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sup /adv/ i'm having trouble lasting long enough to satisfy

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sup /adv/ i'm having trouble lasting long enough to satisfy my gf and she's getting pretty upset

any tips on lasting longer in bed?
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Lick her pussy
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>>17176375
i've tried that she specifically wants me last longer during penetration though because i'm usually only lasting like 2-3 minutes
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>>17176367
Cock ring
Destimulating dick gel
Explore what keeps you hard together and experiment
Start using toys for added stimulation and more satisfaction. Maybe you just need a really good kink together.
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just think of other things before you get off and do that for a few extra minutes.
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>>17176388
>Cock ring
>Destimulating dick gel
going to try both of these
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>fuck her
>cum
>eat her pussy until you're hard again
rinse and repeat until she's satisfied
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>>17176367
Masturbate more
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>>17176367
Personally bro I wouldn't worry about that because it's better to last to quick than to not be able to get it up at all which is on the other end of the spectrum. I would just watch more porn. But again, trying to dull your sexual pleasure is a dangerous game to play OP
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>>17176422
Honestly this.
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>>17176367
If your dick doesn't work, then break up with your girl friend, become gay, and stating taking it in the ass. Then sex is little effort on your part.
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>>17176434
Seriously... this....

I can last hours normally, but when I did nofap for a month, I was done in 10-15
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>>17176486
my bf masturbates daily except for when we hang out, but he doesn't last for very long before he has to change positions or take a break. should he try jerkin it more than once a day or something?
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>>17176367
I'd had pe before
>its a matter of being too aroused
u can get trojan extended pleasure condoms
or learn to cut ur orgams off by squeezing the muscle under ur cock. practice by cutting off ur urination stream. when ur going to cum clench that muscle for like 45 seconds so u dont cum, then keep fucking

it takes some practice but it will stop u from cumming early when u get good at it
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>>17176487
>>17176434
doesnt work, personal experience also not op
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>>17176503
>u can get trojan extended pleasure condoms
i actually tried using those with her once and my dick just got instantly soft after i put it on
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>>17176486
>I was done in 10-15
I'm a femanon. And seriously, wtf is wrong with lasting "only" 15 minutes. Do you guys really believe that pounding away for hours is more enjoying than really really turn her on with foreplay and then make her come in a few hot rough minutes very very hard.

All of you watch too much porn.

>>17176381
>because i'm usually only lasting like 2-3 minutes
Pound her away until you get close, stop and pause, pull out if necessary and change positions. Repeat until she's satisfied.

That's the only way OP, you'll get better at lasting longer automatically in no time. Don't just ever listen to the other bullshit advice the other anons gave, except this one >>17176440.
They're all obviously not older than 15 years old. Their ages combined.
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>>17176505
I dunno what to tell you other than he can jack off a few hours before your date, or you can let him cum and get him hard again after business time lol

>>17176487
Really? I'm kind of curious to hear your experience/anecdotal evidence...
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>>17176422
>>17176523
I can't believe you stole my line
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>>17176547
we've been dating for over 5 years now, fucking for like 3 or 4. we are long distance, so i'm sure that shortens the amount of time it takes for him to cum, but even if we hang out for a week and fuck at least once every day, he lasts the same amount of time. he cums the quickest during doggy style, cowgirl takes the longest cuz i'm shitty at riding lol. i can't cum just from him fucking me, so i'll give myself a helping hand, but with him having to take breaks so often 95% of my orgasms with him are from oral/69

when he gets high he lasts significantly longer though. it'd be fucking perfect if i didn't feel less emotionally connected to him when he's high, he can just pound away even during doggy style

like yeah, it'd be cool if he'd last longer, but i don't want that if it means him having to get out of the moment to think about other things to distract him, so i'm not legit upset over it
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>>17176523
LOL I actually touch myself like 1-2 times a week at most... I just last a while naturally...

For me I enjoy foreplay, I know I can fuck for hours but I know my gf will be fucking raw and soar if I last too long... I have nothing against lasting 10-15, and I hope I didn't offend you with my commentary
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>>17176570
I've been with mine for 5 as well...

I don't want him to get high if he is less connected with you in the moment, because lets be honest the act of sex is fucking beautiful when you two really love each other. But is it terrible that he lasts that long?

