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My S/O is convinced i'm the "most attractive" partner she's ever had, but is "disappointed" because she's met a few of my ex partners, and feels like she's less attractive than them.
How do I explain to her that even though that's objectively true, I'm still physically attracted to her, and if I didn't see qualities in her that I didn't see in other people – rationality, trustworthiness, reliability, honesty, and potential for a real future together – that I wouldn't choose her over other people? Am I in the wrong because I think some of my exes are more attractive than her?
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If you tell her this, it will only girl her anxiety. Tell her that to you she is the most beautiful in addition to telling her all the positive qualities you listed. Also you can make a connection like seeing her smile is nicer than looking at others always bitching face.
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Yes, you're in the wrong. If you're with her, no matter what, she should be the most attractive because you are with her.
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>>17177444
You're not in the wrong for thinking that some of your exes are more attractive than her, objectively, but you should think that in your eyes she's the best partner you could ever get, and you should make her feel like that. List all those qualities. Tell her she's better than them when it comes to her personality and intelligence. Tell her she's beautiful, often. Make her feel appreciated.
Don't lie, but never (NEVER) make her feel like she's worse than them.
My ex always told me I was the best partner for him because of my personality, but I wasn't the most attractive girl he ever dated.
After we broke I realized that he used this to manipulate me. He made me feel vulnerable and attached to him: I felt like he was doing me a favour by staying with me, because he could do better while he was the best guy I was ever going to get, so I justified his shortcomings.
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Getting my bf to go down on me? 2016-05-24 13:07:09 Post No.17177442
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Getting my bf to go down on me?
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How do I get my boyfriend to go down on me more without telling him to?
I hate having to tell him to do it, because then it's not like he actually wants to out of his own will. He says it tires him out because I last too long.
I want pleasure from him like that, but only if he actually wants to. Not if I have to force him.
I haven't asked him to go down on me for a while because I feel bad making him, but he thinks I've been masturbating instead and gets insecure about it.
TL;dr
> How to get my bf to go down on me without asking?
> I don't like forcing him to since he says it tires him out.
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>>17177442
Give him a blowjob. You may even outright say to him that you will give him a blowjobs for going down on you.
Speak about how amazing that feels and be extra nice to him every time he does it for a while.
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desu i also need an answer to this question but like, girl, if he isn't making you cum in any other way on the regular, he should be eating you out
it's just not fucking fair to let him skeet all over the place and not have an orgasm too
maybe show him this/read it yourself: http://t2mh.com/esoteric/She%20Comes%20First.pdf
if this thread is still going like, next week, when i have my first sexual experience with my boyfriend in a month, i'll get back to you on how i did it
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>>17177447
Our work schedules are pretty crazy right now since we both got new jobs within the last month, but we have sex at least once a day. If we don't feel like sex, which is mostly because he's tired from work, then I give him a blowjob. He doesn't even have to ask me for sex or to suck his dick.
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Tell me how to deal with my spouse acting in intimate scenes? The idea of it genuinely makes me want to fucking kill myself but I dont want to stifle her dreams
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>>17177415
What level of intimate acting do we talk about?
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So is this a hypothetical future situation, or is she already established in her career?
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>>17177419
Standard stuff, kissing and pretend sex >>17177430
Hypothetical
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Generalised help, please 2016-05-24 11:31:53 Post No.17177321
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A boy that I idolised sexually and mentally abused me. Specifics are far too complicated. I'm really looking for general advice.
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>>17177321
Be happy?
Exercise and eat a healthy diet?
Drink a liter of water a day?
Not sure what kind of advice you're looking for with that little info.
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Learn from the lesson. Never put anyone on a pedestal and never give away your self respect to anyone no battery how much you love them because that will lead to the other not respecting you.
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OP here. Wonderful advice; thank you so much!!!!!!
