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my dad is abusive but i have nowhere to go and im disabled so i can't get a job to become financially independent
what can I do
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>>17191114
how disabled are we talking?
are you wheelchair bound or able to walk? how old are you too is important.
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>>17191129
ita mental abd i realize thus sounds like im exaggerating by saying its a disability but it really isn't
i get panic attacks (what im calling them but im not really sure what they are) and completely shut around half the time I go outside
ill be unable to move or talk for up to an hour
ive needed someone ti call for help/call 911 around 5 times this month
i dropped out of school because i wasn't able to go without shutting down
the only job I can see my self getting is something 100% online where i never have to talk to another person but i don't think i enough money doing that, especially without a high school diploma
im already going to psychs and on meds but they have been helping
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>>17191139
haven't been helping*
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Fucking help, /adv/.
I'm part of a three person family. Myself, my husband, and my 18 yr old son. (yeah, I know, I'm old, get over it).
EVERY FUCKING TIME I make a nice dinner, as soon as the guys sit down, even before I can sit down with my plate (or the last of the dishes, or whatever) they are at each other's throats. Constantly fighting, bickering, cussing, yelling, talking shit to each other. I can't fucking take it anymore. Tonight, I told them I wasn't going to make dinner any fucking more, because every time I do, they ruin it. I spent over 3 hours making a meal tonight, and they both threw half of theirs away because they were so mad at each other and couldn't sit at the table anymore.
And the thing is, it only happens when I make dinner. Obviously, dads and teenage boys don't get along. I didn't get along with my mom when I was that age, but this is just getting fucking ridiculous. I'm about to lose my shit.
I talk to both of them, separately and together, about working out their issues, but they won't listen to me. My husband never had anything growing up, he had to bust his ass for everything he ever got. Our son has had it pretty easy, but it was US who did that for him. My husband spoiled the CRAP out of him when he was little, because "I never had anything, and I don't want him to have a shitty childhood like I did". Okay. Well, now he's reaping what he sowed, and he refuses to admit it. He tries to tell me that I spoil him because I cook meals for him, but he does his own laundry, he cleans up his own bathroom and bedroom, he's looking for a job (but hasn't found one yet), and he's trying to figure out what he wants to do for higher education (he's really undecided, and frankly at 18, that's not abnormal).
I'm about ready to fucking go old school pop tart and shave my head and beat people with an umbrella. Help.
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Get your son to move out.
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You may need to lose your shit op. It sounds like they don't really respect you and think of you as a doormat while you're trying to peacemaker them. Admirable, but your husband and son seem like oafs. You may need to change tactics and blow all your shit up in rage for them to realize 'oh shit I fucked up'
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>>17191141
Well, he should, obviously, but we live in a very expensive area of the country, and his two best friends are also still living at home. I'm not trying to baby him, but I also don't want to fuck him up like I've seen kids get fucked up from their parents dropping them.
He's a good kid, I want him to get out and do his thing, but I don't want to just be like "fuck off". And, I want his dad to understand that he can't just move out totally on his own and be fine, it's not the fucking 1980s.
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Problem:
Can't concentrate on studies, because want a boyfriend.
Don't have time searching for boyfriend.
It doesn't seem like sexual urge.
Sobbing internally, while roommate doesn't do shit and constantly fucks her guy.
How to concentrate, /adv/?
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Diagnosis : Depression
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What exactly do u need a boyfriend for tho? No seriously. Get a pad abd paper and write down every reason that comes to mind. When you run out, put it down and think on it more through out the day, every time an idea hits you, write it down. Then summerize the list.
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>>17191047
But I do just fine when I play vidya or watch anime whole day... Just... Fine...
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do you guys ever forget to eat or use the bathroom while youre usign the computer? or try to push it to the very last moment?
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>>17191024
No, but my 4 year old does that when she is playing or watching TV. Then she puddles a little bit and changes her underwear. Grow the fuck up.
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This is called Addiction
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Alright /adv/ prom is tomorrow and I have no date. We have about 1000 seniors graduating so I'd say 800+ may be going to prom. 1/3rd of the girls don't have a date and most of them are going to the after party. I'm also going to the after party. I never drank before but a few friends told me to drink as slow as possible. I'm planning to get laid too. Any tips on parties? How to approach a girl? What it feels like being drunk? Just anything that you have experienced with. Thanks anons! Also I'm a 18 male who is 6'6
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Bumpie
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You want some fucking prom advice? Here's the truth:
>it fucking doesn't matter. In a few years, you won't give two shits whether you went or not.
>You won't get laid
>Even if you do, it will be something you'll be embarrassed about later
>The ONLY good thing about after-prom parties are when people are drunk and confessing things to each other, since they won't see them again.
