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Why I don't have feelings anymore?

It has been almost 2 years since I broke up with my ex. But since then I never loved a girl or had feelings for one, even though I tried.
Even if a 13/10 girl gives me attention I wouldn't care

I fucking hate my ex and she got a bf now, but I'm still here Single but don't want a relationship, am I really done with this shit?
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>>18616065
Are you saying "Why don't I feel emotions anymore?" or "Why don't I have romantic feelings towards women I find attractive anymore?"

Very important distinction there.
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>>18616065

you have other opportunities and you're indifferent. tell me how is that something to sympathize over
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>>18616081
>Why don't I have romantic feelings towards women I find attractive anymore?

Yeah, this is what I meant.
I remember when I was younger, if I saw a beautiful girl or liked a girl I get that stomachache and that heart beat skip. But now even when I go out on dates, I just feel that I'm talking to some normal friend, even if the woman is super hot. I have no romantic feelings

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When is it too late to start building mental fortitude and learning skills? I know the entire "it's never too late for anything" but I've been told of scientific studies that the mind stays in patterns you learn early on. I'm 21, I never learned to study, never read books, never tried to learn stuff. I was always considered pretty smart for my age, reading above college level in primary school, average grades despite never studying or doing homework, all that jazz. I got my GED in junior year and I've been working ever since. Now I've come to the realization that I want to learn and read and all this stuff I used to be too apathetic for, but I have no study skills and its way too hard to stay concentrated on an informative novel. Is self teaching just a meme in itself?
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I'm a boring person. The only things I really care about are anime/television/vidya. I need a hobby to become more interesting, but nothing can hold my attention. Any ideas on things to try? I'm f, if that matters, and ADD since 7. I know, it's a meme disorder.
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Scratch cards.
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>>18616030
That's not a hobby! That's just a way to milk money out of stupid poor people.
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~ok~

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Is watching porn while in a relationship and traveling for work a big deal?
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>>18615974
>Is watching porn while in a relationship and traveling for work a big deal?

you don't usually watch porn?

Maybe, it's a big deal if you have a agreement with your SO of no porn.
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Personally I don't think so at all, but like the other anon said, what your relationship defines as alright is what matters here. If you have promised your girlfriend (or boyfriend for that matter) that you won't, then it doesn't matter whether or not random people think it is in theory a big deal - it's about violating a personal agreement with your loved one at that point.

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How much will getting /fit/ help me in my goal of finding a decent traditional qt to start a big family with?

Also currently working on financial gains, attaining some "fame" and "social status" gains, and talent gains.
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>>18615972
getting fit is more about feeling good in your body rather than getting a fir to get a girlfriend, although once you get more confident you can find it easier to talk to girls
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Fitness > money > impressive skills > cuteness > wits > everything else.

Fitness is like brute force. If it isn't working, then you just don't have enough of it.
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>>18615979
This, so it helps in any case, and being more /fit/ also shows girls you have control over your life, care about your general health, have self-discipline and can commit to long-term plans. All of those are very favourable things to display

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My GF likes risks, hitchhiking, running around naked in forests, adventure, has little regard for her life, she even looks like Arya Stark.
I, on another hand, see myself as a city type, I want to make it big in a big city and love the comforts of civilization, unlike her.
Still, we love each other very much, but our interests regarding how to spend our time differ.
I tried tagging along on her camping trips, and although I do fine, I don't really enjoy it that much. If we are to spend time together, that would probably mean hitchhiking or some other hippie stuff.
Should I do all this stuff with her, or maybe I should force her to settle down a bit? I am afraid to change, being a city type is, to me, who I am, and I don't really enjoy going away from civilization.
Could I end up loving it?
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>>18615953
no, don't force to settle down dude. thats the worse thing you can do. you have to balance your lives and have a bit of both and who knows with moderation you may end up liking the adventures and she may end up liking the city life.
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>>18615953

Those are some nice Tits
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>running around naked in Forrests
Proofs? :^)
Also that sounds like fun and I'm a hardcore shut-in as well. Try to live a little. Suck it up for a few nights in a tent and have her suck it up for a few days on the couch.

I had a pimple/zit about a month ago near my pubic region. Two weeks ago it burst and now it is back again. Can somebody help me out here? It is really annoying? Any creams that can help?
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>>18615899
Wash your hands, clean your nails, squeeze it out and clean the place with rubbing alcohole.
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>>18615899

Go see a dermatologist. Disregard what people here say unless you're cool with scarring yourself.
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>>18615940
Cant show pubes to him

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Do some people suffer from a form of bad luck that is incomprehensible to others?

Like when things just wont work out for one person, but work out swimmingly for someone else, no matter what either one does.

?

serious replies only, i'm in a bad mood
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Excessive Sweating advice?
I work in retail. And I'm a hard worker, not my ego, I just do, been that my whole life. Managers all rave and such.

Thing is, I'm working in the back of house in retail. Taking in trucks. Things to and from floor. Box after box. And I go full speed.

