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>Friend (she) stay at home because is late
>Let her sleep with me
>never feel atracted to her before
>we had a night talk about our problems and lonliness (she splitted up with his bf weeks ago)
>She jumps over my chest and tells me 'you're so smol'.
>I panicked internally, very nervous
>she looks at my closely, I may thought it was a good moment to kiss her, just feeling the moment
>didn't do anything
>minute later she goes normal position and we sleep
>my heart was going to explode, but i sleep that night
>she seemed to be a bit less friendly since then
>she may avoid sometimes my messages
>we met today with other friends and she didn't look angry nor very friendly as usual.
he let me now a great curiosity, I may really wanted to kiss her, but my body didn't react.
What happened to her? Did I offend her? Don't know what to do. She's a 'cold ENTJ'. OP is INTP.
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if you didn't jump at her at the first opportunity then you didn't really want to
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>>17176062
What if I want it now?
What is the problem with her right now? Why does she stay with me like that? May she be in love with me?
I couldn't do anything with her because of nervous and because I thought I may be misunderstanding the situation...
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>>17176085
See she wanted you to make her feel less alone and gave you an opportunity to make a move to possibly do whatever you like...
Imagine how you would feel if you were in her shoes.
Just talk to her in private the next time you two are together. Ask her if you hurt her. Don't ask her if she is mad, or mad at you. That would only end in her cuntsplaining your face off.
Explain to her exactly this
>I thought it was a good moment to kiss you but i was just enjoying the moment
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How to ask a girl out? 2016-05-24 02:01:14 Post No.17175988
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What is the best way to ask a girl out while you're in highschool? I'm looking for ideas on exactly what to say, how to bring it up, etc. Any help is appreciated.
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Just write a note
Do you like me more than a friend?
[ ] yes
[ ] no
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>>17175988
Or make the text, "I like you", and then muster up the courage to hit send and throw your phone down in front of you.
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>>17176007
Are you sure that won't seem too immature?
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I lost my virginity to a some kind of prostitute of the institute without condom who also took my first kiss, all of this while having a waifu.
However, I didn't enjoy it. How can I help myself? Feel better? Move on?
Thanks in advance!
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Bump. Q_Q
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>>17175981
Have you considered suicide?
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>>17176042
Hopefully around 50 or 60.
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Hey /adv/ I could use some advice. Pic unrelated.
>Girlfriend and I break up because she can't get over her abusive ex.
>Hookup with this girl, let's call her Susie, in order to get over my ex and move on
>Susie ends up being really cool, and I ask her to stay over again sometime
>She comes over again, while I am blacked out, and hangs out with me and some of my friends
>I apparently start to talk with one of my friends about how Susie is really cool and I actually might want something more with her (Little did I know she heard)
>Susie and I hookup a few more times, and she even stays over once or twice when she is on her period
>Finally tell Susie that I actually have feelings for her, and she says she also has feelings for me
Keep in mind this all happened in about 3 weeks
>Summer hits and I have an internship that requires me to move away for 8 weeks
>The night before I leave I ask Susie if she wants anything more than just being friends with benefits
>She tells me that she really does; however, neither of us are sure that it is a good idea since I will be gone for 8 weeks. In addition, she metions that she has known I was interested in something more since the night I was blacked out
>We hookup one last time before I move, and it is all really good
The problem is that I want a relationship with this girl in the future, but I am not really sure how she will feel when I return. We still text and communicate, yet I am not sure if she is wanting to wait and see where this goes or not. What should I do to ensure that we can have a relationship in the future?
Thanks /adv/
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I would just stay in contact with the girl for awhile. There is really not much you can do long distance unless you are able to visit her every once in awhile
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Bumping because I am in a similar situation
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This can be a tough situation. Do you know if she was still wanting to hookup with other guys or not?
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My girlfriend decided out of nowhere that porn is cheating (we've never had any discussion about porn) and decided that since I'm a male, and all males watch porn, then I'm cheating and a pig. Funny thing is I've never been all that into porn but she won't even believe me and keeps calling me disgusting and synonyms of that. Wtf do i do?
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Your gf is stirring up drama because she's insecure about something else in your relationship.
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>>17175964
why would she do that instead of just bringing up whats causing her to be insecure? We've always been super super open with each other. I don't get her at all right now.