>The most fun I had at my senior prom was on the way home at sunrise, after the party, when we all stopped to rescue a family of tortoises from getting run over on the highway
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>>17191006
Don't go. You won't get laid anyway. Find out where the after parties are at. Call the cops on them.
While they're out getting MIPs on their record, you're getting ahead
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What do I do if my bf's father sends me pics like this one? He does it a few times a week and I feel very uncomfortable when I see him! I'm 23 so it's not against the law and I can't do anything!! Should I tell my bf?? I've told his father to stop but he just sends more!
How can I stop my bf's dad from sending me these type of pictures?? He's a creep!
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Pics or it didn't happen
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Just tell your bf! If you trust him he will do something! What his dad is doing is considered harassment!
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>>17190992
I can't post them here. It's a blue board. He's like 75 and is gross!
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gf of three years dumped me for another guy
tomorrow I'm telling her to get out of my life
shes hanging out w this guy like every day for the last three weeks how long do you think they'll last? i want her to regret dumping me.
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Success is the best revenge
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>>17190964
>She already dumped you
>I'm going to tell her to get out of my life
Boy, thatll show her!!!
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i have the guys number.. and she's fucked me for the last couple weeks they started dating. is that something you think he'd dump her for?
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So months ago I asked some girl if she wanted to go on a date, and she refused saying she just wanted to be friends (which was kind of my intention). Seeing as she was probably looking for attention, I just stopped talking to her all together. Today, out of nowhere she asked me to sign her yearbook. I panicked and agreed, wrote how I'd like to talk about literature with her (we were in English and I had no idea what to do, but I know that was a common interest we shared) and said "no hard feelings". Did I fuck up? I'm probably never going to see her again now that we're graduating, but should I have any hope, and what if she actually contacts me? I know she was telling people she rejected me.
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Well, in a few short years you'll run into her and she will look ten years older than you.
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>>17190955
Huh
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I just got home from work and checked my mail and say an envelope waiting for me. Except it was torn open....
The mail man opened my envelope and stole my mail inside. Plan on calling tomorrow to find out who was on the route to my apt. Is there anything that can be done or am I shit out of luck? Im fucking pissed. That cocksucker stole a 132GB micro SD card in that envelope.
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>>17190869
you sure it was him? maybe he left it open? is it a personal or community mailbox?
if it's personal: your neighbors are shit and keep an eye out for someone taking a lot of pictures.
if it's community: yeah it's the mail person's fault whether they left it open to one of your neighbors to get or they took it themselves and think you would blame your neighbors first.
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>>17190937
Yes its a Community mail box but it has a a lock on it. Second of all, it was locked when I got off work, so the shithead stole my card, left me an empty envelope, then locked it back.Only me and the mail man have keys to it, so all evidence point to him. I sealed the envelope in ziplock bag because im going to have it checked for fingerprints. Should I call the cops to check it? Im going to the post office to file a complaint but I doublt much will be done. This is an outrage and im thoroughly pissed.
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>>17190869
Who the fuck sells a 132gb anything? More importantly why do you assume it was the mailman
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Alright, so I'm graduating in a week and I'm going to college around the 25th of August. I had a shit ton of home work, so even though I wanted a job, it wasn't possible. I have the time now, but the problem is - is that I want to take most of July off to go see my dad. Is it feasible that some one would want to hire me and work around my schedule?
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>>17190789
Yea but dont plan on finding some marvelous job that pays much over minimum wage. Jobs who pay their customers minimum wage usually have a lot of unskilled workers at their disposal so theyd be more likely to be willing to let you take time off. Higher paying jobs have less employees and expect you to be pretty punctual and not to take off when you first start working
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The first anon is right. You'll have to find perhaps a job that has a light Attendence policy. Office jobs, maybe. Customer care jobs, probably. Bank Teller, probably not. Retail stores, factories and fast food, more than likey yes. Are you looking for just seasonal or full time/part time?
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>>17190789
Most places have already hired for the summer. Asking them to hire you to work for 24 days is unimaginable.
Go cry your wolf tears somewhere else.
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Should I tell my parents I have herpes? 2016-05-28 02:49:41 Post No.17190694
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Should I tell my parents I have herpes?
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And also my friends?
I've tested the waters by telling some friends, and they didn't care. I've also told strangers and girls I was dating.
Most people know very little about it. Friends don't care. Girls sometimes care.
I wonder whether I should just wear it on my sleeve. Regardless, I wonder if I should at least tell my parents and closest friends and relatives.
They are great people and would be supportive, but you can't take it back. They will know forever.
I am ashamed of how I got it.
I got it because I behaved like a sex addict in my early 20s, being very careless with sex, and I slept with a girl who had it. I was aware she had it, but I thought I probably had it already. I was drinking a lot and depressed to the point of being borderline suicidal. I was willing to risk it for the "high" of sex. But she also was supposed to tell me when she had an outbreak, and she (an addict herself) knew she had an outbreak but had sex with me without telling me.
