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Nagged for sex, now it's ANXIETY TIME! 2016-05-24 17:17:00 Post No.17178014
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Nagged for sex, now it's ANXIETY TIME!
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<Sleeping with ex, dated her for three years.
<Last week, wake her up by rubbing her clit.
<Have incredible sex.
This week
<Invite her over to chill
<She says she's not feeling "romantic"
<She decides to stay the night anyway.
<Try the good ol' clit rub sneak attack.
<She denies me.
<I rub one out in bed later that night, then try to get her to bang again multiple times upon waking up.
<Mission failed. Peepee is in the desert now.
<She acts a little distant, but we still kiss, and walk her home, making each other laugh along the way.
<Talk on phone later that night. Don't apologize for constant sex nagging, but thank her for dealing with my sex drive, and she tells me it was no big deal.
Gentlemen, did I fuck up at all? And how do I unfuck up? I'm worried that by being constantly horny and making futile sex attempts, I may have alienated her, diminished her respect for me, and ruined future chances of banging.
Part of me wants to call her and discuss the issue with her further, let her know I'm not pleased with my behavior and will work on it. Like I wasn't respecting myself or her, and that I may have hurt my image in her eyes.
Another part of me is saying "THAT'S FUCKING DUMB, GUYS GET HORNY AND THINK WITH THEIR DICKS SOMETIME. THAT'S WHAT YOU DID!" That I should just shut the fuck up, learn from this, and see if she wants to fuck again another time.
More experienced brothers and sisters, what would you do in my situation?
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>>17178014
Doesn't sound to me like you did anything wrong. Just relax.
Don't call her and waste her time listening to your anxious bullshit.
And nice blacktext fgt
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>>17178014
You did nothing wrong, so don't apologize. Don't frame your discussion that way or she'll think she was in the right.
You should talk to her about it though. Try and figure out why she's giving you the cold shoulder. If there's something you can do, do it, but keep a strong chin about it.
Worst thing you can do is bow and scrape and walk on eggshells, which will result in her losing respect for you and further degradation of your sexual prospects.
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>>17178014
>Don't apologize for constant sex nagging
A man apologizing to a woman for this would be like a cat apologizing to a mouse for catching and eating it... It is our nature
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Can someone tell me whats wrong with not liking people with a promiscuous sexual history. I wont go into detail about how me and my gf are fighting over it since I already made a thread about it, but why am I not allowed to find a girl repulsive for such actions. Furthermore why am I expected to stay with my gf even though she has such a history. Like Im insecure because I dont value a girl who acts like other peoples fleshlights.
>Cant handle the fact that she slept with other people
I hate hearing this so much. I dont give a shit if I can handle it or not. I dont want to. I want sex to be kinda our thing. Something special. Not some shitty hedonistic act as everyone treats it as.
>tldr on why Im here
Got in huge fight with gf after learning her sexual history. She said I should get over it and I went autism mode and told her having sex with her is like being given a used tissue and theres no reason why I would value sex with her. Shes trying to use that as leverage that Im not thinking straight and shouldnt break up what we have together.
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>not allowed to find a girl repulsive for such actions
You are allowed. And she's allowed to think you're an asshole.
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I mean you can think whatever you want. girls that don't have any experience with sex probably won't give you a pleasurable experience.
personally I don't care about someones sexual history unless they have aids
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>have math disability
>know i'm going to fail math class
>final exams are in less than a week
>teacher warns me not to fail
>realize no amount of studying can ever help someone who is literally impaired
>it was a mistake not to demand to forego the class entirely
>don't know what to do anymore
What the fuck do I do? What happens if I fail the class? I wanted to be put in an easier math class once I found out it existed, but the counselor told me its scheduling would interfere with a language class (which I don't even care about) and that it was too late anyway.
I'm freaking out.
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You're boned. What exactly do you have a disability in dude? Like I was total shit at math in highschool (D's and C's if I was lucky)... but now I'm doing well in university math... I just started doing more problems, and now I feel confident in my ability.
I would just try to study as much as possible... if you don't understand the math, just memorize how to do different types of problems. It might take longer, but you should be able to do decent.
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>>17177981
>what is cheating
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What disability? Is it Dyslexia, or is it that you're just shitty at math and everyone's too afraid of hurting your feelings to tell you?
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Having conflicted feelings on a single mom 2016-05-24 15:56:19 Post No.17177799
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Having conflicted feelings on a single mom
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So this single mom shows up to the place where I work sometimes. She's fat, which is my fetish and she's really sweet and I like talking to her. I got her number a few weeks ago because she wanted me to help her with something but I couldn't. She told me she found my profile on Facebook and asked me if it was okay to add me, which it was. But I'm really conflicted if I want to fuck her, date her, or be friends with benefits. I haven't had this crush like feeling since high school and I want to be with her. But I'm also a 22 year old loser who works at a grocery store, I don't think I can help her with her daughter. Can someone please give me some advice on what to do?