My male intellect/advice is simple... Make him cum, get him hard again, and fuck him until he cums again!

Other things you can look into would be a cock ring I guess, or you can try to get him to start edging?
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Protip: The average male orgasm takes two to three minutes. The average female orgasm takes 10-15 IIRC.

If you really wanna last longer, there's "long lasting" condoms out there as well. Usually they got some numbing gel in the tip.
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>>17176367
don't masterbate
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>>17176599
he probably feels equally connected to me when he's high, it's just me being a debbie downer. i don't have such a problem with it that the sex isn't fun or enjoyable, but there's always this thought that he's not completely himself at that moment. it'd be hypocritical of me to get legit upset at him for it though, i love having sex when i've had a few drinks

after he cums, it usually takes a while for him to get hard again--like at least thirty minutes, but i also haven't timed it lol. i'll talk to him about edging, but i'm not sure how to bring that up without saying he currently doesn't last long
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>>17176559
Nope, you told him to cum. That's just shit. He needs to stop before cumming. Who the fuck wants to wait until your limp dick gets erect again.
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>>17176571
>LOL I actually touch myself like 1-2 times a week at most...
>I just last a while naturally...
Nope it's from touching yourself 1-2 times a week (and watching porn obviously). Try and see for yourself.
>I have nothing against lasting 10-15, and I hope I didn't offend you with my commentary
Nah, it's OK.
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>>17176367
Give her a couple of orgasms by hand or mouth before you even think about climbing aboard, and she'll have no complaint if youres happens quickly.
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>>17176612
Don't bring it up. Just ask him to stop when you see he's close. Just whisper the words "not yet", push him out, kiss him very very naughty for a while, change positions and put him inside again.
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>>17176639
orgasms are nice, but man sometimes i just want to get pounded for a while
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>>17176643
ohhhhh, shit i'm retarded. he'll take breaks or change positions when he gets close, he's done that for years
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>>17176367
Well how long do you last?
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>>17176651
Then whats the problem? You didn't get the idea to tell him "not yet" when you wanted more?
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>>17176661
well ideally there'd be some way to make him last longer so that he can fuck for longer than a minute before having to take a break or change positions. it's kinda hard getting into it when it doesn't last long before there's a pause. and in a more specific example, during doggy style, he can only get a few spanks in before he has to slow down or take a break altogether
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>>17176678
Different anon ( >>17176602) here.

Could it be that you're really tight to start with? I'm asking because my gf is and I have problems lasting longer as well because of it.
If you're using condoms, maybe try the "long lasting" ones I mentioned. No experience on cock rings yet, but we ordered some recently because the shop offered them for free.
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>>17176698
he'll frequently say that i'm tight, but he was also a virgin before me so he doesn't have another vagina to compare it to lol. we don't use condoms, but i'm interested in cock rings. how do they help the guy last longer? i know like nothing about sex toys
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>>17176706
As far as I've understood it, they apple pressure to the urethra from the outside, thus prolonging the orgasm. At least if they're tight enough.
As I said, no experience on toys besides a vibrator yet. Will change during the next week or so.
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>>17176721
i'll have to look more into that. thanks dude!
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>>17176721
>apple
Ok, that obviously should say "apply" here.
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>>17176617
I was referring to "repeat until satisfied", but since we're going there, if you're cunnilingus game isn't good enough to keep your lady content until you're ready for round two then maybe you should work on expanding your sexual skillset
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>>17176367
If I were you I would focus on staying hard after you cum. I don't last long either but I can stay hard after cumming and keep going so my girl didn't have any complaints about it, kegels should help with that.
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>>17176867
Oh ok. Lol i didn't even register that.
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>>17176367

Where a condom.
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>>17176367
Condoms.
Desensitizing gels.
Porn(either detox or more).
Masturbation.
Male Kegels.
Trying to see if you can just fuck through it.
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Why do some people just assume that premature ejaculation is just something that can be fixed with willpower.

This is the kind of shit that leads men to killing themselves.
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>>17177730
i didnt always have this problem though
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stop jerking off to porn
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>>17176411

Careful with the gel, if it's not on the inside of a condom, it will rub off against her too. Obviously that will mean that she won't feel as much either.
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