So I'm in Russia right now, and I just visited my grandparents' graves. Don't ask how, or why, but I ended up drinking some dirty water from a bottle that we filled from some barrel I think. It was slightly cleaner than the right in pic related. When I say "drinking", I mean I sipped it, realized what I did, kept it in my mouth for maybe 30 seconds then spit it out and kept spitting it out. About 30-40 minutes later, I used the bathroom and kept spitting out what I have. I feel slightly sick, but I know I'm a hypochondriac. I also stuck two fingers in my mouth, but I forgot to wash my hands.
Am I going to die? I feel itchy, my nose is kind of running, and I feel that sicky feeling that you get in your throat/deep part of the nose.
What should I do?
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>Drinking Russian Gravewater.
GG no re OP.
Though in all likelihood you just had some scummy water and will be fine. Go to a doctor and not a mongolian confectionery forum if you're seriously concerned.
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>>17177283
Idk man... Russian doctors can be pretty scummy.
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Oh, so basically you're feeling the most ambiguous of symptoms ever, AND you're a hypochondriac?
Shit, it was nice knowing you, OP. God only knows how many unknown species of bacteria you unwittingly put into your body. Could even be some parasites, and worms too.
Just hope you don't start sweating, and feeling nauseous.
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Help me
After a vicious and violent fight with my mother and her boyfriend, i have been given one month to pack my stuff and move out.
I have been apologizing and begging for them to let me stay since then but they have refuse to reconcile. I have only one more week and I haven't begun to get my stuff in check.
I am thoroughly terrified and in full panic mode. I have been NEET since high-school, never worked a day in my life, and have absolutely no clue how the outside world works. I have nobody to fall back on.
Im about to become homeless. I dont know what to do nor do I know how to do anything.
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Welcome to your very own life!
Make sure you spend your time doing thorough research into how to make the best of it.
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You should've started looking for a job the first week. Do you at least have a car? You can live in that and use the public library for internet and bathroom for a while. If you have friends, maybe you can stay with them on occasion (don't overstay your welcome).
Try to get a job, then browse Craigslist or talk to your friends about renting a room.
Do you have credit established?
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>>17177286
>Do you at least have a car?
no
>Try to get a job
how do I do this? Please tell me, I dont know how this works
>Do you have credit established?
I think I do
I havent checked it in years so Im not sure of its current state.
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So I'm in this group for school and there's this girl in it who I'm not necessarily attracted to, but is fuckable. How do I go about getting in her pants? She seems like she'd be dtf.
Pic unrelated.
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>>17177253
More details needed
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>>17177253
Go clubbing as a group
Fuck
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>>17177274
Like what? She's a girl, I'm a guy, we're working on a project together. That's pretty much all there is. We've been in the same class for 2 months but were only introduced recently,so we don't really know esch other.
>>17177288
What kind of 90s sitcom do you live in where study groups comprised of strangers go clubbing on a whim ?
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I think I'm falling out of love with the love of my life and the other person I've ever loved.
I've been going out with my boyfriend for three years after spending four years wanting to date him (two years crushing, two years full on loving him). We have pretty much everything in common, we like all the same things and we have the same sense of humour.
Lately, things have been a bit tricky for me. The relationship is fine and he's happy, but sometimes I really struggle to listen to him and he's really let himself go. I managed to tell him last week that I think he's put on too much weight in a "I know you want to get fit someday and I think you're straying too far away from your goal" way, but he doesn't know that I'm becoming physically repulsed by him when he takes his shirt off. Although I'd never cheat in a million years, I'm finding myself looking at other guys more and I even seek out porn with handsome shirtless men.
Any time I look at dumb 'signs you're falling out of love' posts on the internet, it doesn't seem to apply. I'm not angry at him, I'm not holding any grudges and I still want to have sex with him, I just don't really know what's happening.
I also acknowledge that since this is one-sided, I could be the one at fault. I've been sad and tired and demotivated recently, plus the stress of thinking I'm falling out of love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with is giving me panic attacks and making me lose my appetite.
I don't know what to do, I don't know how to think and I just need someone to talk to. I feel like anyone close to me would go berserk if I told them how I feel because I spent so long being lonely and wanting him, now I don't know what to do.