I went celibate, partially by choice. Mom and dad know I have changed my ways, but they know I haven't told them the gory details.
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>>17190694
if it's just your dick then keep it to yourself and only tell future partners.
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fuck herpes are gross.
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>>17190694
Tons of people have it. It's almost a nom issue. Don't tell them, it will benefit you in no way.
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Attracted to married men 2016-05-28 02:32:29 Post No.17190641
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So I'm attracted to married men. Not all married men, just handsome charismatic ones. When their wives are around my mind shifts into overdrive and I find myself thinking of them as enemies until I remind myself that these women are nice people and I shouldn't feel so selfish, competitive, or insecure. And it's worked. Until now I've never pursued a married guy before. I've even managed to maintain friendships with their wives. But there's one guy in particular I can't get off my mind.
He's indicated that it's mutual. The tension has been building every time we see each other and I'm finding it hard not to justify sleeping with him. On the one hand, we only live once. On the other.. that's where I'm having trouble.
Has anyone ever experienced something similar? Would it really be that horrible?
Pic unrelated
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>>17190641
sounds hot do it
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>>17190641
You know you're a slut when...
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>>17190641
you should go out and find a guy you like and work on getting married rather than ruin someone's life i think
Guys i nees help. I have this sort of mental block/shock. I have been alone for the last what, 4 years? Ive felt the need for a relationship but have since decides to focus on my studies and career etc. Im 25. My past gf i dated for 5 years but the break up took a toll on me. Anyway, i guess this absolutely gorgeous, and i mean beautiful girl has taken interest in me for some reason, i think. However, ive been so far out of the game etc that ibdont know how to react. Im not autistic, i have MY many interests and hobbies, my long term goals, plenty of friends, and good academic outlook.
I would like to pursue something here, but im in a state of 'wtf do i do'. Shes got some similar interests to mine, and we go to the same school. She told me about some things she does, but that doesnt sound like something id be interested to. Whats yhe best way to go about this? I already invited her out to,go hiking and she said yea and she gave me her,number. I dont know if she wants me,to go to the events shes talking about? How do i bring it up, and ask?
Tldr i need instructional baby steps towards getting to know someone better
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Pls balp
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>>17190627
Doing good so far.
Invite her to your activities as you're already doing, and see if she does the same for you. If not, maybe ask her if you could join her in her activities.
Spend time with her, until you're at the stage where you can ask her out to more typical date-like things.
PS: You reaffirmed what I already knew: stop trying so hard, focus on yourself instead, and someone will come along eventually.
PPS: I lol'd at OP pic. I'm a simple ma n.
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>>17190627
It's difficult out there brother. You have a good approach but you must also be assertive about how you feel so there is no doubt from her side that you interested. Then on the other hand don't force yourself to do shit your uncomfortable with. Just follow your gut and don't stress yourself out by overthinking things. But Op I think you started on a good foot so just keep doing what you been doing.
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Can't get her out of my head
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Hi /adv/
I just realized I was gay this winter. I have a conservative family and live in a conservative town. I realized I was gay when I had three amazing dates with a girl this winter, she was just so sweet. It was the first time I was looking forward to seeing the person again after a date, and I was so excited to see her and be with her, it was an amazing feeling.
It didn't work out between us. I accepted that and haven't spoken to her since, but I think about her every day and am sad, because I think we would have been such a good couple. I haven't been able to meet any other lesbian girls to date, only bi girls who want to experiment. I want to get out of this dating rut and find someone as awesome as her. Do you have any advice for me?
Thank you.
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>>17190595
Most towns, even conservative ones tend to have a gay bar or two. Google to see if you can find one near you. It is a great place to meet people. Men who go are pretty much just looking for hookups but the women generally are looking for a little more.
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>>17190607
Thanks, I found one an hour away by car so maybe I'll go there.
I actually have a question about bars. I drive around mostly, and I haven't been going to any bars, ever, because I don't want to drive drunk. Especialy with a bar an hour away from home, how do you deal with the logistics of drunkenly getting home? I don't have the money for a taxi ride there and back.
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>>17190643
Usually things like uber, or going with friends and designating a driver, or not drinking at all. Or, drink very little, then eat a shit ton of bread and drink water and drive yourself home.
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Probably a stupid question but...
Is there a way I can become unfeeling? I don't want to hurt anymore. I don't want to be tempted to love. I dont want to care for anyone because its too risky.
I never want to face another heart break. But I dont want to feel lonely. I dont want to feel anything honestly.
Please help
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>>17190594
First step is to stop attention whoring. Second step is to become an alcoholic or something.
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Just be me and you'll feel nothing but keep moving on for some reason.
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Become so depressed that even the sadness goes away
Or take the high road and struggle through the hard moments because if someone comes along that you can actually be with a boring shitty husk isnt gonna be very attractive