Long story short, I swear a ton. Yeah I'm pretty chubby so I could stand to lose some weight. But it's a light blue shirt that ends up being brown from the boxes and dark blue from sweat and stains. I'll come down from loading off a truck, coworkers all start to go "GOD DAMN BRO WTF HAPPENED". It's getting kind of embarassing. Any ways to not sweat as much? Is that even a thing? Like today we had a morning huddle like an hour after we clocked in, everyone is chill and I'm just sweating while standing, wiping my sweat with shirt n such.
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The more you work out and do cardio the less you sweat.
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>>18615878
use clinical grade deodorant. theres a creme called drysol or something similar for oversweating check it out
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>>18615879
Meh not really. I am a heavy sweater too and workout everyday and run at least 5xs a wk. I sweat like balls. OP is doing some pretty physical demanding shit at his job so it is naural to sweat. Biochemical factors determine the sweat obvs.

I don't know what it is about me, but for some reason people seem to not want anything to do with me. I try to be friendly and approachable, I tell jokes, and I try my best to listen to people when they speak. But, for some reason, every time I try to be friends with someone, or show some interest in them (romantically or otherwise) they seem to hit this wall that just makes them shut off any interest that they may have had in me. I use to be a very introverted, quite guy -still am to a degree-, and so I've worked on changing that. I've started exercising and have managed to lose a considerable amount of weight. I have a hobby that I am very passionate about, but none of that seems to matter. I'm always the outsider, the other. I'm in a constant fight to develop relationships. And I've had no luck. I still feel the pain of this I guess because I am still young (24), but it hurts like hell. Especially when you reach out to someone who professes to care about people depression and the suicidal.
The worst part is that I think that when I try and fail, I become desperate. This desperation then pushes people away even more.

How can I stop caring about being alone all of the time?
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Also, because this is a recurring and persistent problem, I have no friends. I mean none, at all. I've only had acquaintances/coworker, but they leave my life just as fast as anyone else. I try to keep in contact, but they just fall off.
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sorry anon, I am in a similar situation and feel your pain. have a bump.

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So lately I've picked up this annoying habit of moving my jaw left and right and I have to do it until one of my hinges pops. Not like dislocation or anything but like how you pop your knuckles. It's gotten to the point where my left hinge hurts to open the length of a sideways taco and if I try to open any more than that there is physical resistance and any more than say the size of a restaurant hamburger its literal pain.
I fear I may have damaged the hinge cushion and am rubbing bone on bone which would explain the pain and resistance. What can I do to help and repair the problem I've caused myself? Already working on conciously stopping the habit. Professional health care is not an option at this moment.
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Hey!

I started a videogame related webpage with my friend.

The idea is to talk about games that we loved in our childhood, we make a daily video to youtube etc.

How would any of you improve the page / youtube material we've made?
Did any of you even enjoy the videos?

Please, give us some feedback!

Here is our webpage for reference :
Gamingdiscovery.com

Thank you so much for any help / advice!
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>>18615835
The banner image blends into the text too much. You want people to be able to read your header and description without struggling to read black against black. Posting with a yellow fade over yours so people can read the text better.

The grey color is too neutral to go with that yellow. You're going to want to go with another color to make it pop. Either a contrasting darker blue or even a more reddish brown color with a white text over it. Posting an example of what I mean, make all the text white even though my example only has one.

Maybe look for another wordpress theme. The squares all over make it kind of look like an older blogspot website, not a modern wordpress site.

Maybe look at other game blogs and find what stands out most to you, and look up "blog design layout" tutorials to give you a better idea. Keep up the good work, you have a nice start going.
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>>18616042
Yellow tinted header image 4 u.

My weed dealer got busted with less than .5g + paraphernalia. He's doing the diversion program, which means he needs to waive his 4th amendment rights. Will they comb through his phone? There were no baggies or scales.
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>>18615800
what were you using to communicate with him?
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>>18615803
text.
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>>18615813
yeah that might be bad. anyone who asks the carrier for the messages would be able to see it.i always use snapchat or another incognito service. did you at least avoid using plain language to set up deals and buy?

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I think I'm in love, but I'm 21 and she's 17. I deeply respect her as a person, and I think we could have a lasting relationship. I don't even want to have sex with her until we (hopefully) get married, I just want to hang out with her for a while because she's so wonder. She's more mature than I am in some ways. I've never felt this way about anyone. I do think she kind of likes me too, and her family likes me. I just don't know what to do.
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>>18615783
>she's so wonder
Wonderful, I meant.
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>>18615783
Ask her out?
It's just a 4 years difference.
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>>18615788
She's still in high school though. I just think it might be weird.

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Hello, I am a boyfriend who has a cautious and caring girlfriend. The thing is, she's very wary and has never really lived her life the way that she should. I want to show her how, but I don't know where to start! I'm anxious about the outcome because she seems willing to try new things sometimes, but other times I don't know if I'll hurt her feelings. What do I do? My friends joke about "respecting women too much," but I really don't want to change who she is and she says that she wants to do these sorts of things. Can anybody help me here? Thank you all! :)
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>>18615755
>has never really lived her life the way she should

Explain this.
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>>18615766
Because I sort of rushed to make this post, I worded that part in a way I didn't mean. I meant that she wants to go crazy a little bit and doesn't know how, but I want to help. Not like she's supposed to live a certain way. I apologize for my idiocy.
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>>18615780
Ask what she wants to do, and start making small steps to it.

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