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bump, really need advice with this
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>>17177799
Fat chicks are a dime a dozen. You can easily find one that's not a single mother
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one last bump
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I need to get my hands on some adderall or something similar. If I go to the doctor, what can I say to get it prescribed? I constantly lose focus at work and space out.
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>>17177769
>I constantly lose focus at work and space out.
>i should take amphetamine
This is quite a leap. How about trying some milder stimulants first?
if you want to get it legally, go to a psychiatrist and get a diagnosis of ADHD.
But rethink your plans, anon. This is not a good idea, and you'll come to realize that 5 or 10 years down the line.
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>>17177787
Milder stimulants such as?
Also I don't plan to take them constantly, just for big projects or whatever.
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>>17177800
Caffeine, ephedrine, etc.
And few people manage to abuse hardcore stimulants responsibly. They all say the same thing at the start, but we all know how it actually goes.
Anon here asking for any insight on joining the army just for free college is it worth it my girlfriend plans on in listing soon for the free scholarship but there distance the time she's gonna be away and all thought how can i tell her I'm not comfortable with her being gone like that without shitting on her we have been together for 3 years now
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>>17177581
Are you asking for her or for you? Who wants to enlist?
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>>17177591
She wants to enlist but I don't know what we will do about the distance
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>>17177581
Yous should go back to middle school and learn proper sentence structuring and punctuation, before considering college. Your post is illegible.
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My boyfriend doesn't have sex with me when I want it. He doesn't have a low libido (I know he jerks it every morning into the sink) he just doesn't want it. I give him a blowjob like once or twice a week (at his request) but haven't had sex for like 2 weeks now. When I ask him to fuck he's usually like nah not today honey, but a few months ago I wasn't able to fuck due to an injury and he was making a huge deal about it how I couldn't please him and he was sexually frustrated. I love him to death and he has a million great qualities, but I'm so unsatisfied in bed. What do.
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>>17177573
Here's a wild idea.. tell him?
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>>17177590
How do I go about this? I can't think of a way to not make it sound like I'm bitching at him or trying to force him to fuck
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He sounds like a bitch who's playing games. If he had the nerve to make a scene out of your injury, you have all the right to tell him you want to get fucked.
What's the best, not-creepy, not-autistic way to show a friend that you are attracted to them?
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First find out whether he's attracted to you as well. If not, don't bother bringing it up at all.
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>>17177568
So people either are magically attracted to each other from the start or aren't, and if they aren't there's no use for flirting?
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>>17177561
One of the normie's way is to get yourself and them drunken and than ask them directly about the subject. If they refuse it, the next day you both can pretend you both were drunk and this never happened.
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Do women find it gay, weird, or look down upon men who dye their hair?
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some do, some don't
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If it's not natural color, yes. Very. Especially if it's bright/neon/vibrantly colored.
I wouldn't mind if it looked natural.
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it depends on whether it looks good
if it looks good, who cares?
Are there any substitutes for romantic relationships?
I've tried having good relationships with my family, plenty of great, supportive friendships, constructive hobbies and life goals and a healthy lifestyle, and I've tried getting drunk, and there's still a hole in my heart and I'd like for it to stop being there.
I'm also getting all the sex that I can handle which is literally none.
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Why can't you handle sex?
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Either it's because I'm a transsexual and it's a matter of dysphoria, maybe one of those times some dude fucked me drunk really did count as rape, maybe my hormones are fucked up to begin with, maybe it's that porn flick I accidentally saw as a toddler, or maybe I'm just naturally asexual.
The fuck if I know. I've just never had a sexual experience that'd have been remarkably positive or pleasant, so every day that I don't get fucked is a small personal victory.
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I mean, I guess it'd be fine if I had any interest in sex, I could just masturbate and feel a release and relief and the feelings would go away for a while, but you can't do that with love.
Or can you? Is there a way to masturbate feelings?
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my gf was studying with some random guy and apparently kept complaining about her back being sore, he asked if she wanted a massage and she said yeah, he ended up kissing her
she just told me this, and she told me she told him she was taken afterwards and that it couldn't ever happen again.
She told me all this herself through text, and she keeps saying she's crying over this. I haven't said a thing to her but she just assumes I left her and she wants me to take her back.
What do I even do in this situation? I want to take her back because honestly I love her personality, and we've both invested a lot in one another, she's really attractive, like way out of my league, but honestly she's like, classic attention whore in all honesty.
