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Because the kind of revenge you're likely thinking of has a significant drawback: it ends far too quickly. You will not find it satisfying.

Revenge is a vicious cycle just like violence. It usually never stops. Of course if you can get away with it without it coming back to you that's another story. Even so it's still not worth it. Have some character and just get over it. Move on with your life and forget about it. Doing petty things makes you a petty person and it's not a good character trait.

"The sweetest revenge is living well. Darius Rucker said it, so you know it's real"

If you let them affect your life that means they won. Just ignore them, they are not even worth one second of your time whether on good intentions or bad.

give her something from confucius or sun tzu or someone known for better things than mao
or don't, i know nothing about your situation
best of luck

isn't that for communist. So your basically saying she's a communist.

>>17179918
get her a dog and a cookbook

Kill him you fag

>>17179944
So helpful

Bump for opie

>>17179885
You went to law school? I'm sorry.

Always end with a question.
She wants you to drive the conversation.

>>17179946
God, yeah, texting is annoying like that, you gotta give people a way to continue the conversation.

>>17179882
>How do you help someone let go?
Someone like this? You don't. You call the police, explain the situation, and let them handle it.

>>17179915
What do you tell the police, though? It seems so insignificant.

>>17179882
The best thing you can do is let them hate you, just be straight forward and let them know that it is over and it doesn't matter what they do. Revenge porn is also illegal in some places, if this is the case let him know you are prepared to press charges.

>>17179871
>Should I smoke (marijuana)

No

no its drug

>>17179872
>>17179873
Why not?

>Militaryfag
>Daydreams about putting a trailer on an empty plot of land
>Canadian cuckwaif
Maybe you should spend your blood money on loftier goals?

But in all seriousness, the best thing you can do is 1) Google new trailer prices in your hometown 2) Call up a few contractors and ask them how much they'll charge to install a trailer and 3) Call up your hometown's building department and ask how much it'll cost to run utility lines to your property, or if you'll need a septic system. There, you now have a solid number to save up for and it'll put your mind at ease.

>>17179865
Get an actual house. Whats the point of a shitty white trash mobile home?

Go to school immediately bro. I've been off active duty about 5 years now, and life has gotten in the way of using my GI Bill, and I have the fully guaranteed school bill. Do it now while you don't have a lot of obligations.

Get a girlfriend.

>>17180045
Yeah not really an option at this point, been single for 2.5 years.

>>17180048
Jerk off your sexual desires away.

Some people are simply unlikable.

>>17179790
you probably smell

>>17179790
>I try to be nice funny and friendly
>I try

Do you like yourself? Would you hang out with you if you had a choice?

>>17179787
If you only lost two years, you did better than most young people today.
You took a lot for granted, but now you don't and you're wiser.
This is pretty much how life goes from here on.

>>17180041
I was massively accomplished by my mid 20's. Master's degree done, high paying professional job, married with 2 kids. I was the shit!
Yea, except that my wife was a horrible person that treated me like shit and I just put up with it like abused slave. All the money I made was spent by her while she cheated on me and I just kept working. I wasted 15 years on that marriage.
Now life is great and I'm older and wiser. I just wish I could go back in time and beat she crap out of myself.

>>17180052
Glad you're good now.

Everything is relative OP, two years is not a lot of time desu, in the end its all in your head. Feeling bad about things won't change anything and you can't go back in time, so just make the best out of what you have left. There's always going to be things that you regret no matter which path in life you take, the difference is if you can carry on or not.

Life finds a way.

If people want to die, let them die. If they find a reason to live, let them live

>>17179792
But is it worth trying to convince someone to go on, because after someone attempts a suicide, they usually still want to die.

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>>17179786

>Should we really discourage people from committing suicide?

Depression is curable. Terminal illnesses aren't.

I neither condone nor discourage suicide, I just do my best to tell the truth and let the reality of the situation represent itself. If the truth is that suicidal feelings could be corrected with medication and therapy I'll say so.

The argument between killing yourself because of a curable illness and an incurable one is vastly different.

I'm 2 years older than this guy, except apparently hes skinnier than me and buys lots of weed and can roll blunts which I cant do. but I have a job /car , a lot bigger and probably stronger. i fucked her last night and came all over her mouth so she kissed him after that. is there some psychological thing I can do to make this feel like I'm cucking the guy

oh and she only started fucking me because she sucked his dick one night and said it was really skinny and short compare to mine and that he came in like a minute. i have his phone number

>>17179726
If she is all those things which I believe and she's taken, what does that make you?

don't stop believing hold on to that feeling.

>>17179672
Find a girl that can't afford a tattoo?

Where the fuck do you live? In my area like 90% of women have no piercings or tattoos.

Pay someone to draw a picture of him and post it on his profile.

>>17179646
>and she thinks it's cute
This is more of the problem than the guy is.

has he offered her the D yet?

>>17179639
why do you think you're important enough to make this stupid thread?

don't answer, it's a rhetorical question.

>>17179639
How did you actually break it off? I'm in a similar situation, I think.

>>17179641
I don't think I'm particularly important. If you think the thread is stupid, please feel free to ignore it.
The real question is: why did you feel the need to comment on it?