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>the other person I've ever loved.
Only person I've ever loved.
Way to proof-read, me.
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Oh my god, shut up.
I really hate listening to this garbage. You're laying it on real thick, and you're still not even convincing yourself.
"Although I'd never cheat in a million years, I'm finding myself looking at other guys more and I even seek out porn with handsome shirtless men." Is a pointless thing to even bring up, because nobody assumed this in the first place. You're sexually attracted to other men, and actively checking them out. You've obviously had thoughts, and you feel guilty about it.
You cannot fall out of love with somebody. To love somebody is to embrace them in their entirety. If you, "Fall out of love" you were never really in love in the first place.
"The relationship is fine and he's happy..." You aren't happy, you don't find him interesting, and you are actively checking out other men. It sounds to me like you let your natural desires get the best of you, and cloud your judgement.
For the sake of yourself, and your boyfriend, I think it's best that you either talk to him, or leave him. Do this before you do something rash in a moment of weakness and end up potentially screwing up both of your lives.
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I'm not sure what exactly I'm supposed to be convincing myself of? I'm being very very clear that I'm the bad guy and it's not like I'm trying to get sympathy, I need advice because there's nobody I can talk to IRL. This is my first serious relationship and I wanted to talk through it with people who may have been in a similar position. Plus I've opened up the possiblity that it may be my own deflated self that's taking it out on the relationship, that's something I was also wondering if people had experience with.
My boyfriend and I broke up. It was not because something happened, just weird time in life.
Well, he started speaking to me a few months later and we met a couple times. The attraction is still there and everything and I was hoping we could get back together but he said no. That he's talking to another girl and likes her.
I spoke to that girl and she said she doesn't like him that way, basically she friendzoned him. I didn't say anything to him, just sighed and moved on with my life.
Well now I guess he found out he is friendzoned because he wants me back. I feel like it's not a good idea but I do miss him.
What do you think?
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I think that this mistake has never before been made in history, is not well documented in media, and is highly unlikely to end the same way twice.
Go for it OP, why the hell not. Take pride in being the worlds best rebound.
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yes, give me a call, I want you back
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>>17177211
But she is the rebound... I will be the rebound of a rebound?
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I have a small penis (just barely 4 inches when fully erect)
Am I doomed in the bedroom? Will I be able to please a woman with this? How do I make this thing work?
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In all honesty it won't be enough for some women. Most will be happy as long as you can pleasure them with your hands and/or mouth.
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>>17177205
so just use hands/mouth? when could I move on to penetration?
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Just go to plastics and let doctors make it longer... Or There are pill for these cases.
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Prostate is for betas? 2016-05-24 09:51:13 Post No.17177162
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My girl talked about massaging my prostate to give me a wild orgasm, I shrugged it off because I didn't want to look like a little beta bitch.
Did I do wrong? Am I missing out on something great?
Will my gf think I'm a lesser man if I let her do it?
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GIRL LITERALLY WANTS TO PUT HER FINGER INSIDE THE PLACE POOP COMES OUT OF YOU IN ORDER TO GIVE YOU WAHT SHE THINGS WILL BE AN EVEN AMAZING ORGASM THAN YOU HAVE EVER HAD
THIS GIRL LOVES YOU, SHE WILL NOT LEAVE YOU FOR A PROSTATE MASSAGE ITS LIKE THE MOST KINGLY SHIT YOU CAN HAVE DONE
PEGGING IS A DIFFERENT STORY, BECUASE ITS LIKE DOMINATION, PROSTATE MASSAGE IS LIKE TOTAL SERVICE TO HER MAN DOING WHATEVER HE WANTS
yeah you are being silly about this
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The other poster has a good argument, but also my most amazing bodily experience came from finger in ass. Don't know why I didn't let her do it years earlier.
That said, she really knew what she was doing, studying tantra and yoga and all. I felt it all the way up my spine and it was mind blowing.
