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You need to treat her like a woman. Treat her in a special and romantic way, take her out on a nice date and afterward pleasure her. She just wants to feel like your only, and you are not doing that for her.

your gf has severe self esteem problems and isn't ready for a serious relationship anyways

there isn't anything you can do to make her like this part of you. she already likes it, she just doesnt feel special anymore.

congrats, you now figured out that she's selfish too as well as insecure

>>17176655
It's stupid, but i can kind of understand her feelings. The best thing you can do is just keep on being your happy self, and keep loving her. Anything else will probably be counter productive.
This is something she has to deal with on her own, and the best thing you can do is just allow her to do that.

>>17176644
First absorb The Art of War learn how to apply it to yourself and your life and how you wish to be and the battles you wish to win, then absorb the Tao te ching.

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>>17176652
The Way means Quality

>>17176666
Quads of truth sir

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>>17176621
The worse part is, I don't even know where the hell I can get a job. I've had at least 3 jobs in the past after I graduated college, but neither of them worked out for me and each time I quit the job, my father abuses me and nearly killed me the last time I quit my job. I don't know where I should even begin looking because he has to know what I'm working as and only he can be satisfied with so few jobs.

The even worse part is, I am now convinced that my father truly wants me dead. Think about it, he wants to control me by forcing me to cut off ties with everyone else except for him and only him. He wants to control me like he did to my mother, and since the divorce, that's all he's been. I'm worried that now my phone will be taken away by him and that I'll be nothing but his slave for good.

I literally have no escape /adv/, any last resort ideas that I should do before I try becoming barbaric from all this bottled up rage towards all of this?

If you can afford to live with your friend what's stopping you from doing that? You're 23, your father has no legal control over you anymore..

>>17176621
Had an abusive parent this hits home, im not going to sugar coat anything and I cant know if youre just being an ungreatful little shit or omitting things to skewer the story in your favor so ill just take you at your word.


Leave now, be gone and out on your own asap I dont care what you have to say, your fears, or reasons they dont matter PERIOD.

If thats the level of manipulation / control hes trying to have over his 23 year old son theres something wrong with him and you need to leave by any means and if necessary cut off contact unless he respects you as a person.

You also need to learn to manage money so you dont need to risk going back or putting you back at his mercy again.

>>17176586
yes it counts. time to join the "shitty first time" club

No, you're not a virgin, but you are fucking retarded. This isn't something where you get a 'do-over' because "it doesn't count"

Technically yes, but virginity is 75% mental.

Pretty shitty when I go through every post and try to help out as many ppl as possible but when I stick my hand out no one bothers to help thanks guys

what city do you live in? lets start there

>>17176657
also please provide information regarding your job. hours, benefits or whatever you think is prudent

Grass is always greener, buddy.

Consider this: most average people have flaws. If women that were model material looks-wise were as common as the average woman I'd tell you yeah, go for it. But chances are you're not going to find that 9-10/10 girl AND be attracted to her personality as much as you are with your average girl.

but you know what? If you can find a person that understands and accepts you, that's the real unicorn, not looks. A woman's looks will fade, but her personality is forever. So, my advice is, don't put so much stock into what other people think of her looks. You have to live with her, and you think she's sexy, so who the fuck cares?

You seem young. Chances are you will just grow out of your insecurity, but don't throw away a good woman that understands you because of it, some other guy that knows how to appreciate her will pick her right up. Truly nice girls--hell, nice PEOPLE--are pretty rare.

>>17176564
Calm the fuck down, kiddo.

Time will solve everything for you because you're obviously underage.

Once you live on your own you won't give crap to bullshits like that, there are much more things to rather be worried about, like rent, food and your job.
Once you have kids you literary WON'T STOP worrying.
So be the good kid you are and be grateful about being having the most freedom ever possible in your life at the moment. It only downhill from now on.

>>17176564
You learn to love someone as much as you fall in love at first sight stop acting like theres a fairy tale moment just waiting for you.