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If you've never had a discussion about porn, then her opinions/boundaries towards porn may not have come "out of nowhere". She might've felt this way for a while but only mentioned it when it came up somehow.
Or, it could be what >>17175964 is saying. My sister didn't get all butthurt about her boyfriend watching porn until she started feeling their relationship was insecure. In the past, I've gotten the same way.
Regardless of what the explanation behind the behavior is, it's wrong for her to assume you're watching porn and therefore be disgusted with you. She's assuming the worst in you, and assuming you're lying to the person you care deeply about. That shit hurts, and you should tell her in a respectful way that doesn't get her more defensive/agitated than she already is
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was acting uptight/standoffish around my crush today, I'm usually fine. Is there a way to fix this?
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Suck his cock
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>>17175963
ok thanks you, I just meant is this a big deal or is it correctable?
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Yeah dude it probably is not even that big of a deal. Some people just have off days and others tend to understand that. If they are an accepting person, then they will probably just understand that it was just because of something else and not them. In all honesty, I would just let it go and move on. Keep flirting and have a more upbeat attitude, then you should be just fine. Good luck bromigo
Went to a bar/lounge like pic related friday night with some mates. We were drinking some beers when a group of girls approached us. They were 19-20s and were gorgeous and they were celebrating the end of their session (they are in law and medecine).
One of them was pretty drunk and started talking. We got along and started dancing quite sensually, almost got a kiss a few times. Then she had to go to the bathroom with her friends and joined us afterwards. We were pretty close physically and asked her number, along with all her friends.
The next day, text her a bit and answers only in short sentences with smiley faces. I asked her if she was free and said that she had to work.
Do I have to be more persistent or she has 0 attraction to me? Thought I did well at the bar but it's probably the alchool that did all the work for me.
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post convo
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Ugh deleted it and it's not in english. It went along these lines
Good morning! How's the hangover?
>Haha not too bad I can manage. Who is this? xd
It's anon, the handsome guy from last night ;)
>Haha I knew it was you xd
How you handle work right now?
>it's all right, you know the usual xd
How unfortunate. We'll do something fun soon :)
>and what does fun mean to you? xd
What we started last night
>and what did we start last night?
To get to know each other
>Haha xd
What are you doing this weekend?
>Nothing much really
Are you free tonight for round two? ;)
>Well my friends aren't feeling like drinking too much
Nah we won't drink either
>what are you guys doing tonight?
Go out to celebrate our friend's birthday
>Cool :)
Yeah I know, my game is weak as it gets but at least I got numbers
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So how bad I fucked up?
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Men, please help me out here. Mixed signals from guy. 2016-05-24 01:10:37 Post No.17175842
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Men, please help me out here. Mixed signals from guy.
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I posted on here like two months ago about how to get with a coworker, and it worked! We eventually started flirting, and hooked up a few times (inb4 whore). He's really nice, attractive, smart, etc. I got so lucky.
Now the problem. He's religious. He doesn't want to have sex before marriage. That's okay and it's not something that I bring up too often (it slips up when we sext). But he's the one who initiated a lot of the sexual things we've tried.
>texts me at 2 am to hang out
>meet
>fingering, BJ
>it's 5 am and I'm on my way home when he texts me to tell me that he wants to be just friends
That really hurt and the next time we talked I brought it up and he said he was okay with anything but sex. We hooked up later on (no sex) and he tells me that we're just friends. OK.
When I saw him at work, I didn't say anything. I didn't even look at him. And it was like 30 minutes after I clocked out and went home that he texted me and said he felt bad that I looked sad and wanted to meet again. I am away for a week so I won't be seeing him, but can a guy translate this for me?
I caught feelings, yeah. But he changes his mind constantly. I don't know if it's because he lost attraction to me, if he feels guilty because of his religion, idk.
Thanks
(we're both 20 btw)
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You do realise he is going to have these problems for the rest of his life or until he gives up his extreme religious views. Even after marriage he will find some 'sin' in his interaction with you and thus the cycle will be forever perpetuated.
>even if non-religious these types of personas cause emotional problems
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Sounds like me, actually. I tell girls I'm not interested in them romantically if I don't see them as wife material. I do, however, still get horny, and the temptation to hook up with a girl is ever-present.
Now, I'm older than him and have strong willpower, so I'm able to resist it. However, this guy is 20, so he's succumbing to the weakness of the flesh, which is causing him cognitive dissonance.
