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Working as an EMT has made me hate ER nurses with a passion. Yes your job is hard, we get it, but it's the job you chose so stop trying to make everyone else as miserable as you and fucking do it. That's what I want to say when they give me shit but I dont, because I can't and unfortunately neither can you. He's not your boss and until you hear this from your boss he can go fuck himself.

Keep trying op it'll get easier, don't get discouraged. Oh and stop looking down on male nurses. This guy may be a cunt but there's nothing wrong with being one.

>>17113039
Well was he right though? Just take it as criticism

>>17113050
Oh I know there's nothing wrong with male nurses. My dad and grandfather were both nurses.

It just seems like nurses are so fucking miserable all the time. Literally everyone else in the ER is friendly to me and will ask me nicely when they want things. Whether it's respiratory, x-ray, security, EMTs, all of them give the same respect they get from you, but nurses, at least at my hospital, are all complete cunts.

I actually just took this job for money for community college so I can go to school to become a respiratory therapist.

>>17113055
About me being slow? Obviously, but who the fuck is just naturally good at cleaning hospital rooms to standard without having at least a couple of weeks to get into a routine?

>Mom doesn't like the idea.
>Part of me says fuck mom, it's my life.
>Other part is strongly tethered to family opinion because I live under their roof. Still.

What did you want to study?

>>17113034
I'm really not sure anon. I just know if I keep working this shitty ass fucking job It'll only hold me back. Sure I could work full time, and go to school but I'm afraid I'd end up doing a shitty job of both work and school.
My passion is writing, philosophy and to an extent, medicine.

>>17113013
leaving records online of potential crimes is way too stupid.

Hookers are smarter than you are, though that's not saying much. They'll have you pay at least a portion of it up front

>>17113013

That's called soliciting.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solicitation

Yep

Cognitive behavioral therapy and anti depressants worked for me. I also had a family support network that wouldn't let me give up when it got hard, which it did.

>>17113012
Quick answer, I didn't. I've just been better. Uninstalled all of my video games, started reading more and hanging out with people. Working out also helped out a lot.

>>17113012
apples everyday
lifting/running every second
learnings spanish too

cross the finish line of your first half marathon and tell me you feel depressed. bam depression fixed

it's like a flu anyway. i know it's a lot tought, but goes by, afterwards you're just sad about all the time that was wasted.

>>17112978
Yeah, when you part your hair, little baby hairs should sprout out from the exposed part so you should never see your scalp.

That's how the body works

>>17112978
Yes.

>>17112983
How does hair make babies?

No. There is a thousand reasons that *could* be. Don't put every single word on a scale. Look at the big picture.

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This might sound feminist or annoyingly liberal, but you really can't lump all girls into the same category (with this, at least). One girl might say it flirtingly and be super interested. One might say it and just not care about you at all. It's up to you to be non-autistic and figure that out.

>>17112955
Keep on asking her the same question in different ways in order to get her to respond.

>>17112954
Start fapping to your reflection until you find yourself attractive.

>>17112954
>filename
What?

>>17112954
Masturbation is the symptom, not the problem. BUT...

Your therapist probably won't tell you this, but honestly your logic about fapping for relief because you won't be getting sex any time soon is spot on. Unless you're willing to have no standards, chasing tail is just a train wreck when you don't have your life together.

The PROBLEM with this is that you won't be motivated to get your life together if you're fapping every day to a digital harem of 10/10s and tricking your body into thinking your sexual needs are beyond fulfilled.

I recommend you spend the rest of the day reading this: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/comments/1ha8yk/how_to_succeed_at_nofap_a_definitive_guide_based/, and all the links it recommends. It will take you several hours to get through it all. When you're done, you'll have opened your eyes about the real harm you're doing to yourself by fapping (and its not fucking balding like your pic suggests. The damage is purely towards your mind.)

God speed OP.

>>17112932
You should be dating black girls. Unless, you're racist?