If you want to be with her make it work learn to love the small things, and realize some things about her will just be the price of admission (Things youll both just have to shrug and accept about each other.)

Chasing that fairy tale romance dragon fucks over more people in the end than anything, its a massive life trap.

>>17176509
Gun-fu

Pipe bomb no jutsu

>>17176509
Boxing

>>17176494
Sleep.

>>17176494

Brush your teeth and drink a lot of water.

>>17176494
Drink water, even a little sip calms hunger.

In time your body will adjust and you wont even get hungry at night, the time it takes is different for everyone though, generally a few weeks to a few months.

Holy shit I burst out laughing in the break room

Tell her how you know her...hope it's not a creepy way you know of her lol

>>17176498
i dont

First date at 24. First relationship at 27 (because just about everyone i'd start to take a serious interest in, some crazy shit--like someone would literally die--would happen. Even my girlfriend, she lost her job 2 months before meeting me, and her uncle was diagnosed with cancer 2 weeks after our first date and died like another 2 week later >.>)

It could be worse, and it's never too late.

>>17176485

It's a a numbers game... My advice is don't get focus on one girl or else you lose sight of the other girls that have a thing for you. Seth Rogan had a perfect analogy in 40 Year Old Virgin (watch it!)

Basically, the more women you talk to, the more chances you have in hooking up.

You're 21, and a lot of the girls your age aren't going for a long-term relationship unless you display yourself as someone worth keeping.

Seriously, you're 21! Find some girls on tinder to dick down... join some clubs or coed team at school (assuming you're in school), and just meet new people. You are in the prime of your life, don't waste it thinking you are not worth it... you are, you just don't realize it yet!

Dude, you're only 21
Just keep doing your thing, someone will come along eventually. Trust me, serious long-term relationships come with a lot of shit, commitment isn't easy.
Just try to enjoy being single while you're still young, attractive, and relevant.

>>17176470
Go to a doctor if you haven't already. There are ways to fix this.

>8 ears

I've had it since I was 12, and I'm 26 now. I can't remember what silence sounds like. I'm used to it by now and it's just part of my normal state of being.

>>17176455
sell drugs

>>17176455
Honestly.. pic could be related.

Not sure what city you are in near, but petty theft is always an option.

>>17176476
My dad's friends are all police officers. Thats how he gets away with alot of his shit. so, anything illegal ain't gon help me.

>>17176403
>My self confidence cannot get any lower!

That's good. It can only get higher. Build confidence by accomplishing things, as small as they might be. Trying new things, push yourself out of your comfort zone.

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It's easy... Simply put, "Do something..."

I have no fucking clue what you look like or what you do but this is what you do... Leave your fucking comfort zone. Put yourself in a position where you will meet people. Join a (co-ed) sport team, a club, or volunteer. Just do something that will allow you to meet people.

Other things to boost confidence... Improve the way you look, seriously. Think of the most alpha people in your life that are getting women (either a celeb, tv characters, etc.), and what do they look like? Chances are, they're fit and dress well. What should you do? scrape up what ever cash you have and join a fucking gym. Before you decide to deck yourself out in the shit YOU think looks good, take a look at what the pretty girls are into... (my hint: /r/malefashionadvice)

Need more advice?

>>17176403
Honestly practice talking to people especially the gender you're attracted to. With practice you can slowly gain confidence. Also even if you're not confident try to fake it. If you get any positive responses that helps turn false confidence into actual confidence.

Lick her pussy

>>17176375
i've tried that she specifically wants me last longer during penetration though because i'm usually only lasting like 2-3 minutes

>>17176367
Cock ring
Destimulating dick gel
Explore what keeps you hard together and experiment
Start using toys for added stimulation and more satisfaction. Maybe you just need a really good kink together.

>>17176347

probably too much in your head. try to keep up the horniness by being kinky.


Don't fall for the nofap meme. If anything porn is more of a problem than mastubating.

>>17176347
You only like the foreplay, you don't like sex that much.

Either that or you're gay.

I had this one time I think I just got too used to it.