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I found out that my Ex-Gf as of 4 months ago was probably cheating on me before we broke up.

This "DILF" she met on the train during school had a wife and a kid so she started babysitting for them. I found out that she has been basically bragging to a lot of people about how she has been fucking the dad regularly and sneaking away to other states with him on his "business trips" explicitly to fuck.

I could potentially exact revenge

what would you do?
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>>18618099

tell the wife but don't let it be known who did it
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>Ex-Gf as of 4 months ago
>exact revenge
Do you have a life, my dude?
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Just forget it, man.

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So I am almost done with a Computer Information Systems degree with a history minor from a liberal arts school.

I have suspected for sometime it would be garbage, now I'm near sure. How fucked am I?
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>>18618085
if you haven't done an internship yet and don't have a job lined up after you graduate then you're going to have to make that your priority asap.
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>>18618093
Yeah figured that part, my main concern is the fact that early on I was roped in to this because this was the only local school I could afford, and they didn't have a computer science program. I didn't realize the big difference till I was over 2 years in which means I have an inferior degree and I need to get my shit together.

Not happy about the prospects of my career outlook, and job paths. I've considered bailing out of my federal debt by anheroing but then I feel like a bastard for robbing tax payers.
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>>18618101
computer science is just a glorified programming and math course at most colleges which is something you can teach yourself in your spare time.

i got freeze away yesterday. i don't think i let it get cold enough when i applied.

it says you should only try again in 2 weeks.

is it safe to do it again?
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nah. go to a professional instead.
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>>18618074
Probibally just cancer. Got a knife?

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I'm torn between two women, both with their upsides and downsides. Both like me even more than I like them.

How do I make a decision?
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>>18618066
have sex with both, don't enter a relationship with either.
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they are both obviously not dating material for you. move on.
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pick the second one, wouldn't have fallen for her if the first was better

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Why does it feel like it takes so much fucking effort just to talk to people? It's weird considering I've always hated how lonely I've felt
I didn't know where else to ask
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>>18618019
Listen, you just have to do it. Don't think about it, just jump in. You would be surprised at how many people are receptive to chit chat. I work as a bouncer for a local bar/nightclub. Before this job, I was like you. Lonely, didn't like talking to people, etc. just do it
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>>18618019

They call them social skills because they are skills that take practice. Stick with it

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How do I learn discipline? I'm lazy, unmotivated, and have no idea what I want in life.
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age ?
job now ?
what do you want to do ?
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>>18618021
20 as of today
Student on summer break, looking to get a part time job when I'm back in the city
I don't know. There are a lot of things I'm interested in, but I don't have the experience to say whether I'd like or be competent at them or not. I feel like the classes I'm choosing as an undergrad aren't specific enough, but I don't want to be locked into a major I don't know I'd want to pursue a career in.
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>>18618025
just pick something you enjoy and do it , i became a sailor ( coast guard ) since I've always loved the water and enjoy being useful and contributing even in a minor way , college is a good idea but you really want work experience on top of that , someone with work experience will get hired before someone with a degree 90% of the time unfortunately

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>be me
>almost kill yourself
>girlfriend knows this and says "I'm not sure if I feel the same way about us anymore"
>girlfriend later says "I don't wanna breakup"
>me being paranoid, thinks that she's just saying that so I don't die while she's away for a month

Will she leave me? If so please include a clean and effective suicide method
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>>18617994
none are really clean op , when you die your bowls and bladder open , ergo you shit and piss yourself when you die , she is simply moving the relationship to a different state basically she loves you but her opinion on you changed over time ,
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>>18617994
>>almost kill yourself
So why didn't you? You want attention son?
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>>18617994
get your fucking actis together. she is Feeling insecure because she has to drag your silly ass around while you probably cant get out of bed most days. if you want this to work out go to therapy and work this out with her together.

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Hello. Can anyone be so kind as to give me advice on how I can promote my newly made youtube channel. It has humouristic animated content but I don't know how I can reach the right audience without being annoying and spamming. It has just 4 subscribers as of now but it's still my biggest accomplishment in life. It's called Dank Science if anyone is interested.
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>>18617977
dank meme, dank anything really channels never see large audiences simply because the market is so small , the easiest way to promote it is not to let it grow naturally
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>>18617977
You basically have two options:

1. Sell out as hard as you can, and pray to your God that YouTube lets you win
2. Make the best content you can, and pray to your God that YouTube lets you win

Basically, YouTube is a broken piece of shit. Every YouTube success is a fluke. yes, even the sellouts. It's gonna be even harder because you're an animation channel. Good luck though.

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I'm supposed to hook-up with this 50 year old guy tomorrow who I met on craigslist and is triple my age. I don't know if I should go because I kinda enjoy the whole life thing and don't want to be murdered. He also doesn't seem too intrested in using a condom because he's 'clean' but I don't think I should trust that
(I'm a guy btw)
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>>18617949
no, he's a Pozz looking for a chump Neg like you to gift the Bug.
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>>18617949
You're only 16?
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>>18617949
>50 year old guy ....who is triple my age

>(I'm a guy BTW)

And people wonder where stereotypes come from....