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>What do I even do in this situation?
If it was a mistake then she should have no problem cutting contact with this guy for your relationship no ifs, ands, or buts.
If shes not willing or ever goes back on her word then youre being played and its time to move on before she ruins your life.
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if he just kissed her and she did not kiss back, she would not be freaking out like this. something more probably happened.
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she told him she was shocked for a second and let him for a second but then told him to stop
she's just scared because throughout our relationship I've always told her if anyone cheats on me, like kissing and heavy flirting onwards I'll just leave them, and I've always been adamant about it
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Posted in another thread.
>Meet M.O. at end of January
>She sits infront in Pub Speaking
>She's cute enough,
>Start to like her
>Ask her out in Early April
>Say's yes, Friend R seems to force his way to tag along
>I ask her out to get coffee a week later
>"I'm Busy" with now counter offer.
>I stop for a month, other than occasionally speaking in class, and an odd text here or there.
>Most day's we don't acknowledge eachother, sometimes talking around eachother
>Mid-May rolls around. Invite her to hang out with friends in the City
>Busy (Her Bro's Graduation from College)
>We agree to hang out soon. No dates set, as we both have finals
>Text her randomly a week later asking about the graduation. We end up talking for 5 hours, with another short thing the following morning
>Invite her to a thing in the City that Saturday.
>This time she's doing stuff with friends. No date offered again.
Honestly I'm leaning toward not interested, though things slip through that are semi common when a girl is interested in a guy. (More letters added to words, increased Emoji use and stuff inperson)
I suspect her friend R may have influenced her to a degree. Maybe he sees me a competition for her?
I noticed that she speaks differently to me when he's not around as well.
On the last day I saw both of them, he randomly says bye to me, and only me. Only spoke to him 2-3 times prior.
Did not say bye to M, as I assumed she would be in our other class Friday, but had family stuff.
Am I right in thinking that their may something may be there, but R is controlling her to keep her from me? May be she is unsure if she likes me as more than a friend?
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Anyone?
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She was leading you on to keep as many options open, she's not interested unless she's bored, move along imo. It's not worth working yourself up over some girl who barely thinks about you, there's easier ways that aren't as puzzling
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You might be reading into the situation with regards to R.
But it sounds like she isn't all that interested in you... In your story, it sounds like you're always making the move but has she made any effort to contact you?
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Best places to suicide? 2016-05-24 06:20:03 Post No.17176725
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No back story. I'm grief-stricken and cannot cope.
I moved back in with my mom and I don't want her to find me. I work at an airport and would not want to be a news story if I were to kill myself in the restroom, office, etc, and I don't want to ruin some poor conductors life by jumping in front of a train.
I was thinking a bridge/overpass, but I don't wanna be that person who halts traffic for an hour.
I don't have access to a gun.
I just want to go quietly without people cursing me.
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>I just want to go quietly without people cursing me.
I don't believe this is possible. At least one person, whoever finds you, will be terribly upset, eventually. And your mom may not curse you in so many words, but she will grieve for you forever and will be entitled to some anger.
But that said, I recommend a long hike into a wilderness area (live near any national parks?) where you could perhaps hang yourself, starve to death, or perhaps get mauled to death by a bear.
Except that I really recommend getting help and not killing yourself. There is no painless way to do it--even if you don't feel much you are guaranteed to hurt others.
Any problem you have can probably be solved or made better except for the problem of making your life end, which is pretty much irreparable.
Call a hotline.
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>I'm grief-stricken
Would you at least share with us the cause of this grief? The broad strokes if nothing else.
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Why do people cut themselves?
Should I try it? So many people can't be wrong
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Don't know. No. Yes, they can.
Its stupid and it doesn't help or make the situation better.
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People cut themselves because they feel strong emotions have don't know how to express themselves.
They resort to doing something that feels strong (i.e. pain) but isn't really all that expressive.
Life sucks.
That's OK.
Go the gym and sweat out that anxiety.
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cutting is just a bad idea. plus it leaves you with a bunch of cutting scars.
She dumped me ... we weren't exclusive so she might have met someone she liked better but it hurts so bad. I wish I was tall, super-handsome, alpha, anything. Anything so she'd say yes. I've never lost anyone or anything so beautiful in my entire life. I'm actually 39 and completely devastated. This is worse than the time I lost my job. I can find another job but....oh god, just look at her. I'm literally trembling and can't walk.
Best way to move on or an hero?
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OP here again....it wasn't just her looks. She cooked a healthy dinner for me and we sat on her floor and watched TV and occasionally would lean over for a kiss.....everything was beautiful and nothing hurt. It was so easy.
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You're 39...
Get it together.
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pick yourself up and keep on truckin'