>>17112937
I am open to dating whoever. I don't have a particular preference of race. In fact I am more concerned about health. I would want to date a woman who is not obese or a smoker.

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>>17112937
This guy is an ass, you're not racist if you don't date black girls..
>>17112932
I actually don't know what to say but to build confidence for yourself. Being black in times like these should suck when you have a bunch of black people making you look bad because they find any excuse they can to loot.

I'm of the opinion that you shouldn't care what other people think and you should date girls you like. And be careful coming to 4chan for this stuff... /pol/ will have you believe you should be gassed for existing.

I don't know what else to say, I don't really have that experience

not if you're happy

if you're unhappy, I would suggest starting small. maybe have a piece of fruit instead of that cookie. take a short walk or something.

>>17112891
Just be yourself is advice for talking to girls, not meeting them you dense fuck.

"be yourself" is shit advice. Take this: Be the way you want to be.

>>17112888
I listened to the audio book a few times. I feel like it applies more to the professional/business world than average Joe's trying to break out of their shell. desu I noticed better results after watching hours of stand-up

OOh, that's a good idea. Got any reccomendations specifically for getting along with people and being liked?

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I get better results from just doing things I like and reading calvin and hobbes, that's why I post it. Never read the book though I think there isn't any system to help you out, though believing in God has helped me out immensely as I grow.

I suggest taoist philosophy to bring in balance in your life and action without action. It all goes back to just being yourself and not forcing anything or trying to give off any image or control anything

>>17112878
find them online or stop being retarded and get other shoes

http://www.mandmdirect.com/01/details/TM2064/Timberland-Mens-Esker-Low-Gore-Tex-Vibram-Hiking-Shoes-Grey

Kinda similar.

>>17112832
All I can tell you is choose your degree carefully because if you don't then you'll never pay off those student loans with that job at taco bell due to your liberal arts degree being worthless.

>>17112832
Use government loans before private loans. Also, what is your EFC? If it's low enough you should get grants. Also, major in Health Science for PT as many required courses for HS are prereqs for PT programs.

>>17112858
>OP specifies PT
>shits on liberal arts for no reason
That was uncalled for.

>>17112832
dont know how it works in other countries but here the student loans are enough to live off if you are careful. alot of people on my course spend all of their student loan too quickly on drink. its easy to give yourself a limit. i dont recommend getting a part time job, most of uni is independent study, if you want to get good grades you will need to study.

>>17112769
just b urself

but honestly, i personally feel you are born social

im autistic myself and depressed neet lonely 5 years since last job, did manage to have 2 short relationships in the past 5 years but thats because im average looking but im still not managed to be social

its just not my personality

i want a handful of friends i see sometimes and i want one girl to love but it doesnt work for me

you cant teach yourself to be social if you arent social to begin with or dont like social things

bump, not from OP

I want to know, I feel like everyone at my school likes me just enough to tolerate me, but not be friends with (I used to be intolerable)

>>17112776
You probably have to be autistic to give such autistic advice as "Just be yourself"

Cancer

>>17112715
>>hurr durr why didn't you wait after knocking
Well why didn't you? There isn't even any point in knocking if you don't wait for a response

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Jesus Christ, who cares?

>>17112715
>one of thoes assholes who knocks then immediately opens the door, making the knock completey useless

How the fuck is it not your fault? Maybe this will teach you not to open the fucking door unless you get a response.

Is it easy? To go to prison you have to be doing shit that's clearly wrong. It's not like 'oops, I assaulted this person' or 'oops, I stole this money'. You actively make decisions in life, drastic decisions that put you in prison.

If you're so worried about it, it should be easy to avoid. Live your life honestly, do good by yourself and others.

>>17112704
dont do anything illegal and stop being a faggot

it's paranoia, or so i guess. i will suggest you change your location to somewhere new and civilize. the community you live in definitely rubs on you, hence the feeling you might go to prison anytime soon. for starters change where you live.