Make sense?
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>>17175842
Sorry girlfriend, I'd start to bark up other trees, this guy is only gonna cause you heartache.
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So, my girlfriend saw some porn history on my browser and is now hurt because she assumes I don't like having sex with her anymore.
How can I fix this?
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>>17175835
Get a new girlfriend who is in touch with reality
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Oh anon. She doesn't "assume you don't like having sex with her anymore". She's just denying you sex and stirring up drama to punish you for doing something that she doesn't like.
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>>17175835
Have sex with her
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How do I get my girlfriend more attached to me than I am to her?
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If you're asking, it's too late and you are hopeless I'm afraid to say
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I love this meme!
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balance is underrated
enjoy being in love
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I need urgent work advice.
I currently work as a corporate marketing exec for a big company. For a long time (even here on /adv/, I've bemoaned how much I dislike this job - it's very stressful, and has terrible hours and a bad workload. Team morale is very low, because we keep losing talent, and the company isn't hiring anyone.
Today my former boss reached out with an opportunity that would be a promotion from my current job, but would represent a bit of a plateau in career growth. I likely wouldn't make much more money at any particular point than I will at the point of being hired, but in the short term I'd make more. I would be able to dictate most of my hours and would be much more relaxed.
The thing is, my current job has all of the prestige and the opportunity to lift up my career. I really love my coworkers. But I have to decide on this other job in the next hour or so. I'd go straight into my final interview and would be interviewing with my old boss, so there's almost a zero chance he wouldn't hire me.
Thoughts?
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Is the job on offer a step-up in title/responsibility? If it'll look good on a resume and roundaboutly advances your knowledge of the business processes you're involved in, go for it. Doesn't necessarily have to be upward, but at least sideways to learn more about the processes/jobs in your industry as a whole.
If it's some dead-end per-hour busywork type shit you'd not want to put on your resume, forget it. Unless you just really need the "bandwidth" for personal growth at this particular point in your life that a relaxed type job would give you.
I'll stick around for a minute since this is time-sensitive.
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>>17175751
Yes, it's a step up in title, and I guess TECHNICALLY responsibility, but my job right now is putting me in a position to end up working for the elite of the elite.
I'm in a more specific marketing vertical, but one that is basically the future of marketing... so even though I'd be working with more aspects of my industry, it would be at the sacrifice of mastery of something more in demand.
It's certainly not "busywork," but the progress of my career on paper makes a lot of sense. To suddenly jump to some small company seems troubling.
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>>17175775
say you take the job with your former boss. would you regret not ever seeing the potential you claim to exist at your current job? will you sacrifice that grand possibility for the easy way out? which is more your style? how much gut do you have to stomach the risk?
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In high school. My life sucks, I have no friends. Too shy to talk to anyone. Someone says something to me. I say, uhhh.... Always left out. Nobody talks to me. All by myself. Hate my life
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>>17175710
Get over yourself
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>>17175710
>i say uhhh
>always left out
this contradiction just one ellipse away.
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>>17175710
You're in High School.
You haven't even gotten to the point where most people find themselves - after high school.
You're going to graduate and never talk to those assholes again.
It gets better. Just wait until college where you get to choose what assholes you associate with.
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I wanna get into the soccer team of the high school i'm going to next fall, and graduation as well as summer vacation are a few weeks away from now. What should i do during the summer so i can increase my chances of getting on the team. I'm 14 y/o male
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>>17175698
You will immediately cease and not continue to access the site if you are under the age of 18.
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>>17175698
enjoy your b&, little nigger
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>>17175738
well i thought that since this wasnt anything bad and i saw threads about 16 y/o people, i could access this board
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How can I ease anxiety after a really shitty robotrip? My nervous system still feels overcharged. Masturbating and meditation have provided temporary relief but I can't just do that over and over.
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snort Aderall and drink some coffee
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>>17175666
>robotrip
What are you, 10?
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Robocop does not approve.
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"You can't save here" 2016-05-24 00:03:20 Post No.17175652
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How do I save an image directly to a hidden folder? I right-click, click "save as", open up desired folder, and I get this snarky lil message saying: "you can't save here"
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What are you hiding?!
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>>17175659
completely illegal things
[spoiler]it's just things I don't want other people to see like personal info, I want to secure it because I'm on an open network[/spoiler]
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>>17175663
first time I've ever fucked up a spoiler too