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So I have a question for y'all

I have a female friend who has a BF, a dude who I am entirely neutral towards. He is overseas and she is telling me now about some chad thundercock dude she wants to fuck whilst her BF is away.

When she told me this I suddenly felt really angry and sick inside, I wanted to shout at her but ended up just making some lame excuse about why I couldn't hang out with her and left.

Am I justified in being angry about something that doesn't involve me? Am I crazy for feeling so emotionally hurt by this?

also

How do I grow my dick
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You recognize subconsciously that the the same thing could happen to you someday. It's a legitimate reaction imo.
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>>18617920
Come on OP, you cannot be shocked, really, because you thought she would fuck someone while her bf was away just thought it would be you.
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Did she say like "yeah this dude keeps telling me he wants to fuck me idk why" or like "so Brian at work keeps asking to out with me and I'm like I'm married but he is away and I'm so lonely so idk what to do"
Big difference for the substance of the conversation

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I just had a shocking realisation (shocking in the sense it took me this long to notice).

I'm a white guy and I've never been in a non-interracial relationship before. My last ex was an Asian/Latina mix, the one before that was Half-Asian and Half-White (the closest I've ever came to dating a white girl), the one before that was from Thailand, the one before was of Dominican descent, the girl before that was Catonese, and several girls before here were Vietnamese (high Vietnamese population here).

I'm not disappointed or pointing anything wrong here, I'm just wondering why that is and what it says about me (plus I can't help but notice how many Asians I've dated -- considering how often you see men lamenting about not being able to land an Asian girl -- while somehow I always find myself in the company of Asians -- even when I was a kid). I'm not even trying to get with girls of a specific race. It just so happens the ones I had enough feelings and chemistry with were non-white. While the only times I get rejected is by white women.

Though I have noticed that when a woman is non-white, it's the only time a girl is nice to me. Weird.
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>>18617903

You posted your gay story on /r9k/ already. There's nothing remotely shocking about WM/AF
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>>18617916
Why is it the only time I can get with a girl she's a non-white? While white girls tend to be not so nice? What that says aboot me? Etc.
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>>18617916
>robot only focuses on the wm/af part
You don't say.

Anons,lets hear your advices on relocation of mine...Supposedly,in May next year Iam moving from Europe to Cleveland,Ohio...I have a friendly family from my parts who is living there for 40 years and they would give me upper hand,helping me to assimilate there successfuly...Iam thinking about staying there lifelong and with papers I think would be no further problems assuming Iam EU citizen...Also,they have their own family-run restaurant...By that,basic needs would be fullfiled at the begining...That means I wont be hungry nor thirsty,and also I would have a place to stay so far...I want to hear advices on city in general,jobs,entertainment,educational opportunities and such,mehr beliebt,as Germans say,would be advices running from mouth of Cleveland inhabtitants themselves...Thanks in advance!
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>>18617892
*inhabitants

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Hey /adv/

How do I get over my highschool sweetheart. Im 24 now. Ive slept with three other women since then and dated two of them (one of them I even lived with for a year).

Because of family and friend circles, I still see her once or twice a year. I typically just have normal non-autistic conversations with her and leave it at that.

But I cant deny that some feelings bubble up whenever I see her. How do I kill the feels finally?

Last I may have applied to a job in the state she lives in...and I know how bad that sounds, so please help me.
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just realize it's not going to work out, and its in the past.

If that's not true and you for some wierd reason have a chance, another course of action, but dating exes is generally a bad idea (might as well be a meme at this point)

Once you recognize that your attraction will diminish.

It also helps to not make comparisons between what your doing now and then, that relationship happened in a particular time and context.
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>>18617901

>It helps to not make comparisons between what your doing now and then

Ill try to take that to heart

Im a completely logical person when it comes to this. I dont believe in one-itus. I guess I just have a chemical response built up

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i got a panic attack help me, i feel like I can't breath so basically I feel my upper chest muslces contracting and as I inhale i feel its getting heavy and I have this constant feeling that I'm not breathing properly based on the different sensations I feel each time I inhale, it does not hurt but my mind registers the muscles inside my body as it contracts. I also feel like throwing up.
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>>18617876
You again? Fuck off.
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>>18617876
Deep breathing exercises. Itll pass whether you do them or not.

When it does pass, think about what caused it and fix it.
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Honestly I got over it through mindful meditations.

Or try chanting to Hindu/Buddhist mantras.

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How do i focus on studies?

I have one tough test in about 75 days. I am supposed to focus on studies but I'm distracted by social media. Going cold turkey didn't work for i know how to fall back. What do? Halp!
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>>18617870
Get off 4chan.

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