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I tried prostate massaging to help heal from masturbation injuries affecting my prostate/bladder. It felt very intensely like I was about to pee or cum, but no fluid came out, and no orgasm. This was only in the shower after a shit, and strictly for medical reasons, otherwise stucking thinks up your ass is degenerate, unsanitary and absolutely disgusting.
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I'm having a little argument with my stubborn wife about our sons education. She wants him to attend a mix gendered school but I want to put him in boys only for his whole education.
I think this would be better for him because boys only schools use a linear teaching system which is proven to work better on males as opposed to a module one in mixed schools which is shown to benefit females.
Statistics also show split gendered kids do better in exams and in life.
I dropped out in year 9 (I was 12) because I couldn't get school, I just couldn't do it and either could so many of my mates, I don't want my son to go through what I had to, eventually I did attend higher education and am now a paramedic but I spent over a decade labouring for someone else.
Her whole argument is "he won't know how to talk to girls" which I think is bullshit but she's stubborn as hell but she won't hear me out at all, I'd rather convince her than go behind her back on this one but I might have to. How do I convince my bitch of a wife?
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As long as he spends time with girls outside of school (sport, other courses, etc) it should be fine.
It's important to learn to bond with both genders, and your wife is right on this.
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>>17177153
you get him into a boys school and then you sign him up somewhere where he can talk to and befriend girls
nothing super feminine like dancing or shit like that
but stuff like I dunno, a lot of people I know got to know their female friends from ping pong or the volunteer firefighters if you have that in your country
just some club where girls attend I guess, you should be able to convince her with that
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Personally, I think you really should let him go to a mixed gender school. In my opinion, education is just as important socially as it is academically.
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It feels like i have to pee ALL THE TIME and it kind of stings in my urethra but when im on the toilet nothing comes out and i just sit there and it hurts. I am a female if that helps
Any suggestions or ideas on what it might be?
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Research and do pelvic floor exercises, or try to do bladder training
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>>17177118
Is this something that happened just recently?
Does it hurt (burn) when you pee?
It might be an UTI like cystitis.
Go talk to a doctor, they will probably tell you to drink a lot and take some antibiotics. It will be fine in a few days.
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>>17177125
Yeah i woke up this morning and i couldnt fall asleep because i had a really strong urge to pee. I went to the toilet and i just couldn't pee at all. Went back to bed and i still had the urge to pee.
Im travelling in a few days and im worried if i go to the doctor they might not let me travel or make me delay the trip
Anyone here major in psychology?
How much time is generally spent doing homework/studying?
I work full-time and the company I work for is going to pay for my higher education, so I want to know what I'm getting into. I'm not really going to college to learn anything desu, just going there to get a degree.
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It's honestly piss easy. That said, I AM comparing it to my law classes.
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>>17177105
Good to know, I actually meant to say I'm not going to college to learn anything /useful/.
GL on your bar exam though.
How much time did you usually spend doing assignments?
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>>17177119
It really varies from class to class. Some only have a couple of tests, others have tests and assignments, and one I took had quizzes every week which counted towards your grade.
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20 Year old NEET. Got a dilemma. There are multiple events coming up. Trip to chicago for a festival. Week in florida. Camping trips. Etc. But I smoke like a maniac and I plan on quiting. Should I stay home for a month and miss out on cool shit to quit smoking (with the pressure that if I relapse I missed these events for no reason pushing me) or pull the money out my ass to pay for the shit ton of cigarettes I'll need for 4 trips in a month span.
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Nah you should just quit anon. It's actually pretty easy if you can get through the pangs for the first few days. Hardest thing is willpower if you're drinking but otherwise just do it and live your life.
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>>17177037
buy a vape mod anon, thats actually the best way to stop.
i smoked 3 years 1 pack a day and i managed to quit in one day without problems
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>>17177037
Just quit now brah I smoked a pack a day for 6 years and one day I just had enough of buying them everyday so I stopped
I save 77 dollars a week since I quit