Getting my bf to go down on me?

>>17177442
Give him a blowjob. You may even outright say to him that you will give him a blowjobs for going down on you.

Speak about how amazing that feels and be extra nice to him every time he does it for a while.

desu i also need an answer to this question but like, girl, if he isn't making you cum in any other way on the regular, he should be eating you out

it's just not fucking fair to let him skeet all over the place and not have an orgasm too

maybe show him this/read it yourself: http://t2mh.com/esoteric/She%20Comes%20First.pdf

if this thread is still going like, next week, when i have my first sexual experience with my boyfriend in a month, i'll get back to you on how i did it

>>17177446
>>17177447
Our work schedules are pretty crazy right now since we both got new jobs within the last month, but we have sex at least once a day. If we don't feel like sex, which is mostly because he's tired from work, then I give him a blowjob. He doesn't even have to ask me for sex or to suck his dick.

>>17177442
>I want pleasure from him like that, but only if he actually wants to.
This is clearly not true, or you wouldn't have felt the need to make this thread.

>>17177442
Make it appealing with sexy lingerie and good hygiene. I love eating girls out but mostly because for me it's a rush or maybe a fetish, controlling their orgasms and seeing how they go crossedeyed, their toes twirling,faster breathing etc. If he doesn't know what is he doing then explain to him what makes you come faster. Are you on any anti-depressives or anxiety meds?

>>17177442
i'll go down on u.

>>17177452
Well, then I guess I need advice on how to make him want to go down on me.
>>17177453
I've tried lingerie, talking dirty to get him in the mood for it. We've done 69, but I can't seem to finish when sitting on his face and he ends up finishing before I get close.
He says that he likes to please me, because he tries to please me more during sex, and tries to last longer so I can finish.
I'm not on any medications but Nuvaring. But even before that, I've always lasted longer than any partner I've had.

>tfw boyfriend gets ridiculously turned on by going down on me
>honestly the best oral I've ever had
>not actually a fan of being eaten out

Perhaps you could try pushing his head down towards your vag when you're in the mood for it. Usually if my boyfriend wants me to go down on him, he pushes my head down to suggest that's what he wants and I'm more than happy to do it. That way, you're showing him what you want without verbally asking for it.

Alternatively, you could try masturbating in front of him, licking your fingers and asking him if he wants to taste you. That can be pretty hot.

Otherwise...you may just need to speak to him directly about it. He's not a mind reader, he might not enjoy it, it's important you're both happy so the most simple way of doing it is a discussion.

Good luck :)

>>17177464
I have pushed his head down there before. He eats me out when I do, but then complains later about me "shoving his face in my pussy." Like it hurts or something.
If I go to rub myself in front of him like I'm going to masturbate, he just gets upset and thinks I just want to masturbate instead of doing stuff with him, but he doesn't even want to go down on me to get me in the mood for sex.

>>17177461
Then just talk to him about it. I never had a girl that always takes a while to come orally but you might just have less sensitive clitoris. During foreplay stimulate yourself with a vibrator/fingers and when you are close let the poor fella finish the job. Communication solves a lot of frustration, at least for me.

>>17177461
Have good hygiene, don't have a stinky twat and have an attractive pussy. The rest depends on the guy.

Or be dominant in bed and push his head into your crotch, or sit on his face until you finish.

>>17177468

He sounds a little bit moany, desu.

Could you maybe watch some porn together? Specifically oral? Again, this might give him some tips on how to do it without it being uncomfortable for him. Maybe he could take a break and finger you when he's feeling tired (this is what my boyfriend does and it feels incredible) or you could get yourself to a point where you're close to cumming and then get him to do it just to finish you off.

I know it's frustrating but it sounds like you need to tell him exactly how you feel about the lack of oral.

"Will you try something for me bf?"
"What?"
"Will you try to give me oral more often because I really like when you do it"

That's all. Jesus christ. What is communication even?

>>17177450
Guys are clueless and not mind readers.
I think you should make it obvious you want your pussy licked.
Write eat me in sharpie on ur pubic area. Wear skirts withiut panties and put ur pussy in his face.

Or just handcuff him and demand he licks it or you won't let him out

Maybe he doesnt enjoy eating your stinky pussy

>>17177442
There are different types of foreplay to switch between(or even combine) if you last awhile or say your tongue gets tired. Learning to switch between them can help a lot.

Also you can trade blowjobs for him going down on you. You know equivalent exchange.

>>17177442
Make sure it's always clean... nothing is nastier than trying to go down on a women who hasn't washed her pussy all day. Just freshen up before you feel like banging, and that will help. Also it probably takes super long because your bf sucks at foreplay. Personally it takes my gf around 10-15 minutes, which isn't long at all (I do spend like 10-15 minutes teasing her though... or tease her all day if we're out in public). I still don't want to do it sometimes if we've gone out somewhere because it gets pretty nasty down there pretty fast. I always ask my GF to freshen up before and it's more enjoyable that way for the both of us.