asked him if he would miss me. He told me that he would, and that these past couple of months of hanging out I was like his "best friend" he had at boot camp. I don't know what happened, but I kind of got upset at him when he said that, my body felt numb and we always hug when we part ways but that time I just forced a smile and said bye.
I had about a day to mull over how I felt about him, and I kind of got mad at myself for getting mad at him when he referred to me as his best friend. I think I had started developing feelings for him but didn't realize it until he was about to leave for training in addition with him calling me his best friend. It was always in the back of my mind that he was leaving soon but thought it was so far away that I didn't have to worry about it- that we would just hang out forever,
The day he left, I wanted to tell him how I felt about him, that I had feelings for him. I didn't because he was going to be gone for 4 months... I didn't want to basically say "Hey, I like you, see you in 4 months while you think about a relationship during your Army training". So I said my goodbyes, and told him that I was going to miss him dearly.
Then he met someone during training. It killed me. I cried. I felt hurt and jealous. I know none of this is his fault, rather mine. Should I have told him?
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Your own fault for being a confusing woman. Reap what you sow
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No. And you're the reason why the Red Pill and r9k hate girls and your wishy washy fucked up feelings. He had feelings for you and you told him to piss off, then when he finds happiness with someone else you're angry.
I hope you start cutting yourself.
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I think you did the right thing by not telling him, because it would have been torture for during his time away. However, he's moved on and the ship has sailed. In the end, it just didn't work out for you two. Not really anyone's fault, that's just life. It's unfortunate, but you didn't realize your feelings soon enough.
How do I learn to live with a tattoo I hate? It makes me feel like shit. I always think how much better things were before I had the tattoo. I used to be into science and math but now that I got a tattoo of a cross I feel like I have made myself dumber and people will look at me as such if they know I have it. I still think part of me wants to believe in Jesus but the logical part of me knows that cant be true. I hate that I did this to myself I don't even like tattoos. I just got one because there was a girl I liked that had tattoos but she doesn't like me anyway. How do I live with this thing? It has made me into a mess. I cant see myself getting a job or holding one down being this depressed about it. I currently live with my parents and know that I'm a looser. I cant see living by myself taking care of all the things that need taking care of like bills laundry and other things. I can barely bring myself to shave once a week. Help this tattoo is killing me. I feel so stupid. I want to go back to school to study and try to make something of myself but I feel I can never be happy again no matter what I do now because of this tattoo. What do I do?
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>>17106872
Why not believe
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get it removed
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>>17106897
It just seems like there's so much suffering that there's no point in believing.
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How do I get a shopping cart collected fired from Costco for attacking my autistic son?
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>inb4 wat?
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>>17106854
You don't. Please keep your homemade autist locked in the basement where he can't bother normal people. Thank you.
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>>17106854
In what context did he 'attack' your son?